ikamefa:


jenifa kan aiyetoro kan!

lol. I love that movie

I would say my friends
I don't think i look up to any celebrity for fashion or for anything for that matter. Real ppl around me have the biggest influence.

oleku part 1,2,3,4,5,6, . .lol

ttalks:

busybein and the others who're asking funny questions about agreement,,
The agreement in question here has to do with agreement of faith.Unbelievers and believers can never be in agreement in terms of faith.That agreement is the catalyst for the two flesh to become one;the requirement for a Godly marriage.

busybein,are u going to answer the question I asked or not?

there are many dimensions to religious practice. some people, like you, take their christianity to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL. i.e it is sinful to talk to a muslim, watch tv, eat meat, wear pants, cook food  blah blah blha  

Marriages between believers which fail are due to inconsistencies in the faith by either or the two of them and not because they are believers.

what about marriages and relationships between a a christian and a muslim that DON'T FAIL?? read my previous post to see examples.

and I don't get you. inconsistencies in their faith? explain please? what do you mean by inconsistency in their faith? If two christians get a divorce because , for example, one partner has a bad habit of, let's say excessive anger, nagging, smoking, cheating, domestic violence etc. is this faith related? they are not in spiritual agreement?
please explain what you're talking about. thank you

spikedcylinder:

Oh ok. It should be a gradual process then? 

so pretty. I like ur big eyes and u have perfect eyebrows. jealous. lol

Naijagarl:

Maintaning natural hair is eaaaaaaaaaasy so that one no be escuse, Plus its loads cheaper. All this relaxer and wig really is no use and is costing a lot of money, think of what you could do with all that cash instead. Its not like we werent created with hair on our head, [color=#990000]plus theres LOADS of videos on you tube supporting it. [/color]

haha. I was going to reply that post and then I saw yours. I agree 100% it's cheaper (bolded for emphasis) and a tad bit easier (I used "a tad bit" because it took me almost 7 hours to finish twisting my hair but it's well worth it. it will last me at least 3 wks).
Just my personal opinion. people have different experiences.
I can't imagine some people with natural hair though. The permed look suits their personality and all. lol so natural probably isn't for everyone especially if you don't like being in the minority.

well, good for him. I hope he finds peace within himself.
It was really sad to hear in the news that the Hamas top official that was recently killed (along with all his family members ) once sent one of his sons on a suicide bombing mission.

busybein:

said who?please tell me,who told u they can't be in agreement?

and what makes u think believers can be in agreement?


listen marrying a believer does not gurantee a successful marriage,and marrying an unbeliever does not guarantee failure in marriage,even so called pastors and bishops are not in togedaness wt their wives

what is this agreement we r talking about?it can simply mean :both hearts uniting,coming togeda and trying to make or achieve a peaceful and loving home and all there is to it

thank you!

agreement ko agreement ni

*osisi*:

The poster should preach to Hamas.
The blood of those kids are on their coconut heads

If the muslims make this same argument you're making, heaven will fall. lol
I can't imagine your response to:

"The poster should preach to Bush.
The blood of those kids are on his coconut head"


why kill hundreds of innocent people because you don't like their guilty leader? what did the kids do?  
blood thirsty Israelis  

I agree with you. Many Nairalanders are bigots. But of course, the Israelis are "God's Chosen" so whatever they do is justified. whether killing hundreds of palestinian civilians ("by accident" they say) or commiting violence against others. Even though there are many examples in the Bible where God himself punishes israelites for their sins that are almost unforgivable.

If the Jews are "God's chosen people", then these bigots are God's rejects

what makes people unique is their individuality. Your wife doesn't have to share exactly the same ideas as you otherwise, there will be no such thing as marriage, or even friendship, in the world. So, all the talk of spiritual, emotional, blah blah "agreement" is all trash. Agreement does count but Tolerance counts the most. I'm sure most of you bigots sometimes will disagree with members of your family but you have to deal with it and tolerate because you can't "divorce" them. lol

@ OP, my advice to you is to find out her stance on the matter. If she wants to marry you despite her father, then go for it!! but move far away from her dad. He won't live in the marriage with you so his opinion shouldn't affect your decision unless you plan to depend on him or one reason or another (financially etc). lol

to give you presonal examples,
My former neighbors are a family that practice both christianity and islam. The father is muslim and the wife is christian and they live together in peace with their kids. Their alfa comes to their flat (or apartment?) to teach the kids the koran on wednesdays and the kids come with us to church on sundays. Eventually the children will grow up and decide for themselves which religion they will eventually profess after seeing both sides of the coin.
In fact, my other neighbor is a muslim family and their daughter is christian and we go to the same church as well.
In fact,the house I lived in back in Nigeria is a mix of christian and muslim and we all got along, shared food on each others' holidays watched soccer together etc
so I don't see what the big deal is with all these religious animosity!!!! religion is a personal matter and people shouldn't let it interfere too much with their public interactions.

I voted no

stillwater:

Who's H2O2?

i'm curious as well.

StephenP:

Same here. You know a Nigerian is really upset when they switch to pidgin English.

haha

StephenP:

@KarmaMod, by the way, your new picture is the hotness.

I agree . . . it's pwwetty
I like your outfit
that's your house TOH?

lol. i don't get mad quickly that's true

where is h202 sef. he went to hide in his little corner i see. lol

paper planes - m.i.a

has anyone seen bafana bafana?
this topic reminds me of the "audition" scene. lol

I won't be surprised if doyin13 and h2o2 are one and the same animal 
I talked to some smart people on nairaland in the past. too bad they're not around anymore. . .

see they take turns logging on and off. . . fool(s)

parents, grandparents, siblings, friends, even the pastor or alfa can name the child.
but the parents have the greatest influence on which of the names will eventually "stick" to the child

H2O2:

na confusion go kill you

H2O2:

tumfulu

you dey craze. I thought you were a human being. . . didn't know I was talking to a monkey.
these people with their multiple identities sef

doyin13:

kai . . .baby yi lo go sha

thunder will fire your mouth

H2O2:

Yeah. And Swahili  

haha funny  

what username did you use before makinde? lol

H2O2:

Yeah. And Swahili

who is swahili?

doyin13:

goodness me. . . .this girl.

U are really a fresher oo

Stay that way abeg.

Don't go rotten like all them Morenike aka toyinrayo aka temptous aka. . . .

@inspired

why u dey jealous my red pali

look who is talking? king of rotten. . . shio

H2O2:

LOL He was a special kid

makinde i don't remember you o. do you know zulu? that's who I guessed you might be

H2O2:

makinde

I don't remember. I guess i probably didn't talk to you that often. pls remind me
sorry if i'm being rude

doyin13:

yes

I am a brit

explique s'il vous plait.

h2o2 what's your old username?