I read your story and I sincerely felt bad for your son. This boy is near damage by your over controlling husband and unfortunately you as a mother have no say in the matter that concerns a child you carried in your womb!

There's no case that is irreversible by God and your son's case is not an exception. God will come through for you IJN. You need to start doing the following right away:

1. Start praying for your son like never before
2. Show him lots of love and try to reach him
3. Speak to him and allow him tell you what
exactly he wants for his life, not what his dad
wants after all he is and adult now it's his life!
4. Free him to follow his dreams and allow him
make that mistake you are scared of, he will
learn from it.
5. Let him socialize more, encourage him to go out
to places with you.
6. Speak to your husband on the damage his
attitude is creating in your son's life incase he
doesn't realize that.
7. Both of you should allow this guy be a man that
he is and not a child that you still think he is.

Getting strangers beat up your child twice is unimaginable and going a way too far. His self esteem and ego have been tampered with. You owe him an apology forget the fact that you are his parents.

I pray that God will intervene in this situation and touch his heart. I pray, you won't loose him IJN. Mind you, if this story is true, that child is not an ordinary child. Stop caging him, allow him to fly like an eagle that he is. It is well with your household IJN.

Shalom!

Please OP go and write a book asap about this topic. You actually nailed it and it's full of revelations. The world needs to hear you! More grace and more anointing.

[quote author=Designer123 post=81818471] christmas eve was celebrated together by every children in a neighborhood.

...when every child in the neighborhood would come out together running around with bangers and toy guns with so much joy to celebrate xmas eve. I'm having a feeling of nostalgia right now

Evercurious:


He won't drink any sniper..They simply had a sexual relationship.. He didn't RAPE her

...and should a married man of God have a
sexual relationship with an underaged girl?

vandertommy:
Who knows the DJ himself, am not sure his family members even remember him

SAVAGE!

...and it's also uninteresting when your spouse is young, poor and a cheat!

Lawalemi:
Marriage is uninteresting when your spouse and dad are age mates. This is a stewpid decision

[A younger guy that will be cheating on her on top being poor abi?

]You really beautiful gina, but seriously I wish you had gone for a younger guy that will grow old with you.. Money and fame fades away but hapiness is forever. well, that aside...keep glowing beautiful you [/quote]

Im from itaogbolu, have heard people call it iju-itaogbolu. Pls whats d difference btw the iju that you are talking about and itaogbolu where i came from? Thanks

Vickiweezy:





And he said he made more money as a Professor than he ever did as a Pastor

. Hmm see twisting

This is so lovely

Get close to a beautiful girl of your choice. Be friends and later tell her what your predicament is. She will fall in love with you and decides to marry you for who you are. Bros trust me few years to the marriage you will get her pregnant. You will have 2 boys and a girl. You are not impotent! How God will do it I don't know but it will happen.

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

And the next one you will marry will be faithful for life
But if u cheat its your house so you stay but she can leave if she can't forgive u
I laugh in spanish

Sorry I can't feel dis one

SirTunechi:

who be this guy for the film

chai nairalander and mouth

peppyluv02:
And what does this have to do with celebrating stupidity or photo bombing people's photoshoot.

And what does your jelousy got to do with the lady's progress? You called her being favoured a celebration of stupidity? U can't even hide d fact dat despite ur struggle and degrees God has not picked ur calls but rather He chose to answer an illletrate.oga wait for your time. Pele.

SAMBARRY:
DON'T MIND HER.AFTER GRADUATING SHE FOR SIDDON FOR HOUSE AND SAY GOD SHALL SUPPLY ALL MY NEEDS ACCORDING TO HIS RICHES AND GLORY BY CHRIST JESUS.THEY ONLY KNOW HOW TO QUOTE SCRIPTURE WHEN IT IS CONVENIENT FOR THEM

Oga bikonu kindly move. Dats was my opinion and I'm entitle to it. I will rather do my bit and allow God crown it dan rely on my trengt and struggle hoping dats wot wl bring d huge success.

Withhout God me o, I can do nothing I don't know abt u.

anonimi:


Why did you go to school, as I assume you went to school, right
Why did you not simply fold your arms from birth and wait for mercy ONLY to provide your needs?
Why?



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And my point is even with phd a man who wl not make it won't and a sch cert holder wl even employ him. Without God we can do but nothing. That's my opinion and I'm entitle to it.

It is not by might not by strength.

The race is not to the swiftest nor the battle to d strong.

By strength shall no man prevail

I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy.

Shikena!

A good musician follows the trend. The so call pangolo music is what most nigerians prefer for now and if you want to remain relevant you better give it to them. While at it, don't forget your identity by making sure u still do good music because that's what will last longer and probably outlive you. The ever greens! Make sure u have one or two.

Congrats!

Hmm life sha. Some ladies are just lucky. She is in her 40s, married once, divorced has a child and now she is getting married again while some prettier, and younger ladies are yet to secure their first marriage.
I wish you all the best and pray this will last.

ladyF:
I really do not doubt this bread-seller story one bit. Whether you believe or not, it won't change the fact that the lady has found favour. It's rare but it happens, just like miracles do happen.

Next time you get on your knees, say this prayer after me; in fact, say this prayer right now... "God give me a miracle that will sound like a lie" If it is too good to be true, then it is God!!! Better give your life to Christ, let him change your life for the better.

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Preach it sis!

HopeAtHand:
Op no get talk... i did not and cannot read the message. I wont even advice anyone to forgive a cheating girlfriend/fianceé, much more a wife whose brideprice has been paid for.

What will she teach her daughters and sons

But a cheating husband or boyfriend should be forgiven. Thr wife should be nice to him cook nice dishes make herself presentable and continue to pray for him abi abi no be so?

Toks2008:


Except there is some other reasons we dont know that justifies the divorce.

She first wrote infidelity then changed it to improper conduct and on and on but the question is..:is it worth it?

Now after divorce.wats next?

Was her case as bad as toke makinwa and many other wives of g overseers worldwide where their hubbies were vividly involved in adultery?

As far as i know..lMany adies born within febuari 22 and march 22 are too unrealistic for the real world and most of these ladies find divorce or breaking up so easy for no solid reason...ladies like..juliet ibrahim,Anita oyakhilome,rihana,2 ladies i know but dont want to mention their names 0and my ex making 6 case studies and all cant be a coincidence.

These ladies see breakup as nothing because they are too sensitive and unrealistic.

Asides their fanrastic nature,they are usually persimistic and negative,always seing reasons why things cant work rather than see why it should work and the most dangerous aspect about them is that they are naturally unreasonable,ubdexisive and can easily destrot themselves because wat makes sense to them is usually senseless to the real world...

Are you for real? Did you take time to find out what the men in the lives of the ladies you mentioned did to them to deserve what they got. Do you know what they had to put up with before resloving to this? So they should continue to wallow in all sorts cos dey want to remain married? Please! You even forgot to tell us what you did to your ex. Bless you.

Love should be unconditional. Love comes first before submission. Before Christ asked for our lives He first loved us and gave His live for us. There is no woman you show genuine love to that won't submit to you.

[quote author=lilmax post=38184356]No husband [/quote

How many married women dey happy?

Bros my sincere advise to you is to believe in your God and his ability to forgive and forget. Once you have prayed, ask for forgiveness sincerely and promise not to go back to it then you are free. Just forgive yourself and move on with your life. Don't be lazy, work harder and things will start improving. But if you continue to believe the devil is at work in your life based on your past, then you may not recover quickly. So stand up like a man that you are and face it with rugged determination to succeed and you will be amazed at the height you can attain within a short period. Shalom!

Oluwaseun will be found in Jesus name. The devil will be put to shame again and d the name of our God will be glorified over and over again.

dis is no issue since d man was not forced to donate the money to the church. Why should people drag bishop's name into dis. Do you think he is aware d man even attends his church. People just use any opportunity they see carelessly to drag churches and men of God into mess

Based on d advise she gave to single ladies to go for married men if they make dem happy. I just wonder how madame lola would feel if her husband starts making younger women happy

In my own opinion calling another man's wife names is really uncalled for and a younger person for that matter. It really shows how much respect our prof has for women. It would have been better if the corrections and criticism were given out of love and desire for a change.

Congrats mama. Your story is really touchy and your faith highly admirable. You will definitely live to see your daughter married as desired. God is so wonderful and powerful to the point of even allowing you to see your grandchild