₦airaland Forum

Ugwumba:
most men do not want to live off women (the most difficult thing to do), most men engage in some harmless flirting (online, at work), most men would tell a lie when caught flirting, AND MOST MEN WOULD NOT EXPECT TO BE DIVORCED FOR THIS.[/b]

Is there really such a thing as harmless flirting? If it's really harmless, why the need to keep it under cover??

Anyway my view point is simple. If you don't want your house destroyed, don't mess with the foundation. You can't expect to mess continually with the foundation and wonder why the roof over your head is falling off. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. This Bolarge guy says he's lied many times, being caught with porn, etc, etc. He's obviously been messing with the foundation of his relationship for long, and now the roof is coming (or is about to come) down.

The way I see it, this guy is not truly repentant. He's scared of facing the reality of losing his wife. It seems like he only showed penitence after she started yapping with a divorce lawyer The wife probably knows this and refuses to be fooled this time . Abi, didn't someone say "once bitten twice shy"?

Ugwumba:
no mind the 'angels' on nairaland who have not;

1. flirted with other people even when in a relationship.
2. lied about it and got caught (okay, maybe a habitual liar).

look, the young man did bad enough to be suspended from 'bedmatics' for a while and punished with no 'allowee' (na wa for man wey de depend on woman for im daily akara).

BUT NOT DIVORCE, especially where a 1-year old child is involved.  

This oyibo land wey we dey done spoil the sanctity of the marriage institution finish.

Hmmmm, ugwumba did you just mention flirting and lies alongside sanctity of marriage?? Seems to me you have a funny idea of sanctity 'cos it should EXCLUDE flirting and lies.

The way I see it, sanctity is all inclusive. You marry and stay committed to the one you married. No flirting, no lies, no wandering hearts or eyes. That's sanctity. Marriage is a holy institution, and there should be nothing unholy in it , that's sanctity

Hey Millar guy, cut all this coincidence crap and don't try to mistify or read unnecessary meaning into stuff that just happens. Mention any date or time and you'll always find something that happened somewhere,

bottom line is are you guys in love? are you compatible? and importantly, is she ready for a meaningful relationship with you (seeing that she's still a teenager)

Dude, you no fine abeg go siddon somewhere  , don't even get me started on your big googles and big nose , What makes you think you're handsome sef

I'm thinking of buying UBA shares and can't seem to find any useful information about the company to make up my mind whether or not it is a good investment (forget their website, it is not investor-friendly).

Does anyone know anything about UBA? Is it a growth company? are they expanding and/or taking steps to improve market share? They claim to be the largest in Nigeria, is this true?

Guys, I need info. Just give me anything you have. And if you have any info about Afribank too, that would be welcome.

Dude, you deserve your slap o jare,  infact I'm surprised you didn't get more

You don't go insulting anyone, esp. when they're older than you or they're someone you have to refer to as aunt (whether step or not),  That's a pretty dumb thing to do for a straight A student

Hope you learnt your lesson.