₦airaland Forum

iwaeda:
Omi Aye, another idol for India people to worship

my thoughts exactly

Righteousness89:
The Spirit of the antichrist is in a Haste to Strike !

He has taken hold of so many people all over the world and possessed them with all sorts of spirits..

He is well aware that there is no more time....

Unfortunately many seem not to be aware! Just like the days of Noah and Lot. Many are so involved with non-essentials and things that have no effect to their Eternity.

One day it would be like a movie, Many will still be involved in frivolities and non-essentials, only to begin to Hear that Millions have Suddenly Disappeared all over the World!

What a Glorious day it's Gonna be..

I can't wait to be with My FATHER in Heaven! What About You?

If you can't wait, do your needful

ForeThinker:
I will not beg you for your time or try to convince you to choose me, the world is too big and I have too much to offer.

This is not your WhatsApp to spite your gf

Yenefer:
Enemies of Nigeria, i pray to God one day u people, will take weapons and start fighting the NA.
Can't wrap my mind around, the NA fighting to protect this people. ungreatful Yahoo boys

30k don land, pele, you go dey alright

toffyz:
Her aunt said to her boss " you will get to know one day why men visits her"

From that statement, It's possible the victim is suffering from nymphomania.

A 20year old girl with a 2yr old child...speaks a lot about the victim.

I think the aunt has known who she is, that's why she's taking advantage of her and commercializing her unusual condition

Hope you read what you typed?

lailo:
watch ur comments on this topic bcs Jesus is on this platform and whatever u say will stand against u on the judgement day.#nosayinowarnu

So Jesus has a moniker on NL? Pls show me

Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT AND MY WIFE IS NOT THE DEVIL. I HAVE JUST BEEN UNFORTUNATE TO BECOME A VICTIM OF MATRIARCHY WHICH MANY MEN SUFFER ABROAD...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I finally succeeded and my family arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my inadequacies and reflect on them. I am now significantly calmer due to the determination to make my marriage better and as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me and the environment we find ourselves in. First thing she did on getting here was to cut of my entire family. She said she doesn't want to have anything to do with any of them anymore. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, as all she does is endless picture taking and editing for social media hyping. I know this might be due to the initial ''euphoria'' phase cos she is coming abroad to a big house, big car and having no limits on most things we used to manage back in Nigeria, and she thinks things are bread and butter. You would never think for a second that she is a married woman if you check her profiles on social media!

She has become even more toxic person than she ever was in Naija. Now very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, ever ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates with me as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with the constant noises from our house, and finally her threats have now tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for all the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no wan hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with the threats by constant calls to the police and other services, making spooky and baseless career ending accusations and allegations against me.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that she has signed up on dating sites and when I even caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that if I am convulsing like this over just a sex chat, she's waiting to see what I'd do when I see a man on top of her.

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them here hoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my citizenship and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

THE SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

UPDATE:

Divorce has now been filed. I also recently got lucky as I was able to secure a restraining order when she messed up again and hit me daring me to do my worst. I called the police and made a proper case and she was arrested. She has been banned from the house for a month. The police advised me to talk to my lawyer and extend indefinitely if I want to. I hope to get this done ASAP. The law here does not only protect women but also protects innocent men. All you need is patience and wisdom. Thank you all for your ideas. Still several hurdles to cross but I am on the winning side for now.

The part that you're on the winning side makes me super happy, you'll surely overcome if everything you said is really as is

Nice image laundering

I once had a similar experience in school, it ended terribly, run while you can useless child, omo ase

once you finish that apartment, she'll dump your ass

talking from experience, she's a leech

MistarT:
The best and surest adviser is the Holy Spirit, however with little knowledge about dreadlocks, there's a comma somewhere, if you have a child with dreads, prayerfully cut it, that is why most believers cut their children's hair before dedication, the words I write are not comprehendable with a carnal mind, they're spiritually discerned. God bless you.

Explain it properly and stop hiding behind spiritual veils, if you can't explain this, how do you win souls?

zoezoelogistics:
How can one create a virtual cc

sign up on the app, there's an option there

northvietnam:
IPOB propaganda machines at work ... there’s no outbreak anywhere in our state . Please gentle men and ladies , do disregard this fake news from the Enemies of the North/Nigeria


God bless Bauchi state
God bless Northern Nigeria
God bless Mohamed Buhari (OUR DARLING DADDY)
God bless Federal republic of Nigeria...

God bless all of us @ (Dealers of Dead meat and Cadavers of all kinds)

We Rise

God bless

I see what you did there , clown

open ALAT by wema, create a virtual cc, thank me later

good one

issokay, I'm impressed

continue jor

seriously? b*tch please

iyalaya anybody, make one useless thief come close, he'll find out why Jesus didn't jump from the mountain when the devil was testing him

congratulations are in order

typical

TheFacelessMan:


That is a ....

I killed one on a safari at the Kruger National Park.

You killed a turtle? they're an endangered species dude, never do that again please

Goddamn....

BASED ON YOUR STORY, I'M DISSATISFIED WITH YOU

Are you sure this isn't Nollywood, then your wife is called the "VIRTUOUS WOMAN"...

No apologies, you're insane and you don't deserve that family, you're evil man

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I care less about what the show, more concerned about the hello they provided, na person wey get variety dey worry about nutrition

donbachi:
People dat stole their way to riches don't help but makes mockery of the poor..only people blessed by GOD gives...one of them said she has 6 kids.na dat 10k dem go use survive till d lockdown end?and wat if the lockdown last for another 1 month.dino suppose give each of dem 100k..yes,he is dat rich.

He's a rich dude, arguably, he probably stole to the top, he may be seeking public attention as we all know he does without shame for clout, yeah he is that kinda man based on reports but seriously your opinion reeks of entitlement, at least he gave.

what about a suspended account that got suspended because of low earnings but high submission of proposals, can you do sth about it?

Great work, how is the learning curve and if you have materials, do share

radarada people

1willywilly:
Yorubas through FFK are calling for the death of Shekau.
BOKO Harem are not occupying any Yoruba Land, Why do Yorubas want them dead.
If Field Marshal Abubakar Shekau decide to strick Yoruba Land now, people please don't complain.
Bono Harams are Islamic Freedom Fighters who want to live their life and rule themselves in Islamic way.
Why are Yorubas in Nigeria Army love killing Bono Harem members that did them nothing.
To Field Marshal Abubakar Shekau , Yorubas want you dead by any means.

Your opinion reeks of a BH apologist, you should be ashamed of yourself

NaijaOlosho:


So all these while I thought there is civilization I. South West.

So these Yoruba people are this local and ignorant??

So where is the social distancing??
These people don't care about Covid 19 increase rate in Lagos

Ignorance is a disease

Because of social distancing, so I should sit while hoodlums Rob people?

Only those alive can perform social distancing, don't use your ignoramus to infect people