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If a man doesnt love u, u may use the potion and it may work in the short run but when it wears out, he will still not love u

A lot of people misunderstand me here, i just like being realistic and most of my posts will prove that, I dont say things here cos it sounds nice or is the nice thing to say, i say things cos thats what i've seen, cos thats the reality of the day, cos thats how bad the situation is,
We're supposed to find solutions to problems and not to claim innocentie or anything. u dont approach a problem with soft hands and at the same time u have to be careful when killing a mosquito that has perched on your scrotum!

2cantango:
@whitelexi:

so you don't want a woman who will cheat, but it's acceptable if you cheat?

I've never cheated in my life and i dont subscribe to it,

Zahymaka:
Ask him please. You expect a "good" girl while you go frollicking. I hope you marry a karate champion.

If i marry a karate queen, she will end up running away cos i hold a 3rd brown belt in shotokan karate

I'm the last kid and only boy in the family, I've got 8 sisters and my eldest sister's 20yrs older than me

I wouldnt make the mistake of getting close to a woman who has hot pants! Experience has taught me how to fish them out and avoid them

which is usually the case cos the naija woman will not take it easy oh

I'm from a wonderful family and God-willing, will end up in a lovely family too

what happened to 'in sickness n in health'' @whitelexi

The happy family will live in sickness and in health, but then again, not all families are happy

why is she always in my head?

Trust me, u dont wanna know

Why am i the last born, why do i have to work on weekends, why do peeps easily attack me on this site?

Marriage is like a market place
Some people buy wisely, others spend money,

After a few years of marriage, your wife simply gets tired of your troubles (cos they say men are like boys) very troublesome, once this happens, start expecting the bomb cos when ur husband doesnt recieve the usual attention from u, his own wife, he looks for the nearest source - secretary and others, including pepper soup seller,

I like to be realistic all the time cos I'm a guy. Men cheat when women fail in their responsibilities, when a man cheats, he does so with a fellow woman who probably has the time his wife doesnt have.

I wish i could repay 2 particular naija girls for all what they put me through, I get soo tempted to do cos now i'm in a very good position to destroy them, but i always hold back and it just doesnt leave my head!!!!

Stash the Cash, as long as it comes pls keep it coming

Saw bewitched and constantine during work time yesterday on my PSP, couldnt be bothered playing any games on there cos i always lose anyway, work was sooo boring yesterday but had a long talk with the new girl of my dreams whom i met on this site, had a couple of beers with my neighbours and ate traditionally prepared pepper soup - that was a quick return trip to nigeria. Just before i slept, i looked through my Phd dissertation and said my prayers.
Now i'm at work again today, wondering why i even work on weekends

Dont decieve yourself into being fooled at this time, Put yourself in the new girl's shoes, if u got dropped for any other person how would u feel as a guy? Everyone in this life deserves a fair chance and i will not advise u to give someone two when another who desperately needs that chance is left with none.

Moral: Always substitute yourself with the prospective victim of your circumstances before making victims, Nemesis is more than a word!

it is only the dog that goes back to its vomit,

If i were john, I wouldnt be happy with the comment about looks which was made public, but it wouldnt drive me into dating tola who is also a friend to debbie.
Debbie lost the battle a long time ago, i'd advise her to move on,  Tola will most likely not last long with John because when a guy makes a hasty decision about a babe, 99% of the time he just gets tired of her quickly. Next time, Debbi should know better than to waste time and allow others into her romantic life,
This is definitely a lose lose situation for the girls, maybe a win lose situation for john cos debbie would definitely have offered him more.

U dont have to know who's there, Except u want to be more than e-advisers lol

Dont like exercising, it freaks me out, I love to chill, watching movies and listening to some really cool music. I hate the clubs, but i love hanging out with my homies and discussing critical politics and soccer (I love Arsenal and the Super Eagles). Dont play musical instruments but love listening to Yanni and enya,  Love going on journeys when i'm driving - i get freaked out if another is driving,  I don't swim, but love lying in the pool.
I must be wierd init?  But thats me sha

I really don't want u to see it as a form of generalising, It would be better to say that that is the impression i now have about naija women and i really don't mean to have anybody's trouble about that.

Believe me, I have sampled the population statistically, and my conclusion was based on the average. I grew up in Lagos, Lived in Abuja, Did my NYSC in Nasarawa State, schooled partly in Lagos, Enugu and London, made friends and dated fine and ugly, both younger and older than me, so it is hard to say that i have been meeting only the wrong people.

I was 1/2 a day old and she was 27yrs, it was my birthday!

If u want to keep your guy (to the married ones), be available, be attractive, be sexy, and make him realise he's important, he's kind, he's the bomb, etc., not just the father of your kids.

True talk even for the unmarried ones!

I am a truth-telling naija man to the core, I just met a naija babe, a very silent member of nairaland too. I think online dating works in some cases, i have a good feeling about this one so i'm giving it a try.