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they took everything from her , her body and her life hmmm and someday somewhere sometime that blood spilled will come back for them , if you would deny some one her life and her body , cause pain and trauma to her loved ones then the killers should be ready , karma pays in full .

Nuclear Holocaust the beginning of the end , Russia has had the worst history of nuclear accidents , the truth is we neither have the means to maintain it or make it happen ,I have studied and read documentaries on nuclear accidents lol trust me if it happens trust me the after math of nuclear radioactive exposure is worst than the accident .

Ginaz:
I like piercings. Nipples and nose piercings specifically. It doesn’t mean I’m a bad loose girl and I can categorically tell you I’m an introvert and I hate going out , I rather read a book.

O.p grow up would you? She’s an adult for God’s sake!! In as much you intended to marry her doesn’t give you the right to abuse her fundamental human rights.

do you know the one thing about us introverts we tend to be the inside out versions of the people we associate with or tend to like so do we like the things they do and know we can't do .

I know so because I am an introvert and prepares a big library of books to read and write and was about to say the same thing as you are which of course is right in all senses ,I wouldn't even mind if my kid someday puts one I don't care really but anyways I decided to share that with you.

SaintHilary:
I still see your shadows in my room
Can't take back the love that I gave you
It's to the point where I love and I hate you
And I cannot change you so I must replace you (oh)
Easier said than done
I thought you were the one
Listening to my heart instead of my head
You found another one, but
I am the better one
I won't let you forget me
You left me falling and landing inside my grave I know that you want me dead ..

RIP Juice I felt a tear drop Dammmmmmmmn!!!!

my GOTO jam hah men I am still in shock

lokito:
You're talking nonsense. The writeup was like Nigerian movies with a bad, awkward ending, you're speaking English there.

lokito:
You're talking nonsense. The writeup was like Nigerian movies with a bad, awkward ending, you're speaking English there.

go and see your pastor las las na spiritual be your matter mention ,tag or share lol I wont answer you good night typical Nigerian

lokito:
And you made us read this long, empty shii

lokito:
And you made us read this long, empty shii

you had every right,chance and opportunity not to read it so if you want to be a typical Nigeria who would rather blame others for his or her mistake or misdeed then feel free alright, I owe you nothing.

this happened to a Friend , he is agnostic when it comes to religion and God .


He is visual artist and does painting and all that for a living so I go to see one evening and he shows me a clean new razor on his room table and ask me to guess what happened to it.

I try to guess but I know I am bad at it and then he tells this story I still find hard to believe till date.



he said three days ago he was working on an art work for a client and he had used that razor but two days later hr couldn't find it when he needed to use it .
Since he had a pack he figured he would search for it some other day and did not bother to find it again till to day.
he said after he arrived from school that day he was really tired and decided to sleep , taking off his clothes he laid till that evening due to how tired he was .

he had gotten up and just walked a few steps and stretched himself when he had the sound of something falling from his back, thinking it was an insect or so he turned to look at it .

lol and behold he finds that razor on the floor in other words that razor fell from his back in shock he said he ran to the mirror to check his back hoping to see razor cuts and all that but nothing was there not even a scratch .

"are you serious?" I asked the fella

"Richy I go lie give you for that kind thing , I slept on this razor the whole noon and it didn't injure me , I don't know how possible that is because the slightest turn I could make would warrant the sharp blade to cut through my skin ,why it didn't injure me I really don't know"


we sat there looking like idiots , my friend slept on a new blade for hours and he wasn't cut .

it's funny I know but that's weird , my guy had no shirt on talk about miracle that's a big one for the guy.

written by Mark Banschick



Why do good people suffer? Is it a punishment? Or, is there something
terribly wrong with this idea?

An ancient text called The Book of Job has a worthwhile take on your
suffering. Its message is modern, brilliant and on the money.
Job's story may help you a lot.

Suffering is not necessarily punishment: “You get what you deserve” is a
universal belief that stands the test of time. Many hold that those who
suffer trauma, trials and tribulation are being punished for some
wrongdoing. It's a basic equation—and a powerful teaching.


Guilt = suffering. But, does God have a position on this?

The story of a good man named Job challenges the guilt/suffering
paradigm by illustrating that even the most righteous suffer. If suffering
is a punishment of sorts, then why should the righteous, who by
definition are without (much) sin, be afflicted with trauma?
The overarching theme of The Book of Job examines the injustice of
traumatic suffering; and the aridity of simplistic explanations.
In short, it asks two important questions:


Why do bad things happen to good people?

Is there a religious response to suffering that doesn't blame the victim?
The Book of Job: When we’re first introduced to Job, we see a good
man who’s blessed with prosperity. It seems that Job has it all—he’s
wealthy, wise and has a great family.


A good person is hurt: The author of The Book of Job opens with a
literary device. He presumes a relationship of sorts between God and
Satan.


This dialogue sets up the drama of suffering undeserved. This is our
experience of trauma; and the subject of this important book.
So, Satan wants (God) to test Job’s faith, because according to Satan,
Job’s piety can be attributed only to the fact that Job's been blessed
with prosperity. According to Satan, Job's a good servant of God
because his faith has never been tested.
Ergo, Satan challenges God.

Satan doubts that Job’s piety will endure if Job loses everything.
Eventually, God grants Satan permission to test Job’s righteousness.
And so, Job experiences a series of tragic hardships. Job is now a man
who suffers terribly at the capriciousness of life. He loses his wife,
beloved children and fortune. He’s also afflicted with painful skin
ailments. Proving Satan wrong, Job refuses to forsake his belief in God,
and never once curses God.


Trite answers to the greatest of questions: Job is then visited by his
“friends” who attempt to "console" him with worn theological
explanations for his suffering. To my ears, they sound pretty harsh.

Among other things, they tell Job:
You must have done something wrong (sinned) and deserve
punishment.

There is a master plan; you just don’t know it. Stop whining.
You're just upset with God because you lost everything.
The bigger the calamity, the greater the sin. You must have really been
bad.

(If Job were alive today, his "friends" might say; small sins are really big
sins for a righteous man, or that Job needs to suffer in order to be
cleansed for the next world. Also, harsh arguments.)
But, Job rejects them all, not knowing what he could have possibly
done to warrant such incredible suffering. He's in desperate
despair. But, Job's also determined—maintaining a belief in his
innocence and the justice of his complaints. He demands answers from
God Himself.



Job wants to know why bad things happen to good people. He knows
it’s not right, and will not accept the saccharine answers of his friends.
In fact, Job finds his friends oppressive, if not offensive.
The modern reader identifies with Job. His friends stand for many of
the arguments found in contemporary religion. They just don’t hold
water in the face of real suffering.
Sadly, little has changed.


God's response - what it teaches us: Job calls upon God—and The
Almighty in fact responds!

God comes down from the heavens and rebukes Job's friends and
dismisses the underlying sentiment of their consolations. God explains
to Job that to us mere mortals sometimes there are no words—no
rationalizations—that can make sense of the unhappiness we endure.
God finds such easy answers abhorrent.



God’s response serves as a message that Job (like every other human
being) cannot begin to understand the mystery of life and death. We are
simply not permitted to understand the way the world (God) works. In
this lifetime, none of us will never know why terrible things happen to
people.

Yet, something of importance has happened. God respects Job.
God actually comes down and responds to a mortal man. Job counts in
God’s eyes; and that’s a lot. Job realizes that even if we don’t
understand God’s motivations for what happens, we are not alone.
Trauma happens and we have to accept it. Explanations may make us
feel better, but they mislead. Ultimately, Job, like all of us, must endure
suffering not knowing why ... or if the question even counts.


Once Job accepts this, he somehow manages to live with his trauma
without becoming its victim.

A fairytale ending: The Book of Job starts with a literary device by
inventing a dialogue between Satan and God. It then ends with another
literary device, rewarding Job with health, a new wife, children, twice as
much wealth. Between these two fairytale-like bookends, we just
witnessed a great drama about the meaning of suffering. It is a giant
piece of literature and a spiritual masterpiece.

So, what’s the moral of the story?

Life isn’t a meritocracy. We don’t always get what we deserve. Suffering
at the hand of traumatic experiences isn’t necessarily an indication of
punishment for a sin that’s been committed. Sometimes bad things
happen to good undeserving people.


The Book of Job asks “why good people suffer,” but never actually
answers the question. What it does do, is correct misconceptions about
why we suffer. The truth of this wonderful tale is that man can't know
everything.

Human beings often want easy answers to hard questions. But, these
answers may be more about making us feel better than actually helping
us understand the world in which we live. Job's friends didn't mean
badly, but they misled him. They represent common religious thinking
as well as the universal need to have things makes sense. It gives us an
illusion of control.


Trauma occurs to people; it just does. If you ruminate on your sins, you
are engaging in victim mind. It is faulty theology and its bad therapy.
Our measure is not in what happens to us, but rather what we do with
what happens to us.


Although therapy didn’t exist in the time of Job, he wanted to talk. His
friends served the purpose of clarifying Job’s own thoughts. In good
trauma therapy, people learn to accept the unfairness of their hardship.
From this place, you can build back up.

Lastly, like Job, recognize that you still have a life to live. Don’t be a
victim of your victimhood. Own your whole story, faulty foundation and
all. You won’t benefit from shallow pity or sermons. Life sometimes
makes no sense. You may have lost your innocence, but with good
fortune and hard work, you may gain some real wisdom and strength of
character.

God himself may not come down out of the heavens to respond to you.
But, you can bet that you’re not the first and not the last to deal with the
kind of trauma you’ve had to endure. Get good treatment. And, make
the best life you can.


In my book, Job's worth reading because he stayed honest with
himself.
It’s a good policy. And, it makes for the best therapy.


https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-intelligent-divorce/201303/god-why-have-you-made-me-your-target-job-720

Drakkernoir:
Na real hmmnnn, who to believe now,well we really are in a country....Smh

if truly a government security agency has been lied upon in this case my question is why are they not taking up legal matters against the said culprits why aren't they taking the case because in reality its a big deal , its like lying that the military attacked you ,do you think the military would go to the media and start pointing fingers.

let them take the matter legally then I will believe DSS .

Thonee:
My Rudeboy on the list twice, � � � department.

that's crazy, he is taking his music very serious and that's a good thing.

LINTUNE:
crazy movie,one thing about horror movies is that u can relate with them

lol somehow yeah

IceColdVeins:
wow. Thumbs up bro

lol my sister usually punished me by making me watch them, we use to sleep in the parlor so there was no hiding, she scared me more than the movies with her pranks lol I grew up watching horror movies, I still do today and I enjoy them now than as a kid.

watched alot more I just can't remember all of them

LINTUNE:
friend request
the descedant
stay a;ive
death note
mirror 1
the nun
conjuring 1,2,3
chucky 1-7
drag me to hell
they are so many,i cant even remeber their names ,horror is my best genre of movies

ooowwwh STAY ALIVE was epic my friend , I postponed a journey I was supposed to take that day to watch that movie, I am a gamer so a game horror movie was going to be cool for me

IceColdVeins:
Golden classics! nice one bro

drag me to hell is alot better than most movies today.and if you believe it's crap I say kudos to your taste but its a favorite to me.

Y SISTER USED TO SCARE ME AS A KID WITH HORROR NO WONDER I GREW UP ADDICTED TO THAT GENRE OF MOVIE


1. EVIL DEAD

2. THE THING

3. INSIDIOUS TRIOLOGY

4. BLAIR WITCH

5. DRAG ME TO HELL

6. PARANORMAL ACTIVITY SERIES

7. FINAL DESTINATION SERIES (NOT HORROR JUST AMUSING)

8. SAW SERIES

9. IT 1-2

10. THE CATACOMBS

11. WRONG TURN

12.ANNABELLE

13.SCREAM

14. CHUCKY SERIES

15. GET OUT

16. US

17. THE POLTERGEIST

18. NIGHT MARE ON ELM STREET

19.JEESPER CREEPERS

20.FRIDAY THE 13TH

21.HALLOWEEN

22.THE EXORCISM OF EMILY ROSE

23.THE EXORCIST

24. GHOST SHIP

25. THE OMEN / RING / SERIES

26.1408

27.28DAYS LATER (BEST ZOMBIE MOVIE)

28. AMYTIVILLE HORROR

29.KRAMPUS

30. DONT BE AFRAID OF THE DARK

31. OUIJA: EVIL ORIGIN

32. DEAD SILENCE ( BILLY VENTRILOQUIST)

33. WINCHESTER ( A REAL LIFE MYSTERY TALE ABOUT THE MYSTERIOUS HOUSE)

34.DARKNESS FALLS ( LOW BUDGET BUT I ENJOYED IT)

35. THE MARSH

36. THE STRANGERS ( LORD I LOVED THIS ONE)

37. HOUSE OF WAX ( I LIKED THE SUSPENSE AND MYSTERY HERE)

38. KILLING GROUND

39. SILENT HILL (THE GAME AND MOVIE WAS EXCEPTIONAL )

40. HELLRAISER ( GOD I ALMOST FORGOT THE PIN HEAD)

41. AMERICAN MARY

42. THE HAUNTING ( I HAVE BEEN CONFUSED ABOUT THIS ONE WITH PARANORMAL ACTIVITIES JUST CLEARED IT)

43. CRIMSON PEAK ( TOM HIDDLESTONE NOT TOO COOL BUT IT HAS ITS MOMENTS WHICH WERE TERRIFYING AND THE SUSPENSE)

44. LAZARUS EFFECT

45. THE POSSESSION

THE ONE MOVIE WHICH REALLY GOT TO ME WAS ASH'S EVIL DEAD

MY. FAVORITE

1. EVIL DEAD

2. IT PART ONE

3. INSIDIOUS

4.AMYTIVILLE HORROR

5.GHOST SHIP


I enjoy horror movies and try as much as possible to update my Library with them including books too, it's one of the genre that invokes our hidden fear and phobias and make us feel that exact moment the characters feel . but these days you get less good ones but I will watch them all lol.


i have alot more lol someone can tag me for me

izzou:
I've read cases of women that exposed their husbands who assaulted their kids.

Even if she didn't want to bring shame upon him, why not leave? Or will her family or his blame her from running away?

That woman's esteem is below the lowest of the low, and I highly suspect the husband pounds her at home

maybe but it's really very sad.

izzou:


I'm more concerned about the wife.

She saw her husband defiling her daughter, and she reported to you? She didn't raise an alarm or go to the police? She didn't even pack out the next minute?

That man must be physically assaulting his wife. She must be very scared of him.

Just report to the police, and tag Sanwoolu on twitter. You'll be surprised how many Lagos State agencies will flood your street before dawn

I highly doubt that, our culture and traditions and religion support a more crude way of doing such things .


one. if I bring this matter out won't I be put to shame

two. won't my husband drive me away

three. won't my family be the talk of the town.

four. won't his village people call us to point fingers at me



I have read of cases of paedophilia where the pastor results to praying and fasting for the victim and the perpetrator involved, cases where because we are African we are more lenient with everything.

she is woman, an African woman a Nigerian woman a few ( I won't say many neither will I say some) believe marriage is first before anything else and that includes their safety and that of their children)


that girl has been psychological damaged and traumatized by her own father and the mom and the community believes warning him is the answer.

“But the issue changed the way people looked at my dad because they
didn’t know that we were educated, we could speak English, and we
could dress. So it changed a few things for good. It showed another
light. People then understood that in the North not everybody is
illiterate.


I trying to reason the contextual meaning of this, what does she mean by this.. but really do you think everybody in the north is an illiterate ,do we think they can't dress, I don't get but I do understand how she feels and no hard feelings towards her but those statements seem...i don't know anyway I guess people take there anger online.

NoGender:
Too bad

Fortunately the deceased would get Justice as South Africa has a functioning system, I bet whatever perpetrators would be caught sooner.

Unlike somewhere I know that over 50million people believed/still believe that over 300 grown up individuals were squeezed inside numerous trucks, and taken as far as 2000 miles away. Without as much as one other witness spotting or security personnel getting a whiff of what's happening.

Somebody even said she was Jackie Chan that jumped down from the lorry. Chai sakamaje!

SA has a functioning system well yeah if you want to rate but listen that has nothing to do with the justice system, this murder can go unsolved and without a suspect or perpetrators ,please don't quote me I do Investigative research for breakfast.

even the USA with the tech and all that still have dozens and pile of files of cold cases with John doe and Jane doe as their victims and perpetrators so just forget that invalid statement.

no country is perfect when it comes to security .

rest in peace to the decease , I hope she gets the justicshe deserves.

cuiz:
A young woman has reported how her best friend poisoned her and was the first to spread the news of her death.

The incident reportedly happened in South Africa. a young woman in Seshego, South Africa is being accused of attempted murder after allegedly poisoning her best friend and posting “RIP ” on social media.

The suspect, Boitumelo Leshabane, whose Facebook account Boity Mellow has since been deactivated, posted a picture of her best friend Lalattie Penelope, pictured, after allegedly poisoning her and thinking she won’t make it.

In the post, Leshabane added crying emojis with the name of Lalattie, and when one user asked if it was true that Lalattie passed on, Leshabane replied claiming she heard it was true and that she was taken by ambulance at 2 am.

“She was the first to post R I P while I was fighting for my life” – Young woman narrates how she was allegedly poisoned by her best friend

“She was the first to post R I P while I was fighting for my life” – Young woman narrates how she was allegedly poisoned by her best friend

Lalattie, however, made a miraculous recovery to tell her survival story.

“A lot of you wonder why I was lying on the street vomiting blood . Truth is I was poisoned by my bestfriend . Someone I grew up with and known since we were 4 years. She poured “Iodine” in my drink and she kept asking me if I was okay . She was even the first to post “R I P” while I was fighting for my life . I thank God for giving me another chance . Even thou ko Thomo phela ka di pills every day . I barely can talk properly. Bafe2, be alert! And o lebelele Motho o mmitxang Bestfriend”.

“She was the first to post R I P while I was fighting for my life” – Young woman narrates how she was allegedly poisoned by her best friend

When Leshabane commented offering her apologies, saying she didn’t mean to, Facebook friends could not hold back, accusing her of witchcraft.

“She was the first to post R I P while I was fighting for my life” – Young woman narrates how she was allegedly poisoned by her best friend

Seshego police say no case has been opened and that they would gladly investigate attempted murder if the victim came forward to open docket.

A lot of comments in the post encouraged her to open a case for formal criminal investigation.

http://irukkanews.com/index.php/2019/11/29/girls-best-friend-poisoned-her-thought-she-was-first-to-write-r-i-p/

the whole story is not adding up and rather seems Circumstantial to me as an investigative writer.

and why hasn't she opened a formal case yet with the police if her medical reports prove poison.

there are questions that aren't answered here or yet so I can't comment further.

. now we know the boyfriend is never coming out.

Lo so sorry my dear reminds me of my own little painful expenrience I had.

I was doing my IT then and decided to hustle side by side with a lecture job so I got one through the aunty that lectures my aunty kids .
two kids with a pay of N8.5k for me it was more than enough I took it, the woman was paying on time jejely and was able to understand whenever I wasn't around that I was also doing my IT so I heard about this lecture close to my house that was willing to pay 15k .

guy man rushed and found out that the new lecture which covers primary, jss and sss and jamb would also run for 6days in a week even worst the man was using a rented apartment so I went and I got the job as the science teacher, he asked for our acct number saying he prefers to pay through acct.

Lolz Omon after the first month of slavery teaching, my uncle parked out of area with children money and sent 6k to our account, I was able to confirm he sent same from the other guy who called me to ask.

before I say lemme return to where I was getting N8.5k bus Don pass me.

hahah good old days lessons learnt.

1StopRudeness:
What exactly do u want from me??
u misinterpreted my comment..I clear you but still you are still asking if I’m depressed or disturbed..if u are bored look for someone else to engage cos I’m not catching ur drift

tagging your ludicrous comment as a sarcastic reply was plain awkward it's really that simple stop trying to act like it was nothing, would you actually read that and tell yourself it's just a harmful mindless joke which everyone should laugh about?
anyways good luck with your sarcastic remarks.

1StopRudeness:
Get of my mentions if u can’t read sarcasm.... and please grow a sense of humor...life isn’t this hard ...

sarcasm you say , are you depressed or disturbed?

1StopRudeness:
Use her for rituals.... That’s the only thing girls like that are useful for....


You can thank me later

and to think a woman birthed you and to even think you may have a sister or one day have a girl child mehn you have got problems.

Respect55:
That's is it. At least I kept to my words. I assured her when we started that if they would ever be any cause for separation, that it wouldn't come from me.

so sorry about your heart break dear friend at least you kept this promise to the end this was really impressive so to say.

Slynation:
See ehh... I don't know how u see it, but i feel no one should be kept in bondage all in the name of a certain ship like GF/BF, u want her, then put a ring to that finger....If not u both are free to live your normal lives however u wants it

lol I understand you brother.

AfroKnight:
Now I understand better. Thank you.

I think I should study law after I retire. Would be good to see things from a more informed perspective.

hahaha if you got the passion you will find it interesting and I see no problem in it , I myself enjoy writing about crimes the most, understanding the psychological behind crimes and criminals lol good luck and good night.