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MelesZenawi:
“ The Rivers State Police Command has declared Justice Amadi Alias Italian and his gang members wanted . He hails from Omueke Isiokpo in the Ikwerre LGA of the state .
“ Justice Amadi alias Italian is a notorious armed robber and leader of a cult group whose gang is responsible for all the criminal activities in Ikwerre and its environs . He is dark in complexion, 5 . 6 ft tall , in his mid 20 s , speaks Ikwerre and English languages fluently . ”


Case closed, they should look for him and arrest him.

MelesZenawi:
“ The Rivers State Police Command has declared Justice Amadi Alias Italian and his gang members wanted . He hails from Omueke Isiokpo in the Ikwerre LGA of the state .
“ Justice Amadi alias Italian is a notorious armed robber and leader of a cult group whose gang is responsible for all the criminal activities in Ikwerre and its environs . He is dark in complexion, 5 . 6 ft tall , in his mid 20 s , speaks Ikwerre and English languages fluently . ”


Case closed, they should look for him and arrest him.

that description will end up getting the whole youths arrested and tagged Italians some can even be referred to as Brazilian if care is not taken to all the youths of that community just know if you match that description you're either Italian or Italian, no two ways about it lol.

oz4real83:
This is why other civilised countries are always scared and skeptical about sharing intel with Nigeria. We put everything in the news and scuttle investigations. I expected Efcc to have been carrying out discrete investigations on suspected individuals even without any petition or public knowledge. Prosecution will start after gathering enough evidence. America investigates even the Potus without his knowledge.

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I can remember how confused I was back then from wanting to be a pastor to a pilot to a doctor ...wait no I hate the sight of blood so definitely anything medicine was not in my agenda funny enough I come from a family of medical doctors literally all my bigger bros are in medicine but me black ship lol just wanted to be a writer and an artist, family called me crazy and so I went for science and for four years I couldn't get admission into any of the medicine line, it hated me as much as I did.

days from now I will be a fully fledged grad student of computer Science with aims of studying 3D animation where I can accomplish my dreams as an artist, a writer and a computer scientist, haha sense nor go kill me.

they wanted me to hold syringe when all I want was a pen or a pencil lol if passion leads, do not be afraid of been misled.

justtoodark:
thunda fire ram....
if i catch this guy the slaps he go receive ehn....

don't b3 a religion extremist, chill and enjoy life.

PoliticalWitch:
Before anyone blames government, blame the guy for deciding to join a cult when he could have just stayed free of cults and done something meaningful with his life.

Why join a cult which brings you no benefit, other than Damocles being on your case for no good reason....

we have blamed the guy like you said can we kindly now blame our government

Americanboy35:
Do they celebrate Halloween in Nigeria too?

no they simply celebrating a trend.

ThinkWISELY:
It’s funny when Afrikan man calls his ancestral Spirituality evil but celebrates Halloween just because it's western

well welcome to the 21st century if only this people actually study a bit of history they would know what Halloween was really about back then.

AsoC:
Banished.. Tf. What century are we in


Let's Build website for your firm/company/business/store... No advance payment.

it may interest you to know there are countries who still banish their citizens , it has a fancy name it's called denationalisation .

man cries out lol you sure say no be tears of joy for pepper soup things?

Mrceejay:
Please pardon my grammatical and typo errors, I am sharing this to encourage job seekers on this forum, I served in Kogi State, Lokoja to be precise at Dangote cement Plc, Obajana Batch A 2018 and finished in March 2019.

I already planned to spend two months at home with my family before setting out to hustle immediately after my POP which I actually did. On completion of the two months rest, I planned my journey to the north with a business plan and some amount of money but unfortunately I couldn’t proceed with the journey for some reasons and I was already tired of staying at home so I travelled to Ogun State to say hi to a younger cousin who was already working there.

We went to church on my first Sunday with him and he was showing me this big organization and I was like whao…

On Monday I just tried to google search the organization, lo and behold the school has a website, checked their website and saw a 2018 job advert for a media person I just dropped my cv and wrote a short cover letter about being an embedded systems engineer and can do robotics and automation stuffs, and I received a mail which reads ”when can you come in?” I resumed in less than 2 weeks and I’m already 4months into the job , no exam, no serious interview except that I had to do a little exhibition of my skill and my co-workers were like who brought you here, how did you get this job and all.

The bottom line is I got a job for an unadvertised position in that organization majorly because of the skill I have. Yours is coming soon

you have not only succeeded in encouraging but also inspire me in ways you can't imagine, thanks for dropping this, I won't forget it in a hurry.

marvin905:
I understand your points ..
buh let me highlight something for you..
whether we like it or not both marriages are not on equal ground one out weigh the other..
let me put this to you..
you can do a traditional marriage without doing White in our society and in the eyes of God and man you are married buh you can't do a Christian marriage without a traditional no church will wed you ..if you know of a church that will do that please say..
and let me tell you this most people that seek white wedding isn't because of religious beliefs from my own observation..
as for me I couldn't careless about white wedding but if my future says she wants it and financial capable I will give it to her

no argument from my side, well said bruh

Chigold101:
Brother she told you this you went to pay the bride's price. So I don't see why you are acting surprised.
Again wisdom should have told you to fix the wedding immediately after or even during the traditional wedding.
In Igbo land it is allowed for the couple to do church wedding in the morning and use the traditional wedding ceremony as the reception that is after you might have paid the bride's price the day before.
I won't blame the girl because a friend of mine was totally destroyed emotionally and psychologically and she never really recovered from the shock until she died few years after. A man claimed to love her and she was head over heals in love. The man paid the bride's price, did every other thing that is traditionally required, but finally abandoned the girl two years after and got married to another lady. He said my friend was an ogbanje.
I have another girl who is like a daughter to me, pressure of life pushed her into early marriage that never lasted for 3 months with a baby to nurse plus a broken heart and almost a broken life. The man can as usual did all the traditional rites put her in the family way. Came up with all manner of stories and left her.
I don't blame this lady, respect her christian faith and church doctrine.
I didn't touch my wife until after our wedding night.. But I did everything within two months. I wanted to do everything withing a month but because the Bishop who would wed us have other engagements, it now took me 2 months and 2 weeks.

Don't break your marriage because of sex. It is too early for that. Don't make the lady detest sex forever. Don't make her see sex as only a man's need.
Give her space. Fix the wedding date and wed then joyfully enter into the world of sex with your wife. Don't give her reasons to doubt your love for her. Women are looking for tender care, understanding and practical love.

DON"T BREAK YOUR HOME NOW... IT IS TOO EARLY TO HAVE MARRIAGE PROBLEM

well said ,well said.

NoToPile:
God bless you.

whoever that gave that opinion has said everything I wish I could say. my hats off to s/he , honestly that's all truth.

Lufthansa:
Why lie to him she is a virgin when not one. If he goes ahead with the wedding and later comes to find out the lady cajoled him. He has every right to opt-out of the marriage. Be sincere of your virginity status. If a man will marry you, he will irrespective of that. Why tell lies!

Besides, how sure you those you claimed became baby-mama after their wedding never once claimed same as the sis in question and only for the husbands to sex them and story changes. They begin stories like they lost their virginity to sport e.t.c

OP can go ahead but once he finds out it is a scam. I beg opt-out fast!!!!!!

to be sincere, I really don't see virginity as a standard for a good wife nor a happy or successful marriage , it's really nothing to me, virginity like my mom told me is just a gift amongst many other you share with the one you chose to be with.

marvin905:
yes

thanks for indulging may I ask if you celebrate Christmas?

because if you do according to some Christian doctrines you are partaking in an occultic festival or something of that nature fact is Jesus wasn't born in December and there was a certain festival in honor of some deity and all that which to some sense have some proof

listen I am not much of a religious person even though I respect each and every religion the thing is Christianity has survived this far by adapting customs and traditions , yes a white wedding is a white man's thing as well as Christianity but we accepted it because it provided standards by which we felt were morally right and socially acceptable in the eyes of the world.

I get your point in my family, traditional wedding is the wedding too but that doesn't make the significance of the white wedding at less sort after.

much respect to you and your opinion.

marvin905:
please show me where in the Bible that says white wedding is the real wedding..
you do know that white wedding is also a traditional wedding to White's ..
do you still know we have different races and culture's so if Asians Indians africans don't conform to another race way of life
then they are not right In the sight of God

listen may I ask if you are a Christian just play with me o. this one and answer my question what I may tell you next depends on your answer, let's talk, I like your views

obidark:
am i lying....??
i nyansh any woman on the first date....
when you agree to know me,why shouldnt we nyansh....!!??

i dont force any of them....never tried....

listen man like I said I got no issue to resolve or try and make a point out of my opinion for you , if it works for you am sure it's okay and fine they're saying one man's food is Another's poison so we all good bruh.

Nnemuka:
Who knows what he wants to do
Trap her with Traditional whatever, impregnate her, then claim she isn't a virgin, and dump her.

Men do it alot here
They come after you, begging you to get pregnant and before you turn left they wont be in sight anymore.
ndi uchu ......
These women that you tagged baby mamas actually started this way...

Bia Op, only thunder will fire u if you dont fo ahead and fix the white wedding
virgin gbuo gi there

lollz haha seriously I be dey reason say na pregnancy trap lol the guy wan use too but I doubt it just a bit.

lolz I just don't see why suspending the white wedding is the obvious right call for him to make

obidark:
chai....stvpid....
when women ar hot at you,they will nyansh you anywhere,anyday....

some men are very stvpid....

hahahah well come to the 21st century where ignorance, stupidity and overall foolishness are celebrated.

continue your life bruh, I have no qualms with you.

marvin905:
who own white wedding is it God or the British

you do know even the whites most of em don't go to churches to Wed and yes it's still termed a white wedding.

the idea of white wedding for a Christian is the legal bounding of a man and a woman before the altar of God by a priest or a pastor in a view you can say this is a religious white wedding .

oladiran2:
Is traditional wedding not wedding or because it's traditional in front of the wedding and not church?

what you are not seeing was the decision this two matured individuals made before the start of this, for me that's a very important ritual for any relationship, listen bruh I have done 2 and 8months without sex , if you can't respect the decision of a lady you claim to love then what's the love you talk about even more where is the trust that you built that love upon.

Nnemuka:
mumu men ;
yall deserve the kind of ladies you get
I bet you heard virgin, and u rushed her and probably single handedly provided everything she needs as a man.

see naa, coochie you no come get
Truth is, she's a spiritual person and a born again
fix your wedding, if after wedding, what is served is not what u ordered.for then u can complain.

For now, finish what u started
You agreed to no sex, so keep it like that.

what I don't understand is was he not planning to do the white wedding at all I Mean if you have done the traditional rites already what really keeps him from doing the rest and to think he is postponing the said white wedding and getting the family involved in this, I don't know how people dey act shall.

edunaragold:
Bro its means na she go dey control u now,if i were u never have that sex again till she cry and beg u.when she is not a Virginia,yeye.

well-done prophet habacock

Akseph:
Don't put the wedding on hold, please. Think of these:
1. Remember you agreed not to have sex until the night of your wedding. Be a man of your word. Your wife will also trust you if you can hold. But why do really want to have sex before marriage?
2. If she is truly a born again Christian, please respect her own opinion. Sex before marriage is not it at all. You can hardly find such woman nowadays. Remember i say if she is truly a born again. hope you are also born again?
3. You should be a man that can control your emotion. Please work on it.
4. No matter the issue discuss with her and you people should agree. It is called marriage and not slavery. Even when you are married she still retain her right as human being.
5. If you know you cannot cope with her in the same house. Let her find somewhere to stay. maybe your church member, family members, female friend. Please don't follow some of the advice you have here. Only those who have a shoe on, knows how it pinches.

to be real I am just irritated by how the op is going about it but I am not angry at him, I am a guy and we'll I know I can't be in such awkward position shall but I think your advice would serve him alot.

obidark:
no man has a right over a womans body....its their property....its either they give it wilfuly or you have no rights....

obidark:
no man has a right over a womans body....its their property....its either they give it wilfuly or you have no rights....

very true, imagine the self imposed right op has given to himself , this is how some husbands rape their wives without knowing, because you have done the traditional rites her body has now automatically turned your property like damn and you say you love her?
where is the respect for each other and all that love crap the Op posted about.

men, some people though.

obidark:
no man has a right over a womans body....its their property....its either they give it wilfuly or you have no rights....

very true, imagine the self imposed right op has given to himself , this is how some husbands rape their wives without knowing, because you have done the traditional rites her body has now automatically turned your property like damn and you say you love her?
where is the respect for each other and all that love crap the Op posted about.

men, some people though.

kunleweb:
So you call normal relations as being fanatical. That's why your kinds do multiple abortions and yet get dumped. Yeye

kunleweb:
So you call normal relations as being fanatical. That's why your kinds do multiple abortions and yet get dumped. Yeye

calm down lollz, calm down.

breathcutter:
Ok Op, your story was my experience, we did trad November and church February just 3 months gap, and those three months for every night I begged humbly and roughly for sex, I got same answers in cool and calm voice, " baby, this means a whole lot to me... Please respect it, once it's done, you can 'gbakashia ebe n'ile', my humbled p***s will just go flaccid... She told me she's a virgin, she eventually was.
It took us two weeks after white wedding before I could penetrate because of her delicate and fragile nature...
The only thing is, be patient, trust me you've got a good wife who'd never compromise standards in anything, one you will leave and travel and your mind won't wander off thinking about so many things you know.
Again, if you're highly sexually exposed and experienced like yours faithfully, you will not enjoy sex at the initial stage, because she's learning to know what sex is all about, be patient, cheat if you can, get the that blast from a side chick, but let it not take your love off her, don't let her know, if she's willing to learn, suggest she reads articles on sex, watch healthy soft porn, explore her and know what turns her, she may not know, in time you'll be fine.
I enjoy sex today with my wife and have kicked off side chicks, my wife has a masters now in intimacy and sex.
Bottom line
Be patient.
Again
Be patient

matured advice bruh, really matured sir.

Ruthe:
1 Timothy 5:2
Do not be hasty in the laying on of hands, nor take part in the sins of others; keep yourself pure.

well said dear.

midnighter:
But you're still going to marry her in the church so what actually is the problem?

Somebody told you something ahead of time, you say you did not take her serious. now the thing is coming to pass and you're complaining. Nawa

Church wedding is important to some people because of the spiritual implications, why did you go ahead with a born-again if you can't even respect a basic decision like this

And on top of it you put the wedding on hold so you can force her to compromise on her principles Wow

Shouldn't you be happy that you married somebody who actually stands on their word and does as they say? Is this not a good quality to look for in a spouse?

the op has issues oh, demanding for body even when he and her agreed on what and how things were going to be done, imagine his level of self imposed right over the woman's body like really?
mehn and to think some people are going Crazy with the shirty " she is a slut and all" is really annoying to me.

She is a very decisive and determined individual and to me that's a rare quality to find in a woman, imagine the OP dEmanding his right to have his way with her body like, make she give am the op where is the said love he speaks about .

I see nothing wrong with it for real ,I did two and a half years and honestly it was nothing I really didn't think much about it and I hope to assure any one I intend to date in the nearest future to be comfortable with making decisions as such if that's what she wants , sex is over rated in developing countries hence our population explosion on the daily.

sex brings a level of complications into relationships some of us don't really care about , sex is not sex it's complicated than just intercourse but hey I guess when you are exposed to the crap going on in the world and naija ,shit happens.

a man once said " son, you can hit a woman, you can fight a man, you can shout at the top of your voice if necessary but never do this when you are angry because anger justifies nothing"

It takes a great deal of consciousness to be strong enough to bend your emotions to your will , anger is the hardest of them but for me it was the simplest, I am in control of my anger and hitting a woman is something I am prepared not to do no matter what.