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postmann:
That was some heartless girl! She'll learn no doubt that sound relationships isn't built on lust.

Lol. I'm getting over it.

My naive ex girlfriend fell for this, despite the pleadings from me. Seeing the guy frequently, placing his needs above mine and having the audacity to ask me, 'what'll you do if cheat on you?'. I hadn't the slightest idea that my love was contemplating the manifestation of my worst nightmare, and Alas, it came to pass, for there's nothing hidden under the sun, yours truly found out, I was shattered completely and I could feel pieces of my heart littered around each other, several weeks of insanity followed, for there were intervals where I subconsciously imagined my love professing love to someone else...tears flowed effortlessly, and pleas came from all angles for it is humane to err, it is also humane to forgive, perhaps it is beyond humane to forget, beyond humane to reconstruct the trust of 5 years that was so easily broken like a broomstick. Perhaps I'll get over this someday, but until then.... I'm shattered.

Look for positivity in every negative situation you find yourself. At all at all, na him bad pass

Richiy:
OP you even have girls that love you

Nobody is perfect yet, you can mould your partner into what you want

I don't think anyone can mould the other, except the other person wants. I tried for almost five years, ur didn't work.

HARDBOI:
u are the dumbest foool here..Look at what u sayin.
so bcoz yorubas dont have 'H' in their language u dont know where to put A or AN? ..lmao
then why did u go school if u cant correct ur wrong...
how to use CONSONANT AND VOWEL sound is first taught in primary school
it means the years u spent in school were waste...MOFO

I won't allow you drag me to ur level. Have a nice day

HARDBOI:
who told u it has nothing to do will intelligence?
if u are intelligent enuff u should know a wrong grammar when u hear one.

besides all yorubas i'v met have H-FACTOR issues... i aint hating
they add H where it is not..
and remove it where it is

You are so dumb, I'm Yoruba and I don't have H-factor. Although I cannot pronounce the letter R, no matter how hard I try, but that has nothing to do with my intelligence, because sounds come from within, but in ur daftness, you forgot Yorubas are Yorubas and in Yoruba language there's no letter H, what if the white man cannot pronounce the letter GB as it is in Yoruba, does that make him less intelligent?

I need this too, now compatibility is the next issue.

Na witch dey know witch.

vooyour:
that's very refreshing to hear. That's exactly how I feel

Good to know. I hope I'll find someone who reasons the same way.

What's the meaning of Islamist Fulani herdsmen? Is there no difference between rearing cattles and propagating Islam, foolish writer, trying to bring religion into everything.

vooyour:
well I don't blame them because these days we have to look after ourselves without depending on a man. but you also have to make sure you have enough money to take care of both of you if that's the kind of lifestyle you want

Of course I know the necessary implications that comes with such decision, it's just that I value the family institution too much than allow financial pursuit pose a block.

vooyour:
I love the idea of owning my own business. not for the money but for something I'm passionate about.
But since I was a little girl I always wanted to be a housewife (don't judge before you hear me out! ). I'm a Christian. Always believed in being a Titus 2 woman. keeping the home front. taking care of the children. making sure my husband has everything he needs.
Unfortunately the world we live in these days makes it hard for us to live like this. hence, many people are uncomfortable with this.

I honestly have been looking for someone who'll tell me she wants to be a housewife, but every girl I've come across say they wanna be Mrs independent.

I am facing the same issue right now. It's not like I need the gifts, I jus need to know this person is willing to go extra mile to make me happy. Had it been she'll heed to correction, I honestly won't mind, but she won't. I'm fed up

May almighty Allah forgive him of his short comings.

Zara01:
Yawwa, ya makaranta? Ya Kano? Zafi sosai ba?

Lafiya kalau, na Gode.

Nagama makaranta a kano. Yanzu ina Enugu.

I love ur mom. She really tried for you, please stop talking about the feelings you have left for him, you have made a mistake, accept it as one and move on. Not wanting your child to have a step dad is not enough reason to have a useless father, a responsible stepfather is better than an irresponsible father.
Take care.

Zara01:
A'a Ogun.

Toh. Ni ba bahaushe ba amma na yi makaranta a kano. Ya kike?

I love this. Lol, I wish I can wholeheartedly forgive someone I love too, but it's crazy. Please do hold him tight o.... Congratulations.

Zara01:
Translate please.

Ki na lagos ne?

This is just beautiful, when I try to encourage people to see the deeper truths of the world, they come off to me as shallow and incapable of such.
What annoys me more, is the response of men who are serial cheats, trying to uphold monogamy under the pretext of appearing civil, liberated or intelligent while believing their lies to be true.

I'm passing through such a difficult moment in my life right now.I find this thread useful, although it's not like I haven't heard anything of such before or even experienced. I'm so confused, can I ever love a girl again? Or even trust.

skademzy:
Alternative Dispute Resolution... I only pity those lawyers who thought they could make millions out of the case as OYO is their case as it stand now. Millions saved and yet, purpose achieved... Tinubu my man anytime, this's how you make your enemies say yeee yee

So who told you because it's alternative dispute resolution they did not pay the lawyers? Or do you think the case was settled by only the party on involved? The lawyers have made their millions and saved their precious time, Dokpesi has swallowed the humble pie albeit shamelessly.

nasha1:
I am okay now,i am at peace with myself.
I have a great family and they have been very supportive.I am focusing on my saloon and very soon with the help of my brother,i am going to open a clothing store.God has been thankful.

Thank you

I'm really sorry about your experience. Accept my heartfelt sympathy

TippyTop:
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APC used twitter successfully as opposition, expect us to do same.

Facts are different from opinion. Anybody can post anything on Twitter, so you don't expect us to just believe the gibberish you posted up there because one person tweeted.

TippyTop:
I read on Twitter a high ranking soldier went to see the judges, they refused point blank. Thanks to our highly revered judges at the Supreme Court.

Very Daft opinion, so twitter is now a reliable source of information when the basic thing they do there is gossip. Nigerians can be very funny

jmanity:
Are u using infinix hot 2? The marshmallow OTA update is 800+ mb & it downloads the update automatically. It happened to me.

No wonder. I didn't even check, I just know the phone has been updating regularly. I just hope I can turn off the update

I'm actually using it too. Tho my first time, I'll likely change at d end of ds subscription to free my conscience.

Fraih:
Wasak, this truly Hurt, I actually went through your last thread and saw where you were coming from.

One thing I have been reading is you lamenting on how much you have given to that relationship of 4years plus, you have really invested.
Please let that go and get on with life. This life is beautiful, keep a open heart, and make new good friends. don't bite yourself for what happened, open a new episode and Move on.

Thanks for this. Well appreciated

valdes00:
why do I av a feeling that OP will still take her back even with everything that happened....... TIME shall tell

Do you know I have that feeling too? But I'm gonna fight it.

naughtynaughty:
Op forgive her. Last chance shey u hear

I've forgiven her, but an unfaithful partner is the last thing I can tolerate.

nerdfrost:
But op I'don't get u! Is it that she had sex with that her supposed friend or she just dated him??

According to her she just dated him, I never had sex with her either, she says she doesn't know what came over her, the other guy knows me she even receives my call in his presence. I've told her to go with him, logic over emotions

sayyid:
dat is life for u full of different experience bt dnt let dis weigh u down try take heart n d best will surely com ur way most girls are nt worth dying for. try to go out mix with friends so dat u can stop tinking abt her

Thanks man. I don't like keeping much friends but I'm content doing other stuff. I know I'll be fine and I'm not looking forward to dating anytime soon.