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It's a pity that most men turn out to be beast in human bodies. Can you imagine that? beating your wife over something you actually did and he feels God would give him a pat on the back for a job well done?
Anyway, for you to have endured for the past 12 years shows you had really wanted to make it work. But know that it is not working what do you as a person think you should do? Listen to your heart and do whatever you feel would make you happy.

Baby I feel you.  

Please you have to take extra caution infact be really careful with this guy who doesnt want to meet your parents and who does not consider it right to be with you or buy you just an inexpensive gift on your birthday.  If he is like this while dating I wonder what he would do after you are married.

You demonstrate true love by sharing and giving not only material things but time as well. They dont have to be expensive but those little little things are always a prove that the person cares for you and have you in his mind to go somewhere and get sth for you, even God demonstrated his love towards us by giving his son. Please dont fall for those calls o. A man maybe with a girl friend and rushes to the restroom to place another i love you call to another girl friend. Im talking from  experience here. Study him very well for sometime more and when you are satisfy with your curiosity take to your heels before he uses you and dump you. A word is sufficient for the wise.

"wherefore God has highly exalted Jesus Christ and give him a name that is above every other name that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow (including joblessness) of things in heaven, on earth and under the earth and every tongue should confess that Jesus is Lord (over everything including joblessness)"

Therefore in that name that is above every other name receive your miracle Job before this year comes to an end in Jesus name! Say a resounding Amen and begin to rejoice because it is yours.

@LITTLEMAMS
Pls do you still have sidney sheldom books or do you know where i can get them. He is the best when it comes to bestsellers!

Beef burger with Fanta infact im really hungry. I havent had my lunch yet.

NYSC especially the 3/4 weeks spend in camp is all fun but after camp the experience is a kettle of fish if you are not fortunate to be posted to a nice place. My only advise is that if you are not married before going please you dont have any business fallen in love with any guy cos 99% of guys on camp are only looking for babes to sleep with. Within those four weeks spent on camp i cant count the numbers of toasters that I had but i knew better that they were only after one thing which is sex. If at all you have feelings for a particular guy wait till after camp for the guy to prove himself if he is real. I dont subscribe to the fact that the 1 year spent as a copper is wasted but rather it is a must have experience.

If you love your wife and you know quite well that the baby she is carrying is yours you wont pay her back by cheating on her. She may never find out but God sees it and there is always a pay day.

So my brother dont do it. Just a single fling may ruin everything you have ever built Its not everybody that does a thing like this that goes free you may not be lucky in this case. Some women dont find being pregnant easy at all but I feel you should talk to her about it. Let her know your feelings and I know the tot of you having an affair would make her give in.She shoud give it a trial really its not as bad as she feels. Note: a woman in that condition needs a lot of petting, kissing, caressing bla bla bla to be on. So pregnancy or no pregnancy you should know what she likes and how to get her in the mood.

I would like to see 'The Other Side of Midnight' and 'The Rage of Angels' by Sidney Sheldon

Interesting

2ceSharp that's a nice post you have got there.
Im working at the moment in a private company which does not afford me the time needed to do a business and really I would like to have one of my own. Now this is my question. Minimum of how much do you think I would need to start something reasonable. Sorry I dont have any business in mind for now but i think if i can put the capital together i should know what to do. Remember to put time constraints into consideration.

Baby in my own candid opinion
I think your so called hubby married you to get his ex-wife jelouse and come back to him.

Goergey:
My subordinate wants me.  Though married and unhappy, i feel the urge to give in.

We have kissed and touched the sensitive parts of each other but I am worried. She is very much into me now.

What do i do? Am beginning to fall in love too.  Please don't crucify me!

I wonder what you are doing kissing and touching another woman's sensitive parts when you are married.
Can a man carries fire in his blossom and not be burnt?

I'm not sure weather this story is true or false but if it is true then im not surprised becos we have so many of his likes in homes, churches/mosque, offices and corporate organisations. When you see them outside in their suits and all smiles you feel here comes a nice guy not knowing that the only difference between him and a gorilla is the cloth he wears. He is the lion of the tribe of his home. All the muscles and energy he suppose to use to get things done fast in his home is wasted on a defenseless woman.  Little wonder some male children grow up hating their fathers based on the fact that they have seen the way their mothers are being treated by them.

Do you get the respect and love of your wife by beating her? Nope.
What you dont realise is that a woman that you battered today and tomorrow is not a fool one way or the other you may not know it or would know it later that you are paying for that action. A woman may look defenceless, powerless and weak but you dont know how strong she is and the kind of influence she has even on her children alone. Leave it or take it you cant outsmart a woman. Dont ever underate a woman!

How are the mighty fallen? go and ask your forefathers they will tell you what a woman is capable of doing. I'm sorry for men who maltreats their women. Show me a man that treats his wife well and takes care of her with love then you have a man that would stand out among his equals. Your wife is the only helper God created for you and if she is being maltreated i wonder who will help you. You cant go far without the help of your wife unless if she is a bad woman. If truly you are doing your best as a man and your wife doesnt appreciate your efforts then you are free you will find help from God and his support.

All these are for the association of those that beat their wives. Una no una self

@hafees where do i even start to advise you? Really I'm not here to condemn you but to let you know that whatsoever a man sows on earth he will definitely reap it somewhere, someday, somehow. I wont join those who asked you to marry her, send her to school bla bla bla, marriage is more than that its a long journey and for you to have somebody you can only tolerate with you could be like passing through hell here on earth. Since she is not in your 'class' and you dont love her, there is no point forcing her being a bitter pill down your throat. You will only end up maltreating her even more than you have ever done. Afterall you are educated and she is a drop out courtesy of you.

Imagine you talking about the mother of your child this way, somebody that carried that pregnancy for 9 good months with pains, sleepless nites, etc till delivery day, then she went through labour before the baby came; probably she had a tier and the pain of that is even more than labour pains; she could have died during this period but she survived and had the baby now she doesnt worth it anymore despite her good character as described by you. She even abandoned her religion to embrace yours in the name of love. I believe there is another educated spagetini sisi in the picture with good command of English language as if dat one put food for your table. You are not even sure weather that one has not aborted all the babies she has in her womb.

My friend judging by your words, you are heartless and you dont have any conscience. Can you just imagine a guy treating your own daughter this way, how would you feel? The most annoying aspect of this is the fact that you are still sleeping with her when she comes around on weekends, haba knowing fully well that you would soon dump her.

Abeg dont force yourself to marry her because you will always be ashamed of her and every lady wants her person to be celebrated and not tolerated. My prayer for the woman is that may she get another man who will love her for who is she and takes care of her so that she wont have any reason to remember all you made her to pass through.

Lastly, make sure for heaven sake that you always give this woman enough money to take care of your baby very well.

My dream gift 4 christmas? ok.

A Toyota Rav4 2007 model

A new job

All round peace over everything and everybody that has to do with me.

What a lucky guy! Congratulations.

I could remember when we were young we would gather round our black and white TV to watch wrestling with my dad. i strongly believe then it was as real as real but nowadays I dont know what they are doing any longer doesnt look real to me again.

My brother the bible made it clear to us that we are not fighting against flesh and blood but against principalities and power.

We are also made to understand that the name of the Lord is a strong tower and the righteous run into it and they are safe.

It is also written that wherefore God has highly exalted Jesus Christ and given him a name that above everyother name that at the name of Jesus every knell should bow and every tongue should confess that Jesus is the Lord.

Therefore always harm yourself with the word of God and the name of Jesus Christ everytime which is far above any demon or evil spirit and lets see the devil that will be devil enough with effrontery to harass you while you sleep. Shalom!

myomy dear this is my advise, if you feel having a male friend will make you happy and retain your sound health then go for it girl. But while at it please do not sin because having sex with someone other than your husband is nothing but a great sin in the sight of God.  It is called adultery and nothing more, please consider your chuildren. Really I feel you because I know what loneliness can do to a woman.  Every woman needs a man that will be there whenever you need him not some1 that would be running after anything in skirt. Please baby girl look for a friend and make sure he is a christian too not somebody that would not be responsible and abandon his own home for you.  Also, i want you to always have this at the back of your mind that some men do not worth the trouble so dont kill yourself over somebody that is irresponsible you have your life to live and you have your children to cater for some of this men are simply 'igi da eye fo' meaning when there is a proble most of them will disappear.

Did you say the guy beat you? Haba! where is his conscience and the fear of God, anyway God will judge.  Lastly examine yourself too, if there is anything  you are doing that you feel your hubby does not like you should try and change. It is well.

I never cheated on my hubby and I dont pray to do so despite the fact that I have some reasons to do so. I would have asked you to confess to him but could he handle your confession and not use it against you till the end of days? Men are just like that. So baby girl dont tell him. Confess your sins to God and dont do it again. Confront him with that allegation and demand and explanation, if he owns up to it and ask for forgiveness simply forgive him and move on afterall you are not in a best position to cast the first stone if you know what i mean. As for your sex life, well talk to your hubby to do it the way that guy did it and you enjoyed it

In my own view, there should be trust in marriage and the parties involve suppose to be open to each other no secrets. But a situation where one party is secretive to some extent and not open i dont see any reason why the other party should.

Your wife refused to give you her password does she have yours? I think you should check yourself. I want to believe she has realised that you have not been open to her in some areas too. You should 'be' whatever you want in a marriage.

Pet name?

I feel it's simply better to call him by his first name. You know husbands could be funny atimes, what if he offends me and I'm really hurt at that moment would I still call him love, sugar, darl e.t.c and mean it? No. I say things that I mean and when i don't feel you have behaved like a darling why should I call you one?
Some women call their husbands pet names when they are good but when there is a quarrel honey would quickly turn to monkey
Abeg first name is better wheather there is a quarel or not you can still answer your real name no pretence.

Na lie them be fake, Shikena

My brother I congratulate you.
This is just the begining of open doors.
God is about to show you it pays to stick to him.
Just watchout for more goodies because more of God brings more of Gold.

I happened to have the best Mum in the world. So if I have the opportunity I wish God would :

Grant her long life to enjoy the fruits of her labour
Give her a good health infact divine health so that she doesnt have to take drugs
Give her enough money to cater for all her needs, peace of mind over her children and the
Grace to be closer to God

I was at canaan land sango ota before
but now i worship at ikorodu church

Congrats dear, im really happy for you. The Lord will crown thoose years of waiting for job for you with great success. Just open your eyes wide because that place is just a stepping stone to where God is taking you to.

@ Toks81.

That was a nice one.
There is nothing on earth that prayers could not handle. But the only problem is that prayers require patience.  Most times you ddon'tget answers to your prayers immediately, it may takes days, weeks, months and even years before you receive answers to some critical situations.  How many people can wait for so long? During the period of waiting for a stray spouse to come back what do you do?

Congrats. This is just the beggining.
Its a stepping stone to a greater height.
The Lord that did it for you will also do it for me and countless of people who are looking for one too.

babeelove are you married or single?