EDDYBABA01:


I really enjoy your YouTube channel imma going to subscribe right now!!

thank you

Albertone:
Whizqueen

Please i want to ask you a question/i need your advice.Can i PM??

Just seeing this. Message me on Instagram or Twitter @whiz_queen

2el:
I missed Whizqueen

Hey dear, what’s up?! It’s been a while, Do you use Instagram or Twitter?

xavuv:
Hey whizqueen, i have read your post in the diaries section.

I have a question tho, is it necessary for spouse and i to write ielts exam.

We r hoping it will be accepted & added when we eventually apply and also hoping it will increase our points/chances.

If you have the sufficient points to get ITA only the PA is required to write the language test.

Timijo:
@Whizqueen, please ignore those ones saying rubbish about your look. You are wonderfully and beautifully created by God. In fact, God did not create anyone to be ugly but we are the ones who coined the word "ugly" out of a mindset of inferiority complex. So, you look beautiful the way you are.

Thank you!

I’ve been on Nairaland long enough to know how these people reason. None of the responses so far moved me. If I’m confident in my looks enough to go on YouTube, who them be??

usfreshen:


I follow your YouTube page but I unsubscribe when I saw you using words like Bleep and sheet about Nigeria in one of your videos that’s why I unsubscribe cause Whether you like it or not Nigeria is home for you. This was where you made the cash you could use to facilitate your traveling.

It’s quite unfortunate you find my use of the f word distasteful but I use that word unapologetically to stress my point. You’re welcome to unsubscribe as well.

Naija is home everyday, good or bad my family are still there any it would never stop been home to me.

SweetJoystick:

Any shortcuts with block funds in account for the 6 months period?

Contact your family and friends for support

safarigirl:


Thanks so much sweetheart

I'm working towards Canada by next year. Once I've settled there, I will come to this same Nairaland and put up an Advert for a Husband, let me see if they will not drop their CVs.

Don’t forget to tag me on that thread. I’m happy to share. Best wishes on your immigration journey. It’s truly worth the stress!

safarigirl:

We know them well

Now that more of them are aware you live in Canada, expect more DMs. People that don't have shame, a highly impoverished lot.

If you want husband today, you will find on this thread. All this talk about being undesirable, is lies from the pit of hell. All they need is a promise of citizenship, and they will be calling you everything from iyawo to nwanyioma and mummy.

You’re fearlessly brutal ooo

Respect to you, you’re a legend on this platform. Your write ups and contents are amazing. I’ve learnt quite a lot from you just Incase you don’t know. Keep up the good work B

ovielistic:

tell them the truth..how much tax will you pay back from that money when you file tax..you are creating the impression that is awoof money.

See this one. I filed my taxes for 2019 and I worked only for 2 months. I got back over a thousand dollars as refund. It was credited in my account in less than a week. You know how long it takes for our govt to pay npower money

safarigirl:
as in
The nerve of these useless men to call the OP ugly, in reality, none of them can walk up to her to toast her. When Nigerian men know they cannot stand next to a woman, the next thing is to start insulting her looks.

My dear the matter weak me. The most disgusting thing is the same guys that are talking trash on here are the ones that sent me DMs already. All in the name of trying not to look vulnerable

greenandy:


Your first paragraph is enough to put decent people off:

if you are lonely because you can't find the right man to vibe with, better leave planet Earth, and go to settle in Jupiter.
In Jupiter, you can find the right man to vibe with.
Mtcheeeew. Building your fence so that no man can climb it.

If you understand English and you read clearly before jumping at your keyboard you’d see that was a generalization about lonely people

cotzywitzy:

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Well written. A question for you. What’s the best way to get to Canada?

It depends on your qualifications, age, adaptability, etc. Plenty programs are available you can check Travel sections for Details, my YouTube Channel or Canada.ca for guide

alphaNomega:


Since you've been to Canada, how many times have you gotten laid?

Every morning. It’s like coffee to me now Infact

HappyCanadian:

Please what do you mean by the bolded, kinda scared as I intend to go home and marry a clean Nigerian girl not so exposed.. I no want the ones wey don tear eyes finish

Things become different once they arrive in Canada. It has worked for some people tho. You can just ask your family to help you investigate the babe well and pray for God’s guidance as well.

bukatyne2:
@whizqueen:

I like your rebuttal; well thought and objective. The fact that you acknowledged that a lot of foreigner's interest in black women is more of a fetish and short-term was nice.

Like you, I also think Nigerian single men in diaspora are lonely too; they only have the edge of coming to Nigeria every December to fetch a new bride which unfortunately hasn't worked out well.

The paragraph below:



1. What do you mean by chasing marriage before a career?
2. Do you think this is the best situation for mother, father and child?
3. Why are you not open minded towards it?

1. A commenter advises that ladies should rather focus on getting married before a career. I beg to differ that perspective is just lame to me.
2. It depends on what they want for themselves. If you want a family then find a partner, if you want just a child get a donor or adopt one
3. I don’t like d1ldos

wunmi590:
@whizq ueen

Honestly, I wasn't expecting this so much fun, free mind expression in your write up, but believe me, I made sure I stayed glued to my laptop and finish what you wrote up there with smile and admiration.

The way you tackled the discussion and made your valid point without abusing anybody show the kind of heart you have, God bless you.

BTW: you write so good, and wish you success in your future endeavor and a good husband.

Thank you! Maybe I should start exploring a career in writing

ednut1:
If Nigerian guys can date other races or countries easily. Naija girls should be able to do. Same too na . Whizqueen is ya friend single. Mofe link up

Be like I would start looking towards those Indians now She is, if you G is sure why not

princealexndre:
well I see why he said You people are lonely, Someone that is not lonely cannot type all this story

Govt said we should stay at home and they would pay us $500 weekly. Please give me one reason why I should not have free time

toluxa1:
I was wondering where you are whi zqueen
My go ur side immediately I saw the other thread. As the guy come say many of them are doing YouTube video again, I say haaa

The guy get me with that YouTube line, my chest wan explode

Albertone:
Whizqueen is it true? Lol

Here’s my response https://www.nairaland.com/5783504/reply-chai-nigerian-girls-canada

Ayinke93:

@whizqu een, you are doing an amazing job and I admire you alot. Working on starting my immigration process already, sadly everything had to wait for know. All the best to you in Canada.

Thanks babe! I wish you all the best in your immigration journey. See you soon in Canada

HarunaWest:
Me am more Concerned about how you started the whole process and concluded..Was thinking to start this year Buh Corona brought it's own..The matter weak me

IRCC is still processing applications. If you have your documents ready, submit it. Go to travel section to learn the process or check my YouTube channel, like is on my post. Goodluck

If you want you can check out my YouTube Channel, I make videos on Life in Canada and immigrating to Canada, the process, the cost and available pathways

I made a video on YouTube with my friend regarding this subject. You can also check it out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRajob8KlJc

My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.

I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there.

Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.

Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected.

If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.

Generally, it is not advisable for women to focus on money too much n neglect marriage thinking she can always find marriage later. Such ideology can work for men n not women. It is good for women to locate marriage and start pursuing money with her husband than doing it alone

Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely