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after she has left a bad man, she should still be the one taking the children to go and see him
she doesn't need to prove anything to the children, a good father will reach out by himself and if he doesn't the children already know him for who he is.

was she expected to come give the new bride a kiss before?

hmmm, this is even people that still have a roof over their head, there are waaayy worse cases in this country.

But some of these cases just looks worse because they keep what they don't need and the whole place looks untidy, if they clean up a bit it wouldn't look as bad.

Soo....

Realdeals:
My question is why must we pray against such happening? The monarchy system has outlived its usefulness. The era of subjugation of humanity is being fought, everyone is equal before the creator.

this is the kind of comment I kept scrolling in search for, and after the praying why should it still happen?

this OP only came here to mock this man only the unwise will believe these

Religion, nature, and the olden days supported it to be so, but that was also when men were expected to be the bread winner over his home.

so, whoever pays the bill rules.

BigJoe19:
Have you gone through puberty? You talk like a little child, now go and read your books, tommorow is Monday.

lol.. ode! because you are on NL? see this rat

OP you get sense, God bless you

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HardeyGold:
Na lie.... If she truly loves him.. she won't give him a deadline rather she will support him towards their future, so as to make things better and runs smoothly....

She given you a deadline perhaps she is dating someone else b dat.... Indirectly telling you YOU HAVE A TINY ROPE HOLDING THE RELATIONSHIP.. any moment in time... She gonna vamoot..

NEVER TRUST A LADY❌❌❌

and there's also such a thing as "never trust a man" she is going with that.

BigJoe19:
All this stupid talk yet you are unmarried and have no man in your life.

are you the OP? so because them give your mama belle run, come born big head like you now, you think every woman is stupid and lonely

yimu! why will she not give you a deadline? with all that happens these days you'll have a stupid woman if she doesn't. women's clock are different from men, and she has every right.

she even loves you that's why she's giving you a deadline like she still wants you to try some men didn't even have any idea when their own take follow another person go

landmark86:
Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.

I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.

To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.

The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.

She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.

Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.

She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.

Now I keep asking my self some question;
Is house help not a human being?
Is it a crime in dating/marry them?
Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?

Please help a brother cos am in love with her.
Thank you.

Marry her Oga Don't date her, if its not your dick that is controlling you that you are thinking its love, just leave her there and keep observing her, go hustle and when you are ready, marry her. dont spoil the relationship between her and your sister for nothing that may not last.

do you know how many women marry another man they don't love? just because men are unreliable.

even if it hasn't happened to you, you can't wait until it doesn't, gotta Learn from other people's stories

Richnerd69:
He said a 'foreign lady ' and not necessarily a white one. I'll choose a foreign lady any day, over some Nigerian ladies. My mom is foreign and she gave my father peace. Even in her stay in Nigeria, she was taken aback by the way some Nigerian ladies behaved; They have this strong entitlement mentality, hoping to be established by a man. Lady what happened to your own dreams and goals?

An average Nigerian girl is motivated to date you because your financially buoyant , wow. They will turn down a gentleman because he is struggling, trying to make ends meet.

Talking about drama: Ladies generally are very dramatic, so it's something we guys have to adjust to. In real sense, an average Nigerian girl can hardly keep up in intellectual conversations when you engage them ; They rather enjoy talking about romance , movies , food, hair and make up. Just a few intellectual ladies in Nigeria I've come across and I was marveled.

men! the only thing men now do better than women is to complain.
with my job comes the requirement to meet people of different classes daily and I've met alot of dumb men and women, mostly men but maybe because more men frequent the place and I don't always come out to talk about how dumb men are but men with their expectant mentality think women owe them anything

+ I said they have "more" drama, that's admitting we all have some drama any man would have called a woman dumb over your ignorance there but I wouldn't call you one.

as your mum might have been the good one, so are there good ones in Nigeria. I'm still saying, if you think the way you do then chances are you are the problem. men and women all over have flaws.

ZINIBANKS:
Try dating girls from other countries
you gon see how useless naija girls are�

lmao, which country? you definitely have never dated a foreign lady.

they have more drama I even feel sorry for them sometime too sensitive. you wonder why more white men are marrying black women, the only time a white woman will marry a black man is if she can use him somehow or you just go for the least among them afterall white na white


and TBH I prefer more white women marry black men they know how to loyal y'all ass up

Varlfott:


You girls can't help but show your disgust at the fact that there are men who don't make women their priority. You can't handle the fact that there are few men who don't put you at the center of their lives like most men do.

See this one calling me a douchebag because I said I don't need a girlfriend. The other one is convinced I'm a one minute man because I said I'm not a sex freak.
So a man that isn't obsessed with sex must be a one minute man? Well I hate to break it to you but there are better, more satisfying things in life than your pussy.

Society has fed me bullshit for too long through media and movies. I've been single for years now and I've never experienced so much freedom and peace in my life. My life is so stress free and I don't have to deal with all the problems my friends in relationship deal with. Most of my time is devoted to my work and self development.

I've come to realize that it is women who need relationships, not men and yet it's them that are the architects of majority of the problems that come with relationships.

I feel more free when I'm single too and so are more women but I don't think it's because all men are bad, I think we may have made poor choices. sometimes people only need to work on themselves as you may have passed the right person in search of lame things like light skin, big hips, big dick and so on. that's why I think anybody that talks like you is probably their own problem they just don't see it. I know of more women seeking divorce than men +from personal experience I cant agree with you that women need relationship more than men.

absolutely no need for you to have a girlfriend

please just stay single forever, girls do not deserve your kind (duchebags) for boyfriends.


the only thing men now do better than women is to complain.
with my job comes the requirement to meet people of different classes daily and I've met alot of dumb men and women, mostly men but maybe because more men frequent the place and I don't always come out to talk about how dumb men are but men with their expectant mentality think women owe them anything

oversabi! why she come add her own design join? she never fit nail the one wey dem give her.


dont ask me how I know a lady did it

GamalNasser:
If it was Donald Trump that did this the pope would have called for his resignation ...I think this is the worst pope in recent history , very partisan and dark

sharapp.. so you don't even have mb to watch video only to comment rubbish.

He has nothing to apologise for.

tchwwwww he didn't even really slap her

it is not "Nothing" I would've backed out too, and it is not insecurity. it is Sanity

very unnecessary predictions, not from God

don't envy her for a second.
most clothes she'd like she can't wear because her ass won't let them fit

Ilekokonit:
Words on marble.

And like the bible says in proverbs, wisdom is the principal thing therefore get wisdom and with all your getting get understanding, The same women who CLAIM to read the bible CONVENIENTLY erase from their deceptive minds that the same bible says in 1 Timothy 2:11-15 ESV that :- Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.

But these confused, deceived, deceptive and foolish 21st century African women will not listen until they fall into the AVOIDABLE pit of DESTRUCTION aided by their enabling MANGINA'S.

men like this are the funniest you'll remember the bible now but you don't remember where the woman is not suppose to be the provider? you don't remember that you men are different from men of old and you require women to work which also changes the original plan and means women of this generation will be different too

Digmygold:
No sane woman will ever make the likes of Ubunja head.Being the head takes a lot more than the tiny match stick in between your ties.

Now tell me Ubunja how it feels to be born by a stark illiterate. See how it affected your entire existence negatively?

I don't bother about people like these unbuja whatever actually what I feel is sorry for them they'll eventually realise that they were just bitter out of loneliness and frustration for not being able to get their ideal woman because they cant treat her right.
read their post up there and see them talking about marrying illiterates is that what you'd expect of a guy that claims alpha like they do? no.
I told one of them years ago that he was just hating women because he couldn't get them and he went on and on about how he doesn't need any, only fvcks n dump (but its not dsame thing and it only proves my point) so I let him be only for him to make a post this year that he is tired and needs a woman( probably had forgotten ) I only laughed on the thread.

what I'm trying to say is understand such people and their post will never get to you

Offpoint:
make una leave my name alone.

why you no use better name offpoint makesense as name for your ear ?

healthserve:
Trying to sound wise. You could apply more energy to your conprehensivity of issues. At the moment you're truly not worth engaging dufos

nah! nobody needs to sound smart with you, it's not required. are you not the usual healthserve again!

healthserve:
It's not a gender war. You can't process the message, it's better to stay on the sidelines till you can get more clarity on issues than argue offpoint. This an offpoint statement madam

the topic itself is offpoint ... and TBH my advice is not for men like you you deserve whatever is coming to you. keep your ignorance and keep thinking you will find a woman that will eat your shit. women are not really dumb, just because you think they are. that's why most of you men don't see it coming cos you're the real dumbass

just marry any woman and be nice to her. illiterates kill husbands too or have you not read?

the problem men have is they want someone they can trample on that will take it. theres no such person NOBODY likes being taken for granted, she'll only be counting days... hehehe

all this : marry illiterate, marry under age, thinking that will help you get away with anything mean say you never ready to marry for this generation.

to each their own! marry if you like and don't if you don't. it doesn't change anything. a woman is not better or worse just because she's a single mother

having a child does not make a woman a better cook she will still cook what she knows before, a woman who only does missionary will not suddenly start doing doggy just because she now has a child . so all these points are useless. a woman is good or bad regardless but if you choose to miss out on a good woman just because she has a child then that's your loss.

God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.