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Yes! I only know of one solution. But before I tell you what the solution is, what have you achieved by fvcking? ![]() |
It all have to do with faith. Doubting whether or not he answers, is enough to tamper with your faith. Faith can easily be affected by our environment, or any other thing we engage our hearts in. Faith is where your answer lies on, so guilde it with all your heart. God answers prayer. That's the truth, as simple as it is, but you have to prayer in the right way. Don't just talk to the air/space and expect God to hear/answer you. No! It doesn't work that way. But when you prayer, pay attention to every word that you say, let it flow from your heart. Don't say it for the sake of saying it. Remember, words are powerful only when it's spoken with the right energies. |
Alright, this is actually what happens when you are being controlled by emotions in a relationship, — the girl would easily influence your actions and thoughts with little or no efforts. The first mistake you made was to accept the relationship without agreeing to her "not having séx before marriage" idea, even though you know she was serious about it. Then, at that point, it was your job to decide which way the relationship should go. But you didn't, because you were carried away by emotions. In addition to that, you cheated on her without officially breaking up with her. Why not finish one race before entering into another? Now, back to blocking her and stuffs. All you have to do is; IGNORE HER. Girls likes attention, but when they can't get it, jealousy and it's likes are sure to come. Ignore her and you would be fine. But before ignoring her, make sure you made it clear and obvious to her that you guys aren't dating anymore. Now, to avoid making such mistakes in the future. 1.Never continue with a relationship at the initially stage, if and only if you don't agree with the terms and conditions. It's very important to stick to this simple advice/tip, because not all terms and conditions can easily be broken or changed. Watch out! Before it (the terms and conditions) break your heart instead. 2.Try not to cheat unless you are totally done with her, and also, try to make it clear to her that it's over. No heart is worth breaking without a warning. 3.Don't and never allow yourself to be emotionally attached to anything, not just people, anything at all can be dangerous. Why should you not allow that? Because it is a 'focus killer'. Remember, you need focus to keep working/walking and to keep living in greater ways. That's all for now, I wish you the best of luck. Just ignore her and you would be fine. But next time, make sure to be more careful before agreeing to any terms and conditions! ![]() |
Lazy BLOGGERS, someone should please copy and paste the story here. ![]() |
Real men do things without involving anyone. ![]() |
Alright, you better find money and leave this country. No say I no tell you ooo. ![]() |
At least, your dealer no dey disappoint!! ![]()
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To avoid long stories, make big money before you start giving a f*ck about girls. No say I no warn you ooo! ![]()
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JESHAL:That's a good point there. |
Redpill doesn't make sense to me anymore. It sounds more like a coded way of being wicked and taking umbrage at women's existence. Honestly, it svcks. ![]() |
One pandemic at a time please. ![]() Alright, your thread, your choice. *runs out of thread* |
The go soon bash you and take umbrage at your post, RUN!!! |
Redpill doesn't make sense to me anymore. It sounds more like a coded way of being wicked and taking umbrage at women's existence. Honestly, it svcks. ![]() |
SimplyFacts:Typo mehn. Besides, I'm not perfect, so no need trying to find out my mistakes. Sometimes, I hardly see the typos unless someone quotes it. |
Defined love? |
No need to rush. What is yours will always be yours. Marriage is not a bed of roses, think deeply before you are trapped in a box with no way out. They will always be loyal at the beginning, who knows what they might turn out to be in the future? Be wise! ![]() |
All the ones that you had last year, what was it's benefits to you. |
They always wants to trying something new n fresh... Sorry, but did he cheated on you? |
Which fear? Fear of what? ![]() |
Hahaha, it's not funny shaaa. But lemme give you some tips. 1) Talk to her as if you are talking to your fellow guy. 2)Try n practice mindfulness (meditation), to reduce anxiety and nervousness. 3)If you can't chase them, attract them. 4)Start in small ways, don't rush. 5)Learn how to maintain eye contact (very important), she should be the one to look away, not you. You can start by practicing it with your siblings. 6) Approach her through social media, and it would be easier for you offline. 7)Don't make it obvious to her that you are into (interested in) her, or she would make it difficult for you. 8.) Finally. Read a lot, Eat Healthy, Exercise well, and Worry Less (No girl is worth worrying for) and you would be fine. ![]() |
I don't wanna be Hòrny, I just wanna be happy! ![]() |



