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Totally agreed. Attitude and willingness to learn is everything.

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Hmmm.. The compensation though small, but at least, justice has been seen to be served.

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We are in need of a developer with the following skills for a project.

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2. Strong organizational and project management skills.

3. Knowledge of multiple front-end languages and libraries (e.g. HTML/ CSS, JavaScript, XML, jQuery)

4. Knowledge of multiple back-end languages (e.g. C#, Java, Python, php) and JavaScript frameworks (e.g. Angular, React, Node.js)

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Karnice600:
You didn't specify if you prayed about this union to be. You may call me religious if you wanna.
Looks like he prioritizes his parent's compliments over your convenience. You can't press on to marry him with a high flying red flag as this. You gotta be sure God has your back on this one.
Tell him you need a break. Take a while off. Go on your knees and reevaluate your decisions and let God guide you through. Shalom.

God bless you for this. My thoughts exactly.

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.

God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
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Hi dear,

I love your personality and from your writeup you seem like a great person.

I totally understand you. I tend to be introvert when I don't know you, and then I open up when we get close.. I flow with the vibe shown to me..

Please don't be or act desperate. This is the time you determine the kind of relationship you will have in marriage and how your home is run. You are who you are and have explained yourself. As long as you have checked yourself and you know you are cool with them, let it be. Relationships with Inlaws are built over time and not forced.

Stand your ground and also give him small attitude as well.. Two can play this game... Give him a little dose of his own medicine. When he asks you about it, "tearfully" tell him how his words made you feel. He should understand your personality by now and should defend you. Quarrel if you must.

Every heartfelt relationship must have a time to quarrel and reconcile so you can tell each other the truth. Let him take a stand now with his full chest and we stand by it.

Our igbo elders say, when brothers go for a meeting and they all come out laughing, they have not told each other the truth.

So dear, BE STRONG! Nothing spoil. Above all pray about this relationship. The devil hates good things and would want to spoil it but he is a defeated foe.

Meanwhile, when is he marrying you? Enough of the delay, let him make the move and seal the relationship or free you. Time of many years courtship has past oh. If man see who he likes he marries quick.

Cheers dear. I wish you the best .

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

sorry for the long post. Mods please help this thread to front page for more advice

My dear brother, first of all I say well done to you and your family. It has indeed been a tedious journey so far... WELL DONE. May God bless you for all your labour and effort.

PLEASE DON'T HAVE A HAND IN THE DEATH OF YOUR FATHER. Directly or indirectly. Do you still believe in God? I know that by now, you might be saying where is God in all these.. But He is right there with you, even when it feels as though He isn't.

Go to God in prayers and table all these things you shared with us to Him. Tell him you are tired. Give yourself a fast or vigil and just bare your mind to YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER. Delay is not denial dear. This affliction will pass. Just try not to allow negative voices to weigh you down.

Mind you no matter the name it is sugar coated with, euthanasia, abortion, mercy killing etc.. It is MURDER. Don't take a life you can't give.

I pray for you and your family, that by the mercy of God, this affliction comes to an end in your family in Jesus name.

God bless you.

I urgently need a full stack developer to join in a project to develop an email management and ticket help desk system.

Php, java, node js, laravel, etc.

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so
Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Dear Poster,

Are you a Christian? Please go on your knees now and pray. Pray for your brother, his wife, their daughter and that family. ASK God for mercy and intervention. Also pray for yourself. That God should give yiu wisdom on how to handle this situation.

Go and visit them, pray with the family and then tell your brother that you are led to take his daughter with you for holidays (discuss this with the mother first) so that she can learn a trade this period. Going to the police will only traumatise the girl because she will be asked different questions and also victimised.

Take her out of that house and also take time to pray with and for her. Let her talk to you and open up, so that she can let go of that burden. Let her know that it is not her fault at all as the father is evil and not her. Let her heal away from her father. Don't allow her to enter into her shell. Let her join groups in church that will keep her busy and active, so the devil will not take advantage of the situation to destroy her life.

Take her for deliverance prayers without exposing her. Let her feel safe with you.

Then confront your brother. Know why. Perhaps he has joined a cult or something. Things like this are not normal at all.. His response to your questions will enable make informed decisions on the next line of action.

I pray that God give you wisdom to do right and remedy the situation in Jesus name.

WOW!! This is an awesome innovation.

The level of the Chinese's technological advancement is out of this world, and the approach to this building is worth emulating in all spheres of construction.

I wish these ones repairing roads in Obodo Nigeria could learn from their counterparts and do better, because the suffering on the roads these days especially in Lagos is too much.

hmmm...

What an interesting read. So, the FBI gave the criminals what they (the criminals) wanted and in essence entrapped them. Really wise.

WOW! See intelligence na. SMH! and we are here in Naija running after those that drank alcohol and tweeted Chai!!

This is the wisdom of men oh. Can you now imagine the WISDOM OF GOD who gave man brains??

Big criminals can't hide from their fellow men, how much more from the judgment of the Almighty who sees and know all.
FEAR GOD PEOPLE. FEAR GOD! He is Sovereign.

Baba God you too much!!

Nawa oh. In other words he is not save in that garage or house. Let him do the needful and call pest control.

Vevejoy:
Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.

So here's my issue.

I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.

We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year,
I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.


Help me out please

Hi dear,

From your write up I see you have a good heart. You will be fine. It's ok to be frustrated at the turn of events, who wouldn't be? However, don't dwell on it. Worrying over things you can't change will even get you more worked up.

In marriage we fall in and out of love with our partners many times. At times we feel like strangling them, at other ties we are all lovey-dovey, so just relax although with your eyes and ears open. To control your over talking as you said, just take a deep breath when you feel like over talking and bite your lips, try it, it works.

About the native doctors he visits, don't talk again to him about it, rather talk to GOD about it. Everyday and night ask God to sever their relationship and open his eyes of understanding. What God cannot do does not exist, and he is even able to give new hearts to men and pierce even the hardest of hearts, WOW!! ( Eze 36:26, Heb 4:12).

You will be amazed at the turn of events and you wouldn't even have to lift a finger or your voice to get him to dance to your tune (talking from personal experience). Think happy thoughts and be positive. This is just a phase and it will pass soon. God bless you

ggirl4real:
Our religious folks should come and say they are lieing as usual

According to them - anything that makes the Bible looks untrue is a lie

Actually they might just be correct (I mean the archeologists).
NB: I used the word might because everything is still based on guess work. No one knows for sure except God.

Before the creation of man, there existed pre-human creatures which were no more before man came on the scene

Presently we don't have dragons but they used to exist as well, the Bible mentioned them. So all these still point to the infallible wisdom of God.

I am not the "Religious folk" as you call them, I am just born again

People need to be wise. In these times and season, even your own brother is a suspect.

Rely heavily on prayers( directly to God and not through a supposed MOG) and use your brain.

Train your children on the appropriate response to ANY inappropriate conversation or touch. My 3 year old daughter know that She should nt allow anyone to touch her bombom. She should say NO and she repeats this statement regularly.

ABOVE ALL, Be what you teach your kids.

I pray that God heals that little child of this trauma.

hmmmm

Prettychild:
Yuck! She is sha dirty O! Pregnancy own go worse O! But these are signs you could have easily noticed during courtship na. Since you went ahead to marry her that shows that you can manage it. Talk to someone close to her in her family.

What is dirty about brushing in the kitchen? In some houses/ families it is only in the kitchen that there is a sink. They don't have wash hand basin in their toilets and they grew up with that mentality to brush in the kitchen. So it is called individual differences, not dirtiness. CALM DOWN!!

manos:
Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.

I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.

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Dear Poster, CALM DOWN. In my little experience in marriage, it is not about who is right or wrong, but being able to recognize and accept each other's weaknesses and turn the other way.

Most of us prefer to brush in the kitchen rather than the bathroom sink. In my home, we feel that mouth is synonymous to food = kitchen so e just use the kitchen sink. Besides I'm sure you enjoy kissing her even early in the morning, so what is wrong if she drools (as you imagine) inside the meal, it's the same saliva you swallow happily when having fun with her.

In essence, what I am trying to say is that as you have already told her, just smile whenever she does it. Over time, she will either change or you will get used to it. Marriage is WAY BEYOND ALL THESE PLEASE, It is give and take.

CLAM DOWN !!

Hmmmmm...

Well, dancing for one's husband is always an lovely and joyful thing. However, sharing for the world to watch should be a decision both of them should make together IMO, to avoid stories that touch since northerners are very conservative.

veave:
Giving birth to twins boys is the best feeling ever. I'm grateful to God for his ever ending mercies right from conception, pregnancy and then the birthing itself. He has been faithful.


This is part of my thanksgiving speech during their dedication. We are still waiting in faith.

From you lips to God's ears. So shall it be for you in Jesus name

Hmmm...

May The Lord comfort the bereaved. And may justice be served.

Righteousness89:
Last Week was Flood.. This week Locust..

The KING of Kings is Passing A Huge Message..

But I will forewarn you whom ye shall fear: Fear him, which after he hath killed hath power to cast into hell; yea, I say unto you, Fear him.


We need to Fear GOD and Submit to His ways..

Like Wale Adenuga Production says " We are Nothing but Pencils in the Hands of GOD"

The World is being Grounded...

Everything we can see or Touch is going...

All the Palaces, Edifice, Automobiles, Architectural wonders, etc just Name it! Everything is Going.....

Just Last week Michigan in the USA witnessed the Flood they have not seen in 500 years.

And some of us are seeing all these Happenings and we do not see Reasons to Humble ourselves before GOD and Accept JESUS CHRIST.

GOD IS Merciful, Gracious and Loving..

But HE is also a Consuning Fire.

The Bible says " IT is a Fearful thing to fall into the Hands of The Living GOD.

The only Solution is for We all to Submit to Him and Accept JESUS CHRIST.irrespective of Nation, Continent, Religion, Race, tribe .

Don't be Deceived or Feel Comfortable with their so called Peace and Unity.

There is No Peace without THE PRINCE OF PEACE, JESUS CHRIST..





As for My Brothers and Sisters who will Quote to insult me as usual, pls insult me but don't Joke with the Message!

Insult me but Accept JESUS...


I know some of you who pour insults on me will be Saved and Accept JESUS one way or the Other by the Mercy of GOD. When we meet on the streets of Gold in Heaven , you will come to Appreciate me For bringing you the Truth.

I Love you All

We love you too.

God bless you for being an Ambassador for Christ.

ThinkSmarter:
I'm not a Muslim.
I was actually born into a Christian family.
My church is Presbyterian Church of Nigeria.
But, I have come to realize that Religion is deceptive.
And some of her faithfuls are bunch of extremists and fanatics.
They are always strict, miserable and unforgiving.
Religion is delusional.
They always expect people to behave like them, else they will threaten you with eternal damnation.
They entice people with a heaven that only exists in their imagination.
Ask them for proof of some of their teachings and watch how they will start attacking ur person.

Well, News Flash. Christianity is NOT A RELIGION. It is a mystery to the carnal mind. You have aptly stated what religion is which is why Christ Jesus did not come to give us religion, but the SPIRIT-FILLED Life. What Christ came to do is to restore our lost glory which we lost due to Adam's disobedience.

Why do we have lots of charlatans and fakes? Because THIS IS THE ORIGINAL. You cannot see the fake of a fake product. You only get fake iPhones, Samsung etc why? because they are authentic products. So also in Christendom. Know God for your self and avoid bitterness and hate, that is not a fruit of the spirit.

I pray that God will give you understanding.

#Last Take: If there are fakes, BE THE ORIGINAL!!

BeerParIour:
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Enough of this rubbish here!
Are you the only religious person here?
You behave as if Jesus gave you alone a special contract.

Your post is becoming annoying, in fact, you don overthrown that BBQ dead meat seller on making annoying posts

I Corinthians 1:18 - For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God

Bros what he has said is the plain truth. Please embrace the truth while you still can. If God pens your eyes to see what is coming, you will wake up.

RonaldoVido:
If you were hungry, you may not be trying this nonsense. I guess you are well fed.

You are not busy with yourself.

If it were a woman that did this to herself, people would have talked down on her.

Do you want to be Michael Jackson ? Your problem right now is not your skin but your REASONING.

As in ehnnn .. He has s much money to spend and throw away. In this Corona times that people find it difficult to feed. I am so upset right now

I am very angry right now @OP , Just that it is not good to beat someone already down.

Please what is affecting you is beyond cream or skin darkening. It seems you have low self esteem. That is what needs to be treated, not even the skin discoloration.
PLEASE every morning when you wake up and before you go to bed at night, say this at least 10 times; "I AM BEAUTIFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE BY GOD!!" Over time, this confession will stick to your subconscious and stop you from doing such in the future. Your skin was PERFECT

Please stop rubbing anything chemical on your breast region. Just apply shea butter/ori on it lavishly. IF you have original honey you can use it and be patient. It will heal and clear.

PLEASE DON"T APPLY ANY MORE CHEMICALS. It will get better, and please stop thinking and eat well.
Have you asked yourself about those people who are maimed, disfigured, epileptic etc. should they then kill themselves? Instead of just thanking God for the skin you have, you are doing this?? Please kneel down and ask God for forgiveness for being ungrateful.

You need to come in contact with this man and his wife physically to know what kind of grace they carry.

He is an epitome of Christ-like. His messages God-focused, and the usual "sow seed" jaboree absent.

He drops the undiluted Word and blessed all present.

God bless you Sir for being a blessing to this generation.

MichealKin50:
Honestly I'm confused. This girl never shows any sign of cheating.

It could be here or there.

But someone you want to spend your life with, you should be able to be open with her. Since she spends time with you, send her something random on facebook messenger, and perhaps the next day ask her for her phone when she is on fb. read with her, open the chat and let the conversation flow.

NB: try to be as jovial as ever and free your mind.

If she is beautiful and as good as you say she is, then she will be a HOT cake. Men will keep sending her messages etc. So until you tie the knot officially, she will still keep getting proposals, an she might be deleting so as not to get you upset or suspicious.

Also, just pray about it, let God have HIS way.

Cheers

Dear OP,

The future might look grim and dark now, but believe me there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Be ready though, people will stare, gossip, sneer, make jest of you etc.. BUT PLEASE DON'T ABORT THAT BABY.

Let me tell you a story. When we were in secondary school, a lady XYZ joined us in SS1 or 2. Slim, beautiful, and a great runner. Her friend from home was also our classmate and gossiped that she has a baby etc.. mind you we were not up to 15 years old then. XYZ was an only child, so her mother took in the baby and sent her back to school (our school) to complete her secondary education. This happened about 20 years ago.

Last month I went for the burial of this my classmate XYZ's mother, It was only XYZ and her baby (who is now a graduate by the way), that were involved in the burial. That illegitimate child that could have been aborted is XYZ's support and best friend now.

The best part is XYZ didn't even marry the guy that impregnated her because he is just... Bleep just got married late last year to a dashing Prince who dots on her with a graduate daughter already while some of her mates are still praying for the fruit of the womb..

Infact you don't know tomorrow so PLEASE DON'T ABORT!!

thelish:
Woow, such a long time now.
Just stumbled on this post now.
Well,I got a solution to it.
It has stopped.
What about urs??

Please do you mind sharing the steps you took? It could help someone.

Thank you.

Grace001:
The answer to your question is capital YES no man in our generation to have such faith to raise any dead. If you see any it's an arrangy

90% of these pastors both well knowns GOs and about to be knowns GOs are MONEY FOCUSED Some of them don't even go into deliverance ministry but PROSPERITY ministry. Because they know they don't have what it takes to do any wonders, and for those who manage to do any miracle, do it through the other means maybe 7 book of moses or occultic powers.

You can't serve God and Money(fame)

Speak for yourself. God still has MANY true followers in this generation who are doing great wonders in His name. They are not on youtube or social media so you might not know or have heard of them.

God's words are infallible. If he said we will raise the dead, whether you believe it or not, the dead are being raised.

The fact that there are lots of fakes, proves that there is original. You can't see the fake of a fake product. In this generation, there is faith to raise the dead. Not by power nor by might, but by My Spirit says the Lord...

...In the last days (which we are living) I will pour out my spirit...

Is it just me, or is something wrong with these tagged with the name "beautiful"

Very bad makeup artist for them all by the way

Let me post this here again, in case you don't see my other response on the page it was posted.


Love can make people do silly things, and when you get over it, you wonder how you could have been so FOOLISH and BLINDED.

First of all, I pray for you, that the mercy of God locates you, that your eyes of understanding may be enlightened, and that You come to the knowledge of The Love of Christ in Jesus name.

As regards that money, what was the justification for it? How much is in the joint account now? Is it both to sign or any to sign? The answer to these questions will enable you plan your next action. Meanwhile, please note that the tendency to recover that money is blow 30%. So see it as something you gave to charity. However, if there is money in the joint account, and you have access to it, please withdraw all the money there immediately and tell him you are using it for antenatal.

PLEASE and PLEASE, KEEP THAT BABY. Don't incur God's wrath. By the way, it is not going to be an easy journey (raising a kid), but reading your personality, YOU CAN DO IT.

As regards the man, you have wasted so many years in that relationship, with a child on the way... it's a dicey situation.
Go back to God in Prayers. Ask HIM for mercy and forgiveness for all the atrocities you have committed, ask God to take control. Then sit back, relax and see Him step up for you.
PLS NOTE THAT THAT YOUNG MAN IS A WICKED MAN AND NOT FIT FOR A HUSBAND.