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There is still the danger of being conned by your beautiful girlfriend who could be a covert prostitute or have a history of indulging in it. There are certain signs that must be kept in mind to identify such women , because such women isn’t really the type you’d be looking for, especially when it comes to seeking loyalty within a relationship. Her loyalties are basically reserved for the highest bidder; and if you fail to bid consistently, you’ll lose her in the end. Even women who haven’t prostituted themselves can exhibit these traits below. Technically they may not be prostitutes, but they still have a prostitute’s mind set. Essentially, they prostitute themselves to their boyfriends or lovers for a period of time, as long as these men can afford them. This has led to the coinage of the term ‘covert prostitution’ to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for sex. So here are some signs you must observe: 1. She despises poverty, and more so of men who have low paying jobs: She easily get annoyed and abusive while dealing with poor men ( taxi driver, barrow pusher, e.t.c ). Her hatred of poverty reminds her of her own desperate circumstances at one time. Even though women are hypergamous by nature, most women don’t despise poor men as long as he is working to earn something. Prostitutes however see no ‘customer’ potential in such men. 2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you sex: This type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great sex(they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less. When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). Sex now becomes a reward in the relationship. 3. She frequently uses the word Ashawo, slut and LovePeddler to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like: If you have been to a brothel and observe where prostitutes quarrel or fight, one word you always hear them call themselves is "Ashawo" . This is because what they does in their life relives in their mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others. 4 . She openly tells you she doesn't trust her friends around you , but still doesn't want to leave them: Birds of same feathers flies together. She gets upset and paranoid(ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends. She is only trying to protect her money making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business). To her friends she will be like "go get your own maga bitch". 5. She boasts and prides herself of her sexual skills and how men are attracted to her and also she is openly jealous of beautiful women: She knew that the only thing she is good at is sex, and she will always brag about it , like how all her ex are still calling and begging her because of it. She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough you will also notice her envy against younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean. 6. She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is. ‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by prostitutes. A normal girl will rather tell you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’ , when we all know she doesn't work or go to school during the weekend. 7. She is known by multiple names among people. Her guy friends call her with different names, or she asks you to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple cell numbers. If your "Chizzy" is called as "Rossy" by some other guy and called as jessy by another, it means that those names are her work alias. Runs girls doesn’t want to be known by their real name to protect their identity. Multiple cell numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use. 8. you happen to find stuff like wigs of several colours, length and styles in her wardrobe: Who carries or keeps stuff like that? Only experienced professionals. Wigs are to camouflage her identity when in club house or other places she normally hangout to catch potential clients. 9. You observe she has some tiny (razor-like) markings close to her vagina: Professional runs girl ( just like professional armed robbers) often seek spiritual protections and prosperity in their work. This diabolical protection is mostly done by cutting a slight fresh close to the vagina, through which concoctions are insert. Some of this works like a charm in a man once you get in, you can't leave until you are milked dry, while some maybe for protection from ritualist , occultist e.t.c 10. She has a poor or average income, but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support. Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan? 11. She constantly reminds you of the things that she’s done for you: Especially of the sex she provided for you. What else can she do for you except provide her ‘special’ orifices for you on demand? For her you should be grateful for the skilled services she provided for you, since she has done a better job than what her competitors would her given you. 12. She berates and criticizes girls who date men below them in social and economic status: You hear them say things like 'why on earth will a fine girl like that be dating that small ratchet boy'. Ask her what's her business, her business is that it's a waste of resources to see a poor guy digging that money making pot for free, when their are big men out there ready to pay for it. 13. She rates men on their income, social status and influence (disregarding character): If she idolizes rich and ‘successful’ men of questionable character, it shows where her priorities lie. A little attention from such men is enough for her to pull down her panties for them. 14. In public even when she is with you, she still keep staring at other men: Just as some guys (even when with their babes) still stares at other women butt (especially when it's bigger than their babes), that's same way a covert prostitute even when with her so called boyfriend stares at other guy she think are richer. The only different is that the she stares the potential maga straight into his eyes, and hoping the dude catches the gaze (signal) 15. She’s obsessed about money and excessively materialistic: The classic prostitute mind set: she talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. This woman can easily be seduced with offers of money, and sometimes even asks for it. She never refuses offers of cash gifts. Money will open her legs and give her gina tingles faster than any other thing. |
Mistermamus:Of course... A nigerian born and brought up in britain is a british-nigerian . |
Mistermamus:Mere answering the name chuka umunna (igbo name) already signifies he accept to be a Nigerian. |
nagoma:You have a shallow mind . |
jnrbayano:The "North" there signifies "life and death scenario". Now go back to the pastor's tweet, remove the words ' live in the north' and replace it with 'been in a life and death scenario'. You got it now |
jnrbayano:I see you can only read things literally without thinking deep to get what meaning.. Let me help then.. The pastor is only trying to say that u can't know if u are strong as a christian until u are face with a life and death situation. He only use "North" bcus christians inda north often face such. |
ajalaolanr:... The pastor never said untested christians are not good christians. he is only saying that u can't know ur strength as a christian until u are face with a life or death situation. |
Freemanan:O boy, u get low IQ , u better do sometin abt it. |
Freemanan:It's like u don't understand simple English. He never said 'less' a christian, he said 'Tested' christain. A soldier who have never been to the battle field is still not tested. This is how u pple change pple's words to make it look bad. |
Ilekeh:Mr. Man , go open a new thread with ur news, stop littering this beautiful thread with rubbish . |
Three students were killed with at least twenty others injured when Boko Haram attacked the college of Administrative and Business Study ( CABS), Potiskum in Yobe State. Vanguard gathered the insurgents stormed the school around 8:30am Friday. A reliable source who witnessed the Book Haram onslaught said, the insurgents numbering about five armed with gun entered the school premises through the main gate after killing the security guard and open fire randomly on the innocent students killing three of them in the process. The source added that, one of the insurgents died as a result of I.E.D strapped to his chest that exploded, and injured over 20 students. As at the time of filling this report, medical workers were busy evacuating the injured victims. Meanwhile, the security have step up their condoned search in Damaturu the state capital and potiskum where the incident occurred. www.vanguardngr.com/2015/05/breaking-news-three-students-killed-20-injured-as-boko-haram-attacks-yobe-school/
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prettythicksme:Off your gown ni? As in walk away on naked. The show go sweet to watch o ![]() |
Wedding don end be that.. |
On your wedding day, you caught your partner tapping current like this - what will you do? This applies to both male and female .
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gbishman:If nobody talk abt u , then u are a no body. We understand ur situation . |
SkyBlue1:Igbos are giving you sleepless night..., my candid advice for you is ' if you can't beat them, join them'. ![]() |
focus7:Do Tinubu and fayosha have one voice in political matters? Dis igbo u have in ur mouth everyday will choke u to death oneday. |
Since you love chest beating - I will put you lot where you belong. Unlike you lot the average Yoruba knows where home is (save for a few) and they're into dragging things with other people. The achieve greatness and let folks bestow things on them, based on their achievements - like the two Yorubas in the House of Lords, who were knighted without the need to contest for anything.WTF! you type all this poo ? Bro That thing u are smoking is strong o ![]() |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:Adamumu ![]() |
Bollinger:Then, do ur worst or go and die |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:Adamu you too dey mumu |
Bollinger:Don't blame Nairalanders , blame the cable news . Who wouldn't react if his tribe was insult like that , plus some silly nairaland yoruba bigots where supporting the insult to provoke the insulted tribe the more. If you are in their shoes , you will react the same way . |
This was an article is written by AZUKA ONWUKA (picture below) on punch newspaper. It is difficult to say if Igbo and Yoruba are friends or enemies or merely tolerating each other. On the surface, they seem to be friends, because you rarely hear of any clashes or killings between the two in over 100 years. People from the two ethnic groups work together, live together, laugh together, worship together, and play together. Everything seems all right. Nobody wants to be seen as publicly making any comment seen as tribalistic or intolerant. But if you look deeper, there seems to be something you cannot truly place a finger on. It’s like a volcano waiting for the least provocation to erupt. It only needs an excerpt from Chinua Achebe’s There Was a Country to be made public, or for Governor Babatunde Fashola of Lagos to “deport” some Igbo to Onitsha for hell to be let loose. Commentators immediately line up behind their ethnic groups, releasing venom against the other side. Luckily, such altercations usually end in words and not in violent acts. But on Nigerian online sites like the punchng.com and others, where commentators can use anonymous names, such fights are a daily affair, and they always get embarrassingly nasty. At such times, combatants throw caution to the wind and rake up gut-wrenching jibes dripping of hate and bordering on insanity. You wonder if the purveyors of such vitriol would feel at ease afterwards interacting with someone from the ethnic group they have maligned so viciously. Some see it as fun, but many don’t. They see it as a war that must be won at all costs. Regrettably, Chief Obafemi Awolowo, Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe and Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu, whose direct and indirect action and inaction sowed the seed of hate and distrust between the Igbo and the Yoruba, have died without uprooting that dangerous plant or even denying it water and nutrients. Therefore, till this day, the Igbo and Yoruba still enjoy shooting at each other with accusations of betrayal, expansionism, hate, ingratitude, greed, as well as trying to prove that each ethnic group is superior to the other. And it seems the contest for superiority is at the root of that frosty relationship. The Igbo and Yoruba are unarguably the most competitive in Nigeria. They are the ethnic groups that easily and forcefully ask for the removal of quota system in all national life. They believe that if things are done on merit, they will excel. The Igbo think that the Yoruba are the major competitors they have in Nigeria, while the Yoruba think that the Igbo are the key competitors they have in Nigeria. This shows in almost all spheres of life. The Yoruba had a head-start in western education because the British colonialists and missionaries arrived on their land first. The Igbo, who resisted and rejected the British initially, eventually accepted them and thereby began a sprint to catch up with the Yoruba. And they succeeded. Whatever the Igbo achieve, the Yoruba have an answer to it, and whatever the Yoruba achieve the Igbo have a response. So, if you have a Wole Soyinka from the South-West winning the first Nobel Prize for Literature in Africa, you have a Chinua Achebe from the South-East holding the record of the most popular and most-selling literary writer in Africa. If you have a Rangers International Football Club of Enugu shaking the Nigerian football scene in the 1970s and early 80s, you have the Shooting Stars Football Club of Ibadan shining brightly at the same period. If Rashidi Yekini is noted for scoring Nigeria’s first World Cup goal and being Nigeria’s all-time highest goal scorer, then Nwankwo Kanu boasts of being Nigeria’s most decorated footballer, while Austin Jay-Jay Okocha flaunts his status as Nigeria’s most glamorous and mesmerising footballer. If Genevieve Nnaji boasts of being named by Oprah Winfrey in 2009 among the most popular people in the world, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde will show off her name in TIME magazine’s most influential people of 2013. If P-Square and Flavour think they rock the music scene, D’Banj and Davido smash the charts. So, in all areas of life, the Igbo and the Yoruba are competing, and in the process boosting the nation’s economy and bringing glory to the nation. Yet, some inferiority-complex-afflicted people who feel threatened within each of the ethnic groups look for every excuse to spread hate among the two peoples. My close study of the Igbo and the Yoruba makes me see them as the Germans and the French of Nigeria respectively. Even the Igbo language is like the German language in many respects. In German and Igbo, there are no silent words. Excluding a few words in Germans which are sounded differently from the way the English sound theirs (like “j” which is pronounced like “y,” “w” which is pronounced as “v,” etc), whatever you say in both languages is what you write. For example, the “g” is always pronounced /g/ in Igbo and German and never as “j.” “Danke” and “obante” are pronounced as written. But in French and Yoruba, what you say may be different from how you write it. Some letters are either silent or semi-silent. For example, the Yoruba and the French would pronounce “san” as if it were “saw,” or “son,” but the Igbo and Germans would pronounce it /san/: exactly the way it is spelt. Also, the “h” is usually silent or glossed over in French and Yoruba: Hospital or Kehinde. The Igbo and the German are bullish and technology-minded. They have fought and lost wars but staged successful comebacks in a short time. Conversely, the Yoruba and the French are subtle and supercilious, with good administrative skills, regaling in their years of history and culture. A country that has such two success-driven ethnic groups should be at a great advantage. The Yoruba have been great hosts to the Igbo; and the Igbo have reciprocated by contributing immensely to the building of Yoruba land, especially Lagos State, including buying swamps at a high price and turning such places to residential or commercial estates. The sleepiness of Lagos during the Christmas-New Year period, when the Igbo usually travel home en masse, bears testimony to their contribution to making Lagos lively. Just like the French always wish they could cut the Germans to size, so do the Yoruba to the Igbo, but it will never work. And just as the Germans always try to flaunt their success at the French, so do the Igbo do to the Yoruba, but it is completely pointless. The Yoruba can never be like the Igbo, and the Igbo can never be like the Yoruba. There is nothing the Yoruba can do to suppress the Igbo, neither is there anything the Igbo can do to suppress the Yoruba. Both of them can actually succeed without the other, but working closely together will be very beneficial to each of them as well as the nation. The younger generations are forging greater ties, despite the baggage of enmity the older generations handed over to them. Working together, attending church together and living together seem to have increased the rate of marriage between the two people. Most Sundays when I look at the church bulletin, I see increasing higher number of banns of marriage between Yoruba and Igbo people. These days, it is common to see women whose names are Temilade Amadi or Ngozi Adesanya because of marriage. The ethnic barriers are being broken, even though ethnic jingoists continue to spread hate. Such hate speech and thoughts need to be stopped, for ethnic bloodshed or xenophobia does not burst out in one day. Since the older generations are passing away without bringing these two great ethnic groups together, the onus is on those born after the Civil War to consciously take steps to bring the two ethnic groups together for their own good and for the good of the nation. It is high time this Tom and Jerry relationship between the two ethnic groups ended, for the good of both and the nation at large. www.punchng.com/opinion/tom-and-jerry-relationship-between-igbo-and-yoruba/
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Decentdamsel:Pele, almost the FTC but you missed it. Try again letter. ![]() |
what makes a man an ideal boyfriend and a perfect husband could be two entirely different things and after the excitement of the wedding has died down, these differences could come to you as a rude surprise. So if you are considering walking down the aisle with your partner, here are a few clues to tell you if a man is good husband material. 1. He does things that show he cares: A caring, affectionate man is extremely important in a journey that is as unpredictable and long-term as marriage. Look at his actions instead of words for evidence that he cares – for instance when you are out walking in the evening and it gets chilly, does he get up to bring a blanket or jacket or seem oblivious to your shivering. Also someone who is truly husband material would watch out for you like ensuring that you arrive safely on an out-of-town trip or drop you home after a late night outing instead of just advising you to be careful. Most ladies mistake a caring man to be a man who lavish them with material things, most of this guy will oneday boost to you about how much they have spend on you and why you should worship them like your God. 2. He listens to you Like really listen instead of putting on that dazed look and occasionally managing to come up with an “uh- uh…yeah...that’s right” to show that he is still alive. He will come back from work, take his bath , take his dinner , have sex with you and after that he goes straight to Nairaland, facebook or BBM, whatever you are saying after that is like a water being poured on a rock. At the other of the spectrum are guys who jump at the chance of lecturing or criticizing their partners the moment the latter try to share something with them. Such guys forget that women talk not merely to seek advice or exchange information but to share their thoughts and feelings – it’s how they connect with their partners and this is an extremely important requirement if you are looking at something substantial as marriage. 3. He shares his plans of his future with you: Notice if a guy shares thoughts of his future with you; he may not be explicitly talking of a future that includes you, but if he likes to discuss his hopes and wishes about life, work, putting down roots and so on, chances are that he is at a point in his life where he feels ready to marry. Moreso this is a good indication that he's also dreaming about you when it comes to marriage since guys do not really discuss their future with women with whom they are not serious about. 4. He is financially secure: Among the top signs that a man is not marriage-worthy is when they live off others – whether family members, friends or partners. Having his own place and car are signs that a guy is a responsible adult and are not only capable of taking care of himself but also of providing for a family, which is ultimately what women have been hard-wired to look for in a potential mate since the primitive times. 5. He is comfortable around your family: If a guy is husband material, he will make himself a part of your life and that of your family too. For instance when you invite him to a family function, he will readily agree whereas a guy not interested in marriage is more likely to hesitate and ask if he must go. Marriage has been traditionally seen as the joining of two families, so a potential husband should respect that and exhibit a natural desire to spend time with the family he hopes to be a part of. 6. He has a work-life balance: Not all successful men can make good husbands though – a guy may be rising up the corporate ladder with remarkable speed but in turn he may be less inclined to give time to his partner and family. Guys with potential for being great husbands are on the other hand driven and productive, but they value a balance between work and life; their hard work is often motivated by the drive to build a foundation for, and ultimately help to provide for, a family. 7. He is emotionally available Perhaps what differentiates a casual fling from a meaningful relationship is that in the latter, partners are there for each other through thick and thin. Men who are not emotionally available are not much use to you when you are trying to juggle work, home and a family and need the help of a partner. In this context a person who offers practical and emotional support is much more valuable as a life partner than someone who agrees to be there only when it suits him. 8. He respects you Granted sexual chemistry is important in a fulfilling relationship, but marriage requires something deeper like mutual respect. If the guy is worthy of being a life partner, he will be ready to see you and respect you as an individual with a mind and not just a means of making out. It has been a long and hard struggle for women to be accepted as equals, both in society as well as in personal relationships and this self-respect is not something that you should be willing to give up in a hurry, especially in a relationship as binding as marriage. 9. You have common interests: While sexual attraction is a powerful force in bringing two people together, keeping them that way requires something much more mundane. It is necessary that your guy shares certain interests – hobbies, similar choice in music and food or even intellectual pursuits – with you. These will ensure that in your marriage you have something to do and talk about together other than those related only to chores and kids. 10. He is honest OK, maybe not as honest as to tell you what he really think of you in that red dress. Rather what this means is that a guy should refrain from lies and half-truths in your relationship. If for instance, you have caught this person more than once telling you that he is doing overtime when in fact he was out with his beer-mates, this could be a red flag. Trust is the foundation on which every relationship is built and if he is not honest with you, maybe he is not ready for something as significant as marriage. NOTE- Haven't said all the above , there is one bitter true I need to let you know, it's pretty difficult to apply the above listed facts on a boyfriend who is yet to sleep with you. This is because when working on getting in between a girl's legs, a guy can be a good actor. He can laugh when you laugh, cry when you cry, listen to your boring stories and might even happily wash your undies, but once he has succeed in getting inside , that's when he starts exhibiting his real self. So if he had slept with you in one or two occasions and still exhibit the above traits, you got a husband material for yourself , hold him tide because his kind is rare in Nigeria. |
Sundayme:One Nigeria my foot. why are u all afraid of staying on ur own ? Must Igbo be part of u ? |
Ilekeh:YeAh... Igbos troop to yorubaland bcus there are a lot of money making opportunity there and you pple do not have the brain to figure it out. Anytime I travel to yorubaland I see a lot of money making opportunities wasting while most of u live in poverty. Doing business in Igboland is so competitive bcus everybody has the brain... Unlike in yorubaland |
andyanders:Mr. Man close that dustbin u called mouth. you be confirm ODE! Sex starve ediot |
Blackett:Are you for real? Does anything look like lamentation in the post? |
chibwike:It's will make sense to only a wise man . So am not surprise with ur case |
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