₦airaland Forum

Ryocaj:
Think.. Yes he wrote incest is a sin.. Wat he meant was if they were cousins they wouldn't be sleeping together coz they know incest is a sin..

he word incest is a sin is satirical.

I have never ever discarded Kemi's stories from day one cos I just believe that ''a mad person'' as she was believed to be one, usually speaks the truth.

orisirisi.
Mumu talk

dairykidd:
You make sense bro... It's just plain stupidity on our leaders. It's like trying to treat stomach aches while u keep eating bad food.. Sometimes i wonder if our leaders even go school at all. No common sense.

Yahoo boy has helped me so well in my life when I was down and out so who am I to condemn them? they tried bringing me in but I will rather die poor than do yahoo but then I will never judge anyone who chooses that path.

DexterousOne:
What is this one saying now?


There is NO excuse for crime

People keep saying this but I will tell you that indeed there is an excuse, the same excuse that makes you lie, just be ready to face the consequence if it backfires.

I will never support crime but I believe its high time our Government realized that when the country makes it difficult for youths of the country they govern to prosper legitimately, this is usually one of the options they explore.

Mumu girl, so which man no go cheat on you?

cRobo:
I totally disagree with you

As extremely good as I am I don't cheat

I said hardly which mans not all but rare. Epele Mr faithful.

Miffia:
Hi everyone... Good Afternoon

I will keep this brief and short.. Ignore any typographical error, please.

I have this boyfriend, we've been dating for years now. The thing is, he doesn't last long during sex, he's a 2 minutes man, as you people call it. There was a time, we had sex, less than 1 minute, yes, I mean less than a minute, just 3 or 4 thrusts and he released. He was shocked, sad and disappointed, I was shocked too. I was even the one cheering him up, not to be sad, that everything will be okay, that's not his fault, he just wore his cloth and left.

This is someone I want to marry, we will soon do our introduction and wedding, and I don't want our sex life to be boring, we are not enjoying s*x at all, and I don't want to cheat on him... We love each other so much.

Please, anybody that has experienced this before, or know how to stop it should advice me on what to do, its not making me happy neither is my boyfriend happy too

Your advice will be appreciated.. Thank You.

there are solutions so look for a way to solve it.

Men that are very good in bed hardly stays with one lady.

wany:
Hmmmm another brain dead spotted.so you mean this ladies are not happy because they don't have a man in their life ba,boy what is more important to a woman is her children and not necessary the man ,go and double check.this ladies you mention have children.so they are very OK.and making pileing the mulas.

Who be this uncouth brain dead sorry case of a human being?

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otherway:
Any lady is also free to cheat o.

lol

Magnoliaa:
So, you'll rather spread the mantra of accepting the status quo than imploring people to change their conditioning? Attitudes?

You call it a Mantra but i call it nature, no one can fight nature. Deal with it or continue to fight a lost course.

Amanda4life:
I pray God blesses you with my kind.

I will quietly treat your case.

In your next life when you see a woman you will take to your heels

Seems you are going through a tough time but be strong.

Amanda4life:
Please push this topi to front page.

This is exactly what I'm going through at the moment, and am sure some people are.

I have learnt from this, I also want them to learn from it.
Thanks

You need to call the mods. Maybe myndd or lalasticlala.

LilMissFavvy:
You mean you still could not see the difference between my comments and his own? Hmmmmmm.....it's ok.

Honestly I can't argue with you regarding how you comprehend his write up but it is all about perspective.

Ladies get emotional anytime they read about men cheating but it is so unfortunate that it is the reality of life and only a realist will understand this which I guess is who toks is.

My sister, talk from now till tomorrow, vex all the vex in the world and infact write and preach against unfaithfullness and you will be amazed that it will be effort in futility.

Who fights nature? Same way you can't win this battle so learn to cope. This is a bitter pill to swallow but please start learning how to cope with the bitterness cos it will help you in this wicked world of men.

This matter don tire me to discuss abeg.

LilMissFavvy:
Hmmmm......pls wear your glasses .

* The OP says a woman's priority should be her children, but I countered it telling him that the kids should be both mother/father's priority.

*He blames women who divorce husband's for cheating thereby the increase in broken homes, but I countered it, telling him that the man is to blame for cheating in the first place, and should stomach the outcome.

* He said women of old were not bothered about their husbands philandering, and I made him understand that it was because they were dependent, etc.

Where did he say ladies should be independent? ? He said ladies should condone cheating from their spouses and concentrate on kids. I counter it, and told him to preach that men should be faithful.

Ladies and emotions. If you read his write up objectively and removing your emotions, you will see the message but if you already have a bias then you will always have issues comprehending his write ups.

But what amuses me is when people attack him instead of give a counter post to the topic. This I find very disturbing.

PHOTSEE:
AND WHO ELSE? PLEASE TALK FROM YOUR ENVIRONMENT, YOU MOTHER SUCCEED AT HER OWN TIME, WILL YOUR WIFE BE ABLE TO, AT THIS HARD TIME? MY BRO, BAHARI WAY GO FLOG YOU NEVER COME BACK FROM LONDON.

But the question is what if it happens? You go kill yourself? Are there not single mums surviving?

The OP was not even asking ladies to be single mums except menopause is imminent but that ladies should get a responsible man that can cater for her kids.

I think people just what to argue for no reason. He may like writing controversial topics but they always make sense to those who wan see sense.

Is this not why people like Davido and wizzy Timaya, flavour are having baby mamas everywhere so why are ladies even finding trouble grasping the message.

If Ned Nwoko decides to make your babe his baby mama this minute your babe will not waste a sec so why are ladies arguing this blunt truth?

Abeg no mention me for this matta again. Hypocrites everywhere.

PHOTSEE:
YOU MEAN TO BE INDEPENDENT JUST FOR THEMSELVES, THAT NO PROBLEM BUT INDEPENDENT WITH THE CHILDREN. THAT NO MARRIAGE, THAT IS SLAVERY.

If a lady has the number of kids she can take care of why not?

Are single mothers committing suicide cos they have no husbands? Abeg talk another story. Many women are even breadwinners today taking care of the children and even the husband.

Toks made perfect sense with this piece. My mum told me If she looked at my father's behaviour she will not even give birth to me but she did and took care of us successfully and yes she is happy.

Is Linda ikeji, Genevive,iyvone jekede and their likes unhappy? I think ladies arguing this write up are dumb.

LilMissFavvy:
The priority of both husband and wife should be their children....don't lay the ''priority on children'' thing on women alone, especially today's woman.

It is childish for anyone to expect today's woman to act like women of olden days. Today's woman is educated and often a working class, she is exposed and has a say in issues. Yesterday's women were mostly dependent illiterates who were dependent on men, and saw their husbands as god's. They could tolerate all kinds of oppressions from men.

A woman that dumps an unrepentant cheating husband should not be blamed, and she is not jeopardizing her children's future like you have said, rather she is protecting herself from emotional blackmail, or STDs.

A philandering unrepentant husband is not worthy of love/respect from his wife and children, so he should be ready to swallow whatever decision his wife takes. He may end up having kids littered everywhere/many divorces, but his wife should not be blamed. His life, his choice!

Do you know that after I read your post I was totally confused because you just rewrote what toks wrote up there.

Infact from what I can deduce he is saying ladies should learn to be totally independent.

Nairaland ladies and unnecessary arguement.

I don't know why toks like bothering his head advicing these ladies who are not ready to face the truth.

All I see here are just emotions outpour and some blatantly attacking his personal life.

It goes to show the crop of ladies we have on nairaland.

zealguy40:
Old prostitute. This woman MUST be snoring at nights.

wettin concern snoring with beauty or ugliness?

karnafiu03:
From Biu, Borno State.

I pray for God's protection upon your lives in Jesus name...AMEN

Nice pics and beautiful petite lady.

I love them petite and curvy.

HAPPY EID AL ADHA TO ALL MUSLIMS ACROSS THE WORLD.

Today as Muslims across the world honors the willingness of Ibrahim(Abraham) to sacrifice his son as an act of obedience to God's command in Genesis 22, one great lesson we should learn from this is that GOD only tests us to know how obedient we are to him and until we are disciplined to obey GOD, we may never experience true blessings from him.

On this great occasion I pray that Allah(Jehovah) floods our lives with happiness, our hearts with love, our minds with wisdom and that the free gift of salvation through Jesus(Isa) the messiah (Quran 5:75, 5:72, 3:45) grants us eternal life in Jannah(Paradise). AMEN!

Hmmm!

Blastedholligan:
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.

Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.

Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.

My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.

Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.

Pardon my scattered words.

Enter first.

Chai I can marry this babe cos she set die.

PropaMan:
i dont want to sound like a hater but, i dont even understand while these upcoming artist keep wasting their time doing concerts, like whats really prompting this concert especially this time of the year when the election is by the corner,
not my business, but i dont understand Nigerian artist sometimes..

You wan vote for April? abi U.K dey vote? yeye talk.

1Sharon:
Lol you sure it's not sold out?

Cant be cos April is still about 19th is still about 2 months away.

I will try to be there. I love the guy.

Euouae:
"Mother: I am happy because Leah is doing the right thing. Even if they shoot Leah there, we believe that she will be with Christ Jesus."


Stupidity!


Even the pastor encouraging you will bend to worship Sango when its about death.

A Jesus that cant physically save her from where she presently is, is same you are expecting she will be with.

Outright Rubbish.

It seems you think the way humans see mortal death is the same way God sees it...Nay.

It is our soul that matters to GOD and not this body. If GOD will have to save every believer in christ at the point of death then I guess no believer will die.