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breathcutter:
Ok Op, your story was my experience, we did trad November and church February just 3 months gap, and those three months for every night I begged humbly and roughly for sex, I got same answers in cool and calm voice, " baby, this means a whole lot to me... Please respect it, once it's done, you can 'gbakashia ebe n'ile', my humbled p***s will just go flaccid... She told me she's a virgin, she eventually was.
It took us two weeks after white wedding before I could penetrate because of her delicate and fragile nature...
The only thing is, be patient, trust me you've got a good wife who'd never compromise standards in anything, one you will leave and travel and your mind won't wander off thinking about so many things you know.
Again, if you're highly sexually exposed and experienced like yours faithfully, you will not enjoy sex at the initial stage, because she's learning to know what sex is all about, be patient, cheat if you can, get the that blast from a side chick, but let it not take your love off her, don't let her know, if she's willing to learn, suggest she reads articles on sex, watch healthy soft porn, explore her and know what turns her, she may not know, in time you'll be fine.
I enjoy sex today with my wife and have kicked off side chicks, my wife has a masters now in intimacy and sex.
Bottom line
Be patient.
Again
Be patient

matured advice bruh, really matured sir.

Ruthe:
1 Timothy 5:2
Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands, nor take part in the sins of others; keep yourself pure.

well said dear.

midnighter:
But you're still going to marry her in the church so what actually is the problem?

Somebody told you something ahead of time, you say you did not take her serious. now the thing is coming to pass and you're complaining. Nawa

Church wedding is important to some people because of the spiritual implications, why did you go ahead with a born-again if you can't even respect a basic decision like this

And on top of it you put the wedding on hold so you can force her to compromise on her principles Wow

Shouldn't you be happy that you married somebody who actually stands on their word and does as they say? Is this not a good quality to look for in a spouse?

the op has issues oh, demanding for body even when he and her agreed on what and how things were going to be done, imagine his level of self imposed right over the woman's body like really?
mehn and to think some people are going Crazy with the shirty " she is a slut and all" is really annoying to me.

She is a very decisive and determined individual and to me that's a rare quality to find in a woman, imagine the OP dEmanding his right to have his way with her body like, make she give am the op where is the said love he speaks about .

I see nothing wrong with it for real ,I did two and a half years and honestly it was nothing I really didn't think much about it and I hope to assure any one I intend to date in the nearest future to be comfortable with making decisions as such if that's what she wants , sex is over rated in developing countries hence our population explosion on the daily.

sex brings a level of complications into relationships some of us don't really care about , sex is not sex it's complicated than just intercourse but hey I guess when you are exposed to the crap going on in the world and naija ,shit happens.

a man once said " son, you can hit a woman, you can fight a man, you can shout at the top of your voice if necessary but never do this when you are angry because anger justifies nothing"

It takes a great deal of consciousness to be strong enough to bend your emotions to your will , anger is the hardest of them but for me it was the simplest, I am in control of my anger and hitting a woman is something I am prepared not to do no matter what.

Modernist:
We dared a friend to do this in school then, he got suspended he did again, he was expelled, his pops took him to Canada

Modernist:
We dared a friend to do this in school then, he got suspended he did again, he was expelled, his pops took him to Canada

your friend is lucky

even a budget has its own budget

almakiyyun:
Whose forces killed Albagdaadi? Who killed Osama binladen? In which country did the killings take place?

you only know what the media wants you to know it's why I don't involve myself with such discussion btw how sure are you that they are really dead? have you seen and confirmed them?

Boringdraw1:
What can I say?

Let him finish i'm next in line

Boringdraw1:
What can I say?

Let him finish i'm next in line

is this a punch line

almakiyyun:
. Trump invaded people's country, he kills them and still term them terrorist. Nawa for your dull brain o. So it is good for Trump to kill?

as much as I don't support biase argument and with the magnitude of respect I hold for all religion and it's followers, this is however not true sir.

rentAcock:
Sadly, ISIS does not revolve around 1 person. ISIS is a movement, an ideology, and they are hard to eradicate. Their leaders die as martyrs and are forever revered by their followers.

Nonetheless, one evening he will be using the toilet and then look up to see a US tomahawk missle heading his direction.

Isis is the mythological hydra , I laughed when trump talked about safety and all that bull scrap, kill one of them, two more will come, Isis keeps adapting and so does it's ideology, somethings are just there to stay .

invigilator:
AMW... Reminds me of a Sniper in PUBG

invigilator:
AMW... Reminds me of a Sniper in PUBG

PUBG baddest, Lolz I see you.

there is only one kiki X knows and this is not her.

Bluezy13:
10-15 years ago, it was almost unheard of that a phone was stolen in a church.
Now church instrument, offerings and even Bibles itself are stolen.
Religious masters dragged in the mud of sex scandals here and there.

Religion devaluation creeping gradually Into the society.
Reality dawning on people that there may not be any God beyond the heavens.
People now decide for themselves.

The good people apply that reality to better their lives and humanity, while the evil people take advantage of the same reality to perpetrate evil for their selfish intentions such as stealing which was once considered an abomination by the same people who once thought there was a God capable of striking them dead should that same evil be perpetrated in a suppose God's arena.

To justify these happenings and still ascribe relevance to Christianity just like the poster above me and the posters below me;
Religious practitioners call it "End time"
I...a freethinker...call it Reality

money gathered for a pastor who came to my church was stolen before he left the church, that's inside life under 25 mins we couldn't find money for pastor to buy fuel again.

babythug:
The issues have eaten deep into
The marriage and are not likely to be resolved without external counsel.

Itemise clearly what the issues are and call two
Matured people in her family. And have a round table with them. If things don’t get better in six months get ready to split up amicably.

She seems unhappy and resentful of a few things in the marriage. What I sense is having
So many children all at once sent her into some
Depression which she never really got treatment for! It can be overwhelming and not everyone can manage and adapt to married life so easily!

She’s also got temper issues obviously to hit the dependants so severely

I wish you good luck

your opinion got my attention when you talked about her having so many kids at the early stage of the marriage, I honestly feel this is the biggest clue to the problems, marriage life is not easy now talk about been a mother when you should be adapting and learning all about marriage and how best to cope with it, I feel alot of frustration and perceived neglection coming from her and her anger is getting the best of the situation.

there is a big difference between been a wife and a mother as there is between a father and a husband, something I am not sure both parties have fully understood

I don't think she ever adapted to bee a wife in the first place before becoming a mother.

things like this have made me consider family planning and marriage counseling as a major factor for me when I do prepare to get married plus the fact I want to marry a career woman who is willing to take her career to the high.


that woman is severely stressed and depressed if you can't help her I am sorry to say but for your own peace and safety you may have to consider a divorce, violence is one thing I fear the most in cases such as this.

I hate opening a thread and just see people bashing other people's region or countries mehn that has got to be the most craziest thing I can imagine.

damn it people,you have an opportunity thanks to technology to cut across your community, your state, your country, your continent, your religion, your cultures ,your traditions and the only thing you can think of is how bad the others are.

this is really crazy but hey I guess we all have our highs, perhaps you guys get high on sht like this but it's really annoying.


I have been in online communities across the globe and I am just happy to be black and a Nigerian In there and when I meet up with other blacks and white I never fail to represent Africa in general, why can't you all just accept the fact that bad things happen everywhere and focus on the good part,why the consistent hate it makes no sense.

before your stand by your country, remember your continent, no tree makes a forest, if you say bad things against a fellow black man cos he ain't from your country remember most whites don't see that , what they see is an African and by virtue of that word, your negative remarks ends up affecting you too.

I always thank God because the generation were not giving the responsibility of coming together to help free Africa, go do your history research, every Africa country stood by each other while they fought for their freedom.
we were all blacks, we were all family, we were one country and one continent, whatever hurt the other country was felt by all ,it was why I loved history as a kid, because I found out our strength was in our bond, brothers in arms that was who they were, they are the real Africans.

Every county has its fair share of both the good and the bad but somehow we always seem to enjoy poking our fellow country open wounds and sores for the world to see.

One Africa, never forget that.

x gave x his x and till date x is still x

MrNipplesLover:
dem for commot her clothe make person see toto for outside.

well-done sir , you can also try any of the above listed pornographic sites google can offer you .

its not just a black man thing even white do it, it's something that's up there in our brain unconsciously .

imagine saving up for a year for a shoe and going through thick and thin to save that much for this shoes and when you finally get it while coming back you see a beggar wearing those same shoes.
that feeling is natural In all of us.

but while we can't get over that feeling we can control our actions, taking your so called injured pride on a fellow being like this is senseless it may be justifiable but I bet there are other ways to go around it.

titiloyeblog:
A 30-year-old man, Mohammed Babangida, has been arrested for allegedly defiling a 9-year-old girl in Adamawa State.

The man was picked up for the offense by the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (#NSCDC), following an intelligence report from residents.

Babangida, who responded to questions from newsmen, said he had given the girl N50 and N20 on two occasions and it was on the third occasion when he gave her N50 that he attempted to rape her.

“I started but I did not finish,” he said, adding that someone knocked on the door and that was how it ended.

He asked for leniency, saying, “I have not done it before and I will not try it again. I have a wife and children. The government should pity me and not ruin my family.

I want to beg for forgiveness as a married man with children based in Bauchi; I don’t want this shameful thing to wreck my family.”

source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/10/i-started-but-didnt-finish-act-before-i.html

titiloyeblog:
A 30-year-old man, Mohammed Babangida, has been arrested for allegedly defiling a 9-year-old girl in Adamawa State.

The man was picked up for the offense by the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (#NSCDC), following an intelligence report from residents.

Babangida, who responded to questions from newsmen, said he had given the girl N50 and N20 on two occasions and it was on the third occasion when he gave her N50 that he attempted to rape her.

“I started but I did not finish,” he said, adding that someone knocked on the door and that was how it ended.

He asked for leniency, saying, “I have not done it before and I will not try it again. I have a wife and children. The government should pity me and not ruin my family.

I want to beg for forgiveness as a married man with children based in Bauchi; I don’t want this shameful thing to wreck my family.”

source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/10/i-started-but-didnt-finish-act-before-i.html

Usain Bolt, you started and did not finish thunder fire you there!!

saaron:
Fortunately this could be a blessing in disguise. For revolution to occur, there must be an atmosphere of hunger, suffering and misery to a level that cannot be tolerated. Thankfully the useless regime is doing a good job in that area.

wise words, a frog can be as comfortable in a pond of boiling water but not until it's skin starts to boil, it begins to look for a way out.

the revolution I dream of will come, we won't have to post about it online, we wont have to shout it, we won't have to make demands, we won't think much, one day we will wake up and begin that revolution.

the devil now needs a lawyer to defend himself too, naija which way

NIGERIAN FLOATING STATION

I used to think the seven years of trials where those who refuse to worship the beast will be hunted and persecuted was the worst thing anyone can come up with, honestly I told myself if I ended up there, black people where going to make it out alot cause we had rationality and our moral values, in other words we wouldn't behave as such animals to do such evil to others these days I can only pray I die a good heart at the right time before that day comes.

because we give the devil a name, color, gender, religion, culture, region, we have turned blind to his actions.


#ONE_PEOPLE

ola33t:





There is a subtle peculiarity in the just concluded BBN. As obvious as it is, it is not easily noticed.

Looking at the heights of these girls and that of most female housemates this season; their tiny legs, tiny bodies in relation to being built in their special parts.

It shows the organizers of BBN this season specially went for petite female housemates. Does it mean only petite girls went for auditions?


I would have said the organisers are low key pedos, but then.

hmm I actually think you have a point.

Sirbifest:
Me and my boss were gisting during lunch ,that was how we both know we are Nairalander, his moniker is popular here, truly , Nairaland is a faceless forum, to those small boys that always mention and quote Nairalanders with abusive and tribal war , you need to change, please change.

to the woman that torture those maids , she should be subjected to that same treatment

well. said.

where is ajebutter 22 and yung6ix ,anyways very good one op nicely done.

imitateMe:
I laugh at people who say women still fight themselves. If you see the thief of your marital bliss, please shake hands with her and let her go with a smile

imitateMe:
I laugh at people who say women still fight themselves. If you see the thief of your marital bliss, please shake hands with her and let her go with a smile

I laugh at people who say women still fight themselves. If you see the
thief of your marital bliss, please shake hands with her and let her go
with a smile

Nbotee:
He shld b castrated and den raped with a police baton so he'll understand d pain dey went thru.. Imagine d ediot talking about getting a second chance

Nbotee:
He shld b castrated and den raped with a police baton so he'll understand d pain dey went thru.. Imagine d ediot talking about getting a second chance

I think he should be raped first and after then castrated or in fact raped while been castrated , we go call am dual justice.

Easybela:
tension kii u there

Easybela:
tension kii u there

no mind the rapist, no be only tension na tension cable, the criminal is also a nepa man in training

CRIMINALS AFTE BEEN CAUGHT WILL NOW TURN TO GUIDANCE AND COUNSELING GURUS.
" castrate the ewu and send his balls to the family "
I hate paedophiles.