₦airaland Forum

FriendofGod:
I never take all these female advocates seriously. They scream domestic violence, child abuse, e.t.c., but they are worse abusers.

Neither do I take feminists seriously.

I am sure you take wife beaters and pedophiles serious. SMH.

anyebedgreat:
Plenty documents in the office, snake did not swallow. It is the money that was either kept in a safe or a drawer that the snake went to swallow.
Who even saw the snake swallowing the money sef?

The same way that fish swallowed Jonah and not other fishes or shrimps.

Stupidity. Why not go straight to the shrine?

Alejoas:
The world has entered the church........the church has entered the world....


I didn't propose nothing to my lady.... I told her I don't date for fun....in this for something serious so if we can convince each other forever together will be a good thing.... We just gonna do it!


Hell no to any pre-wedding picture or on one kneel proposal..... I am real like everyday rising sun.... No need to copy copy!

So there are also she male preachers.
Wonders shall never end.

Authoreety:
Pls, ill send her packing cos a toublesome woman is also a threat to her husband

So why do you think the wife beater did not send her packing?

Saao:
What really happen? A loving wife will always have a loving husband. Many women nawaday turn their husband into a beast with their feminist or so called modern marriage attitudes. You can't have a good home if you can't submit to your husband. A submissive wife always control the husband. Looking for sympathizers won't assist marriages or victim mentality destroys faster than anything.

You are so myopic. Domestic violence have always existed. If this woman was a feminist,
she would long have left the abusive man. A word of advice for you, never marry in hope
that your wife will "submit" to you. Make sure she is unexposed and believes in "submission"

Tolumiide:
people jumping into conclusion anyhow. and some women like to play the victims card. nairaland is waiting for her husband's side of the story. A woman that's capable of posting such "good" news in public in that manner is capable of anything. congratulations to her husband.

He is probably in a dark corner crying his eyes out.
Whenever there is a divorce, the divorced partner always bitter and rejected.

nawtyme:
Well done woman. But we should not only say no to domestic violence. We should also say no to emotional trauma caused by verbally abusive wives.
Verbal abuse has the same consequence as physical abuse.
We have only heard your side of the story, what about his side of the story?

Stop assuming verbal abuse.
No, it doesn't have the same consequence and men are as capable of verbal abuse as women,
people live 80, 100 years even after being verbally abused and if you are
a Nigerian, you have been verbally abused by parents, teachers or bosses at work.
How many of them did you beat up for abusing you?
If you don't like your partner's behaviour, divorce her, but weak men won't do that, they
will want to prove a point by beating her and the cycle continues.

olabrad:
When you have very foul attitude as a woman, I hope you also realise that is a form of domestic violence against the man? So think before you comment. Emotional attack is also a form of aggression. Stop being myopic in your reasoning.

You are very myopic. There is no such thing as emotional violence.
Violence is 100% physical. Aren't you a weak man if all you do is beat up
your wife because she insults you.

Authoreety:
Her lips nd in short her appearance obviously shows she is a troublesome woman!


Only 4 those that have deep insight!

What will you do if you have a troublesome woman, beat her to death or send her packing.
SMH.

NothingDoMe:
I've learnt to get the other side of the story since Nigerian ladies love coming to social media to tell half truths or outright lies.

What other side of the story?
That the husband did not beat her?
What if he said her never touched her?
You will jump up in joy that you have been vindicated.

I have worked with NGOs in the past and I can tell you that the last
thing a wife will do is confirm that she is been abused. Even those
who were hospitalised due to beatings will still deny being abused.
Whenever a wife come out to tell her story of marital, there is no "other side"
except in cases where the husband was the one who initiated the divorce.

Note that excuses such as she doesn't obey me or she is disrespectful are nonsense.
If you read the comments above, you will see a post excusing abuse with many likes,
that is to show you the level of reasoning of an average Nigerian men.

Saggay is right.
No one will ever get into power by mere insults on social media.
If you want power you join party and contest.

Solorrman:
U are the idiot here,u just hated Fulani bkos of buhari and this can be too late for u to amend. The security personnel's in several occasion did apprehend a militant group members with the name Ansaru,they are preparing a big shoot yet u talk nonsense bkos of hatred,Dnt u think some people can use Fulani cloths to kill just for u to b looking the other way. Of course there was Fulani fight long ago with famers but use ur brain do u think the bush men can afford a sophisticated guns just like that ?

Shut up herdsman, you should be in the bush tending to your cows.
Miyetti terrorist came out and openly declare that there would be no peace
unless Benue withdraws its anti-open grazing laws. Yet the herdsman in chief and
its security men did nothing. Your terrorist brothers have been killing unchallenged since then.

oluebubeneo:
Truth be told
This useless country needs people like Kemi who say the truth the way they see it

To simpletons every word of a lunatic is the "truth".
SMH

troublemakea:
pained ipork youth lool

Imbecilic mad man, I was expecting you to come defend your mad wife.

hisgrace090:
I love givers Sheeples.

Fixed.
Real givers give to the needy, while sheeples give to the wealthy.

No wonder his businesses didn't thrive, instead of hiring able hands he relied on "blessings" from tithe.

Mad woman. I hope you return back to jail where you belong.
Imagine comparing a bloodthirsty group whose leader granted an open interview
threatening mayhem with some criminals who operate underground with secret identity.

olapluto:
It is very simple. Wealth is generated by production and services. We do not produce much in Nigeria as our industries are mostly down. MOST rich Nigerians make their money from the populace.
With a few millions, it is possible to infiltrate government pocket to get billions...e.g oil wells, subsidy payments, LEKKI TOLLGATE collections...

Everywhere in the world, rich people make money from populace(consumers).
Nobody can ever become rich without selling goods or services to consumers.

dlondonbadboy:
Too late...Notice that since this young man uploaded his cars, Ngeneukwenu has stopped commenting on Nairaland...Jealousy? Monkey dey work, baboon dey chop?

Nah, he has registered a new account(Ikpu nu) due to shame.

AishaBuhari:
I love this... Let's see how much property Buhari has got

Those who got their properties through the back door will not come forward, they
would rather forfeit such properties.
The people panicking are those who bought their properties through legitimate means.

AishaBuhari:
I love this... Let's see how much property Buhari has got

Those who got their properties through the back door will not come forward, they
would rather forfeit such properties.
The people panicking are those who bought their properties through legitimate means.

Uche Ubah is desperately looking for husband.

Okay

desreek9:
A fornicator that wants to remove the log of wood in pastors eye, he hasnt remove his own, he should marry her first then we would know he is talking not blabbing.

The woman has been his fiance for how many years now and he has not married her, please is he not deceiving her? later he"ll say pastors are deceiving people, rubbish. MAKE SURE YOUR HOUSE IS CLEAN BEFORE CASTIGATING OTHERS.

Sheeple, how many boyfriends do you have?

Feranmicharless:
Ekiti is in trouble



IFA (Oracle) Sha don't wanna leave Una alone


From FAyemi to FAyose, now Fayemi again

Shut up

jaymejate:
He's Sounding Childish

The shameless mother who went on media blackmail because she can't have her way is not childish?

talk2percy:
Hhhhmmm. I smell lies and conspiracy. All is not well with this guy-Trust mothers instinct.

A mother that hires spiritualists to separate her son and his fiance and alsobuys newspaper space to disparage her son and insult his wife while threatening
those who will attend his marriage with calamity is not fit to be called a mother.
The mistake the son made is staying close to where she lives, he should relocate
to a very far place so the bitter old witch can let him live in peace.

sweetyinks:
After mama shout say him wan hear her pikin voice. The baba or whoever is pulling the strings looks for a way to shut the mama mouth. Something still tells me Ms. Taiwo Martins is telling the truth.

What truth is she telling?
She claimed she has never visited him since he got married, how did she know
what is going on in their marriage?
She is just a bitter woman who wants to destroy her son's marriage because she
did not like the wife.

Slikbae:
Why would any sane person liberately stay away from their mother when she's not trying to kill them?

Do not criticise what you don't know.
That woman is trouble, she has been scheming on destroying his relationship right
before he married starting from hiring fake prophet to media blackmail and I am happy
that the son has decided to stay away from her for his own good.

Grundig:
If i had to choose between kwankwaso and buhari, I will happily stick with buhari.

See what buhari is? That's exactly what kwankwaso is and more. The only difference is that he is educated.

Kwankwaso was in Lagos to bail his Hausa/Fulani brothers 2 years ago after the brawl at mile 12. Kwankwaso did same in either anambra or Enugu.

Kwankwaso threw a subtle jibe at SE when the biko haram and herdsmen were running amok.

When kwankwaso was governor of kano state, he made no bones of destroying the means and livelihood of South Easterners.

Guys, kwankwaso's sins abound. This guy is more pernicious than buhari. He walks around with a chip on his shoulder. Again, I will happily have buhari rule over me than this guy.

awakeupcall4all:
From one blood sucking Jihadist to another fanatically bigoted jihadist??...Jokes everywhere.
What exactly is the credential of Kwankwaso and what has he got to offer?
This is sickening to say the least!

bonechamberlain:
no human from the south should support this man called kwankwaso, I rather prefer buhari continue than have a more intelligent and stealth ethnic mafian jingoist. .
we must not make the same mistake we made in 2015 where it was anybody but Jonathan.

Kwankwaso is not contesting for president in 2019 and even if he is, he can't win the
primaries of any major party. So save your sermon.

shadeyinka:
Just give thanks for yourself haven been born free of demonic cages.

Some Christians were born with limitation, poverty, sicknesses etc no fault of theirs.

Dangotes great grand children can never be poor. That is part of their generational blessings. It has nothing to do with their salvation or worldliness.

So also, some Christians are poor just because their parents were so poor they couldn't send them to school

Poverty is the root cause of what people term "generational curse".
Ignorance is not bliss.