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TBH I do not see building house for rent as means of profitable investment unless you live in places like Abuja or Lagos where rent is high or you want to build to sell. Building will naturally tie your money down and may take as long as 20yrs to return your capital while same amount could have been trippled if channeled into another business.

However, there are pros and cons. Building give some level of guarantee to your investment as any other business may flop while you building will remain there.

Sorry I am not much of a writer but I hope you get my point. I wish you all the best in your decision making.

tyup:


well in my own opinion, I think Oyo state in general is one wonder land that's blessed of all gods n God, a state I'd love to make a second home

Not many people know this. I have heard about calabar and Uyo, so I want to check before my final conclusion... Oyo state is peace.

walosky:
OP ABI Blogger sef na wah!


Your English and write up worry o


If still could not fathom how he was killed or what caused his death




What kind of altercation did they have or simply , what made him stab him

This World sef tire person

You are very correct, half baked news..

Gayatri:
I do not know how to start this but i will write as it comes... I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in march this year.. I was so commited in it like naturally when im dating, i DO NOT notice other guys and i DO NOT ask my boyfriend for financial assistance because i feel im not his responsibility,, what i do appreciate mostly were little things like, chatting, kindness, hugs, opening and closing of doors for me,, just little things, coz i adore them so much.. But anyway it ended.. And i vowed never to date again come what may.. During the break up process, all my friends (guys, hardly have a girlfriend) were there to help me pull through.. Calls and texts constantly because, according to them, they knew my type, thus the help.. Funny enough, i never got attracted to any of them (even the ones that initially asked me out when my friendship with them was fresh) and im not the sex sex type to just fall for any to satisfy my desire.. Though i got advice from neighbours to find someone else than staying alone, i said no especially as i am a loner but a happy loner.. I keep myself busy with work or any stuff that makes me happy.

Fine, two months later (june), some guy reached out to me even as he knew he's got a girlfriend, whixh according to him later, they were in an open relationship.. He stays in oshogbo, his girl stays in kaduna while im in sagamu..Before then, he reached out online by first stalking me on facebook (even though we did same online business), after a while he got talking with me.. At first, i was harsh, very harsh to him but he never minded.. At a point i stopped talking to him.. A month later he reached out again, asking if we were still friends.. I was like yeah, not nice to him at all but he was patient with me..

From mid-july we started talking well as friends, he was very open as i was to him. We flowed well that things were happening to us coincidentally.. Whenever he yawns, i do at my place, if im having a scratch, he does too.. There was just plenty of this connection that we never got tired of each other.. In the procesa of our been honest, he told me about his girl and how she was still keeping her ex and all whatnots... I didnt feel any iota of jealousy because i had not feelings for him yet.. I asked to talk things through with his girl and he says well if she gave the chance.. So laters, by august, september,october, feelings grew.. He got so fond of me... According to him, he has not seen my type before.. Fine! During my birthday, he wanted to do something for me, i said no, then two weeks to his birthday in nov, he asked that i visit him at their family house, that i did..

What struck me most was how the elder brother (married) took care of me... I was not allowed to do nothing.. The brother even cooked for me.. God, it made me fall more for the family.. The kind gestures i have never experienced in my life.. There are kindnesses but there is kindness, the real one.. I felt it.. Every thing that i want in a man, those little things, this guy has them all.. According to him, it baffles him that with the little he shows me, i do not take for granted even before he told me he's having a girl..

When i returned home, we continued our normal talks and he then said, that his girlfriend would be visiting during his birthday.. At that point i went silent.. (Meanwhile he met his girl this year but before me, also during her break up).. He was unhappy that i displayed this little jealousy.. So he says he has not broken up with his girl to start a new relationship and he is hurting that he is hurting me.. He's got feelings for me but he loves his girl.. So i said i was going walk, even though i never meant it, twas hard to even say that but i had to and he says no... That he's become so attached to me even his family thinks he's dating me.. That he controls his feelings for me, could i do same and i said no.. I could not be friends with him when i know that feelings are involved.. Finally, we came to terms to just flow with things since he was not engaged or married to her.. Even so, this guy just lost his job and he says unlike his girl, im the one pushing him to have something doing, he says i help him alot but i wouldnt know.. So we continued to let the whole feelings to flow until last week, when with my help, he was called for an interview in lagos..

As usual we talked and i wished him well.. I always pray for him.. In lagos, we talked well until the third day, our communication changed and before it did, my heart was literally aching, so i knew something was wrong.. I called to know why but he was telling me that he'd let me in when he got back to oshogbo, which he did.. He said his girlfriend who was having something to do with her ex, called him and wanted to settle things with him.. But the truth is, because this lady already had his facebook password when they were together in kadauna, she 3 days before her birthday on the 8th of this month wanted to know why her boyfriend was no longer perturbed over her behaviour, so she saw my chats with the guy and decided to do something,,, this now pushed to talk things out with the bf and apologise to him.. Then she asked him if anything was going on between is and he said no.. That we just friends,close friends.. He lied to her but opens up to me.. He says he doesnt want the girl to ask him to cut me off totally.. So the whole thing got him confused.. He says he's never double dated and he isnt happy that he's hurting me and im taking it... I asked him again if i should walk and he says no.. He does not want to lose me and i do not want to lose him either but i want to prove my love for him so that he one day sees that the girl, probably loves him but she's got no integrity.. And i purely love him.. But because i respect his relationship, i CAN NOT TELL HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER but wanting him to see things himself but the question is for how long.. He says they are working things out now but he doesnt want to lose me esp as a friend... Difficult.. Out of God knows what, we agreed to let things flow since i will respect his relationship, like whenever his girl is around, i should make him believe that i will be fine.. Now, he isnt happy because he said if he hadnt met the gf, he'd have gone ahead to date me.. For me, i cannot sleep, ive been typing this since God knows when and this is 3:36am.. Since he is confused now, please people, friends, family, can i use love to make him see the difference between his girl and me.. He loves his girl, he is controlling his feelings for me and afraid to let it grow because he knows we'd bond, while my feelings toward him is real.. Money has not been involved in this.. We are 6months now.. I believe in true love and that it does not come easy.. Talk to me Y'll because i have no parents to talk to,, i would have talked to my mum now but she isnt here... I want to win with true love.. I turned 27 this past november and he turned 30 same november.. Thank You and God bless..

In case you see this, you seem like a really good and that is why I will talk to you like this... Please dont do the fighting for love thing, it will not help your situation. I know you love him now but you need to let him show his commitment of love to you. How do you do that? It is a test and validation at the same time, what I will advice you do is to gradually withdraw from him, reduce talk or chat with him gradully. Let him notice your gradual withdrawal and if he ask you, frankly tell him that you can not continue to live in denial and you are not getting younger so you have to have a serious man for yourself(say it even if you don't mean it). Then watch him do the fighting and decision making for your love if he truly loves you, but if he does not do the fighting then you already have your answer that he definitely loves if girlfriend more than he loves you and he will rather loose you than loosing her. I really wish you all the best mate. I am guy and I can tell you we always know what we want, the confusion story na wash...

german89:
Kai Dubai for a lady get k leg oh. But anyhow shall pray before coming, pray da God shall make people to go out of their ways to Favour. Bring food stuff, few clothes, get a bus card once u arrive here, don't be fast to pay any agent without confirming d job. BSc holder, legalize ur cert before coming here. And for a better pay/job if u have sum cash u can go for a 3-6months certificate class either in the field of education/teaching or health.. Definitely u gonna secure job after by His grace. PLZ LET UR EXPECTATIONS BE LESS. Bed space from 50k a month and above. I wish u well my dear.

This is one of the most helpful advice for her, thank you..

@ OP I understand these points you made for a crush but these are not too much for someone I love, I can even do more but children here won't understand so make I just waka pass..

PLEASE DON'T DATE HIM IN CASE YOU SEE THIS... Date him ONLY if you can accept verbal abuse and domineering behaviour for the rest of your life because he won't change. FORGET PEOPLE SAYING NO ONE IS PERFECT BLA BLA, some baggages are too big to handle in marriage.

Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

@ OP please don't listen to some of this people telling you marriage is not important, as matter of fact it is very important to me. The love, the affection, the shoulder to lean on, the time to laugh and enjoy the serenity of nature,the happy children, the family fun just too many to count. I want to enjoy all of that because I cherish it.

So by all means, look for love and don't settle for less.

nobone:
I really need this washing machine especially the twin tub. My hand have seen nwii... Everyday washing no sun.....

Why are you washing everyday na? you could wash every weekend instead.

poshestmina:
Emotional scar.
Growing up in a violent and bitter atmosphere.

Parents always at each other's neck ,new day,new wahala.
I remember days my dad chased us out with cutlass,locked us out, threatened to burn my senior siblings certificates, starved us ,beat up my mom right before us. and she didn't want to leave because of us and zero finances.

The only escape route was getting admission and leaving the house .I barely visited home all through my school days and my family house was less than 500 naira to and fro.

Left for service and never looked back (on very FEW occasions) till it was time for me to marry.

I'd rather raise happy kids as a single mother than having my kids(s) go through the hell I came from.
He's old now and we take care of both of them .
But no LOVE whatsoever! .
Just paying him back for at least sponsoring our education .
Nothing more!

let it go ma and forgive him for your peace. some of us had worse but we are not bold to talk about it like you did.

Ejanla07:
If dis story is true
Go to your dads village find out the people who don't like him..

Go to his village financially induce people they will sonf

Op please try this one and very carefully, dont rush. take it step by step.

OP ..So sorry for you are going through at the moment, I really can't imagine your pain. I realized you are curious for a lot of answers and maybe vulnerable at moment. Please I beg you to be very careful especially people you may meet from here. Not all of them are really sincerely ready to find answer with you. Stay woke..

I pray God help me find a closure very soon.

Naija246:
This is what happens when you forfeit your freedom to a woman all in the name of marriage.

I will keep preaching this;men are doing Women a huge favor by marrying them.
The benefits of single life to a man outweighs any pros marriage offers.

We live in a world where sex is so cheap and readily available so I don't know why a full grown man will open his two eyes and decide to be a woman's workhorse ... slaving away at some job that he probably hates while she sleeps at home eating, getting fat and watching TV


This man is probably innocent!

Stop misleading innocent people, marriage is a good institution....... the fact that it does not work for you or your parent which is not our fault is not enough reason to condemn the beautiful institution. You must be a product of broken home or bad marriage. My parent are married till their old age and I cherish the love that exist between them. I can't imagine growing without one of them. I won't say no more, STOP this blasphemous comment about marriage.

Please I need a decent 2bed room flat in an decentestate with security and good water. Budget is 600k and location is lugbe.

I hope all of you commenting understands the hausa and arabic or you are basing your comment on what the blogger(who also copied from someone that copied from another someone that does not understand the language) has said.

bellong:
If you read the assessing authority's website, you will answers to your questions.

@bellong All I can say is you are a good man regardless of anything. God bless you.

applepiepr:
Hello All,

Just want to express my gratitude to everyone who helped out when I needed clarity (bellong, chidike). I am happy to announce that I got my 189 visa grant today June 19, 2019.

To encourage everyone, here is my timeline:

EOI: Nov 8, 2018
Invite: Nov 9, 2018
Lodged: Jan 8, 2019
CO Contact: Apr 5, 2019
Responded to CO: Apr 21, 2019
Grant: Jun 19, 2019

Wish all my comrades good luck pursuing your dreams and God almighty we'll grant you favour.

Aussy...am on my way o.....I beg prepare the ground for my arrival.

Congrats bro

@Tee79 God bless you, I tried checking the requirement for 190 & 489 visa for TAS,NT & VIC and it includes having a job offer before the visa can be granted. How can I do this?

Tee79:
1. You cannot include your brother as he is over 18

2. Subclass 190 is still very much around, if you meet up with the requirements of the state nominating for 190 then go for it. You can create EOI for 190 and for 489 for states nominating your anzsco code.

Please help me to answer these question, it's is very urgent. Can someone guide me through completing the EOI as I do not want to make mistakes.

whodeyhere:
FAM, kindly help me with the below questions. My backround is, I have assessment done as professional engineer(mechanical),awaiting English result. I tried to draft EOI but i have the following questions:

1. I have a family of 5(myself, wife & 3children), I am considering including my kid bro who is 25yrs, thereby making my family size to be 6 - Is there any implication to this?

2. I hardly hear people talk about subclass 190, is it not available anymore? - I am considering getting the 5point or would you advise I should just do 489.

3. TAS,VIC, NT and NSW are nominating 190 and 489(except NSW), kindly help with advice based on your experiment which of these region is better for me as an Engineer.

Note I already have 55 points now, hoping to claim 20points in English. I need your best advice as your brother, epp me please.

@bellong @Alphadoor

FAM, kindly help me with the below questions. My backround is, I have assessment done as professional engineer(mechanical),awaiting English result. I tried to draft EOI but i have the following questions:

1. I have a family of 5(myself, wife & 3children), I am considering including my kid bro who is 25yrs, thereby making my family size to be 6 - Is there any implication to this?

2. I hardly hear people talk about subclass 190, is it not available anymore? - I am considering getting the 5point or would you advise I should just do 489.

3. TAS,VIC, NT and NSW are nominating 190 and 489(except NSW), kindly help with advice based on your experiment which of these region is better for me as an Engineer.

Note I already have 55 points now, hoping to claim 20points in English. I need your best advice as your brother, epp me please.

@bellong @Alphadoor

BKings:
Very big congrats bro. Does EA reduce work experience? Please I have sent you a PM I would need some guidance as I am presently on my CDR. Thanks brother

Hello,

tbh, I can't say for sure for EA, but I have read here where people complain vetasses reduced their work exp. I believe there is no reason for EA to reduce your work experience if you are able to prove beyond doubt by supplying evidences like ref letter, tax cert, pension stmt etc for the years.

DoDirtsLikeWorm:
Well...i suggest you Creates an E0I while waiting for the IELTs upgrade.
Although the next picks would be 11 of April, Grace differs and yours may come before you could scream Jack Robinson.

Thank you

I hope this will raise someone's spirit

I got a positive outcome as professional engineer from EA today.
Submitted on Jan 23rd, Austransaction paid without wasting time(he is very GOOD)
Request to rewrite 2 of career episodes, recent tax certificate and recent payslip on 14th Feb(this broke my heart after spending alot of time to be perfect with the career episodes)
Request submitted on 11th March
Positive outcome on 13th March.

All 9yrs of experience approved.

Next hurdle is English test.

I can authoritatively tell anyone who cares to listen that MOST OF THE NEWS ARE FAKE, I have driven in Ibadan to work this morning with no issues, most of my colleague drove from Iwo Road to the office this morning and they confirmed there was no problem at Iwo road. They however said there was a little ish yesterday and it was promptly curtailed with heavy military presence. God bless the great city of Ibadan. Live continues.

Hello my EA fam, kindly help me, I submitted application for EA MSA but got a response few days ago that I need to rewrite 2 of my career episodes, I have been trying to update it but do not know what to include.

I need help from any successful EA fam to help me review my career episode and advise where I might need to improve.

They also asked for original copy of my undergrad final year project report as one of my career episodes was based on it.

Nnesonia:
Kindly find the ink to the study materials below. All thanks to @Alphadoor

God bless you.

Nnesonia:
Pte materials seen I want to say thank you very much @ Alphadoor and the angel who helped me out God bless you.

Hello Bro, Please help with the material too, I need it badly abeg. You can paste here or send to giftonyeka321@gmail.com

Thanks i advance.