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I was once in your shoes, na small remain make I go drink something, it took months for me to recover, but what doesn't kill you make you stronger. Be courageous, confront your fears and move on.

I just have so much love for this Borno state governor, may Allah be ur guide, kudos to the kano state government.

loveisblind:
yes...10years but not on cheating level....I just discovered this extramarital stuff some weeks ago

Oga, having a cheating spouse is worse than having children without a mother. Forget about that love, save yourself from emotions distress, there are millions of good women out there who ll be willing to be with you. Make sure you get that divorce, be bold, be courageous, confront your fears, I did too and I have no regrets.

You are so lucky, in Bayero University kano, it's expulsion straight away, nothing can change it.

I like it when I see people of like minds. I left a five year relationship, a girl I so much loved, because I decided I needed more than just love. There was no compatibility and although she does not understand, I know my decision would favour both of us in the long run, it was hurtful yes, and I risk been termed a heartbreaker by those who know about the relationship, I care less.
This is what many of us neglect these days, do you laugh at the same things? Do you have similar goal in life? Does she understand you beyond what you say? I make bold to say that in a relationship, Compatibility is greater than attraction, for attraction will not stay for long in the absence of other factors, but compatibility lasts forever.
Nice one OP

thatsmartgirl:
What a wasted Admission space into the any Medical school he attended! www.zainabsblog.com

I like ur blog. Hope to work with you someday

I never thought I'll need this thread, but here I am.
So I met this girl through a friend about 3 weeks ago, we started by chatting on WhatsApp, and we got along really well, exchanged pictures and the like, I started visiting her in her school and I can tell she likes me, she told me about her past relationship, they broke up cos of blood group ish.
Now the issue is this, I asked her out and she asked for time, I also feel like she's trying to play hard to get with me, so I'm not pressing her too much so I don't come off as desperate.
But I'm quite sure she likes me, question is, should I withdraw totally? Press further? Or start playing hard to get too?
Looking forward to ur replies

[quote author=greatgod2012 post=46306851]Thanks for your explanations. Unlike some who resorted to insults when stating their own opinion.[/quote
I just don't like it when people try to mislead others even when they are also wrong. ]

plaetton:
You just spoke my mind.

What they have basically done is to remove 381 people from the agricultural sector , and into okada business.

This type of empowerment makes little sense.

In kano state commercial motorcycling has been banned. What the governor has done is to provide means of transportation to enable the extension workers transport themselves to remote villages in kano state so as to make their work more efficient. Extension workers are not farmers, their job is to teach rural farmers modern and improved methods of farming, kano state has 44 local government areas, with remote villages and a very large land mass, I think this is actually commendable.

I was in ur shoes last December, I even forgave her and tried to continue, but I discovered I deserve better, believe me, this experience will make you stronger, it'll be very painful for weeks and maybe months, but you'll get over it. Even if her great grandma jump come down from heaven to beg you, don't accept her back.

My ex was also asking me what do I think she'll tell her mom if her mom found out we were no longer dating. I was like, say the truth, she said there's no way she'll say the truth. If I were silly enough to throw away a five year relationship, I should be guilty enough to own up to my actions.
Anyway, there are very good girls everywhere, you just have to associate with the right people and don't continue looking out for figure 8 only.

I noticed all the ladies commenting on this thread see nothing wrong in accepting a gift from someone making advances at her. They are skipping that part like it's not part of the story.
He doesn't trust you, he's violent... Bla bla bla

One even said he disobeyed her principles, didn't she disobey him in the first place by accepting the gift?
Because you told him about it doesn't mean you are right, my ex was always telling about the guy with whom she was cheating for over a year. And she used to say if I had anything to hide, will I tell you about him?.... Lol

He's wrong by beating you, but your action triggered it.

I'm waiting for those who'll cry witch-hunting as usual.

This is very applicable to me, I've met girls more beautiful, nice and caring who will do anything for me, but the feelings just don't come and most times I feel guilty, but deep down I know it's beyond just me.

negga4al:
What apps are you using? Check which drains ur data and restrict background data for those app. Does your Google Play Store automatically update? Check man!

It's the Android OS. That's consuming the data o

tobiasbeecher:
It clearly shows that you have wasted your parents resources in the name of sending you to whatever wack school you must have attended. Stop abusing the constitution Mr. man, you're totally ignorant as concerned the provision you shamelessly quoted. So the provision you quoted also said that the army should go to people's houses and murder them extra judiciously irrespective of innocent women and children among them? Your problem is that you lack understanding of the provisions of the constitution you quoted, hence you shamelessly brought it up to justify your barbaric opinion. You're not alright Mr man

Lol, I know people like yu, all you do is resort to insults when confronted with argument. Sorry I quoted you in the first place.

tobiasbeecher:
"They got what they deserved" because you and your family members were not among the 347 people (including women and children) murdered extra-judiciously by the unprofessional Nigerian Army right? The danger of not speaking up against evil and injustice to others is that when it happens to us we won't have anybody to speak for us.

This is the provision of the constitution
(2) A person shall not be regarded as having been deprived of his life in contravention of this section, if he dies as a result of the use, to such extent and in such circumstances as are permitted by law, of such force as is reasonably necessary—

(a) for the defence of any person from unlawful violence or for the defence of property ;

(b) in order to effect a lawful arrest or to prevent the escape of a person lawfully detained ; or

(c) for the purpose of supressing a riot, insurrection or mutiny ;


Stop making blind argument in support of the Shiite, if they turn out to be like boko haram tomorrow, it is people like you who will point accusing fingers at the government.

Havep a formal agreement template which you and ur customer will fill for every transaction, and also involve witnesses, let's say a witness for each of the parties. That way in case of default you can threaten institute a court action, nobody wants to go to court.

Checked86:
The Flavour picture was not taken the same day with that of his baby mama. The two cars say it all. Check Flavour's door and the AC at the neighbour's house.

Some people are just too smart. Nice one.

This phone is just zapping my data, I'm at a loss, don't know what to do aswear.

Which kind wahala be this na? And oga Jona no dey house o

eitsei:
I think I know how you feel..... .... Though it's hard at the beginning but you have to take heart and move on

I've healed after almost 5 months.

layla129:
A lady is cool enough to be your girlfriend, have unprotected sex with and impregnate but marriage? Hell to the NO! ...Why
I can't imagine having a boyfriend i have sex with and then the issue of marriage will be a No No.
Why date and impregnate someone you can't get married to?

I don't get this

Because she spread her leg for him before getting married to him,so why does he need to marry her? When he gets everything including children without marriage?

missmary:
thanks a lot

You are welcome, nice picture too.

missmary:
My dream o...



#Joke

Not sure shaa

Nice blog. I like ur poems

Ayoolajumoke:
Those things are actually true... I want to marry early too.

Nice picture you've got there

Rubbish. You can as well say we should become the wives and allow them be the husbands. Our roles in the family and society are different, it's all about role play and not being equal, if you quit ur job for ur wife, what does that make you? A house husband, maybe you should also get the impregnated in her stead when it's time to make babies.

khadijah12:
Men should only objectify the ladies that are dressed that way

I concur, but it is not something men do in full consciousness, it is more or less of instinctive.

The guy is fully covered, the girl is almost totally naked. Ladies who wonder why men objectify ladies, that's the exact reason because they make it seem as though it's only their nudity they have to offer.

postmann:
You should brother, with a grateful heart. She was an evil Tsunami that was diverted from her course mid-way before full impact.

Get your heart and mind ready for a damsel who will go to bed each night thankin her GOD she crossed path with you.

Hmmmmn