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End time husband

I dey always gbadun your thread walahi. Carry on bros.

This life is an empty one.

Toks2008:
Yeah bro...

If i am not your type today then im not your type forever.

Every lady should see a man's money as "THE MAN'S MONEY" and a rich or financially ok guy as they tag it must only be a plus and never a criterion for loving a man or staying with him and infact it is a criminal act for a ldy to be in an affair with a man WITH THE HOPE THAT HE MAKES IT LATTER IN LIFE.

Ladies must learn to love a man for the sake of love and must never affiliate their feelings to what the man has or what he is likely to be cos all those can go in a whimp.

Honestly i will rather settle for a togo girl that sells kenke to be financially dependent rather than be with these empty and hopeless lady vultures who after spending years in the higher institute to bag a degree will still come out with a hopeless mindset of getting a made guy rather than strife to be made but only pride themselves in speaking packaged grammar and would rather invest on their body to attract a rich guy rather than get serious in making something out of their life. Awon oponu

I dey gbadun you bros toks

Toks2008:
In situations like this i would wish i was not a believer in Christ cos such a lady deserves to be used like a slut as in use and dump her ass.

Foolish ladies everywhere who were sent to the same school we were also sent to,live in the same country we live,seek for the same employment in the same companies that we do and even have more chance of gaining employment than we do yet will want us to be financially made in our 20s and 30s before we can approach them for romance... help me ask them why their parents spent so much on them to get a qualitative education just to come out to have no sense of self reliance but only to start hoping for a man who has the finance to come into her life.

I think a new course should be introduced into the curriculum of our higher institutions...and should be called Richmanology where ladies are trained on how to hunt for guys who are financially ok.

Hopeless ladies everywhere...Each parents should hence forth start asking their daughters before they spend a dime on her education "Do you plan to come out and fight hard to be financially independent against all odds"or will you still come out to start hoping to find a rich man after we spend our money to send you to obtain the same degree this same men have?"

Richmanology lol!

Toks2008:
It is the wish of many ladies to get married and while some ladies are fully prepared for the institution,many are totally naive about what lies ahead after saying i do but from my little experience in life, i present to you 10 things no mother or pastor will tell you before you say i do to that man.

1.That no matter how sweet the man is to you,no matter how caring and romantic and no matter how many prophets told you he is your man,that sweet man can turn to a demon after saying i do so what it seems before marriage is never a guaranty of what it will be after marriage.

2.If your man cheats on you when you are courting,there is a 90% possibility that he will do even worse after marrying you and you need to get prepared for that.

3.If your man beats you once,it could be a mistake but if he beats you the second time then its a habit he is likely never going to stop.

4.That it is good to marry a man you have feelings for but it is a terrible thing to marry a man who does not desire you as much as you desire him.

5.That if you marry a man because of what he has and not because of mutual love then be ready to be miserable in that marriage as long as it lasts.

6.That a man can love you with all his life and will still cheat on you because most men think with that thing down there when it comes to their feelings for women and are polygamous in nature and no matter how sweet and disciplined you are,it will not stop him from cheating on you and divorcing a cheating hubby is no guaranty that the next man won't do worse.

7.As a lady, as long as you are sexually decent,GOD fearing,an excellent cook,financially independent and humble,you have absolutely nothing to fear because it will be extremely difficult for your man to disrespect you much less divorce you.

8.That 90% of men who cheat on their wives are not ready to divorce their wives but it is these wives that push the man out with impatience and hot temper so you will need lots of patience to deal with a philanderer because in most cases,they always come back home after having their feel of the side dishes.

9.That no man owns the key to your marital happiness except you because most men are the same and no man is worth the stress and as soon as you are married,you should focus on building your life as well as that of your child(ren).

10.That there is no right or wrong choice of man but what we have is your choice and what you make out of it and only GOD can guaranty a happy marriage.

Hope these make some sense.

You may add yours...

I always make it a duty to check your threads when ever i have the time to come on-line and you do not cease to amaze me with your blunt approach to issues.

That number one is so true and i have a sister who is still in shock because it was like magic to her seeing her husband acting the exact opposite of himself before marriage.

This marriage thi8ng sef.

Toks2008:
I know am not supposed to be disturbing you all this very moment knowing fully well d situation of things.

Pls, don't think am taking you all for granted or trying to take undue advantage. I cherish our friendship more than u can imagine, it's just dat I don't know who to ask or where to turn to at dis very moment.

Sometimes, things become so confusing n extremely difficult that one is forced to inconvenience friends n family and u are one of those I know I can run or turn to in a time like dis.Pls don't be offended n don't take it to heart or feel bad if u cannot be of help to me, it happens atimes.

Sometimes, you really want to help, but d situation at hand at dat moment really makes it impossible to do so. I understand.But will appreciate if u can help me wit dis. It is very important you tell me. I really need d answer pls.............I want to fry dodo, should I use plantain

Honestly bros when i first saw the thread i was like oh my toks need urgent help? but after reading i just could not stop laughing. Walahi you got me wella.Nice one.

Me i don talk say na internally displaced camp i wan go get wife.

At least the ladies there will make sense die.

Younger.fresher,sexier and more domesticated and best part be say dem no go demand for too much money..

Na so life be o.

I can imagine if the guy toast a typical hopeless money monger naija babe that time na insult she go give am but today same hopeless babes dey open am for am just because na phyno.

I hate many naija babes for this mad nature of judging a man by his present status.

Mologi:
Hmmm ile aye,ile ason

May souls rest well sisters
You have done ur part

Vanity is the first name of this world.

This moment that person is alive and the next thing the person don die.

MosakuAW:
I dont get it! Are these Boko haram people greater in numbers than the Nigeria Army.

Nigeria Army show us dead bodies of BH everyday, but the numbers of BH activities soar. Are they recruiting members everyday or the Nigeria army are deluding us by showing us pictures of innocent people.

Am very sure BH members are not up to 5,000 members. If we cant win the war on our own, please let us invite the Russians and the American army to help us wipe this people away once and for all.

With all these, i doubt if the December target can be achieve. May God help us in this country.

How can you win a war against people who are ready to die? Except we call on baba GOD. all these effort of our army no go fit do am.

emmboy:
I was having a feeling that my girlfriend was cheating on me. I tried asking her on different occasions but she maintained she wasn't. I thought she might wanna open up to me but I thought wrong.

I've been telling her to go for an HIV test long before all these, of which she promises to go for it but she ends up giving me so many excuses why she couldn't, like being busy and all that.

So this particular night she came over to my place and we started talking, I asked her again if she was having an affair with someone else but she denied again. I needed to know because I didn't want to waste my time with anyone, I wanted to know so that I could know where to place her.

So I told her I'd gone for my own HIV test, and she needed to go for hers as well. She wanted to know the result of my test but I told her never to mind cos I won't and if she's lucky enough, hers might just be different from mine, knowing we've had it raw too many times.

I think she got struck by the cord, so she started pestering me and begging me in fear to show her my result, but I refused blatantly. I stylishly told her she's really done so much in my life by changing me to whom I am and preparing me for what I wasn't ever prepared for.

She thought I was HIV positive, I was putting her on her toes cos I didn't come out clear, then I asked her who she's been sleeping with apart from me. I begged her for the truth this time, that telling me the truth is the only thing that will make me show her my result. That was when she started crying, telling me how she got pushed by friends to dating this guy, not only that, she's been having unprotected sex with this same guy and at the same time with me.

I didn't see the writing on the wall at all so all these was so surprising to me. After telling me all that, I told her I'd not done any test, and I'm grateful I know the truth now and the truth has set me free.

I dumped her sorry ass cos no amount of pleas could change my heart. A couple of weeks after, I did my HIV test, with my heart buried in my lungs, but thank God I'm negative and I'm not gonna screw this second chance I've got.

So pls readers, no girl is worth the raw no matter how much you feel you trust her. And also, checking your HIV status is the only way to know you are positive cos before then I thought I was cos of so many symptoms I used to have but surprisingly, after knowing I am negative, all the symptoms stopped.
Thanks for taking your time to read. Have a nice day.

tory for the amadeohas.

How can u ever do without having it raw? the wife wey u go marry nko, you know if she dey positive?and even if she dey negative wetin be the assurance sey she or you no go play away match still carry am come house.

na God dey protect abeg.

Mercies of the lord come down to your children...Aa nu oluwa sokale awa omo re mbe be

Melish:
Toks2008 and ddshow are attacking siamia...
Toks2008 and ddshow were attacking melish..
Toks2008 and ddshow are using big grammar...
Toks2008 and ddshow always in agreement...

Their posts are constructed in the same manner with similar lines of thought.


Toks2008 is the "good man"
Ddshow spews the insults...


Nice try

This girl get serious issues o., so toks is also Ddshow and me kai! milish trust me with your nature if you see man mary you at 50 make you thank GOD.

I always read this thread at night and yes i am an ardent follower of toks ever since i registered months back so because i made comments here that commended him now i am toks,Ddshow too is toks,milish you have very serious issue that you must go vilage go solve. So if we lambasted him and bring him down how will that solve your disrespectful and lousy nature?

Truth dey bitter and it wll always remain bitter. Adults quarrel even more than young ones but it is about settling in a matured way.Bros toks dey blunt and i have obsereved him many times but been blunt is not same as been abusive and using the word autocratic is not an insult but the ego of the OP made her see it that way so make we talk true. If the OP likes make she apologize for outright name calling if not let her not,it all goes to show individual's personality.period.

For you milish i promise to package better e-curse for you if you ever quote me again.

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

lol!

dem never test am and you don conclude.

Very funy

Melish:
Using multiple accounts to speak grammar, Insult people, chyke women and support your own posts...

You've really got issues bro ...
You need healing big time...

this one pass be careful...

you deserve a round of applause for your foolishness.

3 accounts..funny.

my opinion remains my opinion.

See the thread don gather extra 4page because of toks lol and the op nver see say he has strong influence.

As for u smally e be like say e-curse dey worry u.

Melish:
Toks2008 account number three..
Keep 'em coming

Who be this toddler wey dey cause nuisance for here.

wat do you mean by toks account number 3?is that wat you do on nairaland?

i no blame you at all,its toks and op that allowed disagreement otherwise a spoilt brat like you wll not be spitting rubbish.

you go soon count reach 10.better go grab a life.


TFY if you quote me again

Toks2008:
The ethics of my profession embraces proactiveness,innovation and dynamiism which remains the opium of any sustainable and progessive corporatiion or individual.

Having said that..i have decided to lay to rest the clamour for ladies in their late 20s...though i expected the OP to execute a liberal and democratic approach to my suggeston by throwing it to every one on the thread but she chose to be authocratic about it and i had to let it go.

If there are ladies of late 20s on this thread i believe you wont even write this because you would have silently sent a mail to any lady in your age bracket that catches your fancy in terms of her beauty or personality even if you are on the bench as a result of your ae.

Im writing this because of the mention but the op has the right to be epiphatiic about this or still hold on to her standds.

Hello every one,i have been reading from teh sideline as usual not because i no qualify to post but i just dey observe.

Please check my profile and you will see that i am an ardent follower of toks on nairaland WHY? because i love his personality and i have interacted with him many times even offline.The only guy i know on nairaland that is not too bias about expressing his passion which is writing and intelligent ones at that and infact about 10 of his threads have made front page which goes to show his level of intelligence and intellectual capacity.

Why i dey write all these? Its because despite all,he is still human and no human being on earth is perfect so im not in any way taking sides but please every one should reason this out.

1.Did toks insult the OP? A very BIG NO.autocracy is a word and not a vulgar one but an adjective that was used to describe the manner in which he feels the op has run the thread which is his opinion.

2.Is his insistence on adding ladies of 26plus out of place considering the fact that there are many 30,31,32 year old guys here? NO because except we wan deceive ourselves,a 31yr old guy go prefer a lady in late 20s and since they are not here it means there is no need for these set of guys to show face here and nothing bad if teh op throw this to the floor instead of NO NO NO answer.oga toks na politician o and these people know how to consistently clamor for a change so his asking you again and again is only a reflection of his bargaining power.

3.How many 30lus ladies dey comment sef? With due respect many ladies are gossips and very malicious,i read comments like he has ego problem and i wonder..ego in what way?because he asks for an apology?

In my opinion,for a man of 40 to ask a lady of 42 to apologize because he feels offended no be too much demand from a man except ladies wan begin claim gender equality or wettin dem dey call am..

Well my advice to bros is this,oga toks you no say i don dey follow you tey tey so abeg no dey use too mush grammar wey go be like sey you dey abuse because to me o u no abuse anybody or attack anyone but small small abeg.

As for the OP aunty siama,abeg put pride aside,toks is a 40year old guy o and if he happens to be your husband if he wants an apology from you na to trowey am give am so be a good example and apologize biko.

Let the younger ones learn that even the old disagree and agree.

Toks is a stroing force here and i have been reading his comment here most times at late night and infact i quote his comments very well on other threads.We no wan miss am abeg.All these people acting as if they make post were no where when this thread was building up traffic but bros toks was there from page 1 and just this little disagreement has even added 2 more pages fast so what does that tel us.

He is the man so abeg apologize to him make people no see you as proud.

HungerBAD:
So the guy rub his thing for her back?

Punishment is when you feel Genevieve ' s naked body ,and then you go home to your Vaseline.

And what is so special about her body?

lol! "cut your head" GOD FORBID I ENTER THERE

Gracito:
yeah, they can, but I must say, it gets weary. I've been wearing glasses, for over 9years. My sight gets worse, it hurts. And I've gotten so used to touching the tip of my nose with or without the glasses there. Just got contacts recently, not cos i want to be fake, but cos sometimes, I won't mind being seen without glasses #

I get so scared when i see people touch their eye lens to bring out the contact lens.

henribj:
big fat lie
or better yet, be specific... do we run after them so as to marry them, or just to catch fun with them?? that is what you should be specific about.

Gbam

quiinnBee:
choi.my ex crush.

congrats to him

Whenever i hear say guy dey marry his long time gfriend im always impressed becauyse that long time means when dj exclusive still dey hustle na im the babe don dey with am no run go meet ready made guy like many other babes but well sha the guy fine like me so e go hard for babe to leave am even if he no get shishi

congrats to them.

nickkylawve:
So did he end up marrying sade after singing for her?

LOL na dekunle gold go fit answer that one o/

Me i no know any shade,na you i know.

nickkylawve:
I need d chorus too

What tribe are you?

You seem to understand the lyrics so im happy you got the message.


Here is the full lyrics just for you my orente. Just replace your name with the sade and assume im singing this for you.

Oh oh oh…

Sade…

Oya now

Otipe ti’n mo ti’n ba re soro

Otipe ti’n mo ti’n toast e

Sade….

Ojo n’lo

Ose to lo ni o pa thirty

Sade

I dey beg say make you marry

You tell me say you no ready o

O de jo

Omoge dakun gbo temi

Jowo ma je kin lo commit o

I love you die

I need you die

Baby mi jowo

Please come be my wife

Je’n gbe lole

Mummy mi reti omo

Marry me o baby

Baba mi reti omo

You know I love you

Omoge wa femi….

Je’n gbe lole

Mummy mi reti omo

Marry me o baby

Baba mi reti omo

You know I love you

Omoge wa femi

I say I need you girl

You say you need sometime

But time hin no dey girl

Answer me on time

I dey beg you say make you follow me

You tell say you no love me

O de jo

Omoge dakun se temi

Jowo ma je kin lo commit o

I love you die

I need you die

Baby mi jowo

Jowo

Please come be my wife

Je’n gbe lole

Mummy mi reti omo

Marry me o baby

Baba mi reti omo

You know I love you

Omoge wa femi

Wa femi wa femi

Wa femi wa femi o

Je’n gbe lole

Mummy mi reti omo

Marry me o baby

Baba mi reti omo

You know I love you

Omoge wa femi

Won reti omo

A ni won reti omo

Won reti omo

Je’n gbe lole

Mummy mi reti omo

Marry me o baby

Baba mi reti omo

You know I love you

You know I need you

You know I want you

Omoge wa femi

Je’n gbe lole

Mummy mi reti omo

Marry me o baby

Baba mi reti omo

You know I love you

Omoge wa femi

Ah ah ah ah ah ah…….

Je’n gbe lole o……

Sade

Marry me baby

A ni won reti omo

You know I love you

Omoge wa femi

Sade…

Omoge wa femi…

(Ni aroo monday i dey woo babe for nairaland..temi bami)

henribj:
yeah, but not everyone likes using glasses all the time. I use contact lens some times, would use it all the time but the stress of putting it on and taking it off and the irritation that comes from sleeping with ?? mehn the stress plenty, but if you can overlook all that stress, then contact lens is a better option than using glasses... #justsaying

Oh my na wa o bro abeg stop using it.

Chai! just read the embolden again and you will even agree more with the Op's view about it.

nickkylawve:
U still find me come her?

I dey beg say make you marry
You tell me say you no ready o
O de jo
Omoge dakun gbo temi
Jowo ma je kin lo commit o
I love you die
I need you die
Baby mi jowo
Please come be my wife

nickkylawve:
ur moniker tho

When name don finish for nairaland and after many attempts i just try this one and the thing entered.

I laughed my head of when i saw one usere name that reads "namedonfinish" lol!

Honestly im attracted to your luvly frame,you look so takeaway

nickkylawve:
Hmm until is faulty byond repair den u cn chck bk

nickkylawve raise up your head,i want to see you very well lol!

I actually tot the OP is so sure of what he wrote until i realized that it is because he does not have early morning erection.smh

Its not every guy that wakes up with an erection expecially when the guy in question has lots of stuffs running through his mind like job interviews,business ideas to accomplish and lots moere and i think guys who think sex almost all the time always wakes up with an erection.

So in my opinion the guy no get wahala abi no be so nickkylawve my tittat

nickkylawve:
chai wrongnumber *faint*

Im not joking o.

henribj:
the contact lens thingy is not a turn off for me because i know some ladies use the recommended(by a doctor or eye specialist) contact lens. apart from that, the rest you mentioned can be a turn off to me depending on my mood at the moment i sight the gal in question.

contact lens recommended by doctors?na wa o. tot recomended glasses can do the work