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as usual

Kobojunkiee:
Let me guess, you don't agree with what God Himself says so you kick against me instead?

No.1 is out of context.. eunuchs are a minority for specific purposes..so has nothing to do with marriage population
No.2 is on point... marriage is of dis world

Kobojunkiee:
1. There are other ways to multiply apart from procreating. Also, the same God who you claimed enshrined procreation instead said He created some Eunuchs from birth, made some Eunuch in this life, and allowed others to live as Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom - Matthew 19 vs 12. Clearly, God Himself doesn't agree with your belief that procreation is enshrined in marriage.
2. You can do whatever you want with your fleshly desires, but don't pretend that it has to do with God abeg! In Luke 20 vs 34 -36, following what God decreed in Genesis 3 vs 16, Jesus Christ made clear that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God.

kai i salute u bros..ure one of the most controversially complicated persons existing

like seriously

Kobojunkiee:
Procreation was never the aim of marriage from it's beginning.

i wasnt even talkin abt procreation..tho it is enshrined in the aim.
how do we multiply if we dont procreate.
Fulfilling flesh desires legally n morally(without guilt) which Will lead to procreation is the aim.

FavouredNK:
1 Peter 4:8, Songs of Solomon 8:6-7, 1 Thes 5:11, Hebrews 10: 24-25. Yes procreation is one of the reasons but centering marriage on procreation is the reason a lot of marriages are failing today, God gives us children and it's a good thing but if it doesn't come marriage will still be beautiful because husband and wife are the only initial and primarypartners with God in that arrangement. Children are secondary so shouldn't be the determining factor of the level of joy in that marriage. And even when we want to have them, we should be reasonable about the number because even having more than you can cater for is a sin of its own.

pardon me ..the scriptures u quoted are for entire believers not addressing marriage.

well..people have many interpretations on the idea and try to shy away from the truth.
it is what it is..

Read Paul's 1Cor7:8 down to 26..
verse 9 gives the truth...what a reason to get married
Same as when God made woman for the man.
like i said..all other things follow this main reason..which is fine.
.reason why marriages fail is when one partner begins to fail to perform his/er marital obligation (not sex only)..due to different sentimental reasons.

FavouredNK:
This mindset is the reason many of you can't build a good home because it has already collapsed before you even started. As far as I m concerned marriage is a beautiful thing because it's a union between two hearts that supposed to beat as one. You are meant to marry your friend and soulmate believing to build up your heaven in it to dwell together forever. At that point when you first meet and develop a thing for each other, it shouldn't be about what any of you possessed materially or what to gain materially but the beating of your hearts which will be the bedrock on which every other achievement will be built upon. If you genuinely love and care for one another in all circumstances, you will so bond together that it will be difficult for any of you to hurt each other even in secret. I know that many of you will come after me but I m talking from experience and this is the secret of my 23 years of a very blissful marriage. It's not about procreation because we agreed and only had one daughter who gives us so much joy while we still enjoy our marriage as if we just met yesterday. And if it's for sex, how do you enjoy sex with someone that you don't love or can't bond with?So be careful of what you place ahead in getting your life partner before you start generalizing marriage as something bad because for me it's the most beautiful experience.

show me the scripture that supports your belief..and I'll show mine
all what u wrote above are reasonable and necessary but are classified as OTHERS.. it's not the aim

Moniya4Real:
To be truthful and sincere to myself… And in line with my Christian faith. The reason I want to remarry is because of sex as I am already blessed with two wonderful boys

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it's not bad in itself..as that's one of the biblical prerequisite...what now happens if ure not getting the sex in the marriage.
ur partner may just deny u for stupid reasons.
marry person wey no dey take sex joke o..matching libido

word!
I will say this forever...the first major reason for marriage is Legal Sex - which leads to raising kids (procreation)..otherwise it's needless.
everyother na secondary..- good food, help, dreams, goals, godly this and that..

some hav sex for reproduction only but have a very bad starved sex life..dat marriage no fit last

u will eat vawulence in full

deserved

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dey wan mumu us with this one

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nothing

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lemme read first

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noteworthy tho..but many gat no choice

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weldone...but sorry this is not it.
those togolese women Only has the correct recipe to bring the right taste..
all these are replicas.

until that sauce tastes like the ewa agoyin of the early 2000s...or those togo women at mushin..
u can literally smell it from a 100m distance

I'm ready to marry any woman dat can gimme dat taste.

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ok..i'll think about the nececessity and associated risks later.
i hope it's free..?

who applies for federal jobs...kinda waste of time when the positions are predetermined and slotted out

keep trying

hmm

I'm fully Obedient.
But at the end, whoever wins, may God do whats best for us through him

againnn

HBD to the future

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