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You really are RARE

Take her to God for checkups but stay with her

burst into a room with six naked babes,    They had better get some clothes on! cos i aint going out and i aint closing my eyez

IAH:
Oh Free, please remove the restrictions because I really want to hear what Whitelexi has to say.

Free:
lol girl, okay no restrictions!!!!
so ya'll men can come and talk now!!!

Kai! it looks like i'll be minsed meat if i talk, so i'll talk!
Naija girls need to learn to be romantic, relationships are not all about what the guy can offer and how his character is,   Us guys also value little things and take keen interest in how our women take care of us, 
No harm meant but naija girls are not caring and should not stand there discussing how romantic naija men are when compared with other men. I think the girls need to discuss how to develop themselves so that they are more appealing to their male counterparts

baby4u2:
i think if u ask most guys here if they preferred a girl asking them out, the answer might be no. its a guys thing, there better at it, and its part of the stress they have to go through before we go through ours as girlfriends and wife's, why then should we stress. am not good at it and i wont even think of trying i just make sure i don't push away the guy i like.

kimba:
let me add,

I would really consider a girl that asks a guy out to be someone that has "guts", i mean "guts",

Okay, so @baby4u2 aint got guts?

Love aint no game! both parties end up missing out on some qualities that they'd've loved from the other person and there's no real evidence when u move on u'll find those same qualities in the new person so its a shame if true love is allowed to go un-noticed

Nigerians Romantic Lol

I dunno if this thread was put up specifically for me and i wonder why i havent seen this uptill now, cos i have a full bag of negative and malicious thoughts about previous experiences with naija women to let out, but then again, the thread forbids such so, maybe i'll pass for now.

If u want us guyz to come out with anything then dont put any restrictions on the thread, maybe, we'll feel free to speak our minds out.

Naija babes Dont expect that much from them, try approaching the ones u like but my humble advice is that u shouldn't go waiting for them to make the first move, the achievers amongst them will try, but then again, thats just like 0.00000000000000000000000000000000001/2%

A good guy will feel guilty while cheating but will cheat when u dont love him as much as he loves u, a bad guy will cheat without any remorse as an attitude, just to get laid

So when ur guy cheats, just take it that some other girl was giving him alot more than u would ordinarily have, it doesnt mean he loves her more, he may not even love her one bit but she just fills up a space which u ought to have filled.

Definitely cheating!

Girls dont like to admit that a girl can also cheat, My guy, ur girl is cheating big time and if u're blind enuff not to see that she's about to leave then i'll shed some light into it for u. She's got herself someone new who's probably working overtime to gain her full attention, she's feeling guilty cos she knows she's in the bad, but she's looking for a reason to call it quits and the more u go into her privacy, the more u give her what she's looking for. Forget all that bullcrap of spying and stuff, its all a cover-up and cannot explain all the calls and camoflaging of names and numbers and all that.
Its ur decision but trust me, i'll vanish into thin air if in that situation and wont even try to win her love anymore cos once someone breaches my trust, they'll never get a second chance!

still wish u the best of luck whichever way u go about it

There should be no bone in contention here, cute guyz know that they are cute, fine girlz know also that they are fine. In the same way a fine girl will show her beauty, cute guyz will also display their fine body and face with carvings, dressing, muscles and 6 packs everywhere.
The important fact is that not all peeps are the same cos some fine peeps will only associate with other fine peeps, others look for specific features, some are selective and others are not. Bottom line is that if a fine person will always have a small fault here or there which may or may not jell with their partner's needs. its either bad breath, body odour, attitude, drinking or smoking habit, casanova, anger prob, responsibility issues, the list is endless, God never gives it all to one person, Lucifer was a big blow!

So keep searching and hope to find a near perfect match

How do u do it? i mean, what do u do that pisses them off? I've had a couple of cases in the past when girls got pissed off at me cos i told them their ugly sides. You see, girls live a fairy tale life, they want to hear only nice and sweet things about themselves, but thats also a category of 'living the lie', i'd gladly look into comments made by total strangers about my attitudes and find ways of ammending them but thats not the case with girls and thats exactly why they fall into the wrong hands most of the time - cos playas will only tell u what u wanna hear and when its time to settle down, things get difficult cos even the girls realise at that time that they have some attitude problems, then u notice that they become really good church-goers!

In summary, all i'm trying to say is that if u really are good natured and respectful of the female folk, continue as u are, a good woman like u will find u out when u least expect it and such relationships never end, they last over thick and thin, over distances far and near, over illnesses and good health, over eternity.

Good luck in ur search.

All Naija women are not the same, u got that wrong from the very first statement. Many will hate to admit it but our girls at home have a better nurture and attitude when compared with others.
We dont like the lazy 'i cant be bothered' type of ladies that u get every other place. We love our devoted hardworking and respectful women in naija.
A naija man came to where i work to apply for a cleaners job and if u only heard his story, u'd spit and swear for his wife, she got the cops to throw him out for no reason, she took over all his wealth cos the order stopped him from stepping into his house or office - it was pathetic.
Another of my friends just returned from a trip to naija and told me his experience there, he said u wake up to well prepared food everyday, u r treated like a king with smiles all the way and so on, He hated having to return here but had to.

Yeah, I was just standing up for the good cute men in the world today, there are a lot of cases where cute guyz cheat but not all of them are like that. Its unfortunate and i sympatize with victims but not all fine boiz are bad. and I also had to do what i did cos the ladies in the house were castigating the cute guyz like they dont hold their heads higher cos they're good looking and all that, Guys have loads to offer if u r the type that understands, there's a secret to reaping these fruits but except u know ur man well, u wont know what that secret is.

A good wife material wont expect attention, instead she'll give enough of it.

You need to see what i've seen to understand that,  And some peeps may've noticed while others havent, I say it as it is! there's no reason to cover up for beauty by saying people have beautiful minds and that while some peeps are not fine they are finer in some other subtle ways or areas,  The thing is, if you're not fine, you're not fine! You may have the best heart in the whole world but if u worwor, u worwor.

Thats exactly how i see it,  Why wont those who are not so goodlooking not be nicer than the goodlooking? the answer is simple,  because thats their own way of gaining attention,  Why is it that the not so goodlooking are better xtians and church-goers? better in caring for a man? more homely? give better advice? Food for thought.

I don't think any girl is ugly. Just work on yourself and you'll look attractive.

Trust me, some girls are UGLY without remedy

I think cute guys should enjoy their looks as well because the female folk can't go one moment without looking into the mirror, even the not-so-good-looking ones do the same. A good looking girl is always on top of the world, right from how she walks to how she expects to be given attention, why should a guy not do the same? I just think therez a lil trace of envy in the whole picture
Cute guys are not always proud cheats because of their looks,  I also know for fact that girlz always want to associate with them but most times wait to meet them through their friend. they often try to get their friendz out of the way and snatch the guys,  It baffles me how they always turn around to say cute guys are cheats.

@Old Glory: Its okay, wasnt in any way angry or embarrassed at ur questions, besides i didnt know much about this myself, Thanks and best wishes too

You know, I will speak my mind on this issue
@my2cents: your head is correct!

I dont think i wanna do that, not even to date one whether tokunbo or indegene, I rather go home and marry a good girl.

I just asked a question and i'm having to answer questions in reply, 
you can read this http://www.ukvisas.gov.uk/servlet/Front?pagename=OpenMarket/Xcelerate/ShowPage&c=Page&cid=1018721068240

Hope this helps

But i'd really love to hear from someone who knows a bit about all it takes and perhaps the agencies that can help out.

Its actually of a 2yr duration for holiday makers who would love to work while on holiday, Its more like a residency permit and a working permit incorporated into one visa, Something like that.

In naija we caused an accident by kissing near the market place, taxi jammed one okada cos they were both looking at us, In jand, u dont need anyone to tell u cos everywhere and every other corner, peeps are doing worse things and nobody can bat an eyelid

hahaha, I demand absolutely total attention from my woman, The moment she loses it, I could fall victim of circumstances with another

Please all, does anyone have any knowledge of the working holiday visa? I have a friend in Nigeria who wants to come to the UK and wants to apply for the working Holiday visa, If u know the requirements or procedures or agencies that help or any valuable info in this regard, i'd really appreciate it.

no no no,men are dangerous men aint no need to trust them because they
are like dog

U got it wrong baby! Girls are sooooo damn annoying, and some are ssooooooo coool. I dont even wanna remember some, but I cant seem to forget one!

Personally, I don't like virgins,  They give me a guilty feeling after the whole thing that i wouldnt experience with someone who's more experienced, they'd probably go on and on about how painful it was and if there's something i loathe, its blood and it gets worse when it comes during or after sex.
Secondly, they've got no skills and just end up lying like a log,  Some of them can't even walk after sex, and when they try,  they look like okocha with a thigh injury

You know nowwww, we dont like beating around the bush too much, we say it as we see it.

Spare the Long gist, I know Naija babes as well as foreigners and the difference is tooooooooooooo clear

If u were a man, would u not flirt?

Fronting simply means to Misbehave, Generally