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potbelly:
You mean this?

Omo chop knuckle. Correct guy

nubian999:
Shit! He is fiiiine though

Ladies and fine guys be like*we that picture sef*

Hog wash.

A wife must still play her full role even if she is the full breadwinner.

If I like I help and if I like I won't .

Oga toks I be your fan but i don't agree with this one.

Unrealistic thread for today's woman.

segun400:
Photos From Ex President Goodluck Jonathan’s Granddaughter Lavish Birthday Party


Former President Goodluck Jonathan’s granddaughter Princess Eliana Godswill-Edward turned a year September 22.

Her parents Faith and Edward threw a lavish birthday party.

See more photos below;

Source:http://www.flexygist.com/2016/09/24/photos-from-ex-president-goodluck-jonathans-granddaughter-lavish-birthday-party/

How about the over 100 exotic cars the couple got on their wedding day?

As long as Jonathan name is mentioned then thunder fire all of them except the innocent young child.

Criminals

Geniro:
See them, brainless zombies on rampage. See as small pikin birthday dey pepper these ediots. LMAO.

Abeg gerrarahia.

Who is angry with an innocent child? it is the fool in the name of GEJ that destroyed this country the more we are angry with.

Standing5:
See affluence . . .

I hate this man GEJ for destroying this country.

saintfellow:
Op are you sure that man is human or a beast.
normal humans dnt do this.
this is the kind of people that deserv jungle justice.

I really don't get it anymore.

Ashawo is now cheap at least with N500 you can do a fast one so why this?

Good one..Fashola can not come and go and die.

Sophyrocks:
This guy that quoted you wants to force anyone who disagrees with the op to agree. He could be the op's alternate moniker. Clearly, he is not alright upstairs.

Now this is getting more interesting. I've been expecting you to even call youngpo413 an alternate toks ID.

What is my business with you agreeing with OP, I was just pissed at the way you and the other guy were trolling and you guys really showcased a shallow intellect and that was my concern.

Please lady do whatever rocks your boat and stop trolling. Good night

Btw I just spotted toks slso viewing this thread lol! Oga toks biko come bail me cos some trolls Don label me as you.

NobleG1:
You mentioned me in your comment.

I addressed the topic even though the thread was a st*upid one. My point was logical to logical thinking people. If you f*uck up, I would tell you f*ucked up, that' who I'm. I don't mince words.

I cautioned the OP because he advised women to tolerate their partners' infidelity to ensure a happy relationship! How st*upid was that?! Can he tolerate his partner's infidelity to "ensure a happy relationship"? I guess his response would be, "NO".

No sane person would create suck a nasty sexist thread!

But some truth dey there o. Though toks thread dey always look controversial but sense dey there sometimes.

sambisa5:
What are you even saying that sounds so sweet in your mouth?
You are one of those turning the bible upside down.
Changing the message, spreading another method.
And now you are talking about consequences when the woman is caught,,,,,,
that you love cheating on your wife or babe, doesn't give you the boldness to encourage others to do so on social media.

lol! nah fight?

preetyslim:
Cheating is bad. Men find every reason to justify their cheating. I can't go into marriage with the idea that my husband will definitely cheat and be happy about it. No, I disagree with number 1. Unfortunately, most Ladies have accepted that men must cheat and have adapted to it. Please Ladies, let's us do away with such myopic mindset. Don't take such nonsense from a man.

Now I'm beginning to get reeaallyy scared.

Some naija babe's get serious issues.

cindyrocks:
Such a rotten mentality.

INCASE you believe you are too cute for a man to cheat on you then you need to go out and see super drop dead hot chic who are single and ready to mingle.

It's so amazing that women want a man who will be faithful to them alone yet will have eyes for a man other ladies want.

Strange people...if you want a faithful man please go for an ugly short broke guy.End of discussion.

oshorstan:
Wrong Advise.. Few guys like me don't cheat , so why will my wife need such advice

Wrong advise because you don't cheat but is it also a wrong advise for women who have cheating hubbies? Oh I guess the op ought to ask them to leave their marriage to start sleeping around like sluts or start indulging in the act of self sex with toys or turn to lesbos?

mizcyn:
also ask your mum the important things she faced and how they made her happy?and let her tell you those days and nights she cried her hearts out while you were sleeping and how she turned to church activities for comfort. Mothers are known to shield their children from thier pains. Ask her till she tells you?

My mum was full of joy and she still proudly talks about it.

Continue to compare yourself with the malefolk if that rocks your boat. Abeg e do.

mizcyn:
you just lied. They were never at peace. Go back and do a sampling.

Is there peace anywhere in the world or in any marriage?

Go and do your findings and you will be amazed that no marriage is perfect.


The bottom line is that endurance in this instance can pass for the happiness and even peace in marriage.

The day my mum of almost 70 years sat me down to tell me stories about her life with my late dad I was like O.M.G yet while growing up I had no clue as they always joked and played together.

My mum said she cared less cos she had more important things to face.

I pity young ladies today who want to die over a cheating hubby cos they will die and the man will continue with his life almost immediately.

Sophyrocks:
I dnt care what you think of my comment. As you can see, many have stated their opinions however they deem fit. If a man who has failed woefully in his marriage comes here to spew jargons deluding himself to think he is some counsellor, we have every right to address his hypocrisy! So My dear, face yourfront and dnt quote me if you have absolutely nothing to say!!!!! All men backing the op, your karma is just getting started.

Why I'm taking time out to defend this particular write up is because I have a sis who is almost 40 yet single after two failed marriages due to the same cheating thingy so wait until you are about 10years into marriage and come back to comment.

Bye and have a great sunday

repogirl:
Sighs....... this cheating thing be as e get sha

Different strokes for different folks..... Protect your man from cheating because whether you like it or not,there are plenty karashikas out there looking to prey on your man and he can fall o.

In the case you marry the type that chases everything, you are going to have your work cut out. It will get to a point where you need to decide whether the marriage is worth it. Like I said different strokes..... people are different, marriages are different.

Op, what you are asking is hard, for a woman to be indifferent (Some with hard minds can be though), it's not really in our nature to be indifferent. Personally I think indifference can give the husband free reign to do as he likes since the wife doesn't care and she even advised him to use protection.

Instead of indifference , try communication , he should know that it is wrong and it is affecting you and the marriage. Also, get to the root cause of his cheating.... most times it is a lack of discipline on the man's part and not what the wife did or did not do.

If my husband is the type that philanders(the unrepentant type) and I know, na to lock up shop throway key o. So that he will not give me one disease I will be treating for the rest of my life abeg.

Finally OP,instead of this kind thread advicing women to expect cheating, you should focus more on advising guys like you on the dangers of cheating and why its wrong. If you keep hammering on it, you could help men realise that they can rise above the urge to cheat. Thereby breeding a new generation of men with core values and respect for their women.

This is the most intelligent comment I have ever read on this thread and I'm glad it's coming from a lady and I wish other ladies can learn a thing or two from this.

We'll articulated without the use of abusive words or baseless attack on anyone.Big ups lady, your parents must be proud of you and you are most likely going to make a good wife and mother...

Sophyrocks:
Small boy still living in a fantasy world! Allow a man who could not save his marriage to fill your head with fantasies. You cheat on a female and think she will just be looking at you. You better pray you dnt end up with a woman that will decorate your body parts with hot water or acid or cut off your d1ck or even pour all sorts of disgusting concoctions in the food you eat for each time you cheat. Or dnt you hear what women are doing now?The op is just deceiving all of you. Keep patting yourselves in the back. una never see anything. you guys have no idea what goes on right under your nose. Nigerian women will continue to surprise you men. Karma is just getting started on all yall.

This comment got my attention and I would like to make some submissions.

When you comment on a topic please try to address the topic and not the life of the writer because it depicts shallow intellect and God knows km not trying to defend OP but it is one absurdity I have observed from many people.

The true test of mental sanity and sound intellect is the ability to discuss, argue and seriously disagree with another without using abusive words or attacking the persona of the other person and this also goes for NobleG1 .intelligence is not about using big grammar but it's in the way you interact and comport yourself in the wake of stiff situations.

I'm so impressed that he has willingly ignored every immature comments on this thread and I would do same if I'm in his shoes.

Please let us make reasonable comments and always try to address the subject rather than the person.

goldbim:
If the man could willingly pay another woman bride price but you had to beg him to come and pay yours means he is not interested....you married him,he did not marry you..lessons learnt:don't be a iyawo Nylon bag!! ..

I really got confused when she wrote that..as in begging a man to come pay her bride price...

And she said the guy was begging her to come back...some things just don't add up ..but it's non of my biz though.

Itzurboi:
We all understand no one would love/appreciate such situation but since some cant control the cheating habit in them, we should be prepared our mind for the possible unforeseen contigency... if i had a tip of this, i guess i wont be heartbroken when i caught my fiance cheating right under my nose, who we courted for 4yrs, already acquainted with each other family... My dear, the truth is a cheater would always be a cheater...some of our parents can attest to that, just that wisdom was applied that why you still see them together...

Exactly....btw why use a male gender ID when it's apparent that you are a female...gatcha

Youngpo413:
low "IQ" is an understatement.

Honestly I have read several comments from different male and female as well as pretentious genders claiming the opposite and despite all the epistle, rantings and wailing I still ask one simple question....can all the preaching in the world stop men who wants to cheat on their wives?

If No then why the wailing and wishful epistle? It's like some people just love to write baseless.

The point is not all men cheat and the OP Don talk am BUT IF YOUR HUBBY DECIDES TO CHEAT ON YOU just have a shock absorber as he wrote and you will be amazed at how indifferent you will feel or at least less heartbroken.

As I wrote before, many ladies are in the psychaltry wards all across the world and the #1 reason they are there is because of heartbreak suffice to say it's because of a man so I will advice women reading this piece to appreciate the doggedness of the OP and I will send this link to my sister who have gone in and out of two marriages now all in the name of looking for a faithful man.

If you like replace happiness with tolerance,endurance or any other adjective but the bottom line is that deep inside there is this peace you have and our mothers in their 60s will relate to this.

Toks God bless you for dishing out the truth back to back and I hope nland mods bring more of your threads to the front page cos your frank threads are indeed insightful.

Sgttanner:
( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me

Abortion is bad...what if you are destined to have just a child in your life time..na im be sey you Don kill am be Dat.

LuvU2:
My husband shd expect me cheating on him
I think i'll recommend the op as personal counsellor for my hubby.

nice idea

Biko stand up make I see you.

You look like Yvonne jegede.

zheroes:
would you also expect your wife to cheat? i never said she will but just have it in mind so if it happens you will take it in good strides? at least if you wont take it you can leave.

It's a two way thing

Only a mumu man will say his wife can never cheat on him so it is also expected and if I like I forgive and if I like I send her out which is also the same on her part.

Leave or stay.

diva90:
No.1 is a stupid misconception. So the woman should expect to be cheated on and take it in good stride. I also hope the man mentally prepares himself for the day his wife would 'accidentally' cheat too. So glad many women are now 'very wise' these days. Even the bible condemns infidelity, so why would anyone in their right senses condone it. It's different if the offended spouse decides to forgive and let go but where there is lack of remorse, then it's a problem!
As for no.2 it is very important that a woman has her source of funds. Don't depend on no man for everything. I know a couple that newly got married and everytime they fought over money the man would call her a wh0re and gold digger just because she was asking him to do basic stuff such as giving her money to take care of herself. They are currently separated now anyways. The issue of finance is always a problem in many marriages.
No. 3 applies to both parties. Everyone should know their duties and adhere to them.

Every lady wailing over that point 1 are either foolish, myopic or outrightly dumb.

If I were the op I Will not even respond to any comment from any mumu lady wey never marry because nah teenagers and naive ladies full naira land.

I Don read the article twice and I still don't understand why many ladies are castigating except the fact that most of them have low iq to comprehend.

If you like die and come back to life, a guy wey go cheat go cheat so why the wailing?

Op is saying "expect him to cheat" but if he does not fine so why is this hard for ladies to comprehend?

Last Wednesday I witness where a man almost broke the head of his wife because the wife dey accuse am of cheating and my mum who is over 60 was just shaking her head that young ladies of nowadays are ignorant.

The one that shocked me the most was wen my younger sis told me that 95% of ladies in psycathry are there because of man issue which boils down to the same cheating palava. I read where an American lady died while chasing her husband who she suspects of cheating on her so abeg is it not better to live long as a woman rather than die over a worthless matter you have little or no power to stop?

Op I may not agree with some of your threads but any woman that has a little iq should follow your advice in this masterpiece and she will never have marital issues but let the imature ones who still believe elephants can fly continue in their folishness.

The craziest part is that 8 out of 10 women who leave a cheating husband ends up committing adultery with another woman husband or start sleeping around like slugs so why leave your marriage in the first place?

E be like sey many ladies reading this article dey read am upsidedown or nah dia brain no fit understand.

He wrote that ladies should have the expectation and not that it is OK for a man to cheat and he even condemn the act sef. Omo I no go fit marry naija babe o cos many if them get low iq walahi.

Akalia:
But a times I wonder how these recently risen stars get this rich and buy expensive cars, is it just the few songs they have to their credit that fetch them enough money to afford all these luxuries or is there another way they make ends meet?

If you believe everything you read then you can believe elephants fly.

Most of the celebrity affluence gist nah wash.

ireneony:
This guy fine sha.
He's tall and have sexy lips..
my i kind of kind

Except you also have the outward beauty wey match his looks I guess you will only be fooling ya sef.

Ladies deceiving their selves since time memorial...they want a guy who will be faithful to them yet want a man other ladies clamor to have.

Better be real and go for real guys who will be ready for the real thing and stop daydreaming. Fantasizing over sexy lips.You must be a learner.