Abide by her decision.

Respect her decision & don't invest too much in the relationship. Most importantly, always get yourself prepared for the worse.

A word is enough for the wise.

dopedan:

This one is different sir, i was an alpha before i met her, but im no simp tho

Alpha Man, bringing a 20 year old child matter to a public space.

SMH

dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

Girl say no sex and you agree? You're a fool!

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


wat I SEE as a Ganja Planter, u can't SEE!


She can NEVER kip d virginity till wedding DAY!


She go collect like 16 different PREEK b4 she SETTLE down!


Na Small PIKIN STILL de worry her, MAMA and Papa ADVICE STILL de Ring for her HEAD pan!


Wen CODED Nigga JAM her, she go 4get all does MATTERZ Bcus she no go 1 lose d Nigga!


Una STILL de BUY market for ShopRite!


Una NEVER Wise up yet!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Hahaha
This go good for music chorus o.

Naso I date one lady like that for 4years, claiming to be a virgin, I didn't had anything with her, now she's married with kid. Woos know what you are doing. One word is enough for the wise. Happy new month

She is just 20?
Lol.

There are still a lot of guys to come her way.
You are just a brief insignificant period in her life.

By the time she enters University, she won't remain a Virgin, I promise you.

Na she go dey visit the guy to collect dicckk.

obembet:
Please support her and allow her to keep her Virginity.

Am still a virgin too

Wow! Glad you're one. Forward your aza, make I shower you with sth.

dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

If she were to be your blood sister , what advice would you have given her , at the end same guys will be lamenting that girls of nowadays don't keep their virginity .

What is the end product, after breaking the virginity of a girl that told you she doesn't want such? I'm sure you will find a way to keep yourself blameless, while you turn her into the devil that caused it all.

There is no honor amongst thieves. A blame game will surely be the end of this.

You go just see say, you no achieve anything for life. If you think doing all these things has no spiritually damning effects, do it. Go break your gf even if you have no plans of settling down soon.

Just be a friend to her and forget about sex, since you are not yet ready and mature to marry her now. The right man for her will come and marry her unless she will wait for you until you are ready to marry her.

She get somebody somewhere wey dey fok am

dopedan:

I should masturbate for six years? No way

always go to olosho wey dey your area now or look for one old woman wey no dwy born children again

nor be you go break that girl virginity, and e go pain you reach your bone marrow. Know this and know peace. Except you are ready to marry her this coming Saturday the 2nd of May 2022.
Better let the innocent girl go and plan a better future for yourself on how to make money. Cos the same girl that is keeping her virginity will loose it on a platter to a man that will be willing to take care of her and settle down with her. That's just life's reality for you.

dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

She is not ready for marriage and sex for 5 years or more. There is no point dating. You guys should just be friends till you're both ready for marriage. If you're both dating now, you guys will just keep deceiving yourselves.

dopedan:

I should masturbate for six years? No way

Oga you need a bedmate not a love relationship. Find a bedmate. If you love her you will let her be.

Every girl that has said no to sex till after marriage ends up getting smashed after one week
Virgin or no virgin
I just accept and touch them were they path the Red sea open

Itohan22:
She is a God fearing girl and you lucky to have her.
Respect the decision and stop thinking with your d**k

will the pvssy also abide by the rules ,for me a virgin at 20 yrs now in Nigeria is a big red flag,the op may end up disappointed with what he will get after 7 years of waiting, nothing wrong in testing the compartbility of what you are taking for life

Ximenez:

She won't remain a virgin till marriage.
You won't be the one to deflower her.

Those two things are certain.

OP If you cannot maintain her till her next BF or maybe defiler comes around, just free the babe and give ur life to Christ.

dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

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All the answers are thankfully in God's word, the Holy Bible...

"Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband." - 1 Corinthians 7:1-2

There are far more important things to be concerned with, so at least in self-interest, pray for and try to maintain control... because a lack of control comes with all sorts of consequences.

"But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof." - Matthew 6:32-34

See bad mouths, confusionist everywhere though many are talking from experience but does that means there is no ladies that can keep their body till that very day?

My advice for you is that you're still young to be keeping all this on your mind pursue your dreams with passion.

For the girl and the Virginity, if you keep your own virginity even if she eventually break up with you in as much you keep yours and faithful to God. God will bring another beautiful virgin once you're ready to settle down.

Taking from experience though.

dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

osazsky:
fvck he armpit its d same thing it's just that there are bones there u will enjoy it try it and see

What kind of a perverted kink is that or perhaps, you're definitely kidding, aren't you?

Please do not mind the words of pessimists, their experiences directly or indirectly have turned and make them believe women are never faithful.
What you believe is what you attract. Keep the girl, be faithful too, you can do it. I dated my virgin girlfriend for 5years before we got married, and we kept each other.. I wasn't a virgin before I met her o.. You guys should focus on your careers and Christ.. Above all if God says she's the one, who Dare changes it? And if otherwise, better will replace her.

SenatePresdo:


I don't know if I should side with you, or the girl.

But one thing I have to say on a neutral ground is that, no matter how hard that girl loves you, if she doesn't follow a more matured made man later, she would cheat on you. Either way, you must have a story that touches the mind.

Im telling you from experience.

The only thing you currently stand to gain from that girl is sex, if she eventually leaves you, it will pain you. But if you don't fzuck her, when she leaves, it will be very difficult for you to move on.

Mark it somewhere.

The only thing that can avert this things I said, is if you make it within the next 3 - 4 years, that's if you are lucky enough for her not leave you before then.

Bad Advice... Op, don't listen to this.

Prepared for the worst but still praying for the best.

dollynnn:
Wahala

You wish to get married in 6 or 7 years' time yet you wouldn't let a 20 year old who has resolved to remain chaste be.

With respect to your woman, she is the one putting herself in a tight corner. She is not cut out for intimacy yet she is in a relationship with a man who is not even celibate.

I thought people have been advised to date those who share the same ideology(ies) with them.

Clearly, you both are on different pedestals.

The young girl may give in after being pressurized by the OP and the OP will come back to Nairaland to share his conquest sermon.
This, I have seen.

well said

For me, virginity is overrated. Sexx is also overrated. Secondly, no sex before marriage is a scam, sham and deceitful.

I will never advice anyone to get involved in such marriage �

How can this be done?
I need some feasible examples.

pinknipple:





Manufacture a problem for her,solve it

Make sure she can't be able to pay you back in a geffy,

As soon as this is carried out effectively,you can bang her all the rest of your life.

okoroemeka:
will the pvssy also abide by the rules ,for me a virgin at 20 yrs now in Nigeria is a big red flag,the op may end up disappointed with what he will get after 7 years of waiting, nothing wrong in testing the compartbility of what you are taking for life

I stand with you. Something must be amiss somewhere. Probably she has vaginismus or she is frigid which will come to him at very high cost.

Test before purchase - caveat emptor

What is the problem here?

dopedan:
My girl is just 20 but she doesn’t want sex till after marriage, she is a good girl very sweet and pretty, shes still a student and has never demanded any thing other than my attention and love, i don’t know if i can be celibate till i get married cuz im in my early 20’s and i may start thinking of marriage in d next 6 or 7 years, please what is ur advice for me
no insults please

If you are sure she ain't bleeping another niggarrr out there , if you are sure you have lots of patience, will you marry her , she is just 20 , lots of time though if you can't then cut your expectations off and start seeing her as a just a friend not a girlfriend except you see some level of commitment but then expect too much from girls nowadays they are unpredictable and can change colour any time soon, keep that in mind don't expect anything just friends not your girlfriend anyway