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debanj326:
I think 1997-2002 Corolla Models are far better than Camry 1997-2002 models.............My opinion

Teetopz:
good afternoon. A married man has been asking me out for a while now. He told me he is married and loves his wife so much but he wants a responsible girl outside his marriage to have fun with. He has promised to take care of me. He is very wealthy and his wife is from a very wealthy home. He has sent me money twice but I really do not have any intention of sleeping with him. He sent me his nude pictures and also said he doesn't like sex with condoms, that we are going to have sex without protection. I have all our conversations on my phone including his nudes.The problem is I really need 500k for something and I know he has the money, I asked him for help and he gave me a condition. He said I must come sleep with him before getting a dime from him. I already promised myself never to sleep with a married man. I spoke to my friend about it and she advised me to threaten him with the chat and his nudes and if he doesn't bring the money I should release the chat to his wife first, before releasing his nude pictures to bloggers only if he doesn't want to cooperate. Please I need advise, I'm scared. Should go ahead with this plan or just forget about him?

mhizsuzzy:
Well my own piece....I had a male bestie.... though it was kul as u guys relate wella wella....I had no bf then and he had a gf....We flow better compared to with his gf....But the truth is that at a point my feelings for him began to loom a great heap but didnt realise until i always wanted to be with him almost all the time....

Why all these jargons up there....I am not scared of her having a male bestie but nurturing a lot of feelings for him and if care is not taken they may end up sleeping with each other.....You have to discuss it with her... Although I had to create a limit or boundary to our friendship cos I noticed it was mind draining hoping that something may work out soon....Pls if she is not willing to let go of him biko leave her... as far as that bestie figure is still in the picture you always come after him...

BearHugss:
He lasts more than 20 minutes and i still don't.......

IamaNigerianGuy:
Many wrong responses here all predicated on you selling your dignity because the economic situation in the country is bad.

A job is an agreement to trade your skills and time for emolument. If you are working free then you don't have a job.
The probationary period is to allow for time to prove that there is a fit between you and the company without legally committing either party. It does not include working for free.

Any good manager should know that an entry level staffer will need funds and should be supported as much as possible. That is why big companies grant clothing, housing, transport and other allowances. Not all companies are equally buoyant but that should not be used as an excuse for maltreating staff.
The issue here as I see it, is not allowances, but that they are not even prepared to pay you a salary.

Based on my personal experience in, and observation of the Nigerian work space, I can assure you that any organization that can ask this of you, will unpleasantly surprise you in the future. In fact, I can guarantee it.

Go back to the MD or HR. Explain to him that your financial situation will not permit you to work for free. Gauge his / her response. It will give you a guide as to what to expect from the company.

In the final analysis, it's your decision whether to accept or reject the 'offer'. Perhaps there are peculiar advantages to be gained or skills to be acquired from this arrangement. If so, you can bend the arrangement to work to your advantage.

Good luck.

chillychill:
you don't girls sha she will stylishly enta ur life before u no it.. Lry her no ur stand now so dat ull b free from d bitch.

galaxi:
You have to understand that choice differs,
Now we are talking about a 4bedroom bungalor all suite which means 5 toilets and may even occupy larger land space that may increase the cost of roofing if the same roofing sheet used for your friend is used.
I have spent above 10m on my 4bedroom bungalor (including fencing) and i still need 4m to complete it.
OP Do not mind people telling you 5m will be enough,for moderate finishing you need atleast 9m! I started my project last month and its 70% completed and i supervised it myself.

mamadsquare:
Is his school not offering any holiday coaching in preparation for next term?
To answer your question, if you can afford it, get a good computer programmer to teach him from the basics, or get a language instructor to coach him in a foreign language like French, German, Spanish and the likes.
The above may not seem like vocations, but the typical nigerian vocational training centre may not be very suitable for a 6 year old. If you do find a good centre however, what are the hobbies your child has expressed, say cooking, decoration, photography, sketching and drawing, playing instruments and so on, that should guide you on what to enrol him for.
Hope this helps.

tomi87014:
Hello Nairalanders.

I have been married for a year and half. I thought hubby and i have been living happily and i would've swore he was faithful. A few days ago i saw that a random lady messaged him on Facebook and they got talking. I was shocked at first to see that he was chatting her up. Fast forward to yesterday I checked his phone and saw that himself and the lady had more conversation and what started as facebook chat had progressed from phone calls to whatsapp chat. The content of their chat seems they were eventually planning to hook up.

I confronted hubby but he wasn't remorseful and told me he doesn't owe me faithfulness and went on to sleep in the other room. Hubby and I pray together and are looking towards a very bright future together, this is not something i really saw coming from him. I am very troubled in my heart and pregnant for our first baby. He dozent feel any atom of pity that the whole issue might cause me problems and I have been wondering what has come over him. I am 100 percent faithful to my hubby and want the union to work out. I am at work typing and holding back tears. Please i need advise from mature people in the house, how do i deal with the situation. I am in my late 20s, he is in his late 30s.

idu1:
RIP sir.








But what makes him leave the post where he had enough cover for himself and adequate advantage to kill those thieves is what I still don't get.

greyboy5000:
Ibadan is surely beautiful than most people here think it is
And it has a lot of diversity than most people think
Ibadan have more hausa population than most cities in the southeast mostly in bodija akinyele ojo ringroad sabo area
Ibadan also have a large ibo population mosyly in dudge eleyele ring road area
Ibadan also have a large number of people from today's Edo and delta state because Ibadan was the capital of western region when those state were part of it
Ibadan have 11 local government
Ibadan supply a large percent of biscuits eaten across Nigeria largely due to the location of Yale and ok busciuts in Ibadan
Ibadan also house many other factories like P&G, British American tobacco, Nigerian bewerries, Nigerian botteling company among others

cheapgoals:


Aderibigbe Hamzat chukwuka. Civil engineering . OAU. Honda baby boy (Tokunbo) $ 2800


Educational time to pay off car : 28 years with confirm hustling..

Guy!!!!! You go kee person with this your post. Buh thats the truth sha.



It is well

Locked:
2006 Toyota Highlander 3.8m
2007 Toyota Highlander 4m

2007 Toyota Rav4 4.2m
2008 Toyota Rav4 4.5m

Piercedclit:
I agree with the op.
The ratio at which married men to women cheat is almost at par. The difference is secrecy.
Women are more coded and would most times or never, flaunt it unlike a man who sees cheating with other women as a quest to conquer or some sort of ego thing.

I have seen things sha. Hmmmmm!

OCTAVO:
Stab needed, how do we transact? Hope you have receipt?