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It is wrong 4 a lady to hit a man for whatever reason but should in case it happens,no matter how gentle a guy is,no body can take such.but to avoid trouble,the guy should just walk away cos if he should retaliate,then things go spoil.

metodman.wow ur baby is so cute.i know that such instances do occur but even at tha 4 a girl 2 go 2ru an abortion,she is putting herself in a risk.there shouldnt be sentiments.wot if she dies in the process,will the guy marry her dead body?out of pity?of coure not.

Youcan say that again.by James Hadley Chase.na tru talk u yarn.i follow u hold ground.

some things are not just right.if thus guy trusts you,he wont ask for ur p/w.this is insecurity.some guys sha.i wont advise u giv him sha.wot 4?ur boyfriend doesnt know dt some things are better left unknown so as no to give him hypertension.nways to avoid suspicion and to let him know dt u have nothin to hide,u can give him.nawao

Julian H,U are too wise.the fact that a guy got a girl pregnant does not mean that he should marry her.what if the girl had aborted for several other guys.of course some ladies would not even want to have the baby yet so its not like the guy is doing them a favour by allowing them abort the pregnancy.even there are some instances where the guy would not opt for abortion and the girl would insist on aborting it.for a girl to go 2ru an abortion knowing fully well the risk involved in it and that she is putting her life in a risk shows that she is strong enough to face the consequences since the guy did not perform the operation himself or forced her to do it,then she should bear the burden.she could as well decide to keep the baby even if the guy doesnt want the baby.so would u rather marry a devil who has aborted for u b4 out of pity or marry someone u realy love?

Why did the poster keep us in suspense now.pls continue.its interesting.

this is so funny.chei.things dey happen o

I think so too

i meant thrown decency into the winds

you are not even ashamed of urself.so u prefer a girl coming to sleep in ur house just to satisfy ur insatiable lust.i am happy the girl opened her eye on time to see that u dont love her and not to be used by you again.so u only miss her cos of the stuffs you do with her and not 4 love.beta create a hole in ur bed to Bleep.damn u guys ve turned decency into the winds.

my dear.it is not only nigerian men that cheat,it is general and not peculiar to any race.even nigerian men can still code and can still pretend to their wives that they care and take care of their children but oyibos no dey care.they can bring their girlfriends to their matrimonial beds and even invite their wives to join in the fun.they dont fucking care.no respect whatsoever.it wld be absurd and rare to see a nigerian man do that.the best is an hotel.

i knew it was over when i started seeing him with another girl.(in my dreams shao)

Why ask d question.what will u do.of course that is what any girl in her right senses wld do. u did the right thing.but u no try at all o.u suppose scatter the whole place.what a fool the guy is and he thinks he is smart.he must realy think u are a dummy.abeg 4get the yellow-gutted idiot.

that is good.i like ur spirit.

just maybe she wants to get back to u and the only way she feels she can is to make u feel u did smetin bad and u are at fault so dt u will feel sorry 4 her and take her back.its a trick,dont fall 4 it.

I cant afford to believe this, how will a reasonable woman want to get a divorce cos of a goddam car.i am

I quite agree wiht d poster.long courtships are better than short.people nowadays go into marriage wtout realy knowing the other party,,like what he does 4 a living,d kinda family he/she comes from,their likes/dislikes,the kinda disease running in the family,e.t.c.dey end up getting married and realize that dey no little or next to nothing about each other.d poster is right wn he said girls leave their long time b/f to go afta a millionaire dy just met.it happened 2 a girl i know who left a guy she had been datin for 6 yrs 4 a new guy who jst got bk 4rm yankee 2 get a wifey.d guy is fuckin loaded and my babe jst disharge de long time b/f fast fast and de yankee guy carry am go.d marriage dnt last 6months.believe me

once a mugu,always a mugu.mugus don ful nairaland o

No i cant marry an slowpoke.marry an slowpoke and give birth to slowpoke children?tufiakwa

sexyleamon.u dont quite get the drift.i am not saying my boyfriend wont believe me.of course he would.what i am saying is if i should tell him or not.he has a very bad temper and i know he is not going to take it lightly with him and that is why this is realy bothering me.

It is normal for every guy to be jealous.all guys are.but ur boyfriend's own is too extreme.sit him down and talk to him that u dont have any intention of cheating on him.cos it is gettin 2 mch.i mean dis guy wants to practically cut u off from the society by his jealousy.so talk to him.make him trust you.maybe wen u are together leave ur fone,dont hold on to it.leave it where he can easily pick it up.if u do this,he wil realize u dont ve anything to hide and stop it.i believe he can change.

HI everyone, in the house.i dont know what to do oh.i and my boyfriend have been going out for the past three years.he has this friend that he is always gisting me about that they were very close before the friend travelled out.he always says nice things about him and they talk evryday on phone.my boyfriend says they are best friends.i even talk with this guy anytime he calls him.
Recently,my boyfriend said this guy was coming home he was so happy and i was too looking 4ward to meeting this guy.when he came to my boyfriend's house,my boyfriend introduced us and i thought he was friendly,only for him to come to my boyfriend's house one day and started making passes at me while my boyfriend was in his room.i thought it was a joke af first but later realized it wasnt.i told this guy off immediately but he said we should make it a secret that we should have sex.i slapped him.if not for the fact that my boyfriend was running the bath,he would have heard the slap.the guy then started begging me not to tell my boyfriend that it was a mistake.i told him he was very stupid.
Though this happened 4days ago.i dont know if i should tell my boyfriend cos he is always bragging about him trusting his friend and dat he can leave him wt his wife.this is the person that wanted to sleep with me.my boyfriend likes him a lot,he would be so hearttbroken if i tell him this.but i feel i should still tell him.pls,i am confused.should i tell him or not?

There is nothing wrong in marrying her just cos she is asthmatic.when did asthma become Aids.its not like a dreaded disease if u realy love her.

why not

i would gladly tell him to go to hell and burn to ashes

In Naija,u hardly see wives that are older than their husbands cos it is a general belief that such husbands are being enslaved by their wives.and most parents are against it.though it is not always like that and it doesnt realy matter.it is love that matters.bt na naija we dey o.pple wld always talk.one year is not too much though but my advice i take ur time and do not rush.

can i?dt na jamb question o.i havent done it before bt one can never say never.it might still happen but not just anywhere o.

@steve4naija.i must confess.it happens to both sides cos i dont rily like my guy to be the outgoing type though he goes out a lot.its the nature of his work and i understand.but the reverse is the case with me.he doesnt like it when i go out patrying and all that.and we usually fight cos of this.

Simply insecurity.they know that the outgoing type may find other suitors and might end up dumping them

190.be there giving wrong advice