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PLS ENJOY UR SPINSTERHOOD, BUT IF IT GETS TOO LONG, U MIGHT END UP BEGGING MEN AND MAY REMAIN THAT WAY FOR EVER

Its an attitude Prob called Indecision

trust me dude, u don't want to know

Flirting is giving out Misleading Sexy signals, targeted towards a particular person or group of persons with the sole intention of generating attention from such acts; these sexy signals are not genuinely for relationship building but are usually used for leading the opposite sex on.

what if its not the boys,  just what if is it not worth re-analyzing the entire scenario since this is the second time, why not address the problem so it doesnt lead to a third time. it is always good to examine all possibilities b4 reaching a 'concensus ad idem'

My observation is: Love can never work without money for majority of naija babes oh! They rather remain single or follow aristo

If I talk now, they will kill me! So let me keep my mouth to myself

;d ;d ;d

@uCHE: WHY ARE UCHE'S SOOOOOOOO DAMN ANNOYING? DO U KNOW?

RADIO NIGERIA TEN, AM FM STEREO

Interesting! So looks now matter in a relationship Nice to meet someone with my kind of reasoning!

Nigerian men associate alot with nigerians but are really friendly with foreigners. I'm guessing he feels just as u feel but is also not trying to burden u with his feelings right now especially as he's never around. My advice: give him the green light and then wait and see his reaction. Give him some sign to show him that u will not run when he gathers the courage to express his love for u. It is very rare for a Nigerian man to spend so much time with a woman from a different culture when he has no intentions, but there again, some men are just like that.

give him a peck sometime, hug him longer than usual but dont say anything about a relationship, allow him come out with it cos u may give him the wrong impression if u dont.

Best of luck!

@OPAD: U r not alone oh, matter of fact, I'm into this one ocean-deep because i'm absolutely convinced that she's my type. It feels a lot better than the average relationship and as it stands right now, i cant call her 'cyber' at all. The distance is a real issue in times like this. 

ESHOOT!!!!
The only school that wanted to blow down the uni with a C4 Bomb, the only uni where teachers got shot in the mouth, the only school where clean babes had guns in their hand bags,

Myself for one, don't want to get married

No, spikedcylinder, Explode

Its his decision, if u know ur girl and u think she'll be faithful, enjoy, I fall into that category too. But u have to know ur girl well cos naija girls will dump u soooo hard if they find another who's loaded and willing to mingle
Thats the latest one in town now, They call them Aristos, married men who are looking to pay kool cash for fresh blooded small girls

Me that i'm in love at no sight nko

It must have been a complex, he felt too inferior for u, like u deserve better, and that he couldn't offer u what u deserved.
Listen girl, if u truly love him and have been with him for 2 yrs, then u should know how to get into the innermost part of his mind. You need to position urself to show him that he's ur choice and that u can handle the stress and even help him find a way out of the depression. If ur efforts dont yield any result, give it a lil while and move on, Perhaps he wasnt God's choice for u afterall, It could be really difficult, especially if he's found another person.

Guys can act stupid sometimes especially the highly influenceable ones, 2yrs down the drain, just like that!

What did u do to him? I dont quite understand why he'd call u up and tell u it was all over, is there something u have not mentioned? At the time, were u involved in any hanky-panky that he could have discovered secretly? cos some men find out something and its just too much they wont even discuss it with u, they just want u to go, not trying to make u look bad oh, but Pls meditate on these and let us know if anything could have happened without u noticing,

UNEC was kool but I think ESUT cannot be messed with

Its a pity that a country like nigeria is still in the third world, Obasanjo is no good to that country, and trust me, just as the 2003 election results were arranged, this one will also be arranged but finally, there will be ethnic and religious unrest as a result of this third term bid.
I feel ashamed of the fact that such greed exists within us. its such a bad thing, we should have foreigners begging for visas to visit us for holidays and so on, but the reverse is the case.  Most of these developed countries have nothing but funds from patronage from tourism and education, but they know how to tax and thats where they get their funds from, They monitor and protect their currency so well that its hard to imagine being too rich, Everyone is around the middle income, cos the richer u r the more tax u pay.

In naija its totally opposite. the rich dont pay tax and the poor are made to do so. its sad,

I really dunno what this site is turning into

Oya oh, women come and apply oh. LMAO, I don die!!!!

I dont believe this is still going on and on, Must be serious

Seconded!
Yansh is very Essential!!!

I'm starving right now!, wonder where i can get pounded yam and edika-ikong soup right now!

@halle: I feel u but i already got a real woman for a wifey

this thread reminds me of a very recent thread and its really funny how things come around and go around, next thing we're gonna hear is "oh she has not asked for too much!", spare me all that crap!

Power is nothing without control, I dont have anybody's pic on my phone

You know, now that i think about it, i wont be shocked if this were a joke email prepared by a girl and sent out to other girls on nairaland cos the tone of that mail sounds so feminine that it would be hard for a guy to come up with such

@skidoc how can u say calabar babes are not fine, when there is a selection of calabar babes that u don't find everywhere,  This selection is the bomb, they look wicked and hot, one good example would be ,   ,   ,  formar Miss Nigeria ,  ,  The actress,  I think it was Regina Askia now or wasnt it