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This thread is finally coming around albeit late. I think we should jus wait patiently for the admission list.

Mickop:
next pls

Small dicck

musafat:
Same here my dear, its nt easy to let go

Hy, sent u a mail. Kindly check ur inbox

Any reliable info yet? At least we should know our postings by now to enable us prepare properly.

PrettyHausaGirl:
Chai I need a boo

Even ur boo to be needs a boo

FreeGlobe:
I'm not a hungry paid to post yoruba man

That position is even too honourable for u to attain

FreeGlobe:
Ok, I'm a bit impressed on his answers to the deportation issue.

Nobody cares. Ur opinions do not count as you can see...go back to what you know how to do best

TonyeBarcanista:
That's APC's definition of change.

Eternal hater. Here's ur meal

Candis009 pls chat me up.I lost ur number again my phone was stolen. Pls do as soon as u read this. Thanks

10-10-1994 ...tomorrow is my birthday. Anyone?

dsamedaniels:
Bro I feel ur plight cos I was once in dat shoes nd bliev me I knw hw it hurt. Som1 said u try d I dnt care attitude towards her, beliv me it doesn't work cos she already knw u love her even mre. The best she'l do then is to humble nd when she realises u'r coming bck, she'l change nd little tins will irritate her cos u acted funny on her. The best is to let go b4 it's too late. U may probably be thinking u'l nt gt som1 better bt beliv me u'l gt d best. Jst dnt gve up, once in a while u'l enjoy her when she behaves bt at her bad, u'l wonder if she's dsame person. U'l gt d best cos there's som1 for evry1 out der. Quit managing cos it doesn't gt better bliev me.

Wow, wow wow, you have summarized everything going on in my life here. I really appreciate. Thanks

Thanks to everyone who has his /her time to reply to my post. I feel better now, most of the suggestions here are to the effect that I should call off the relationship. I've thought about that severally, I'm wary of taking a decision like this while I still feel hurt, sometimes I feel like I'm seeing all these faults because I'm angry, who gets my drift here? So I think I'll allow myself cool off, when all things are equal and my head is cleared, I'll take a rational decision. More suggestions are actually welcome

johnson232:
This is real weakness, did u offend her?
Is she your first love?
How old are u?
U sound too soft.

Admittedly I emotionally weak, but is that a crime? I mean, I didn't create myself that way. As for my age I'm in my early 20s she's my first love actually. Thanks

Harbosede02:
It's obvious u love her and U've shown it to her too much that shez nw taking it all for granted.... Y nt try the I don't care attitude some time,make her realise ur life doesn't depend on the relationship(even if it does)let her knw u av so many options.

I've tried, I've held myself for a whole week without any form of communication with her, but that was d highest I could go, we settled and she promised to adjust, as it is now I perceive she's incorrigible, it's either i accept her that way, or I take a walk. But I'm also scared of her falling into the wrong hands....

tosyne2much:
As I no know nothing about ladies, lemme call on Ronald4lif and Wristbangle to bail us out


OP, I throway salute oooo

Lol, I've always been observing ur topics and posts on Nairaland you are a cool guy. I salute you too.

CountDracula:
My advice; copy ur post and paste it on ur whatsapp message to her...
If dat doesn't work I don't knw what will... Maybe u shud watch "50 shades of grey" or jus find anoda girl

For two days now she has not been replying my messages. Irony of life, a phone I bought for her

Raymondenyi:
I have overheard this platitude from nairalanders, and it's now becoming repulsive and nauseating, please if u don't have ideas why not stay Clear? And u think he hasn't talked to her before coming here to post This? (Smh for all these kids here)

My brother, see read my comment and read it very well. Be reasonable with your self, love doesn't fall from heaven, u have to quit acting nollywood (I believe u watch too many) u DO NOT marry out of "LOVE" you marry out of compatibility . you DO NOT "love" for NO REASON (that is juvenile infatuations) you should see reasons that should make you love someone....

This is what you young ones have failed to learn, and keep on making us see too many short marriages.... you are obviously INCOMPATIBLE with that woman, the best time to call it off, is 2 years ago; but all hope ain't lost, it's better late than never...... start another search Bro..... you can thnk me later...

I really appreciate this in no small quantity. It's not as if I don't have girls on my radar, to be honest I know I have what it takes to attract any reasonable lady, but what's the essence of bn with someone you aren't attracted to? I'm still with her because I doubt if i can love any other girl like her. Perhaps this is a final conviction to call this thing off. But I've really given so much, I mean so so much

misspicy:
Talk to her

Talk to her? If i haven't done that I won't come here. I beg, there was a day it got to a point, I cried. When I looked back at how much effort I put into the relationship from the very first day. She has the ability to keep things to herself, she doesn't open up.

We started dating in 2011 after a year of asking her out. I just love her naturally not for anything. Admittedly, her stubbornness might be partly due to my over pampering at the initial stage of our relationship, I was naive but I think 4 years is actually a long time for the love to be balanced. At every point in time she claims she loves me more, but no evidence whatsoever to show for it. I don't want to venture into crazy things I've done for her, that's a story for another day.
It appears she takes delight in frustrating me due to my simple nature, actually I can be stubborn too, but not with regards to relationship because I believe it's all about compromise. She's inconsiderate and selfish, always wants to have her way at all time even though I have to sacrifice my convenience for her umpteen times. I'm scared of settling down with a woman who'll finally kill me, I love her no doubt. But it appears love is not enough. Someone talk to me pls

I really enjoyed this. I hope I can always remember the lessons

This kind of thread will hardly make front page. It is so rampant in the Nigerian educational system, WAEC , JAMB, P. UTME, and every other form of examination has been bastardized by this menace. Many students gain admission into the University and end up getting rusticated in worst case scenario and that's because in the first instance they were not qualified for the admission.
The parents are not helping matters, always looking for short path to success for their, thereby killing any mental effort their wards may be willing to make.
It's so sad, and we keep pretending like nothing is wrong, whereas everything is wrong.

May almighty Allah help us, it is disheartening that so many muslim youths have taken to gambling as a hobby and some as a source of employment. You visit their outlets and see so many Muslims, who don't even feel ashamed about it.

G

Is this a new way to seek attention

My father. I admire him so much, he's everything I wish to be. Even my sisters pray their husbands will be like him.

presh247:
are u warming up for polygamy? you must be a muslim that marries 4wives...lol

Incidentally I'm a Muslim

AbuuUsaamah:
O my God! What in my message insinuates that I didn't pray for MKO because he was not Hausa. For your information, I'm Yoruba, 'omo Oduwa ni mi'.

I didn't bother to pray for MKO cos everyone knows that the graveness of the atrocities committed by MKO do not match those of Abacha. MKO gets my prayers by default - he was a good man - unlike Abacha who would be the first to be dissed if any of them were to be. May the soul of MKO always rest in peace.

OK. Apologies then

AbuuUsaamah:
May Allah forgive Abacha for his sins and may his soul always rest in peace.

So Abiola should not be forgiven?? Y is ur prayer selective?? Because of he's not hausa?? I'm disappointed I should say

I don't have a previous relationship. I still keep all the girls I've dated. Quite well, I've learnt never to go beyond your comfort zone for any girl at all, it's not worth it, I'm talking about Nigerian girls here, I don't know if Indians are d same.
Never ever close ur options always leave them open, the moment she sees a better person, you become a disadvantaged option, although she'll always try to cover it up.
Lastly, guys should understand that most women are emotionally selfish, even if they extend a favor to u, just know it's because they are comfortable doing that.
Lemme stop here... Currently I have around 4 girlfriends, so I'm not even bothered about anyone messing up. Don't ever put your whole heart in the basket of one girl. It's d worst mistake any guy can make.

U need to see us at bayero University sweating just to catch a glimpse of this historic moment