Adexgentle005: That’s just the fact! When I was a bachelor, I know how much I spend and save every month. Fast forward to when I got married, it’s all about bills, bills and bills.
I just checked my OPay transaction history and I couldn’t believe how much I’ve spent in just two months.
This thing called marriage is just responsibility and nothing more. If you are not financially stable or you have other side hustle that bring extra money,please don’t get married.
My 2 cents!
Very good one.
It's mostly about managing responsibilities towards children, parents, spouse, self, career, community and many more.
If you have a supportive spouse, you have a successful marriage life.
I have this issue I'm dealing with which seems to be taking ages now.
There are these stubborn black spots in my face which refuse to go after using different antibacterial creams yet the spots are still much visible, will have to wait till dark before I go out.
There is something in your diet you need to reduce.
Help! , its really killing me slowly as well as demoralized me. Even my confidence is no more there as I typed this.
Kenmatt: Let me use this medium to draw the attention of our amiable God sent Governor, His Excellency, Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi, to upgrade a Telecom network services after Eziani towards Ugbene Ajima and beyond. This is in Uzo-Uwani to be precise, after Barracks Junction in Nsukka, along the new road built by Governor Ugwuanyi that runs down to Ukpabi.
Truthfully, Enugu State is in the Hand of God!!!
Telecom Infrastructure is in hands of the private sector.
Stop asking for what your Governor can't deliver.
Rather invite MTN, Airtel, Globacom etc to improve on telcoms Infrastructure. They will invest if the area is viable.
The South East is landlocked, that's why the Biafra agenda can't fly.
They have not wised up at all
They need to partner with the South South to get access to the ocean.
Instead of them to join resources and ensure they build a large enough canal to enable ships berth hintherland, they keep shouting Lagos is no man's land.
This guy did not carry out any campaign but is making a lot of noise with no sense. Even Jendor and Akindele never had any chance of winning the election, talkless of an unknown Gbadebo.
State Gubernatorial elections are local in nature.
ebukajay184: Labour Party's presidential candidate, Peter Obi has changed has condemned the arrest of Nnamdi Chude, IGBERETV reports.
Nnamdi Chude who is a staunch supporter of Peter Obi was reportedly arrested by the interpol during the gubernatorial and house of assembly election in Anambra on Saturday 18th March.
Condemning the arrest, Peter Obi wrote on his Twitter handle;
ExAngel007: Lawyer Shares Before And After Photos Of Herself 6 Years After Walking Out Of Her Marriage
Olasumbo, a Nigerian lawyer, has gone online to talk about the marriage she left.
She took to Twitter to share before and after photos showing her amazing transformation six years after walking out on her marriage with her two children.
The 30-year-old mother of two shared her story via Twitter when she celebrated Mother's Day on Sunday, March 19, 2023.
“This is what I looked like when I walked out of my marriage in 2017 with two toddlers. I just clocked 30, I was mentally, emotionally and financially drained. I was tired and i knew i had to walk away. Did i know what i was going to do next? No but i walked,” she wrote.
"Okay let me tell you why it looks all shitty, I left my marriage clueless about the next thing to do but knew I had to run for my life yet I has no family support. I was not lucky to come from a stable family background, my ex saw this and capitalised on it.
"The marriage was 4 years old as at when it officially ended but it was dead from the beginning. I know the judginas will ask if I didn't see the red flag...well story for another day but well the deed has been done and now I have two kids who had no fault.
"My entire desire was to protect my kids. I mean they know nothing about the folly and stupidity of the parents that brought them to this world. I saved up and got my own apartment. I remember crying so much the first night I moved into my new home. I was scared.
"I had never gone on this kind of journey before and i don't know how to walk this path. I was totally confused and clueless. I was more afraid for my kids, scared they would suffer which i do not want, what if they fall sick and I can't take care of them? So many what ifs.
"All these was in 2017....this is 2023 and yes it has not been a smooth journey...my life has taken a pause because I was not opportune to have a family support and I had to learn, unlearn and relearn on my own. My career has suffered so much. Yes.
"My wants, desires has all been pushed to the base because I can't afford all at once so my kids come first..it has not been an easy ride doing this alone, no single financial support from the man who bore them even though he has 100% access to these kids.
“I look back today and ask myself if it is all worth it and Yes I am happy I made that decision. I am proud of the pains, the tears, the laughter. I am proud for holding myself strong despite the stigma and backlash that comes with being a single mom. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ME.”
Maxymilliano: Popular Nigerian musician and actor, Folarin Falana popularly known as Falz has said the Governor of Lagos State, Sanwo-Olu was not elected but selected himself.
The singer made this known in a response to an appreciation tweet by the re-elected governor.
Domipraiz: I have no problem with Sanwo Olu cos he's not doing bad in the state so he deserves second chance. Mine major concern is that of presidential election. Tinubu must returned the stolen mandate.
NwekeUG: Guber Election: Don't Lose Hope, I Will Defend Your Votes - GRV Tells His Supporters
Labour Party's gubernatorial candidate in Lagos State, Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour has urged his supporters not to lose hope over some results of the gubernatorial election which he said was manipulated to favour the ruling party (APC), IGBERETV reports.
DebbieBianca: A-list Nollywood actress Chioma Chukwuka was attacked by thugs at her polling units at VGC Lagos state. The Nollywood actress has to run for her life as she calls for security personnel to come to her aid.
Spanishmilf: Why does my hand shakes and heart beat fast? It’s becoming frustrating at this point. I read alot of threads and i saw some people suggesting propanol.
I already got it. I take one per day. I’m yet to see a total change. Has anyone experienced this and note.
Have stopped drinking sodas Have reduced my salt Still not helping This happens alot when I'm gaming.
Spanishmilf: Why does my hand shakes and heart beat fast? It’s becoming frustrating at this point. I read alot of threads and i saw some people suggesting propanol.
I already got it. I take one per day. I’m yet to see a total change. Has anyone experienced this and note.
Have stopped drinking sodas Have reduced my salt Still not helping This happens alot when I'm gaming.
I remember this incidence years ago. When Saraki was holding sway as Senate President and intentionally ignored Ashiwaju who was very prepared for him.
But today 2023
BAT!!! The Real Last Man Still Standing. A special breed of Politician he is.
A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.
I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.
A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.
As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.
I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.
I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.
He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following. You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.
So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.
If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.
Enjoy.
Dumb assertions
In this age and time you are looking for a man to take care of your needs?
Very irresponsible low life reasoning and expectations.
Brainmytool: This cost South Africa a total of 555 million dollars.
And,
Someone in Nigeria said he needs 1.3 billion dollars to conduct WHAT HE CALLED CENSUS. A Census dat will not create any Job Opportunity. Someone just voted their replica in the person of Tinubu. Shame on Nigerians. They will embezzle ur donated and borrowed 1.3 billion USD nothing will happen. Because u are hate filled, Tribalistic and Cornfused. Shame on Voters of APC and PDP. Shame on Tribal Bigots. Shame on Educated Young fools. Shame on Roadside beegers. Shame on Every Nigerian.
muhammaduyusufu: Senator Shehu Sanni of the Congress for Progressive Change party and the President of the Civil Rights Congress of Nigeria (CRCN) throws shade via twitter post.
The post did not seat well with a lot of South Easterners as they go under his tweet to express dissatisfaction.
Oya make we pack our and una load go no man's land......!!!
The Igbo stock lack the cohesion exhibited by the West and North.
Instead of gallivanting up and down all they need is to come together and jointly use the wealth they have acquired to turn their region in a economic hub but instead they engage in senseless killings and shedding of innocent blood.
All they require is focus their collective energies towards the economic emancipation of their region......... invest in education, infrastructure development and economy of the region.