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Calapar:
Hello nairalanders

What do you do if all your wife does is to nag whenever you tell her you don't have enough cash?

A friend always complains to me about his wife. This guy pays rent of N1m; gives the wife monthly pocket money; set up a mini-biz for her, caters for the baby, pays for foodstuff for about N60k monthly. But when it comes to my guy saying he doesn't have enough, for instance, to give her for stew all he receives is nagging after coming back from work. If this guy doesn't give her enough allowance, she would change mood. It's looking like all she wants is MONEY. She keeps saying she doesn't get enough money from the mini-biz she does.

Please advise.

You guys reward bad behaviour and you think you are being "a man". What you are doing is turning women everywhere to unsatisfiable, ungrateful deities you worship.

Lionessza:
Although I can't stop them from hooking up if that's what they want , but I would be very uncomfortable keeping her as a close friend. I got rid of the guy because I want nothing to do with him and it would kinda hurt having someone close to me bringing him around me knowing our past very well. Was she secretly lusting over him all this time he was mine ? Did they sneak around on me when I wasn't looking ? . If this doesn't work out between them, won't she be looking at my current man with the same eyes?. The friendship would suffer.

What's your take on this?

It's happened to me before. It was the most awkward thing ever. I hate mess and it was a messy thing. I was also disappointed in my taste in women. It tested my self-control. I can never do it.

Lionessza, see question for you.

Dannyset:
Mtchewwww!
Ordinary Dino his houseboy sef is difficult to recall not to talk of the thief holding Kwara state under his armpit. They should go and get busy with farm jare and stop wasting people's time.

Saraki's recall will never happen. I think it is a distraction tactic by the opposition to keep him occupied with too much so that they can strike when he's not looking.

Lionessza:
I didn't want to break his heart hun , I wanted him to think I was downgrading so he could sleep better at night if he knew the truth , I'd be dead by now . He's too jealous

You women and your ways. Na wa for you. After two jets and all the shopping sprees, you can't even say something nice about me in my absence. I am seriously offended.

SingleDad:
nah the guy be this, @lionessza

Lionessza, is this the competition whom you told I'm a village chief? But why do you have to demote me so?

webme:
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Thanks for the info. So what tool does one use to know the DA of a website? How do you search out the sites you market content on? Do you write the website for permission? How do you go about it?

Lionessza:
Lol, I'm going to make you lose a lot weight hun with all the sweating you will be doing daily. I hope you can spray more than money , it takes a lot to keep me interested . Those biatches will never even meet you, I know how they roll .

I'm on a special diet already. I've got all kinds of aphrodisiacs to keep the eiffel tower forever reaching for the stars. And I spray so generously you would mistake the bedroom for a carwash . Is that enough to sustain your interest?

Lionessza:
There you go baby

Wow, you're ridiculously tall and bootylicious.

Lionessza:
Lol, you can even draw your weapon on it. I want to experience your unforgiving thrusts . I'm sure your dark weapon of destruction will leave me speaking pure Yoruba . I feel blessed already

Hahahaha In many tongues you will speak. You will even find yourself discovering languages spoken in the most remote parts of the earth. It's all good, we can always explain away with the many stamps on your passports. After all you're messing with a money sprayer now . You feel blessed? it's only but the beginning. Hope you won't tell your girls 'cause they might get greedy and want what you're enjoying.

Lionessza:
Lol, not to that level but[b] I try[/b]

Pinsure or I don't believe it.

Lionessza:
Wow! a two private jets just for me?. I promise to let you own it . I won't take long hun , and you will be on my mind in every transaction . I don't want you to treat me like a friend when I get there , please be merciless and make me pay for shrinking your bank balance .

I feel like a proud owner already . I'm going to brand it "property of World peace Nig. Ltd", with my face as a faccking logo. A logo so huge you will never forget whose money you've been chopping . I will be so merciless, you'll be grateful. Baby, you're about to witness the only thing bigger than money- moi in all my glory, splendor and deliciousness . I hope you can handle the miracle you're about to experience. It's a Full arsenal thing.

Lionessza:
Lol@ money spraying machine. If you have that, then I will let you spray anything all over me . With all that cash, I will carry your Octuplets with ease baby . Wardrobe change at the airport? Now I know you will send me your p/ jet cus I don't like mixing with or being around the ordinary . Lol , yes baby buy me Lesotho. It's snowing heavily over there now and I can make a lot of money with tourism to add to your billions .

Please don't die before I cum babe .

Yeah, I like an industrious woman. You're thinking of making more money already? Lesotho is yours. I think I'll make the private jets two. One is just for your luggage . You'll shop in SA, Milan, or anywhere you like. How many days will you need to shop before you get here?
I hope you don't think I'm just interested in your body? This is how I treat my friends.

The handsome one is the woman in the union. Fatwa about to be pronounced.
You guys are so dead.

Lionessza:


Baby, I'm free now en route to lagos international to make all that rain count for something and I promise you those Yoruba twin making genes of yours will make world wide news in no time but only if you buy me that brand I like the most ........ .

They are all taken for now , but I'm forever available to entertain a dark handsome prince carrying gold from nevaland .

You are on your way? Damn! I just bought a money spraying machine just for you . You better get ready for septuplets; I've got them in my genes too . Tell me your favourite brands and see if you won't get a full wardrobe change right at the airport. Yes, ask about me, that's what I do. I feel like buying you an Island already. But you don't like the tropics, do you? Somebody please stop me 'cause I'm in the mood to buy you Lesotho for starters. it's so close to you and you can own it, baby. What else do I buy again ooo.

You need to see me right now, it's all gold everything. And everything can be yours. Come and take it all before I die from having too much ooooo

webme:
Okay.
We will contact you If we make enough money.

Bro, thanks for the good job so far. I'm trying to go into content marketing too. I just started a website. I'm writing content for it presently before I start the content marketing proper. But I see all those DA90, PA60 DA this PA that, and so on and so forth on those content marketing gigS description on both fiver and PPH. What do they mean, please?

Lionessza:
Lol, they don't call me extravagance for nothing baby. Don't give me full access to your accounts cus within a week you'll be filing for bankruptcy . Lol , that's what I'm scared of. We share body heat regularly , this is the only season you won't find a single person down here . I'm sure those who live in the provinces with heavy snows are all pregnant now

I aint scared of you still Your nickname is extravagance? We would have made a perfect couple if you were not taken. I've always prayed to meet someone who will just make it her life goal to chop my money. My money rain don't ever stop . To bad you're off the market.
So all the girls in SA are taken right now? And I was planning to come just to know what the season's like.

Lionessza:
Chineke! With all that moola , you should stop searching I'm on my way to spend it . It's cold and dull, like people are waiting for some bomb to explode or something.

I'm afraid you won't splurge as regularly as I'd like. Do you really have it in you ? Please, don't throw bombs o. Some people might just get addicted to it . How do you guys cope with that kind of weather though.

Lionessza:
Lol @ it Boko Haramed yours. Let's hope she will soon come back and give huge comforting online hug .


How's the most eligible bachelor of West Africa doing ?

I am alright. Making money and searching for THE honey. How's SA this morn'?

Lionessza:
I don't know hey . Let's hope she's busy and taking a short break from nairaland or this move will break my little heart if permanent.

It's Boko Haramed mine into tiny little pieces. I've nearly cried my eyes out.

Lionessza:
This is ridiculous. You can have sex anywhere including your bedroom and have bad things happen to you. Stop blaming the car for your troubles , look elsewhere lol.

Where is Zarzar. I see she's deactivated her account. Why? !!!!!!!!!!!

HazzanTazzan:
Sorry abt the tone...

I guess I shlda simply advised you...

Don't focus on big websites like Forbes, huffpost , nytimes and the likes which you can never get access to.

Thanks, brother. I am a beginner in content marketing. I'm just building a health blog and I fortunately just registered an account in Medium before I stumbled on this thread. Do I need to upgrade to paid membership in Medium to use it for my content marketing? What other small sites are accessible? Is health a good niche to focus on? If you don't mind, please, what's your niche?
Sorry for the many questions

HazzanTazzan:
youre def a learner to start your guest post tutorial with forbes website.

and to think youre asking on here for people who have contributor account on forbes... very funny.

better you just face the easily accessible websites like medium, buzzfeed and the likes and charge 10 to 50$ rather than create a gig on forbes and the rest of the hot cake sites which you will never be able to deliver.

ive been there...trust me

my 50 kobo

When we write, our tone is very important. We don't want to berate and discourage others. Communication is a delicate art. You are a writer; you know this. Everything you said could be true but your tone might not upbuild. Let's encourage and upbuild more.

Following with rapt attention. Can I pm you?

blogandfreelanc

Seun:
God probably* doesn't exist.

Seun, this "probably" is what many atheists don't like to say. Many seem to think that to not be sure equals ignorance, so they absolutely have to hold on to a belief. It is a flaw in both atheism and theism. People need to teach themselves to be comfortable to admit that they do not know. When we do the opposite, the result might be harmful to us and those who look up to us.

ZarZar:
I like to be the one reporting, not the other way around

I'd like to be the popo arresting you

ZarZar:
I was terrified lol. Thought he was gonna get me arrested, so I had to become a fugitive

You don't like the popo? Police is your friend.

Anayordike:
Thanks so much for making out time to penned down these words of wisdom.

I have come to realize that most people on Nairaland are fake and faceless individuals who have no conscience.

Just check out names like ”IgboPeopleare bad67" YorubaPeoplearecowardsxxx, etc.
Is this the kind of people one will want to take serious?

Seun should watch it because Nairaland has become something else. There's serious need to purge Nairaland of the many unwanted elements.

Nairaland should be a place for sane and matured people and not for agberos and alomo bitter drinkers social circle.

Thanks, I am glad you appreciate it. I've always known there are many of us who don't like what's happening. We just need to act more. The report button is a good way to start. Just hit it, it works like magic.

optional1:
worldpeace come and pay homage to me for helping you call in lala...



You made FP dear congrats you have made any achivement on nairaland...

Zarzar see your hubby thread on FP.

Thank you, ma lol. It is so good to know people in high position. I never experrred it. See how my life has turned around.

Saintp:
You are right. Nairaland will turn someone into a hard core tribalists if you do not have strong values. The hate on all sides is just too much.
I have a close friend I have known for the past 15 years, he is liberal minded and never engage in any form of tribalism. However, in recent times, I found out his views are changing, the once liberal and open minded guy is now drifting towards tribalism, making tribalistic comments I never believed could come out from his mouth. Just last week, I took his phone in order to extract a phone number from a message someone sent me. The first thing I saw as I opened his phone was Nairaland politics section. I didn't need any prophet to tell me that Nairaland has turned him into a tribalist.
it's unfortunate.

When you see a tribalistic comment just click the report button. It will disappear automatically. Most of us don't use it, but it works. This is the op BTW.

optional1:
wow

worldpeace congrats you have won a queen's hearts...

Don't misuse this precious chance oh
@WORLDPEACE


zarzar your stay but am still in search of a super hubby incase worldpeace fork up..

Thank you ma. I promise you a spot at the high table on our wedding day.

ZarZar:
No, I didn't mean it that way lol. He's the daddy of my future brood. We gonna make a lot of them, so he might as well get used to that word

Tell'em, baby, tell'em. Spread that gospel!