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Just add more years to your age mate boss' age and forget about it. In fact if they complain just politely tell them that officially they are your senior

So many Nigerians abusing this guy on Nairaland just shows that there are more hungry Nigerians now than before.

It read that the guy was insulted period. You need to be insulted when you do not have and then get insulted again when you have much more than enough to understand that bsuiness is just buying and selling not insulting your customers.

Updating your phone makes it proof to known issues that have been fixed. Known issues are hacked at by bad people and when that is not the case, you don't want to be having issues with your phone when others don't.

However, updating phones can introduce new issues - rarely though, or it may refresh your phone's behaviour. But I'd say always update.

He loves you to want to have a child with you, he loves you to have married you. The man you describe would not have married you if he felt like this before marriage. Thought about that? What he saw faded or what he endured out of 'niceness' turned into what he could not longer stomach. I am not on his side but if you love him, have you pretended at least. I can't understand you not greeting him when you are upset. Greet him. I greet my enemies talkless of my husband. Love is overrated, be nice to each other - he is not reading though - but it has to start with someone and in the end, you will likely regain your rhythm.

You may have hurt him in more ways than you understand. You need to know that people's expectations of marriage vary greatly. Do not mind people asking you whether you dated or not. Our parents did not date often before marriage but their marriages lasted untill their death.

Your seeking for opinions here is good for you. But you can pack a lot of rubbish into your house if you are not careful.

Ok for a solution.

Discipline yourself, wear discipline like a cloth. Make it a point of duty to greet him every greeting time. If you forget, apologise and greet him. On misunderstandings, I understand you are not his slave but forget it and remove the matter from your heart if it does not affect you. If it does affect you, tell him how and explain it until he understands. Do not argue. You are going somewhere...

Look out for him. Food preferences - you probably eat what you like, so give him what he likes too from your department. Clothes and shoes. I do not know what your setup is but ensure he is ready when he wants to be ready. You are not serving him, you are showing him that you want him.

Watch him. Watch for any atom of appreciation as a sign you are getting close else it is a lost case.

If he appreciates, see how long you can hold on while making demands now that he kiss you as a thank you, soften up and say he loves you that you want to hear it - explain why you have a different opinion to the expression of love. Use this opportunity to ask him what went wrong, listen.

People may think am asking you to dumb down and put yourself at risk, but if you love him and this can give you an insight then I think you better do it.

If you treat him nice and he starts responding the way you want, you are now respecting him and he is now loving you, which is what you wanted originally. Only, you want it without understanding his queer demands.

After that judge for yourself whether the end justifies the means, or if it is worth it. You got to stay like that for life if it worked. If it works and he eats out of your hands, I think it is worth it.

Chop and Quench

Guys please don't fall my hand. This is change! We are still in the change process. We will eat grass soon. After that, in 2023, an election mantra of "De ja vu" or "As it were" or even "Make Nigeria chop again" will be chanted by the next president. Don't even vote for that person too. Just keep on praying. We are speeding, no control.

It is even possible that the chic may also have apology for the guy but the guy no know.

Stingy guy made me read rubbish.
You are lucky na only money they steal.
Leave money for pigeon hole where everybody saw it.
Leaner

The guy in picture looks like a comedian and am not surprised the egg changed to garden egg on seeing his face - ugly boi wan chop egg.

Phone stays locked!
Imagine Nigerian jist.
Because his phone was locked so they let him die. Wicked people playing the victim.

[size=14pt]ONLY IN NIGERIA[/size]

Phone stays locked!

Just now after sex!

To show he is not tribalistic he tells us he has has intimate relationship with igbo women. Tribalists are people with skewed minds and their intimate relationships must be skewed so they usually have intimacy with the tribe they hate. They love intimacy better that way. Its a way of trying to dominate the women and humiliate the men. But on and on it becomes obvious to them that that domination is only in the bedroom and so they keep on doing it more and more in the outside. Rubbing their brains in it. Vomiting it out through their mouth as feces. But whatever, women are women and men are men. After the race you will see your position.

What a fool. A fool that got lucky. Now he's rubbing his brains inside toto and it is coming out of his mouth. What a mess.

Funny how Nigeria's often seem to take the side of the oppressor and ignore the victim. Obviously it is the permeation of this skew in our genes that make use unprogressive/self limiting.

How can a man who kisses and tells (if he actually did so) without evidence to at least ensure that there is no doubt in the mind of people that she (Bianca) cheated on Ojukwu ( a man with some respect) have some people take him serious.

If he did sleep with Bianca, does he at least not consider that her husband is dead and, considering her profile, that it will drive some traffic and speculations. If he did not... bummer. So under what circumstance will this make sense.

It takes two and only Bianca can give the declaration any substance. If she says word on this, it will even be taken as some validation.

Bianca abeg even under oath ask "Who is Femi Feces Karaoke"?

I feel like crying to hear this. I have not logged into nairaland for a while and this made me login. Firstly, whats a $350 website like. We are still backward in this country. So after thinking, planning, downloading, installing, designing, deploying, fine tuning, launching etc you go give the guy $350?

Guy I know say you are now convinced but why oh why is it that in Nigeria people do not respect other people's profession. You're a trader, he's a web developer and you want him to come cheap.

Oya calculate, he makes like 40k after all the hassles and it took him like a week of the wahala to deploy your website. How many weeks does he have in a month? 4. so if he is lucky to get 4 of this project in a week he'll be making 160k a month. Is that enough to keep a man/woman? Now if after 10 months he has designed website for 10x4 people i.e. 40 people and they are all calling him for one thing or another, do you think he can chop dat money peacefully?

I blame our local programmers and developers. Stop building all this 10 naira websites for people. If you just want static content build it yourself.

We should focus in providing solutions building websites is it not like laying blocks? Benchmarking, SEO, security, profiling, etc etc are all packages that follow a web solution. And you are talking of $350.

I sorry sorry o! I sorry Nigeeria eh! I sorry sorry o! I sorry for AAAAAAAaaaafriiiica.


SORRY!

The attack, if there was one, must be a very low grade and cheap one. Little or no damage was done. Usually in order to frustrate such attacks you can shut down your servers for some time and allow the attacker waste resources until compromised machines start slowing down because they cannot reach their destinations anymore and remove all unnecessary services/load for the time being to enable the server take on the barrage of requests. They seem to have done a good job of preparing against this annoyance.

Who gave naijahacktivists compromised army of machines to attack with. besides when you hack a website  you place a message for the world read as evidence. There was nothing like that. The website was simply slow to access at that point. Maybe they were even having some internal issues which is usual in any system maybe to forgot to warn their users on time or place a sign like "Under Maintenance" as is the practice. Now some idiots claim they have hacked the website. Idiots.

Some people are just looking for cheap contracts. If you check all .gov websites hosted in the US are under DOS attack because of the Megaupload, PIPA amd SOPA issue. Search here www.us-cert.gov/cas/techalerts/

In fact when the CBN website came up (I am a regular user) it was very fast. Faster than before even. see here www.cbn.gov.ng .

Idiot what evidence do they have of the hack. You just sleep and wake up and say CBN website hacked. Abeg the hack was efficiently prevented. The website is not just still serving users but is now even faster and stronger. Yes there was attempt on the website but it was broken down fast.

Of course something has to give. You never had two captains in a boat before, have you? There's a reason a man's tool is long and protruding out of the body. There's a reason men are generally, physically stronger than  women. Whats in a name anyway? Two lineages will be the beginning of confusion I bet you. One lineage is sanity through the man's path. Actually, two lineages includes everybody in the world. Try it and see.

its this gender equality,  human rights, animal right all what not which had existed long before now that the "new age" people will pull out, twist and wreck havoc on the way things used to be.

Say whatever you like, our forefathers were far smarter than us. The end is closing in and the world is caving in.

am one of them. DE CABAL.

police is your enemy. so be the first to call them when you quarrel with anyone.

it should actually be more than 44 million

try it and you'll regret this xmas. its rice and chicken period. thats the way we grew up. thats the way its gonna be. Plus the beer coz now am so grown up.

good news

of course they had to put the additional 2million tyres to make sure they will be pardoned to embezzle the next (2/3 x 20 million). that's logical.

2012 is a prophesy in itself. the pastors are overwhelmed with the logical things they can calculate coming. When your eyes is seeing too much already in the daylight, what is the need to llok into crystal balls or dreamland? 150,000 withdrawal limit, subsidy removal, boko haram, mossob, opc, all the mess that happened in other countries in 2011 and its like "when will it be our turn?".

Its not hard to see that the pastors are preparing for self preservation

abeg, dem giv me beer drink when i small.
see how i turned out.
at least i fit browse internet.
no be say make the child turn drunkard.

i've seen this done on many occasions just to satisfy an inquisitive child. the child will never get it again neither will he/she ask for it again.

bros u have a quiet family.
if watching tv is your problem, i mean.
some chicks come home late to cook for their husband with hands they used to handle another dike.

u no go leave the girl be when she don find interest in something that is ok.

dat na d problem with us now. man watch footback or play game, woman complain. woman watch series or use blackberry anyhow, man go complain. both forgetting that these are just means of releasing stress.

tie her up when she falls asleep and wake her up with slaps sitting astride and on top of her.

after that pack your bag and go because kung fu has surprise attack with ever present shock value

poster now even show any picture of any lady showing flesh.
please put some graphics to prove your point.
i am in need of flesh to view

thanks

The expected (at least on my part) extension of the Saturday 3rd September deadline given to Gaddafi and his loyalists confirmed my position on the current situation in Libya. The borrowed unrest from Egypt, Tunisia etc by some Libyans which saw NATO and co swoop in on Gaddafi and co was not clear cut. I have heard a lot of accusations against the man and I have heard his utterances ; the former, I could not confirm with hard facts except deductions from his supposed subsequent actions; the later makes it clear the man has lost touch with reality. Gaddafi seems like a man who has outlived his vision, his Green book turned yellow in the hearts of his citizens who needed a political unrest to push past the glory with which he held unto leadership.

At the risk of sounding like a supporter of tyrants, I wish to distill my thoughts and express it for discussion, if possible, seeing that so many things do not add up with the sacking of the former Libyan government by NATO. NATO whose business on an African soil I fail to see.

The uncaring devil in me secretly wishes that the rebel forces kill Gaddafi (gosh! am just a devil). But that is because it will help crystallize the views of more people towards the side of the already divided perspective against the invasion of Libya (Africa) by North Atlantic Treaty Organisation. It would mean that any African leader who gets unverified and sustained claims of human rights abuse gets killed. Am sure they will all sit up. GEJ included.

Leadership

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Who is ideal? Who is the best leader? Is the best leader without blame. We just heaped a thousand insults on Jonathan, insults we would not have reason to heap on Gaddafi becuase he will take care of his domain better. Gaddafi is not without blame but is he the worst leader deserving to be ousted by NATO for rebels whose antecedents we do not know? Rebels who are now afraid to kill their former leader because they know deeply that there was no need for the fight in the first place. Knowing that killing the man will compound the whole mess. Killing the man would beg the question WHY? The question why would beg more questions and the truth in their heart will come through, even if slowly, in years to come. Are the rebels with a just cause? What will be their actions after the massacre they invited on their country: the Nigerian story I guess? All leaders are no saints. Going to history to prove this will make my write up voluminous.

Government

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I am only basing my argument on the reasons people used to justify the Libyan fight. It is funny how people forgot about the fact that it was because Gaddafi threatened to kill that made NATO to wade in. Which system of government is better? Does it really matter? Is what matters not what happens to you as to what happens to the country? In the end? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_system_of_government#Single_political_movement_states Libya's system of government is not news, has never been and may never cease. Not wasting time on something that is given, I wish to glide through by trying to confirm that Gaddafi is not committing a crime by leading a people, Libyans, any way he wishes. He may be wrong but he was not committing a crime. His being wrong may be his undoing, but calling it a crime is the problem.

Treason

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Treason is http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Treason Yes, who just committed treason. The Syrian ambassador to the UN I think told the UN that Syrian soverignty is a red line that must not be crossed. This sent the UN scrambling for endless meetings, votes and meetings. Up till today nothing has been done. Syrians are dying in tens everyday and NATO can't get a foothold on Syria. A little cut on welfare in the UK sent kids going crazy and the UK government called it criminal of them. In Libya, there's no need for welfare cut, they're cool like daddies.

Does Gaddafi Really Deserve This

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Well, I dunno. The guy seems arrogant and doped but if governments get sacked like this without consideration of the genuineness of the rebellion, we are in a big mess, walking a tight rope or just about to die to fulfill another person's dream.

Such happenings in Libya should not happen to naija o! No shooting, killing,bombing and dying. Am a hustler, am ok. No matter the leader, I've made it and I will accept my faith if not. God is always there, unseen, but always there.

Last week I said they won't have the heart to swoop on him and kill him just like that because they know, deep down in their hearts, that he represents something for Libya. If they kill him, the man at the top or his name will answer for that the next day, next year, ten years or a hundred years later.

I'm watching to see what the NTC will do eventually because I know they are beginning to have doubts about themselves and their action.

what a mess!

thats just the beginning. libya will have to cut out its heart very soon and hand it over to the west.

every i.d.i.o.t. is cashing in on the new buzz word. what a frenzy? so much talk in nigeria and no action.