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meobizy:
If the love is not there what’s the point being legally married?

Yes. That is what the judge is not considering. He thinks he can force love by refusing the divorce.
What the judge is indirectly saying is that Lilian must say something evil about her ex before he
can dissolve their marriage.

meobizy:
A 37-year-old woman who can not articulate the reason she needs to divorce her 33 year old toy boy.
Lol.
Make them enjoy the marriage then.
She should enjoy the crib and sharing his resources with his three or four baby mamas.

You don't honestly believe the bold. She has her reasons and probably doesn't want the details in the media.
Not every woman wants to follow Tonto Dike's footstep when dealing with separation

AutoReportNG:
This one wey Ubi has turn father of many nations... How Lilian go cope?

She will appeal with more "damning" narrative.

fergie001:
That's not a reason.....
Don't add too much of emotions into these things.....

Personal relationship is ALL about emotion.
They would never be married in the first place if emotion wasn't involved.

Let her loud her mouth now,
Refusal of a divorce suit is no license to been loquacious

Hunger is no license to steal food but tell that to hungry people.
How would you feel to be forced to do what you don't want?

The judge has made his decision from the facts of his case....None of the persons have shown outwardly or inwardly their disdain towards the ruling.

The fact of the case is that the couple wants to end their marriage.
When Emeka Ike's wife wanted divorce, she didn't initially exposed any
of his fault. But a myopic judge decided not to apply common sense.
We now know of Emeka's irresponsibility, possessiveness, emotional abuse and use of
their children as bargaining chip.
None of this information would have ended up in the media if the judge had dissolved the
marriage as initially requested.

Let's not help them, if they don't like it, they can appeal....

Of course, they can appeal but divorce is not a criminal case and people
have a right to happiness regardless of one judge wants.

HopeAlive14:
It beats my imagination why two people who started off loving themselves for years suddenly become enemies after marriage.

Let them go and work on their marriage; they will succeed.

When one of them decide to go violent because of being forced together, I hope you
will be around to defend them.

fergie001:
This judge na the real MVP oooooo

What do you think will happen next?
This is the kind of judge that makes couple fight dirty in court.
Lilian will now be forced to expose every bad thing Ubi ever did to get the divorce.
She might have been silent before to protect her son from negative press.
Other people who are also interested in divorce will learn that being nice in divorce is a stupid strategy.

If the judge was wise, he should have dissolved the marriage.

Nthrone:
Wow,some of the issues that lead to most divorce cases can be settled amicably if only people will hide their ego and think.

And when things turn violent and deadly, you will come here to insult the erring party
or even blame the victim.
Courts should grant a divorce to any couple who wants it for whatever reason.

Some unscrupulous partner can even accuse their ex of heinous crimes or irresponsibility just to get divorce
because they know that our courts don't like the truth.

The judge erred in his judgment and I am sure they will appeal.
No contract is eternally binding.

Chijeep:
I hope say no b d court go chop d money ooo?

make dem just carry all d moni giv d woman.

d moni evn small compared to wat d idiotic senator put dx woman through

You don't mean it.

Damsman10:
All d idiots with voice r focused on d downfall of one pastor

You mean a man slapping a shop attendant is more important than a serial rapist
victimizing his church members both single and married.
SMH

superior1:
Meanwhile, they should force him to take a mandatory HIV test and then commit him to Yaba left, he needs a psychiatrist

Why shouldn't the government also force you to take an HIV test?
If he was a husband slapping his wife, I am sure you would find an excuse for him.

Dpharisee:
We know already, the 20years old allegation was used to try to divert our attention from Ruga

How can a man rape you a 17 years old girl in your father's house, then he did it again in his house when you went for 'omugwo' and as he was dropping you off he gave it to you sorry I mean he raped you again in his car bonnet doggie style and in all of this you never raised any alarm nor call for help. Haba

Timi was just angry that the Pastor ate the juicy part of his wife before him, leaving the chaff for him to enjoy

Let me assume that you will never marry because someone already ate the juicy part of your would-be wife.

partnerbizz5:
The one he denied already is it factless?
They had an affair simple.

Busola could have made a mistake with names or dates but the truth is, pastor slept with her.


I will cut to the chase; straight to the point.

There was an intercours.e. Yes there was.

But it wasn't rape. She was spellbound, star struck or hypnotized. She was stupid too even at 17.

What exactly did he deny?
He claimed he never raped any woman. He carefully used the generic phrase to avoid future problems.
Do you really expect a rapist to accept raping women?
Wait! Busola could have made a mistake with dates because predators usually ask for age before pouncing
on their victims.

WHY IS SHE BITTER NOW?

She feels Fatoyinbo took her virginity without sweating or spending. This is same virginity she could have auctioned even on e bay. Yes, people sell it. Check.

She felt pastor got it very cheap. That's why prostitutes will ask you:

" HOW MUCH YOU PAY ME YOU WAN TOUCH MY BRESS"?

HOW MUCH YOU PAY, YOU WAN FUC.K DOGGY?

They (women) want you to pay well, suffer or work hard to get the pusssy; let alone a virgin pusssy.

So Busola now feels cheated. She reasoned that the man is happy now after cheating her.
And she came to this realisation not too long ago.

Now, the only way of paying him back is to hurt him too. And the most effective way of hurting a pastor is through seex scandal.

If you allege he stole 2 billion dollars, it would gather no storm.

I don't know you but most women even in sexually liberal countries don't sell virginity.
Maybe sex work is the trademark of all the women in your family but don't generalize.
Even the hardest misogynist knows the difference between promiscuity and prostitution.
Don't be shocked, very few women out there are into sex work.

BUT WHY COME OUT NOW?

The husband Timi, heard of the "rape" lately. Maybe Busola got depressed and mood swings after the RECENT realisation that the pastor cheated her.

Timi felt bad. He felt cheated too for being served a second hand pusssy.

He could have eaten the pusssy first. So he encouraged her to hurt the pastor. That way both Timi and Busola would feel a bit better.

IT WAS NOT RAPE PEOPLE.

How many people marry virgins?
Are you saying most married men are miserable because their wives are not virgins?
Will your husband(assuming you are a woman) drink sniper when he discovers that you are not a virgin?
It is not rape because you declared it so.

USE your senses.

You don't appear to have one and I am seriously suspecting that you are Kemi Olunloyo the psycho or closely related.
Your use of language is even more worrisome.

THAT'S MY ANALYSIS as a self proclaimed behavioral therapist.

Analysis is based on facts, not fiction or fantasy. That is why you are "self proclaimed"

LEGAL VIEW:

Rape or even any sexual assault case cannot be proven against Fatoyinbo.

You can't prove a rape case without proving that there was a PENETRATION. See the case of Upahar vs State. See S.357 of CC etc. And it's been long. No medical evidence too.

Nothing will happen to Fatoyinbo. The only damage has happened already. And that's to his reputation.

We will soon forget it. Life goes on.

OBJ, Tinubu, Okorohcha, Oshiomole, Akbabio, T.A Orji, Onoghen, Saraki, PEJ.
I am sure you think one of the men on the list above is corrupt.
Do you have a shred of evidence that they are corrupt?
Of course not.
Why do you think it is fair to accuse any of them without proof?
Is it because you are jealous or due to extreme poverty?
Your answers will be illuminating.

FINALLY, I DON'T SUPPORT RAPE. IT'S TRAGIC. [/b]

That's why it's considered a crime against humanity in International criminal law.

#SAYNOTORAPE.

You support rape 100% and maybe a rapist yourself.
To your kinds, any rape allegation where there is no witness is not rape
and fight, bruises, and injuries must also be involved.
You have effectively absolved all rapist save the unlucky ones of any consequence.[/quote]

slim75d:
whenever i take a deep look @ busola i see her as a nymphomanic mayb she grew up as a weird teen probably the pastor took advantage of that to comb her now that the man is rich she tried to cashout but her slip cut

Are you sane at all?
People that want to cash out ask for money, they don't grant interviews.
Immediately a story becomes public, there is no cash to be made.

OKorowanta:
My thoughts exactly.
The guy must have sweet tongued her and even bought her a gucci and she fell for it.
At least he was fvcking her on a steady from her outburst.
That Neymar accuser some weeks ago,proved that the word 'Rape' has been abused severally by many.

Stop typing like an illiterate.
Neymar accuser reported him to police for assault which is true and impossible to prove.
She later want to change her story to rape due to media pressure which backfired.

kiyosaki1:
We should hear Biodun's story too , I think that's the way it ought to be since Busola Is seeking justice from social media court . All the powerful voices supporting her , should at least use their position to prosecute the man, if they are really sincere and not just to tarnish Christian leaders .

What do you expect to hear?
She was lying, she seduced him over and over again and he keeps going back to be seduced?

Gidah:
Granting someone like him bail its just like giving him more go ahead to do much more bad things cos he would be like after all its money I'm gonna pay this is really heartbreaking for me he should be living among goats

Really?
Is he a murderer, armed robber or terrorist to be kept behind bars.
Even the 5 million Naira bail is outrageous for an assault charge.

abuhusna1:
If means you are not informed cos an average security man earns between 800k to 1 million per month which Nigeria University go give you that plus sane.outrt he is in and where his children will grow and become what they want

The average security man also pays taxes, buys average price of goods from host country and pays host country
average rent.

Don't fall for the lies of travel agents and those who have never left Nigeria.
Before you decide to go please make sure you know what you are getting into.
It is better to invest your money locally.

Canada is the best choice but know that there is no good job as they claim.
You will likely end up as a jobless refugee or do demeaning job you won't think twice
of in Nigeria.

Are there people who make it when they travel?
Yes. But such people usually have strong support in their host country,
have highly sought after specialized skill and experience or are plain lucky.

Rekhina:
eru iwofa ...no shame

Declare your gender asset Bobrisky

You must feel really special posting comments among real humans.
Unfortunately, this isn't a good section for a fish to get customers.

Erediauwa:
The truth is, I don't want to say it but there's a terrestrial force pushing me to type it.


This is the Handiwork of his "VILLAGE PEOPLE"

Lazy thinking leads to mediocrity and poverty.
Run away from it.

The politics section is losing its value with the recent surge in posts
by depressed souls and trolls.
The OP could not even claim her gender and ethnicity despite being on
an anonymous forum.

Infinityk:
Lol
I'm a conservative Yoruba
I hate other tribes in Nigeria
I dont like tinubu or buhari
All I care about is d welfare of Yorubas
About d topic,I dont know what to say
But I wanted to collect your number because u look familiar like my lost aunty and would like to gist with u
So send me your number asap
I'm waiting

The OP is a man and an Ipob member.

Mynd44:
And yet people find it difficult to believe he could have raped women.


Funny

There are a specific set of people who hold such an opinion.
Those who are scared of their own past or need to defend their religion.

Rape is a rite of passage for many cult groups.
Fatoyinbo learned from the worst.

Quorax:
The most foolish people on earth are those who know the truth but ignore it. Whether you like it or not, Nigeria's end is not too far. Whether you like it or not, it will HAPPEN. NOTHING will stop it.

Wonders shall never end. A dummy talking about "truth".
You have finally shown your real color as a frustrated Ipob licking his painful psychological wounds.
Instead of hiding behind RUGA to gain sympathy and fight ethnic battle. You should be brave enough to state your position.
SMH

Stingman:
You might probably be in Yaba left as we speak...Can you point any thing that's false in the post?

It will be futile engaging you in a meaningful discussion if you don't already see the emotional tantrums being thrown by the OP.

Messi, please stop this.
Don't be like Buhari the blame master.

Some of you should be confined to Yaba left permanently.
I can't believe a human will write such a foolish post and be proud to share it.
SMH

Chimaokigwe:
Under Obasanjo, this same woman wanted to sell Unity schools to people like Dangote. That single step would have ensured that the children of the low wage workers like gatemen would never be able to afford Unity schools.

She attempted to deprive coming generations of public education and she's trying to form holy. She thinks everyone has short memories like her supporters.

She should shut up cos she's part of the problem and stop making hypocritical noise. With her hair like the experiment of an inexperienced barber.

Irrelevant comment from the stable of zombiesm.

sexymoma:
Racism can't stop if tribalism still exists

They are two different issues.
Neither of them can ever stop, they can only reduce.

Gbaja don buy market.