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Romance15 Sign To Know If You Are Dating A Covert Prostitute (runs Girl). by wisdomguy4u(op): 3:44pm On May 09, 2015
There is still the danger of being conned by your beautiful girlfriend who could be a covert prostitute or have a history of indulging in it. There are certain signs that must be kept in mind to identify such women , because such women isn’t really the type you’d be looking for, especially when it comes to seeking loyalty within a relationship. Her loyalties are basically reserved for the highest bidder; and if you fail to bid consistently, you’ll lose her in the end.

Even women who haven’t prostituted themselves can exhibit these traits below. Technically they may not be prostitutes, but they still have a prostitute’s mind set. Essentially, they
prostitute themselves to their boyfriends or lovers for a period of time, as long as these men can afford them. This has led to the coinage of the term ‘covert
prostitution’ to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for sex. So here are some signs you must observe:


1. She despises poverty, and more so of men who have low paying jobs:
She easily get annoyed and abusive while dealing with poor men ( taxi driver, barrow pusher, e.t.c ). Her hatred of poverty reminds her of her own desperate circumstances at one time. Even though women are hypergamous by nature, most women don’t despise poor men as long as he is working to earn something. Prostitutes however see no ‘customer’ potential in such men.

2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you sex:
This type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great sex(they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less. When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). Sex now becomes a reward in the relationship.

3. She frequently uses the word Ashawo, slut and LovePeddler to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like:
If you have been to a brothel and observe where prostitutes quarrel or fight, one word you always hear them call themselves is "Ashawo" . This is because what they does in their life relives in their mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others.

4 . She openly tells you she doesn't trust her friends around you , but still doesn't want to leave them:
Birds of same feathers flies together. She gets upset and paranoid(ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends. She is only trying to protect her money making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business). To her friends she will be like "go get your own maga bitch".

5. She boasts and prides herself of her sexual skills and how men are attracted to her and also she is openly jealous of beautiful women:
She knew that the only thing she is good at is sex, and she will always brag about it , like how all her ex are still calling and begging her because of it. She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough you will also notice her envy against younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean.

6. She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is. ‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by prostitutes. A normal girl will rather tell
you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’ , when we all know she doesn't work or go to school during the weekend.

7. She is known by multiple names among people. Her guy friends call her with different names, or she asks you
to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple cell numbers.
If your "Chizzy" is called as "Rossy" by
some other guy and called as jessy by another, it means that those names are her work alias. Runs girls doesn’t want to be known by their real name to protect their identity. Multiple cell numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use.

8. you happen to find stuff like wigs of several colours, length and styles in her wardrobe:
Who carries or keeps stuff like that? Only experienced professionals. Wigs are to camouflage her identity when in club house or other places she normally hangout to catch potential clients.

9. You observe she has some tiny (razor-like) markings close to her vagina:
Professional runs girl ( just like professional armed robbers) often seek spiritual protections and prosperity in their work. This diabolical protection is mostly done by cutting a slight fresh close to the vagina, through which concoctions are insert. Some of this works like a charm in a man once you get in, you can't leave until you are milked dry, while some maybe for protection from ritualist , occultist e.t.c

10. She has a poor or average income, but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support.
Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?

11. She constantly reminds you of the things that she’s done for you:
Especially of the sex she provided for you. What else can she do for you except provide her ‘special’ orifices for you
on demand? For her you should be grateful for the skilled services she provided for you, since she has done a better job than what her competitors would her given you.

12. She berates and criticizes girls who date men below them in social and economic status:
You hear them say things like 'why on earth will a fine girl like that be dating that small ratchet boy'. Ask her what's her business, her business is that it's a waste of resources to see a poor guy digging that money making pot for free, when their are big men out there ready to pay for it.

13. She rates men on their income, social status and influence (disregarding character):
If she idolizes rich and ‘successful’ men of questionable character, it shows where her priorities lie. A little attention from such men is enough for her to pull down her panties for them.

14. In public even when she is with you, she still keep staring at other men:
Just as some guys (even when with their babes) still stares at other women butt (especially when it's bigger than their babes), that's same way a covert prostitute even when with her so called boyfriend stares at other guy she think are richer. The only different is that the she stares the potential maga straight into his eyes, and hoping the dude catches the gaze (signal)

15. She’s obsessed about money and excessively materialistic:
The classic prostitute mind set: she talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. This woman can easily be
seduced with offers of money, and sometimes even asks for it. She never refuses offers of cash gifts. Money will open her legs and give her gina tingles faster than any other thing.
Foreign AffairsRe: Tony Blair Wants Chuka Umunna To Be The Next Labour Leader by wisdomguy4u(m):
Mistermamus:
chiwetalu ejiofor nkor when he waz asked u are Nigerian his reply was no am a British-nigerian dey won't fully say or accept dey are Nigerian. buh indirectly hope u get my point.
Of course... A nigerian born and brought up in britain is a british-nigerian .
Foreign AffairsRe: Tony Blair Wants Chuka Umunna To Be The Next Labour Leader by wisdomguy4u(m): 11:07pm On May 08, 2015
Mistermamus:
diz 1 naw person ask am are u Nigerian? d speed e go use deny am ehn go shock d person sef.
Mere answering the name chuka umunna (igbo name) already signifies he accept to be a Nigerian.
Christianity EtcRe: You're Not A Tested Christian Until You Have Lived In The North - Pastor Adeboye by wisdomguy4u(m): 10:47pm On May 08, 2015
nagoma:
The so called pastor is angry because Jonathan lost the election. Division between north and south ( which they mischievously designate as Muslim vs Christian ) ensures their campaign of hatred continues.
They will miss the corrupt president who diverts the country's money to these fraudulent men.
You have a shallow mind .
Christianity EtcRe: You're Not A Tested Christian Until You Have Lived In The North - Pastor Adeboye by wisdomguy4u(m): 9:19pm On May 08, 2015
jnrbayano:
So if I have been tested to give up christianity in a life and death scenario elsewhere (in a location that is not North) I am not a tested christian?
The "North" there signifies "life and death scenario". Now go back to the pastor's tweet, remove the words ' live in the north' and replace it with 'been in a life and death scenario'. You got it now
Christianity EtcRe: You're Not A Tested Christian Until You Have Lived In The North - Pastor Adeboye by wisdomguy4u(m): 9:02pm On May 08, 2015
jnrbayano:
Does he know mine?

How can someone make such dumb statement? Who tests christians? is it Adeboye or God? how the hell would he tell God the location he should test his own followers?

I'm not in the North and I know I have been tested over and over again, same with other millions of christians that don't reside northwards.

Peoples brains go to sleep at the mention of some names.
I see you can only read things literally without thinking deep to get what meaning.. Let me help then.. The pastor is only trying to say that u can't know if u are strong as a christian until u are face with a life and death situation. He only use "North" bcus christians inda north often face such.
Christianity EtcRe: You're Not A Tested Christian Until You Have Lived In The North - Pastor Adeboye by wisdomguy4u(m): 8:56pm On May 08, 2015
ajalaolanr:
If this statement is truly credited to baba, then these are my questions and opinion.

Has Baba lived in the north in recent times , I really would have thought if truly it's about spreading the gospel and being like paul, baba should have relocated to Borno state by now.
... The pastor never said untested christians are not good christians. he is only saying that u can't know ur strength as a christian until u are face with a life or death situation.
Christianity EtcRe: You're Not A Tested Christian Until You Have Lived In The North - Pastor Adeboye by wisdomguy4u(m): 8:42pm On May 08, 2015
Freemanan:
You don't have to translate for him. I know what he is saying. Lemme work with your own translation now.... tested abi? SO, THE PASTORS IN THE NORTH HAVE HIGHER MIGHT.
O boy, u get low IQ , u better do sometin abt it.
Christianity EtcRe: You're Not A Tested Christian Until You Have Lived In The North - Pastor Adeboye by wisdomguy4u(m): 8:38pm On May 08, 2015
Freemanan:
If...If.... Adeboye really hold this belief then I am disappointed. So a soldier who has not been to the War front is less a soldier? Hmmmm
It's like u don't understand simple English. He never said 'less' a christian, he said 'Tested' christain. A soldier who have never been to the battle field is still not tested. This is how u pple change pple's words to make it look bad.
PoliticsRe: Four Nigerians Win British Parliament Seats by wisdomguy4u(m): 6:37pm On May 08, 2015
Ilekeh:
Igbos sabi make noise.

Yorubas have been leaders for years, but we don't make noise about it.


http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/6251094.stm
Mr. Man , go open a new thread with ur news, stop littering this beautiful thread with rubbish .
CrimeBreaking News: Three Students Killed, 20 Injured By Boko Haram by wisdomguy4u(op): 11:47am On May 08, 2015
Three students were killed with at least twenty others
injured when Boko Haram attacked
the college of Administrative and Business Study
( CABS), Potiskum in Yobe State.

Vanguard gathered the insurgents stormed the
school around 8:30am Friday.

A reliable source who witnessed the Book Haram
onslaught said, the insurgents numbering about five
armed with gun entered the school premises
through the main gate after killing the security guard
and open fire randomly on the innocent students
killing three of them in the process.

The source added that, one of the insurgents died as
a result of I.E.D strapped to his chest that exploded,
and injured over 20 students. As at the time of filling
this report, medical workers were busy evacuating
the injured victims. Meanwhile, the security have
step up their condoned search in Damaturu the state
capital and potiskum where the incident occurred.


www.vanguardngr.com/2015/05/breaking-news-three-students-killed-20-injured-as-boko-haram-attacks-yobe-school/

RomanceRe: If You Are The Bride, What Will You Do In This Scenario ? by wisdomguy4u(op): 11:15am On May 08, 2015
prettythicksme:
Na hot slap go land on d guy face then off my gown and walk away cheesy
Off your gown ni? As in walk away on naked. The show go sweet to watch o grin
RomanceRe: If You Are The Bride, What Will You Do In This Scenario ? by wisdomguy4u(op): 10:38am On May 08, 2015
Wedding don end be that..
RomanceIf You Are The Bride, What Will You Do In This Scenario ? by wisdomguy4u(op): 10:12am On May 08, 2015
On your wedding day, you caught your partner tapping current like this grin - what will you do?

This applies to both male and female .

PoliticsRe: Jonathan Deceived Ndigbo On2nd Niger Bridge, Ohanaeze Tells Buhari by wisdomguy4u(m): 8:13am On May 08, 2015
gbishman:
This Ndigbo people are so gullible and further still always on the wrong side of development.
Its quite shameful that every dick and harry takes them for a ride simply because they have no regard for themselves.
They are not united, strengthened, all opposing and near in alignment with the power that be.
They still cling to the phantomous notion that that Nigeria belongs to them
Hello peeps wake up and join the ban wagon
If nobody talk abt u , then u are a no body. We understand ur situation .
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Deceived Ndigbo On2nd Niger Bridge, Ohanaeze Tells Buhari by wisdomguy4u(m): 8:08am On May 08, 2015
SkyBlue1:
And you still supported him and gave him your lump vote, are you not a contradiction? Slowly, the myopia of bigotry is beginning to clear from the eyes to allow some people to see . . . When he was still fully in power he was the best thing since sliced bread and now he is a disappointment. This cowardly culture of sycophancy needs to stop, we need to learn how to be brave and tell our leaders the truth instead of this 'any where belle face' politics. It is called integrity.
Igbos are giving you sleepless night..., my candid advice for you is ' if you can't beat them, join them'. grin
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Deceived Ndigbo On2nd Niger Bridge, Ohanaeze Tells Buhari by wisdomguy4u(m): 8:00am On May 08, 2015
focus7:
One of the problem with the Igbos is that their voices are never one, while some go about identifying with new government to be install, we read yesterday of one of the leader berating those asking or begging Buhari for appointment for Igbos.
Do Tinubu and fayosha have one voice in political matters? Dis igbo u have in ur mouth everyday will choke u to death oneday.
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Running For British Parliamentary Seats by wisdomguy4u(m): 11:04pm On May 07, 2015
Since you love chest beating - I will put you lot where you belong. Unlike you lot the average Yoruba knows where home is (save for a few) and they're into dragging things with other people. The achieve greatness and let folks bestow things on them, based on their achievements - like the two Yorubas in the House of Lords, who were knighted without the need to contest for anything.

Let me shut you up with what I posted to another reta.rd from the same region yesterday:

When did Helen Grant become Igbo? She never knew who her father was, hence she bears he mother's maiden name. Ditto Chi Onwurah who never grew up with her father. Two dead-beat fathers shouldn't be a thing of pride (Helen Grant is not even Igbo). Regardless, at least the Yoruba ones are 100% black with both parents in their lives - but you had to pick three mixed race folks (one is not Igbo), just to massage ya non-existent ego. Claiming Helen Grant is like claiming Steven Woolfe of the UKIP party in the European Parliament - he's half-Nigerian as well.

Heck, even Ghana has more full Ghanaian (100% black) black MPs in the House of Commons than the mixed race folks you're crying everywhere about. And if Adam Afriyie, who's mixed is added to the list - then they should have one extra. grin

That said, let's check the names of Nigerians in the House of Lords [no common(ers)] who represent British nobility/royalty - the knighted ones.

- Baron Victor Adebowale.
- Baroness Lola Young.


They're both 100% black, with Yoruba parents. And they both align with everything black and African in the UK. Baroness Lola Young is always speaking about the black experience in the UK, championing causes to help the Afro-Caribbean society and she's the president of many black NGOs. Ditto Baron Victor Adebowale who's so proud of his blackness that he wears dreadlocks and works with disadvantaged black youths in the disadvantaged areas in the UK. Can you see difference now?

You will never see Yorubas blowing their own trumpet about these two, unlike you lot and the mods who have an agenda. Yorubas run the UK.
WTF! you type all this poo ? Bro That thing u are smoking is strong o grin
PoliticsRe: Thecable Apologises To Soyinka Over ‘Igbo’ Story by wisdomguy4u(m): 9:10pm On May 07, 2015
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Mumu is a person that swallow anything they read online without questions. That cap fits you. You guys should stop being paranoid. Most of your enemies are imaginary. Stop running please, no one is pursuing you
Adamumu grin
PoliticsRe: Thecable Apologises To Soyinka Over ‘Igbo’ Story by wisdomguy4u(m): 12:26pm On May 07, 2015
Bollinger:
Nope, I won't.
Then, do ur worst or go and die
PoliticsRe: Thecable Apologises To Soyinka Over ‘Igbo’ Story by wisdomguy4u(m): 11:21am On May 07, 2015
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Now where will the slowpokes of nairaland who insulted the great prof hide their shame? O, I forgot, they've got no shame.
Adamu you too dey mumu
PoliticsRe: Thecable Apologises To Soyinka Over ‘Igbo’ Story by wisdomguy4u(m): 11:17am On May 07, 2015
Bollinger:
Nairalanders and their inherently constant ability to jump into conclusions without using all of their faculties? did you witness how everybody was castigating the man?
Don't blame Nairalanders , blame the cable news . Who wouldn't react if his tribe was insult like that , plus some silly nairaland yoruba bigots where supporting the insult to provoke the insulted tribe the more. If you are in their shoes , you will react the same way .
Politics‘tom And Jerry’ Relationship Between Igbo And Yoruba by wisdomguy4u(op): 9:09pm On May 06, 2015
This was an article is written by AZUKA ONWUKA (picture below) on punch newspaper.




It is difficult to say if Igbo and Yoruba are friends or
enemies or merely tolerating each other. On the
surface, they seem to be friends, because you rarely
hear of any clashes or killings between the two in
over 100 years. People from the two ethnic groups
work together, live together, laugh together, worship together, and play together. Everything seems all right. Nobody wants to be seen as publicly making any comment seen as tribalistic or intolerant. But if you look deeper, there seems to be something you cannot truly place a finger on. It’s like a volcano waiting for the least provocation to erupt. It only needs an excerpt from Chinua Achebe’s There Was a Country to be made public, or for Governor Babatunde Fashola of Lagos to “deport” some Igbo to Onitsha for hell to be let loose. Commentators immediately line up behind their ethnic groups, releasing venom against the other side. Luckily, such altercations usually end in words and not in violent acts.

But on Nigerian online sites like the punchng.com
and others, where commentators can use
anonymous names, such fights are a daily affair, and they always get embarrassingly nasty. At such times, combatants throw caution to the wind and rake up gut-wrenching jibes dripping of hate and bordering on insanity. You wonder if the purveyors of such vitriol would feel at ease afterwards interacting with someone from the ethnic group they have maligned so viciously. Some see it as fun, but many don’t. They see it as a war that must be won at all costs.

Regrettably, Chief Obafemi Awolowo, Dr. Nnamdi
Azikiwe and Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu, whose direct and indirect action and inaction sowed the seed of hate and distrust between the Igbo and the Yoruba, have died without uprooting that dangerous plant or even denying it water and nutrients. Therefore, till this day, the Igbo and Yoruba still enjoy shooting at each other with accusations of betrayal, expansionism, hate, ingratitude, greed, as well as trying to prove that each ethnic group is superior to the other.
And it seems the contest for superiority is at the root of that frosty relationship. The Igbo and Yoruba are unarguably the most competitive in Nigeria. They are the ethnic groups that easily and forcefully ask for the removal of quota system in all national life. They believe that if things are done on merit, they will excel. The Igbo think that the Yoruba are the major competitors they have in Nigeria, while the Yoruba think that the Igbo are the key competitors they have in Nigeria.

This shows in almost all spheres of life. The Yoruba
had a head-start in western education because the
British colonialists and missionaries arrived on their land first. The Igbo, who resisted and rejected the British initially, eventually accepted them and thereby began a sprint to catch up with the Yoruba. And they succeeded.

Whatever the Igbo achieve, the Yoruba have an
answer to it, and whatever the Yoruba achieve the
Igbo have a response. So, if you have a Wole Soyinka from the South-West winning the first Nobel Prize for Literature in Africa, you have a Chinua Achebe from the South-East holding the record of the most popular and most-selling literary writer in Africa. If you have a Rangers International Football Club of Enugu shaking the Nigerian football scene in the 1970s and early 80s, you have the Shooting Stars Football Club of Ibadan shining brightly at the same period. If Rashidi Yekini is noted for scoring Nigeria’s first World Cup goal and being Nigeria’s all-time highest goal scorer, then Nwankwo Kanu boasts of being Nigeria’s most decorated footballer, while Austin Jay-Jay Okocha flaunts his status as Nigeria’s most glamorous and mesmerising footballer. If Genevieve Nnaji boasts of being named by Oprah Winfrey in 2009 among the most popular people in the world, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde will show off her name in TIME magazine’s most influential people of 2013. If P-Square and Flavour think they rock the music scene, D’Banj and Davido smash the charts. So, in all areas of life, the Igbo and the Yoruba are competing, and in the process boosting the nation’s economy and bringing glory to the nation. Yet, some inferiority-complex-afflicted people who feel threatened within each of the ethnic groups look for every excuse to spread hate among the two peoples.

My close study of the Igbo and the Yoruba makes me see them as the Germans and the French of Nigeria respectively. Even the Igbo language is like the German language in many respects. In German and Igbo, there are no silent words. Excluding a few
words in Germans which are sounded differently
from the way the English sound theirs (like “j” which
is pronounced like “y,” “w” which is pronounced as
“v,” etc), whatever you say in both languages is what
you write. For example, the “g” is always pronounced /g/ in Igbo and German and never as “j.” “Danke” and “obante” are pronounced as written. But in French and Yoruba, what you say may be different from how you write it. Some letters are either silent or semi-silent. For example, the Yoruba and the French would pronounce “san” as if it were “saw,” or “son,” but the Igbo and Germans would pronounce it /san/: exactly the way it is spelt. Also, the “h” is usually silent or glossed over in French and Yoruba: Hospital or Kehinde.

The Igbo and the German are bullish and technology-minded. They have fought and lost wars but staged successful comebacks in a short time. Conversely, the Yoruba and the French are subtle and supercilious, with good administrative skills, regaling in their years of history and culture.
A country that has such two success-driven ethnic
groups should be at a great advantage. The Yoruba
have been great hosts to the Igbo; and the Igbo have reciprocated by contributing immensely to the
building of Yoruba land, especially Lagos State,
including buying swamps at a high price and turning such places to residential or commercial estates. The sleepiness of Lagos during the Christmas-New Year period, when the Igbo usually travel home en masse, bears testimony to their contribution to making Lagos lively.

Just like the French always wish they could cut the
Germans to size, so do the Yoruba to the Igbo, but it
will never work. And just as the Germans always try
to flaunt their success at the French, so do the Igbo
do to the Yoruba, but it is completely pointless. The
Yoruba can never be like the Igbo, and the Igbo can
never be like the Yoruba. There is nothing the Yoruba can do to suppress the Igbo, neither is there anything the Igbo can do to suppress the Yoruba. Both of them can actually succeed without the other, but working closely together will be very beneficial to each of them as well as the nation.
The younger generations are forging greater ties,
despite the baggage of enmity the older generations
handed over to them. Working together, attending
church together and living together seem to have
increased the rate of marriage between the two
people. Most Sundays when I look at the church
bulletin, I see increasing higher number of banns of
marriage between Yoruba and Igbo people. These
days, it is common to see women whose names are
Temilade Amadi or Ngozi Adesanya because of
marriage. The ethnic barriers are being broken, even though ethnic jingoists continue to spread hate. Such hate speech and thoughts need to be stopped, for ethnic bloodshed or xenophobia does not burst out in one day.

Since the older generations are passing away without bringing these two great ethnic groups together, the onus is on those born after the Civil War to consciously take steps to bring the two ethnic groups together for their own good and for the good of the nation. It is high time this Tom and Jerry relationship between the two ethnic groups ended, for the good of both and the nation at large.




www.punchng.com/opinion/tom-and-jerry-relationship-between-igbo-and-yoruba/

RomanceRe: Is Your Boyfriend A Husband Material? 10 Ways To Find Out. by wisdomguy4u(op): 2:32pm On May 06, 2015
Decentdamsel:
Am I the first to comment?? Nice points Op
Nw I beg to take my leave
Pele, almost the FTC but you missed it. Try again letter. grin
RomanceIs Your Boyfriend A Husband Material? 10 Ways To Find Out. by wisdomguy4u(op): 2:22pm On May 06, 2015
what makes a man an ideal boyfriend and a perfect husband could be two entirely different things and after the excitement of the wedding has died
down, these differences could come to you as a rude surprise. So if you are considering walking down the aisle with your partner, here are a
few clues to tell you if a man is good husband material.


1. He does things that show he cares:
A caring, affectionate man is extremely important in a journey that is as unpredictable and long-term as
marriage. Look at his actions instead
of words for evidence that he cares –
for instance when you are out walking
in the evening and it gets chilly, does
he get up to bring a blanket or jacket
or seem oblivious to your shivering.
Also someone who is truly husband
material would watch out for you like
ensuring that you arrive safely on an
out-of-town trip or drop you home
after a late night outing instead of just
advising you to be careful. Most ladies mistake a caring man to be a man who lavish them with material things, most of this guy will oneday boost to you about how much they have spend on you and why you should worship them like your God.

2. He listens to you
Like really listen instead of putting on
that dazed look and occasionally
managing to come up with an “uh-
uh…yeah...that’s right” to show that
he is still alive. He will come back from work, take his bath , take his dinner , have sex with you and after that he goes straight to Nairaland, facebook or BBM, whatever you are saying after that is like a water being poured on a rock. At the other of the spectrum are guys who jump at the chance of lecturing or criticizing their partners the moment the latter try to share something with them. Such guys forget that women talk not
merely to seek advice or exchange
information but to share their thoughts and feelings – it’s how they connect with their partners and this is an extremely important requirement if you are looking at something substantial as marriage.

3. He shares his plans of his future with you:
Notice if a guy shares thoughts of his
future with you; he may not be explicitly talking of a future that includes you, but if he likes to discuss his hopes and wishes about life, work, putting down roots and so on, chances are that he is at a point in his life where he feels ready to marry. Moreso this is a good indication that he's also dreaming about you when it comes to marriage since guys do not
really discuss their future with women with whom they are not serious about.

4. He is financially secure:
Among the top signs that a man is not
marriage-worthy is when they live off
others – whether family members,
friends or partners. Having his own
place and car are signs that a guy is a
responsible adult and are not only
capable of taking care of himself but
also of providing for a family, which is
ultimately what women have been
hard-wired to look for in a potential
mate since the primitive times.

5. He is comfortable around your family:
If a guy is husband material, he will
make himself a part of your life and that of your family too. For instance when you invite him to a family function, he will readily agree whereas a guy not interested in marriage is more likely to hesitate and ask if he must go. Marriage has been traditionally seen as the joining
of two families, so a potential husband should respect that and exhibit a natural desire to spend time with the family he hopes to be a part of.

6. He has a work-life balance:
Not all successful men can make good husbands though – a guy may be rising up the corporate ladder with remarkable speed but in turn he may be less inclined to give time to his partner and family. Guys with potential for being great husbands are on the other hand driven and productive, but they value a balance
between work and life; their hard work is often motivated by the drive to build a foundation for, and ultimately help to provide for, a family.

7. He is emotionally available
Perhaps what differentiates a casual
fling from a meaningful relationship
is that in the latter, partners are there
for each other through thick and thin.
Men who are not emotionally available are not much use to you when you are trying to juggle work, home and a family and need the help of a partner. In this context a person who offers practical and emotional support is much more valuable as a life partner than someone who
agrees to be there only when it suits
him.

8. He respects you
Granted sexual chemistry is important in a fulfilling relationship, but marriage requires something deeper like mutual respect. If the guy is worthy of being a life partner, he will be ready to see you and respect you as an individual with a mind and not just a means of making out. It has been a long and hard struggle for women to be accepted as equals,
both in society as well as in personal
relationships and this self-respect is
not something that you should be
willing to give up in a hurry, especially
in a relationship as binding as
marriage.

9. You have common interests:
While sexual attraction is a powerful
force in bringing two people together,
keeping them that way requires something much more mundane. It is
necessary that your guy shares
certain interests – hobbies, similar
choice in music and food or even
intellectual pursuits – with you. These
will ensure that in your marriage you
have something to do and talk about
together other than those related only
to chores and kids.

10. He is honest
OK, maybe not as honest as to tell
you what he really think of you in that
red dress. Rather what this means is
that a guy should refrain from lies and half-truths in your relationship. If for instance, you have caught this person more than once telling you that he is doing overtime when in fact he was out with his beer-mates, this could be a red flag. Trust is the foundation on which every relationship is built and if he is not
honest with you, maybe he is not ready for something as significant as
marriage.

NOTE-
Haven't said all the above , there is one bitter true I need to let you know, it's pretty difficult to apply the above listed facts on a boyfriend who is yet to sleep with you. This is because when working on getting in between a girl's legs, a guy can be a good actor. He can laugh when you laugh, cry when you cry, listen to your boring stories and might even happily wash your undies, but once he has succeed in getting inside , that's when he starts exhibiting his real self. So if he had slept with you in one or two occasions and still exhibit the above traits, you got a husband material for yourself , hold him tide because his kind is rare in Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Plans To Arrest Me – Uwazuruike by wisdomguy4u(m): 9:46am On May 05, 2015
Sundayme:
He said his activities gives the government sleepless nights, well he's right. If i'm the president, i will be worried also. Why? Because his activities are all threat to the unity of this great nation. One Nigeria!
One Nigeria my foot. why are u all afraid of staying on ur own ? Must Igbo be part of u ?
TravelRe: Yoruba Man Recounts His Visit To Igboland by wisdomguy4u(m): 11:25pm On May 04, 2015
Ilekeh:
Yorubas must validate Igbos existence before igbos feel a sense of "self".

And be more specific, he was talking about Anambra state. So if it's like Lagos, why do Igbos troop to Yorubaland?

Ans why do your houses look run-down anytime someone post pictures of Igboland? Just asking ni o
YeAh... Igbos troop to yorubaland bcus there are a lot of money making opportunity there and you pple do not have the brain to figure it out. Anytime I travel to yorubaland I see a lot of money making opportunities wasting while most of u live in poverty.

Doing business in Igboland is so competitive bcus everybody has the brain... Unlike in yorubaland
CelebritiesRe: Halima Abubakar Massive Display Of Boobs by wisdomguy4u(m): 10:07pm On May 04, 2015
andyanders:
I pity your person because, you never came to this world through a woman.I pity who brought you to this world, maybe through cloning through ape hence your ape family sense of reasoning.
Mr. Man close that dustbin u called mouth. you be confirm ODE! Sex starve ediot
RomanceRe: Guys Be Warned! (photo) by wisdomguy4u(op): 9:52pm On May 04, 2015
Blackett:
[color=#150000]Lamentations of a rejected member. [/color]
Are you for real? Does anything look like lamentation in the post?
RomanceRe: Guys Be Warned! (photo) by wisdomguy4u(op): 9:50pm On May 04, 2015
chibwike:
what u posted...makes no sense
It's will make sense to only a wise man . So am not surprise with ur case

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