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Christianity Etc › Re: The Omnipresence Of God by Welrez(op): 10:40am On Nov 09, 2014
ifeness:
Lets take a walk away from Religion. What is God? A quality in every living thing and non living thing. It's Omniscient is present everywhere,in Brothels,Hotels,Night clubs,Drug houses,our homes,Schools,with Ritualists,Houses of parliaments,Banks ETC everywhere.

God like Love,Peace,Joy are qualities of life experienced by Conscious and non-conscious objects. God being a quality is not personified. If personified,it becomes finite in nature. Everything we do is God,good or bad are all God. Therefore,God is an expression and not a being.

Using a His for God personifies it.
I understand your point. If so, then why do we have all these unending arguments about trinity and anthropomorphism from religious texts? Sorry for taking you back to religion. I wish a religious fanatic should attempt this puzzle.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Omnipresence Of God by Welrez(op): 10:21am On Nov 09, 2014
Provie:
David says even if he should escape to shoel (hell, hades or any other variant of it), it is God's hand that takes him there.

God is everywhere; it is the nature his nature of His presence or purpose of His being anywhere that we have to consider.

My thought.
Thanks for your comment. But why do religionists still harbour a narrow view on this in form of rejecting gods when this clearly advocates unison in our interpretation of God?
Christianity Etc › Re: The Omnipresence Of God by Welrez(op): 10:15am On Nov 09, 2014
timmy2409:
@OP What you have stumbled upon is part of a series of philosophical arguments on religion that have been discussed for centuries.

If you really think about them, you will find that the omni-xx qualities that are ascribed to God are almost impossible to rationalize.

Like your scenario rightly describes, God's omnipresence would mean that he is present everywhere, including hell, and in Lucifer's 'body' even. So after judgement day, at least according to the Christian faith, all of the condemned would be in the presence of not only the devil, but God himself. For all eternity.

Also, one less obvious implication of this omnipresence would be that God then cannot chose to NOT be in a place, ergo he is not omnipotent.

Furthermore, aside from the scenario you described in the OP, God's omniscience also implies that there is a single possible path of events. If God already knows the very end, whatever that is, then there cannot be any deviations from this path of events. As soon as there is, then God ceases to be omniscient. One implication of this is that he cannot then chose to change the course of events, effectively refuting any claims to his omnipotence. Karen Owens puts it succinctly in this haiku:



Another implication of this is that human freewill does not exist in this event. If God knows exactly what choices you would make from the very moment you were born, then you could not deviate from this path of choices, ergo you have no freewill. If you could actually make your own choices, changing God's initial 'knowledge' of the future, then God ceases to be omniscient.

Yet another quality attributed to God is omni-benevolence, the idea that God is all-good. To that, I'll leave you with Epicurus:



I hope I have been able to help, but this probably just leaves you with more questions than answers LOL. For more research on such topics, you may Google the Omnipotence Paradox, Euthyphro's Dilemma, and the Problem of Evil.
Exactly, my head is already buzzing. Does this topic have any implication on the need for religious tolerance? In other words, is there any relationship between this topic and religious tolerance? I was a little scared that someone would call me stupid for asking such a simple and elementary philosophical question. But I trusted a Socrate would see through the simplicity and discover its complexity.
Christianity Etc › The Omnipresence Of God by Welrez(op): 8:12am On Nov 09, 2014
I had an argument with a colleague at the office about God's omnipresence. I started the discussion by asking him if he would agree with me that the omniscient quality of God is derived from God's omnipresence, which he agreed with. Then I told him that if God was omnipresent, it means that God is also present in what we call idols because he will have to be present in the idols too to be omnipresent and omniscient. If God was not present in our shrines, it simply removes the omnipresence of God since he is not found everywhere. My colleague didn't say anything more to my argument, but I've not been satisfied with myself. I feel there is a missing link in my analysis (or is it hypothesis?) because I'm yet to hear anybody saying a similar thing. Or have I committed a blasphemy? Please Nairalanders, can you generally edit my thought? I want this topic to be seen from different dimensions. I conceived this thought during the week but have kept it till today to put it up for analysis. Thank you all in advance.
Christianity Etc › The Omnipresence Of God by Welrez(op): 7:54am On Nov 09, 2014
I had an argument with a colleague at the office about God's omnipresence. I started the discussion by asking him if he would agree with me that the omniscient quality of God is derived from God's omnipresence, which he agreed with. Then I told him that if God was omnipresent, it means that God is also present in what we call idols because he will have to be present in the idols too to be omnipresent and omniscient. If God was not present in our shrines, it simply removes the omnipresence of God since he is not found everywhere. My colleague didn't say anything more to my argument, but I've not been satisfied with myself. I feel there is a missing link in my analysis (or is it hypothesis?) because I'm yet to hear anybody saying a similar thing. Or have I committed a blasphemy? Please Nairalanders, can you generally edit my thought? I want to see this topic seen from various dimensions. I conceived this thought during the week but have kept it till today to put it up for analysis. Thank you all in advance.
Romance › Re: 10 Wife Duties To Avoid With Boyfriends by Welrez(m): 3:32pm On Nov 06, 2014
Serendipity:
Women by nature are capitalistic, materialistic, they enslave men with an idea of love and trap him into an overrated marriage and the man spends his whole life working for her while she fans the idea of being the weaker sex.

Women ordinarily don't want to work, some are just doing it these days because they have got no option. And why would they want to work when they can get a slave (man) who can do it even unbidden. A woman will have a flat tire an men will be glad to fix it for her even unasked. So why would she want to work.



Now what do men get for being slaves for women, nothing but occasional use of her vag.ina.
You've spoken well, as a woman. I wish many a man knows this. Thank you.
Travel › Re: Dangerous Bus-stops In Lagos by Welrez(m): 2:45pm On Nov 03, 2014
uboma:
The Nigerian Police Force has advised all residents and visitors to Lagos be wary of these locations to avoid falling victims to violent crimes.

I dont reside in Lagos so i dont even know most of these places. However for the residents in Lagos, please contribute by listing out the areas that are mostly and less prone to robbery attack and possibly safe alternative routes one can take to his destination.

1. Estate bus stop at Ketu-Alapere: Attacks are
carried-out both day and night

2. Berger bus stop (along OPIC - Ibadan
Expressway): Criminals attack victims with guns
on the long bridge and in traffic jams

3. First Gate junction - Agidingbi: Robbery point

4. Boundary bus stop in Ajegunle: Popularly
referred to as the 'one million boys' gang territory
where criminals attack passengers in vehicles

5. Ijora bus stop: Notorious spot for gang-rape;
abduction in buses (popularly known as 'one
chance',

6. Mile 2 Oke: Hammers, knives, guns are used
to rob motorists in traffic jam

7. Church bus stop - Agboju Mile 2 (Badagry
expressway): Haven for street urchins

8. Agric bus stop - Mile 2: Notorious area for
buried arms that are used for robbery operations in the area

9. Abulosu bus stop along Mile 2 - Badagry
expressway: Drivers conspire with thugs to attack
victims

10. Apongbon bus stop: Hotbed of 'one-chance'
bus attacks

11. School bus stop, along Mba - Mile 2 road in
Ajegunle: Use of jack-knives and other weapons on
victims

12. Bamboo area along Oworonsoki - Ibadan
Expressway: a dangerous spot about 100 meters
from Alapere Housing Estate Bus stop

Please try as much as possible to avoid all the
bus stops listed above when you can. If you find
yourself around any of these bus stops, ensure the
following:

* If you are a passenger or driving your own
vehicle, stay alert and do not display priced
possessions - mobile phones and devices; jewelry;
cash.

* Wind-up your windows and remain alert
when driving.

* Drive faster in these areas but please
consider your safety and the safety of other road-
users by keeping to speed limits.

Safe driving to everyone in Lagos (both visitors anr residents).
Romance › Re: . by Welrez(m): 9:31pm On Oct 21, 2014
I could remember a friend who was overtly polite to a girl. He ended up being made a mumu! This does not mean that we should treat girls coarsely always but giving them free and unrestricted access to everything is vulnerable to abuse. Women abuse nice guys and most women married to nice guys usually end up turning them into houseboys. Some who are shouting 'ordinary queue' here would have quarrelled with a fellow customer in a queue at a bank or the atm over a similar incident.
Romance › Re: His Girlfriend Broke Up With Him Over Money She Owed Him by Welrez(op): 4:14pm On Oct 07, 2014
asalimpo:
bf u earn 1m you may need to learn how to subsist on N10k.
While u think poverty is d ish. Remember mtn makes billions from selling N100 airtime.
I didn't bother to reply him because I knew someone would do it for me.
Romance › Re: His Girlfriend Broke Up With Him Over Money She Owed Him by Welrez(op):
It is a pity that this my dude is poor. He was one of the best students in his department at the university and graduated nearly with a first class. He is teaching now to fend for himself to avoid a life of beggary until he secures a good job. I like him for his self-reliant attitude and for his intelligence. He finds it extremely difficult to borrow money or ask for handouts from even friends and if he undergoes the agony of doing that, he repays promptly. As he usually says: he who goes a-borrowing goes a-sorrowing. There are times he would prefer to starve than begging for money from even friends. I don't wait for him to ask me for money before I give him for I know his kind of person. He always attempt to repay but I always tell him to take it. I write this not to justify his act but to throw more light on why he behaved the way he did towards his girlfriend.
Romance › Re: His Girlfriend Broke Up With Him Over Money She Owed Him by Welrez(op): 1:14pm On Oct 07, 2014
martyns303:
Man we can't deal with the issue without the foundation, which is as a result of poverty. Your friend messed up big time. When he gave her the money, every guy would know that, that money is gone. Then he was so childish as to cut the cash someone gave to him for her, how immature is that? Dude wasn't only poor financially but mentally also. If I were in his shoes, I would give her, her money, then explain my situation and let her help. Wouldnt he had survived if that money had not come through? The deed is done, no need crying over spilled milk.
I had a similar thing in mind to tell him, that he should have known that the money was gone and should not have deducted the money without her permission. Thanks for your contribution, I really appreciate.
Romance › Re: His Girlfriend Broke Up With Him Over Money She Owed Him by Welrez(op): 12:15pm On Oct 07, 2014
MarthaK:
Boyfriend? Girlfriend? Loan? Borrowing? Why?
He should just let it go....
When I used to borrow my ex money, shame no let me ask am
What if you had a pressing debt to pay with the money and you had no other means of doing so?
Romance › Re: His Girlfriend Broke Up With Him Over Money She Owed Him by Welrez(op): 12:13pm On Oct 07, 2014
laplace12:
I think we should be addressing poverty first which is the root cause of the problem undecided
Assume it was 1m and she was owing him 700k, does it sound better now?
Romance › Re: His Girlfriend Broke Up With Him Over Money She Owed Him by Welrez(op): 11:51am On Oct 07, 2014
martyns303:
Poverty tho! cry
Man, could you leave out the amount involved and deal with the content of the tale? I agree that the money is beggarly but then put yourself in the guy's shoes and offer advice accordingly.
Romance › His Girlfriend Broke Up With Him Over Money She Owed Him by Welrez(op):
I have this fast friend who told me yesterday that his girlfriend broke up with him over a debt she owed him. He said the debt came about when he bought part-time form for her at a university to enable her to go for her degree programme for she only has ND. She promised to pay him back the money, which she never did and never even mentioned it in any conversation thereafter. As it goes, my friend is a teacher who earns only 10k as salary and the school does not pay teachers' salaries during holidays. Now the guy's economic woes were exacerbated by the prolonged holiday due to the Ebola epidemic. This forced him to borrow some money to assuage his 'brokeness', if such a word exists in English. Now school has resumed and his girlfriend who is a petty trader happened to have sold a pair of shoes to his fellow teacher, which the teacher concerned had not paid. She told him to get the money from the teacher for her. He did that but not before he deducted the 3k she was owing him. This enraged her and she didn't even listen to his explanation before making a dash for the door. Now he has called her since then but she has refused to pick his calls. He has gone to her house to no avail. She is an itinerant trader so it is hard to trace her to one place. My guy is feeling guilty, mightily guilty, for being selfish- for that is how he feels. He said he truly loves her and has given her money in the past, and not like he is stingy.The first words that came to my mind when he completed his tale were Shakespeare's '...for debt oft loses both itself and friend'. But then, is it the case? Although I'm yet to give him any advice but I feel his girlfriend is rash and even selfish to an extent.
Nairalanders, what are views on this? Am I right in my judgement of the girlfriend? What advice should I give my friend? I would appreciate it if a female Nairalander would tell me how his girlfriend will view this.
Health › Re: Things You Need To Know About Narcissists by Welrez(op): 1:28pm On Oct 05, 2014
Harmthe:
op tank u,


learning new tin on nairaland since ...
You are welcome.
Health › Things You Need To Know About Narcissists by Welrez(op): 12:16pm On Oct 05, 2014
Let us kick off the discussion with the definition of concepts. A narcissist is someone who displays or suffers from narcissism, which is the habit of admiring oneself too much. The term is derived from a Greek myth in which Narcissus, a beautiful young man, fell in love with his own reflection in a pool. The myth had it that he died and was changed into a flower which bears his name.

Narcissists are everywhere, and they can be incredibly draining and challenging to deal with. Here are 8 things you need to know about narcissists. It must be noted that a significant part of our population suffers from narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), meaning they meet five or six more of the following criteria:
- Has a grandiose sense of self-importance, exaggerating their abilities and achievements

- Has persistent fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

- Believes that he or she is 'special' and unique and should only associate with people of the same status

- Has a constant need for attention, affirmation and praise
- Has a strong sense of entitlement and an expectation of special treatment

- Lacks empathy for others.

- Is often envious of others or believes others are envious of them

- Regularly shows arrogant or haughty behaviours and attitude.

Many more people do not meet all of the criteria for NPD, but may still exhibit narcissistic personality traits from time to time. For this reason it is difficult to know for sure how many narcissists might be out there. But one thing is for sure, environment and society does play an important role in the development of narcissistic personality traits, and it is on the rise.

If you suspect that someone in your life might be narcissist, there are things you can do in addition to comparing their behaviours to the diagnotic criteria listed above:
- Ask them questions (Narcissists like to talk but not to listen). They love to talk about their achievements, abilities, beauty, brilliance endlessly.

- Examine their Social Media Presence: Are they always posting status updates and commenting on everything? Do they frequently talk about themselves, their plans and their achievements? While heavy media use alone is not a definite indicator of narcissism, it is if the person is always on social media and also meets some of the narcissism criteria then they might be one of them. According to psychologists, even the common selfie and ussie has some sense of narcissism.

- Do they involve you in grandiose schemes? If someone repeatedly involves you in grandiose schemes that never pan out, or is always talking about plans but ever actually following through, he or she could well be a narcissist.

- Are they manipulative? They are skilled at manipulation and getting what they want out of people.

The best way to deal with narcissist is to love them from afar. Loving them from afar means that you recognise you are powerless to change the person, and that spending time with them can be toxic to your well-being. This is so because people that suffer from acute narcissism often live in denial or are completely unwilling to accept that they have a disorder. If a person truly believes that he is more special or talented and superior, imagine how challenging it might be for a therapist to convince him or her otherwise. Limiting your interactions and time spent, not playing into their grandiose schemes and not allowing yourself to be manipulated are all perfectly acceptable strategies.
Family › Re: What Do You Do If Your Wife Steals? by Welrez(op): 8:08am On Sep 28, 2014
I put this tale of my friend on Nairaland to seek for advice on the best way to handle it. I never thought someone would think I copied a Nollywood film story. Do I look so puerile and silly? We should be humble enough to know that we have not seen and experienced everything in life. Films are fictional, a reflection of reality. In other words, films won't be possible without reality. The real tale usually comes before the film. Life abounds with tales.
Family › Re: What Do You Do If Your Wife Steals? by Welrez(op):
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Family › Re: What Do You Do If Your Wife Steals? by Welrez(op): 4:04pm On Sep 21, 2014
ERF: A One-Hour compulsory Heart to Heart talk would do the miracle. He should ask her to highlight her problem, if she's okay with stealing or she find it difficult to withhold herself from picking anything unfamiliar (her own).

If she finds it okay, try to tell her the effects as well as the dangers in it.. all in an attempt to discourage her because if she likes it then deliverance would be hard.

But if she finds it hard to stay away from what belongs to her, then start a series of prayers with her.. alongside fasting ( please do the fasting alone to avoid stories of her legitimately stealing for food) since there is nothing God cannot do.. see a Pastor or a counsellor and also her parents to know if the thing is in their lineage or its just her..

But in all DON'T STOP LOVING HER.. as Love is the solution to all problems..
One knotty side to this issue is that the wife has refused to agree to the glaring fact that she is a thief, and any attempt to make her feel or look so has been rebuffed. This is one aspect that complicates the whole matter. This is partly due to the fact that she is yet to be caught red-handed pilfering either money or valuables. The case about the phone is the closest she has had. I've accepted your advice and I deeply appreciate it.
Family › Re: What Do You Do If Your Wife Steals? by Welrez(op): 2:57pm On Sep 21, 2014
berem: the advice is for your friend and not you. Does it look like I am advising you?
It reads so. All the same, your advice is welcomed. Thanks.
Family › Re: What Do You Do If Your Wife Steals? by Welrez(op): 2:50pm On Sep 21, 2014
berem: You need to tell her parents before she disgraces you further. They brought her up and you need to tell them what she has turned into. Tell them before you hear one day that your wife has been beaten and her clothes torn in public for stealing.
I will certainly pass across this your contribution. You sounded like I'm the victim when I'm only a friend. He is a fast friend and I'm seeking advice on behalf of him because a friend in need is a friend indeed.
Family › Re: What Do You Do If Your Wife Steals? by Welrez(op): 2:27pm On Sep 21, 2014
marieolae: This woman has a problem. She's suffering from kleptomania. And the only solution to this is prayers and communication. The husband needs to sit down and talk to his wife. Maybe she's not satisfied with what she has, or it could just be greed. Anyhow, he needs to know the reason behind this problem. He could also visit a counsellor to advice him on what he could do. As for me, if my husband steals, because of love I will not leave him. I believe there is a God who is the solution to all my problems.
I doubt if it is a case of kleptomania. The communication option appears more plausible to me and will be tried. You know Nigerians are religious and my friend belongs to that group.
Family › What Do You Do If Your Wife Steals? by Welrez(op):
I have a friend who is currently going through a rough patch in his married life. He has been married for three years. According to him, he started to suspect his wife of heist after a year of marriage. His money would disappear whenever he is not careful with its safe keeping at home. At a point, he had to confront her but she denied flatly and the matter caused a lot of problems in the marriage. So, in order not to shatter his young marriage, he decided to mellow and let things return to normalcy. Now what is causing him great headache, according to him, is that she seems to have taken the ignoble behaviour outside when two days ago a missing phone was found in her possession. When questioned to know how the phone came into her possession she blatantly told the crowd, that had gathered to search for the phone, that she saw the phone rigging and decided to keep it for the owner. This excuse is flimsy because she deliberately switched off the phone after she had 'taken' it and even when the phone owner checked it after she had given him back the phone, he did not see any missed call. This is happening just after my friend bought her a brand new phone worth 28k while he uses a phone worth 5k. He is just discombobulated by her act because the whole affair seems to be getting worse by the day. According to him, the thought of him spending his whole life with her is increasingly becoming torturous to him. He is scared to death that some day she might be caught in a market, which we all know is the peak of that shameful act, and drench him with embarrassment. I've also done my investigations on her and what I unearthed seems to corroborate the bad image she is projecting as many a friend of hers told me many cases of her stealing money and valuables. I don't know how truthful their accounts are and have decided not to share it with her husband. When I queried them why they didn't tell my friend this invaluable pieces of information before he married their friend, they said they had to play safe and didn't want to pour sand into their friend's proposed marriage garri. The question is: How do you deal with a wife that steals? And what advice should I give to my friend, her husband?
Romance › Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make While Trying To Woo A Lady by Welrez(m): 1:48am On Sep 19, 2014
First Commandment: Thou should not base your relationship on Nairaland lists, or get ready to marry in heaven or ...
OP, great write-up though.
Romance › Re: Guys !! 6 Types Of Women You Should Never Date [must Read] by Welrez(m): 2:57pm On Sep 18, 2014
If you base your relationship on the lists on Nairaland, get ready to marry in heaven or hell.
Romance › Re: 4 Things Never To Say To Your Girlfriend by Welrez(m): 9:43pm On Sep 17, 2014
Too many I'm sorry just take away the sweetness of the expression. In other words, use it when the situation really deserves it. Too much of anything is bad.
Food › Re: If You Could Only Eat One Food For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would You Choose? by Welrez(m): 12:02pm On Sep 17, 2014
[quote author=Debbiemma][/quote]Follow me, I'm following you. Together let's form TeamBangaSoup, hahaha
Food › Re: If You Could Only Eat One Food For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would You Choose? by Welrez(m): 10:47am On Sep 17, 2014
Banga soup, I feel hungry just by a mere mention of the name.
Culture › Re: An Insight Into The Ijaws Of South South Nigeria by Welrez(m): 10:08am On Sep 14, 2014
Emene Izon keme, Izon tu adou.
Romance › Re: She Seems To Be In2 Me But Still Repel Me...confused And Need Your Advices. by Welrez(m): 5:19pm On Sep 08, 2014
My guy, it looks she scored a hattrick in the first half. It would be hard to equalise and win the match in the second half.

(in Napolean Hill's voice): Keep trying for nothing is impossible.
Politics › Re: Has Bama Fallen To Boko Haram? by Welrez(op): 10:07am On Sep 02, 2014
wazoboy: Nawa fo u o! frm all inducations u ar nt in d north talkless of being n Borno and u simply choose to beleive that NA is lying, but who told u that others(e.g., Sahara, bbc
, etc) are not lying too afterall bbc gave conflicting reports!
I stopped to believe the NA the day Gwoza fell to Boko Haram. I hate SaharaReporters with a passion for their sensationalism but there are times when one has to abandon sentiments and view issues dispassionately. I have lived in Borno State and I'm familiar with the state and from the information I have gathered from friends and acquaintances, there is little hope of this news turning out false. I'm praying for our gallant soldiers to bring into being new measures and ways to defeat these scums. It is obvious to any discerning mind that the extant measures and strategies have been overwhelmed and have gone comatose. I believe our soldiers can still do the job.

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