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Her mum came, pleaded and pleaded. Her dad is late. But its not about pleading. Its not about me being hard hearted. The thing is forgiveness is only for mistakes, and cheating is never a mistake.

Fearyourcreator:
I saw the ovulation thing ... Choi! Mehn ... Am short of words ooo... Wetin her family talk

You're right. That was exactly the attitude, even while begging for forgiveness, I could see she didn't really see the big deal in what she did and why it was so hurtful to me.

greenermodels:
you did the right thing,in my experience, cheating partners never stops even after been caught and pleading for forgiveness. One problem with living a reckless akwuna akwuna lifestyle as a single person is that one loses the sense of sanctity associated with been faithful, they can't even understand why their partners are so hurt by their cheating actions rather than overlooking it,I can't even understand why people are so obsessed with sex when there are bills to be paid,houses to be built, businesses to be established plus many other fruitful ventures that can be pursued. At least that's what fills my mind and takes my time,sex with one's partner should be enough but what do I know?

We don't have kids yet. We just got married 4months ago. She had a miscarriage in the first month of the marriage. So its now we really want to conceive, thats why I mentioned ovulation and DNA scandals

Fearyourcreator:
Ogami no vex... Abeg... Try make una settle am abeg... E no easy at least cus of children...

Thanks bro. Such is life

simfrost90210:


wow, i'm sorry

Thanks Bro.
I disregarded that guy's comment. People like that live in delusion. When they get cheated on, they blame themselves and not the cheater. He has low self esteem. I am his direct opposite.
People do things to you deliberately to know what they can get away with. Once you let your woman get away with cheating, it is going to be a recurring thing, and you won't be able to do shyt.

G00DHardDick:
Mu.mu simp! What a simp man you are!

Stupidity taken too far! Oga a woman can never be satisfied. If you like do all these and kill yourself, nothing will stop her from going outside to explore other dicks. Only fools and simps try to please women in other not to lose her. Are you the fool?

Wonder233, in all you do, avoid simps like this. Divorce that olosho now else get ready for more cheating. Na another man Pekin you go train

I'm not kidding. My wife that we dated for four years, went and spent night with another guy just four months into the marriage.

klbakare:
Tell me you're kidding bro, your wife?

Okay.
Good sex means you as an individual, you're good in bed, you satisfy your partner. But because it is the same you over and over again, your partner becomes bored, the excitement is no longer there.
So, they meet another person, not that they want to leave you for that other person, not that the person is better than you in the sex, but there is this excitement that comes with meeting a new person. That is the variety.

frozen70:
Pls tell me the meaning of good sex and varieties

Also tell me the difference between the two

You're naive. Good sex can't keep a woman. Women need variety.

frozen70:
Forget about the part that she is married
Some married women also thinks the same way just like her, especially when their spouse can't do the needful

We don't have to pretend when a fact is said out

Assuming she is well and properly handled by her husband, she won't sent this out

Sex is one thing that must be fulfilled and once you don't get it right, it creates problem especially on women

The same way men wants to enjoy sex, women wants it too and even wants it more

But for the fact that they have the ability to suppress it, makes look as if they don't want it

She just said what is in her mind, it's not for cloud chasing

I wish her hubby can step up and make her feel like a woman

Though I don't support her getting it out

No, he didn't. Thats the thing about cheating: if you leave the two people to be together full time, it will no longer be exciting for them.

greenermodels:
after the divorce, did the colleague she cheated with marry her?

She is not catching cruise. Its the fact. Women get bored of having just one sexual partner in marriage. I have seen it first hand. Upon all my knacks, styles, lasting in bed, big gbola, good loving, helping out in chores, all round support. My wife still went to spend night with a guy, and by chance I got to find out. And after initially trying to blame me for "pushing her", she later owned up that she was just bored and needed a new flame. And started trying to bobo me that there was no sex, that the guy (her colleague in the office) was just a friend. That she just needed a space to clear her head. I said all those na story for the gods. Clear your head from what? when we were all happy and laughing all week, knack Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday back to back cos its ovulation period. Then Friday, you up and comfortably spend the night with another guy, without blinking. You see how DNA problems start? Well, the marriage is done. Its a pity cos she was a nice person. But this crossed the line and I'm no simp.

mytime24:
Catching Cruise

This ganisucks moniker tho... Na wa o.. How can Gani suck?

ganisucks:
Simon Ekpa works for Tinubu. So expect any news from him as straight from Bourdillion. Anybody who tells you Tinubu is sick, is directly or indirectly working for SWAGA. It's as simple as that.

Let me point out the irony of your statement: because some whites are fascinated with African culture is the validation you require to certify African culture as rich? You see how low your self esteem is? How you're the one that worships the white?
An ignorant fool thinks everything is black or white. Scolding Africans backwardness automatically means I worship the whites ba? Why am I not surprised, it is basic thinking like this that has kept the continent where it is. Continue to stew in Your backwardness. Another election will come and you all will fight and kill yourselves over your meaningless tribes and religions

LalaPrincess:
You really sound like an ignorant person with no root and identity. Even your white god you place as more advanced than yourself are fascinated by the richness of the African culture. Grow up, educate yourself also.

You lie bro. Tribalism and religion will count for ever and ever. Count is an understatement? Tribe and religion are the ONLY things.
You, as you're there, if you meet a new person, what is the first thing you ask him, is it not where he comes from? If the person refuses to tell you, won't you be so angry that you may not even want to have anything to do with him again?
Everyone I have told I prefer not to answer the "where are you from" question had gone on to hate me so vehemently. In fact, if they brought a killer terrorist and myself, they will gladly choose the killer. If people saw shege for 8yrs and elections came and they are still fighting themselves over tribes and religion.. What else do you need as evidence?

Nice2023:
And some people think this country would be better...federal govt is borrowing any how,states govt too are borrowing any how and even individuals are also borrowing like never before.

A woman sold her baby just to repay loan she borrowed.

A time is coming when tribalism and religion will no longer count, what is sure is that,the people would unite in their poverty and finish those who raped their destiny.

Nobody cares about all that. Nigerians have no business with viable projects and financial solvency of states. All they want is tribe and religion.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me. All Nigerians know is tribe and religion. Backward country in a cursed continent.

I commend you bro... You have to get up to a certain point psychologically to be able to stand your ground. Cos trust me, its not only pastor or imam that will harrass you: family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, everyone. Our society is like a general police force when it comes to religion.

Comedian2019:
Na mumu dey do follow follow. Nobody can guilt trip me for anything.
If it's not convenient for me, I decline. Make pastor or imam do whatever they like.

If you guys don't mention marriage, you won't feel you have made sense ba? Why are Nigerians so dull?

Its heartwarming to read intelligent writeups. Nairaland may be an anonymous forum, but from the way people write, you can tell people of substance. Maximum respect boss.

jaymichael:
You have a very good mindset. Wastage should be discouraged totally. No matter how you get money or how financially comfortable you are, USE, REUSE and RECYCLE should be one of your guiding principles. Your money may be yours but the resources you procure with it WAS meant for everyone.

From your moniker, I can see you're among the blood thirsty mob. Ready to kill at the drop of a hat. Religion is all you know. You're not a human being. You're religion. Anyways, the politicians love you like that, so that you can continue to vote for them based on religion.

gaskiyamagana:
Werewy.

They will even kill her for refusing

Onogiede:
Na Nigeria are observe say some religion are by force,.. If she decided not to do the fasting she will be see as bad person..

As in... There is this almost menacing communal force of compliance. You have to be strongwilled to take your own decision in this country when it comes to religion. Family, neighbours, colleagues, classmates, etc, everywhere you will be harassed and forced to comply. This is a very fvvked up religious nation.

Enemyofpeace:
Fasting should not be made mandatory nor forced on people. Heavenly race is an individual thing.

K

I voted Obi and wished he won and I believe if the election hadn't been rigged, it would have gone to a run off. I don't believe Obi won, neither did Tinubu on first ballot.
This issue of FCT is a non issue. FCT in this context is the 37th state, lets stop trying to eke out what is not there.
It makes no sense singling out FCT as where a candidate must get 25%. What is the basis for that? FCT is just like anywhere else in this country where a Nigerian is free to reside.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

Na only marriage una know for this country. Dull marriage-obsessed people

Nigerians are so full of shyt.
Preventing waste by ensuring to use up all of an item is termed poverty.
Re-use, recycle are termed poverty.
A nation of braggarts.
Things that are being encouraged in the saner climes you lots so wish you can japa to are what you people term "poverty".
I visited a friend and was served food. I ensured to eat up to the last grain of rice on the plate. And they insisted on serving me more, I told them I was full, that my finishing the entire food wasn't because of hunger, but to prevent wastage. I knew they didn't understand what I was saying cos they would have preferred I wasted a portion of the food to prove I was full.
This nation just seems like a collection of unintelligent people

Aren't they the ones sustaining the league? Spare the hypocrisy

This looks like a controlled demolition. This is not cctv footage, someone was positioned filming.

I recognise Mrs Patricia Ahonsi, she was project manager for a project I worked on briefly. She retired in 2013 or 2014 thereabout

Ireportlive:



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Make everybody rest abeg. Obi's supporters going on and on about how majority of Nigerians want the country to change for the better. Thats a fat lie! Majority of Nigerians don't care about jobs, economy, health, education, security etc. All they want is tribe and religion. Obi didn't win, truth be told. Is the densely populated core muslim north not part of Nigeria? Do those people give two fvvks about economy, health, etc? All they know is religion. And for that, they will rather die of economic hardships and insecurity than vote an ibo. Same with many yoruba hardliners - both educated and uneducated. If you take away these, what is left is not enough for you to win the presidential. Those people voted Tinubu and he won. He only did rigging to ensure the victory is comfortable.
Where the LP should focus is the governorship in catchment areas they knew they were supposed to win but were rigged and intimidated out. Like in lagos, where there was massive voter suppression, and some states and constituencies in the southeast and southsouth where the results were outrightly fabricated.
But the overall presidential... Nah.. Not a chance

You just shot yourself in the foot. You shouldn't have mentioned the constitution. The constitution expressly mandated the respect for federal character in the spread of public offices and appointments and ensure equitable distribution of positions to respect the multi ethnic and multi religious diversity of Nigeria. Before you jump and say it only applies to appointment of Ministers, please go and study section 318 of the constitution. The provision is a blanket mandate, which is why political parties incorporated zoning, even private companies try to balance out employments.
Lastly, your mum being from Delta and your wife being from Edo has nothing to do with your hatred for the ibos.
I'm not ibo, not an obidient. I'm just a fair individual.

Jogs1900:
Fine that you are from Edo...My mum is from Delta and by Gods grace, my wife to be is from Benin..
In respect to what you wrote, Since nobody is forcing them to leave, nobody will stop what is constitutionally due to them...They are the ones tired to be in Nigeria..Nigeria is not tieed to have them as an entity...See if they want to leave this country, what I listed is the best for them to do...

I'm from Edo State. So I don't know which kith and kin you're talking about.
As for the other stuff you wrote down there, it won't be a bad idea to start enforcing them, rather than waiting for them to do so themselves. For instance, since you control the federal purse, simply stop giving them their share of the allocation, also since you are in power, simply terminate the employment of all their people in federal parastatals and military. And since you also control the police and military and government, simply enforce deportation of all of them from all other geopolitical zone back to the east. Its far easier that way, or what do you think?

Jogs1900:
Tell your kith and kin to boycott living in other states (una sabi boycott), tell your people working in federal parastatals including the military to resign tell your governors to stop receiving allocation from Abuja, tell your senators and house of reps members to relocate to the east first.Thats when the other geo political zones will take you serious that you are ready to leave the country.