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A 7 - 1 or 7 - 2 score should do nicely

Re: Nigerian Women Should Thank God That Nigerian Men Date And Marry Them.

True, True

izeek:
@uju
u mean the guy dumb. cos i sure say the girl no mean!

I think the girl lost out here, cos she would've gained even more if she didnt do what she did.

Ujujoan:
No need The girl mean oh!

Very harsh!  She's been stringing him on, he's been the fool in love and acted it clearly. I spoke with him at lunch time and he was like that he always knew what he was doing when he was spending cash, he doesn't feel she used his head, he was even gonna do a lot more if only she had made up her mind. . .  He said he kept telling her he was different but she has to come real close to him to understand he had a very nice personality, she was always keeping a distance at first, and giving him the impression she wasnt interested at all, but when he starts breaking away, she would start chasing him again - she would tell him that her decision is very close and so he'd hang on in there only to get disappointed again. . .  

I just think its not right for a girl to behave that way.

Ujujoan:
Thats why am doubting the story

For this dude, it was nearly love at first site, na him use him hand go buy wahala keep for him house. He saw her and immediately liked her, prior to this i didnt even know he could talk to a woman at random. From what i know, the girl even gave him a tough time when he was toasting her. . . She kept delaying until he decided to show her that if she's doubting his ability to take care of her, then she would have to think again. . . so he started spending like a mad man.

The girl saw that the money was readily available so she too started chopping and demanding, i think she went too far without giving an answer sha and he woke up from his slumber and was now wondering when she would make up her mind. . . That was what led to the conversation about when she would say yes. that was how he realised she didnt even have plans to date him until about 4yrs from now when she would be sure the pressure would be there to settle down.

Not a fake story oh, i would gladly give names but its not right.

follypimpi:
Mathematically

From the dude's point of view

Spending £ + Being Romantic + Longing for a Relationship + 6 months = No Sex

From the Girls view

No sex + Freedom (No Relationship) + Stalking + Prophecing publicly undying Love = More £/Spending

What a Irony !!

Is this further maths or advanced algebra?

oyinda.:
we don't know her man now haba. men are different/ have different characteristics

but at least we now know the trick on how to hold lexi down

You fink?

tboy1:
i.e she doesnt want to leave him because his dad is rich?

God bless u!

,amebo no1:
Thats why i asked, has he tried being harsh? walking her out of his life, publicly telling her off, when she comes to declare the loff infront of his guest

is he emotionally strict with her, or is he just a beans guy? has he taked her down in public? has he asked her publicly to stop stalking him, has he left her standing outside both in public and when she comes knocking at his place?

You could get arrested for being cruel to animals, let alone women too

tboy1:
Whitelexi u sure dis your friend's name is not whitelexi

trust me dude, i know the naija girl syndrome from a mile, i wont fall this badly - this guy is a top PDP man's son. . .  And he is actively involved in naija politics from this end so the cash is rolling in for him, but still does not warrant this sort of waste.

follypimpi:
Cant he pull up a restraining order on her ass??

follypimpi, u should know better dude - u live here.  This is a country where the govt licks the asses of women all-day everyday, it is extremely difficult to restrain her but she would restrain him in one phonecall

,amebo no1:
has he tried being harsh to her?

If he stays as much as 12hrs without calling her, his own phone will start ringing continuously until he answers - she doesn't care if he's at work, at home, with friends, or even far away from the mobile. . . The phone rings until the battery runs out. Recently, i downloaded an advanced call manager for his phone to allow him set a message and then block her numbers out but if she cannot get through to him on phone - expect her in 30 mins. If he's not at home, she just sits and waits for him - even in the rain!!!

Its a crazy situation.

@Uju, Izeek, Kevin, Ben:

This guy has been patient for 6months with her, he supports her, cares for her, gives her anything she requests - and she requests a lot too
The issue here is that the girl is eating her cake and still having it. The issue is she is not going to enter a relationship until she feels the need to settle down, but she would want to date, go out shopping and to places and events - and she doesnt expect to spend a penny on such trips. My guy has been petting this girl soooooooooo much, and i've always told him to curb it, its quite annoying.

In my own opinion, she's a typical example of london girls from naija, most of whom will prey on their men until he's broke then they move on. This guy has overdone romance in my view, he sends her surprise gifts, u name it. . .  I even nearly slapped him when he told me he sent her a rolex watch and jewellery with some roses, a box of chocs and a romantic card, everything came up to an alarming amount of money! All this and they were not even in a relationship!

Now all he does is regret the day he met her and wants to move on before she kills him finally

No dont listen to Sean or Oyinda.

Listen to Gabry, i couldn't have said it better

What would u do to a girl who will not date u cos she doesn't wanna have sex but wont leave u cos she's supposedly in love with u?
She's done with sex after her last bf let her down, but she wont be just a friend either cos she's in love with u.

This is my friend's dilemma: This girl disturbs him night and day with her incessant calls and unexpected visits, she has made it impossible for him to date other girls and has just ruined his last 2 potential relationships by confronting him and his guests and declaring her love for him in their presence. She wont have an open relationship either cos she considers that to be a form of cheating.

My friend says that he will not be punished because her previous bf's failed her, instead, he wants a complete relationship or they can just remain friends but she's not having any of it. . .

Any ideas?

Pls send this to the sexuality section before dem spoil us finish, haba

Dude, go out with the guys, get drunk, pull out your tooth, and then get married. . . When that hangover leaves you in the morning, you'll be just fine

Lol, welcome to the club
Well, i think he cant get over u, he's probably pissed that u seem to have gotten over him so easily. . .  Some people cannot break up and still remain friends, there's that immature unilateral cock-up that means they just cant live with being your ordinary friend after a break-up, they just have to quarel to feel the break-up is justified.  For such people, the best way out is to give them what they want and move on.

My advice to u is to confront him in anyway, be it face to face, by phone or email. . .  State your disappointment clearly and allow him rant, when thats done he wont stop telling people stuff about u but it will reduce drastically cos he knows that all hope has been dashed. You can then know which of your friends are for real because they will not even believe a word of what he says

for me, there are more reasons not to date them than to do so. . . But if u r talking about beauty, then i'll go for the miss world contestant, Adaeze Igwe - she has a mix of lovely skin and that facial look that can make you smile all day

Its alll overrrrrrrr!!!!!

Its almost over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HNIC:
5 odd minutes left!!!!!!

Make that 9 because they'll prolly get 4mins injury time

This is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo embarrassing for man-utd, i feel really sorry for my man utd friends

Even Giggs cant find the net

na wah ohhh

This season will be interesting ohhh

Oya, all ye intending Gunners, i'm taking orders now. . .  but this offer is limited

If they cant even score a penalty. . .  they are surely useless

davidylan:
lol the Man U fans are strangely quiet today, reality must be setting in that this side is not the same post- Ronaldo.

There is in-fighting. . .  When fans lose hope in their star players and their so-called highly rated manager, what do u think is happening?

wow, burnley have scored, damn!

19th minute? and they've managed to defend it till nearly half time

Man utd are in soup ohhhhhhhhh

TheSeeker:
Amaka, Oyinda and Gators are currently in a romantic war of who will date these two wonderfully handsome young men. It seems like a tight race, in your opinion, who do you think is best for who? Match up at least a couple and state reason(s) you think it'll be a good match.

PS: This is very serious as they've all confided in me to conduct this assessment research for them. Thank you. No insults please.

Btw, this thread is sequel to another that was made last night comparing these wonderful nairalanders.

Aha, nabbed

chiejik:
whitelexi are we writing JAMB question here what is your own for the matter?abi na you be the guy abi na the spokesman huuuuuuuuuuuuu

I'm merely trying to understand her claim, it has absolutely nothing to do with JAMB. She said one thing earlier, now she's saying another thing, and i'm merely trying to understand where she's coming from.
@Poster: first u said he called u for talks and asked u questions, now u say u asked him and he went away to think, and now he's back with answers and questions of his own.
I'm not a lawyer but my psychological side tells me u r not saying it all. If u need constructive advice then u should give just about enough info to create an accurate scenario in people's head, and not some story that in inconclusive.

uchesandy:
Dat we had issues doesnt mean i didnt contributed to it. he started it all. infacty, i was d one dat asked first if he is still interested in the rship owing to hw he was bhavin. he said he will get back to me for answers. watever sha, i ve decidede to take him off my mind, just praying to God to give me the grace or work tins out for me. all i need is to get busy wid mysef. i cant take cos of love and loose my integrity. he shud love me back as much as i love him.

Can u explain to me these two things:

1)How do u love him? pls give examples of how u show your love.
2)How do u expect him to love u back? Please also give examples of what u expect him to be doing.