₦airaland Forum

For the Ladies:

Whats his problem? sit him down and talk with him, Guys hardly tell u everything bothering them but they let it out in bits and pieces or jokes, u have to be extra attentive to know all about ur man. Its not always easy to end a relationship especially when love's involved, but u can always work things out

For the Men:

I'm a man and i can tell u, sometimes its just so frustrating to stay with a particular woman because she brings u nothing but stress, she nags, she's rude, she's demanding, she's materialistic, she gets so annoying that u wonder what u were looking at when u started dating her in the first place!
But still, the women are humans and can change if they know what's hurting u, All it takes is some quiet time together, good dialogue and everything starts resolving slowly.

For Everyone:

Take it or leave it, u were attracted to each other in the first place and if u're already married, then u're left wit each other for life! the best way is not to fight a stranger or call it quits and expect to not be hurt, if u think u got ur revenge by leaving a man or woman who cheated, then u r wrong, all u did was give him/her his freedom to continue with the other person.
Everyone deserves a second chance but not many give it

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

biodun404:
God forbid it,i am going to ask from my family if i should go on or not or find out about her family background.if i hear that i am going to join the other onesn wherever they might be,I AM GONNARUN AWAY LIKE STYL-PLUS.

Like i said earlier, it takes balls

Are u in Luv or Lust?

Hmmmmm, This is very dicy, I cannot comment either

ofunne:
i really dnt kno why nigerian guys are complaining about findin it difficult 2 get a decent girl?i think its all their fault,she could even be right under your nose but you wont notice because u are busy lookin at d girl with d fine shape,sexy legs and stretch marks,fat,blemish free girl,u think dey are d best and u go after them,den when dey turn out 2 be what dey are not u start complaining and give all d ladies in nigeria d name[undecent].and plz 4 those guys that really dnt have anything 2 say except 2 say girls are useless and dey are not worth your time i suggest and advice that u, SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! okay,its not anybody's fault that u were being used and dumped.

It really isnt hard to see, things have changed and peeps have also changed, Its really unfortunate that this change has been for worse and keeps getting worse in the case of Nigerians!
I really dont pity anyone anymore like before cos we always cause our own probs.  No guy should complain about chicks cos there are really bad guys as well.

When ur face is smashed, u r finished, no more mkting
Better avoid smashing ur face first

truthfully:
@ Whitelexi
Y would u want to do such a thing U actually mean what u said? Don't u think it would be better if u take her 2 God n leave her there so He can help her?? it's easier said than done. U just wait til you're in that situation. I am sure u will move faster that the wind

Take her to God for checkups but stay with her

It takes a good heart, my brother, and Balls

Kai! it looks like i'll be minsed meat if i talk, so i'll talk!
Naija girls need to learn to be romantic, relationships are not all about what the guy can offer and how his character is,   Us guys also value little things and take keen interest in how our women take care of us, 
No harm meant but naija girls are not caring and should not stand there discussing how romantic naija men are when compared with other men. I think the girls need to discuss how to develop themselves so that they are more appealing to their male counterparts

Like i knew i'd be minsed meat right before i spoke,  but i think the complaints hold some water so i'll change that statement and like a good man that i am, apologize.  for all those who are or have been aggravated by the language, accept my sincere apology
What i should've said was that "Most" naija girls,
Apology accepted? yo wah

Stop playin

Am i missing something?

I sense an attraction! am i right or am i right?

Hips dont lie, Like shakira Only i dont see no hips

nikitareal:
maybe u shld learn 2 use the word some baby,because i am carrin n some others ladies are 2.good student

How caring can u get?

Indecision is a Big problem, I reckon if this was a guy, all the girlz in the forum will crucify him, but i think u need to stick with ur guy or else u'll most likely end up with ur guy's friend who'll never take u as seriously as ur guy cos he already knows how u left his friend, You'll probably cause a quarell btw two friends - thats if they're not very mature sha,
But either way its a bad thing to do cos in the end u lose what coulda been really good,

U neva know what u have till u lose it

When a good man cheats, the lady should blame herself because its as a result of her failures,  if the man is a bad man then she ought to look for someone else,  u don't blame the bad man because u chose him in the first place!

Its a naija babe's thing, but i'll say, it doesnt make u any more expensive or cheaper to say yes when u see good prospects, making shakara will only spoil everything. If u dont see a possiblity in dating the guy, simply say "NO" instead of leading him on in the name of shakara.

This is wonderful!!!

@Hotstepper: U said that like u've known me for long, All my friendz call me Lexi

Go natural dude, say hi, compliment her in one way or the other, ask a couple of intelligent questions and take it slow, get to know her well and pop the question

Its only in naija that where u meet a woman matters a lot!

I just didnt make out why everyone was looking at it from one end and not from both ends

@Scondy, Its the first time i've read from a respectable lady in this forum

You are soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo different from all the others!

I honestly think that the ladies should be blamed if a sister dates or marries her elder or younger sister's boyfriend of old. Such an act will only make both of them very vulnerable to so many issues amongst themselves but it still doesnt change the fact that it was their own decision

For guys that have very weak resistance, how do u say 'no' to a woman in luv with u? Even if u wanted to, you'd feel so self-centred, you know, its an open world and i can imagine being in such a situation, but it wont be easy to turn down someone who truly opens up to u, when u are single

Love is Blind, afterall, girls dont mind dating two brothers in turns

Doesnt sound very good but it will definitely work if the sisters understand each other

Wait and see if he'll smash the face, then call 999 if u are alive

I know boyz who are pathological womanizers, who are not even that good looking. I've asked them and all they say is that women love a man who will tell them what they wanna hear without regards for how true or false these are

Men get married cos its the right thing to do at a certain age. A man needs a companion, a friend just as God created it, unfortunately though, today we now have she-men who even now have balls
Thats not the way it was created by God

He already did Directly or indirectly