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Celebrities / Re: Olakunle Churchill And Rosy Meurer, Dedicate Their Son In Church by xtervaganza(m): 3:53pm On Sep 05, 2021
Same man one lunatic saw and threw away





Her pain is eternal

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Celebrities / Re: Nedu Wazobia’s Estranged Wife, Uzoamaka Cries Out Over Neglect, Debts, Homeless by xtervaganza(m): 10:29am On Sep 05, 2021
nzeobi:
Why do women divorce keep the children and start demanding for money. If you can't take care of those children return them to the man.
simple

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Politics / Re: Lagos, Rivers Begin VAT Collection, FG, North Disagree by xtervaganza(m): 7:33am On Sep 05, 2021
North? More like parasites
Phones / Re: Iphones Castigation Does Not Worth. by xtervaganza(m): 1:05am On Sep 05, 2021
Volkswagen90:
Often times when usually castigate what is expensive.,not minding their functions and style,am among people that talk down iPhone but I just bought their 6 for a test but trust me am enjoying it, I may stuck around them for a time be,
what baffles me is how 1gig ram works like 3gig of Android,no lag at all.

My opinion though.
lol iphone 6 lags. And it's very annoying too.
Celebrities / Re: Tonto Dikeh And Prince Kpokpogri Breakup Over Leaked Voice Notes by xtervaganza(m): 6:35pm On Sep 03, 2021
Churchill oooo grin grin grin grin
TV/Movies / Re: JMK & Beatrice React To Boma & Angel Fight (BBNaija) by xtervaganza(m): 12:11pm On Sep 03, 2021
Weyrey ni gbogbo yin

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Crime / Re: Herdsmen Post Photos On Woman’s Facebook Page After Robbing Her by xtervaganza(m): 12:41pm On Sep 02, 2021
Dirty looking animals
Politics / Re: Tajudeen Bakare: Why I Did Not Disappear When Police Arrested Me – Ogboni Leader by xtervaganza(m): 3:59pm On Aug 30, 2021
Maxymilliano:


grin
He still has mouth to talk after his release on bail
whats funny here? The man fought for everyone of us in the south and you find it funny


I hope the reason why people are fighting to break away Nigeria never befall you

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Food / Re: Have You Ever Eaten A Food Cooked By Your Dad? by xtervaganza(m): 10:18pm On Aug 20, 2021
No. Never. My father was a Chief, a legend. Never a simple. besides we had maids too
Car Talk / Re: Why Do Some People Buy Right Handed Vehicles by xtervaganza(m): 9:03pm On Aug 15, 2021
Tomilola360:
..they don't use it that way.

they convert it. its unnecessary headache anyway
that's my point baba. It's an avoidable headache. Considering it may not even be done well
Car Talk / Re: Why Do Some People Buy Right Handed Vehicles by xtervaganza(m): 5:18am On Aug 15, 2021
Tomilola360:
cheaper I think
yes, but does it make sense considering police headache everyday
Car Talk / Re: Why Do Some People Buy Right Handed Vehicles by xtervaganza(m): 5:18am On Aug 15, 2021
MrBrownJay1:
if you've lived in the UK/australia etc all your life driving such cars then you would be more comfortable driving them in Nigeria.
thing is, it's actually illegal to drive it here in Nigeria. You'd be getting ripped by traffic officers
Car Talk / Why Do Some People Buy Right Handed Vehicles by xtervaganza(m): 6:51pm On Aug 13, 2021
I don't know anything online and I'm not trying to be arrogant. I believe people who buy it must have their reasons and I don't know why
Health / Re: Getting Over Addictions.. by xtervaganza(m): 9:37pm On Aug 04, 2021
Robertgreene1:
my dear u re not alone...I've been there nd back nd I know how it feels like...
I battled severe trams addiction for 5 years...throughout my uni days...it wz js terrible....at a point I wz doing 800mg nd above of trams every single day...infact I stopped attending lectures..I do just hole up in my apartment..do trams nd doze all day...
I was acting weird...always agressive...ghosted everyone both family and friends...infact it was just me nd my darling t.m.
Then during dt great lockdown...my biz wz affected... so I holed up at home..then I said 2 myself.."I've had enough of this drug shit"...why not achieve something during ds frustrating lockdown by conquering this addiction demon?...
so I started fighting the demon nd it was a very painful nd long journey back 2 recovery....4 more than 6 months...I felt like dieing...d withdrawal phase was js terrible...d chills..d muscle spasms..d fever..d body pains...d mood swings (extreme highs and lows)..d anxiety... d Restlessness nd worse of em all...d insomnia(sleeplessness)...
so I used Diazepam(Valium) 4 d 1st 6 months 2 help ease d withdrawal symptoms a bit.
Then when I wanted 2 quit Valium after 6 months..I found out dt my system av gotten dependent on it as well...so it was back 2 square one ...Nd to my worst nightmare I found out soon enough dt d withdrawal symptoms of diazepam (benzodiazepines) is even far worse than that of tramadol (opiods)...it was js terrible..better imagined than experienced..
This time around I felt like I was completely loosing it...But lucky me...I discovered that alcohol can also act as a sedative just like diazepam so I used Alcohol for 3 months 2 ease d withdrawal symptoms of diazepam (pls run away 4rm any drug of d benzodiazepine family)....
2 cut d long story short...today I've been drug free for 8 months nd counting now..nd I ant going back 2 dt shit again...
so my dear u can do it.. just believe in urself.. tell urself dt u re stronger than that addiction...then fight d battle of recovery and remember not 2 rush it...Js take it one step at a time...u get closer 2 recovery wit each passing day as ur brain recalibrates itself back 2 it's pre-addiction state..find other hobbies 2 keep ur mind away from d drug(s)...if I can do it dear...then u can do it as well
Shalom....
stories I like to read. God bless you and please never go back . I used to have deep hatred for people who do drugs until recently that I studied about their addiction. Please help others too.


Stay safe

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Politics / Re: Oduah, Ekwunife Lead Number Of Sponsored Bills At The National Assembly by xtervaganza(m): 9:30pm On Aug 04, 2021
Rubbish. All that trash and they disappeared when it was time for them to stand up against evil. Rubbish people
Romance / Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by xtervaganza(m): 6:39pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?
Boda wey mumu
Celebrities / Re: Uti Nwachukwu Celebrates His 39th Birthday With Risqué Photos by xtervaganza(m): 10:55am On Aug 03, 2021
Ode

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Politics / Re: You Cannot Insist On Due Process For Igboho, Kanu & Deny It To Abba Kyari - FFK by xtervaganza(m): 2:07pm On Aug 02, 2021
This one Na Omo ale. Anywhere Belle face. Shameless drug addict

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Food / Re: N150 Tomato With Pepper In Birnin Kebbi (picture) by xtervaganza(m): 6:47pm On Aug 01, 2021
Almost everyone in the north is daft
Politics / Re: "Atiku Can Unite Nigeria" - Wike And Atiku Reconcile Ahead Of 2023 by xtervaganza(m): 10:15am On Jul 28, 2021
Who exactly cursed Southern politicians? After one Fulani wrecked the country you still want to install another Fulani? You are all mad

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Politics / Re: Obaseki Revokes Ize-Iyamu's Right Of Occupancy On Property (Photo) by xtervaganza(m): 2:36pm On Jul 24, 2021
May we never offene man like obaseki grin grin

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Family / Re: Well, She Called Off Our Wedding. by xtervaganza(m): 11:01am On Jul 24, 2021
don4real18:
Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story.
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Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.

Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.

Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.

We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.

I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.

Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.

I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.

She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.

We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.

We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.

She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.

I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.

I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.

God bless us all.
you will be fine jare. No be girls again? Lol and btw, don't ever make the mistake of marrying her cos something tells me she will want to come back to you

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Politics / Re: Gunmen Kill Okpe Denis Ijoko In Benue, Burn 50 Houses by xtervaganza(m): 10:48pm On Jul 21, 2021
Gunmen? You mean Fulani?
Politics / Re: Protesters In Ibadan Demand The Release Of Sunday Igboho (Photos) by xtervaganza(m): 10:47pm On Jul 21, 2021
Okoroawusa:
PDP
o ni kuure
Phone/Internet Market / Re: SOLD!!! USA Used Iphone 6 Plus 64GB Gray - 50k by xtervaganza(m): 9:42pm On Jul 17, 2021
micki1:


Still available.
shey u go sell 40k
Crime / Re: Lagos State Seals Up 30 Sachet Water Factories For Operating Below Standard by xtervaganza(m): 11:31pm On Jul 15, 2021
You can only deceive fools. Once bribe is paid they will be opened back to work just as they gave been doing it since
Romance / Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Has Ran Away With The Pregnancy by xtervaganza(m): 11:25pm On Jul 15, 2021
I hope y'all read this carefully and see the reason why father's need to raise strong men.



Who even told you you're the one who got her pregnant? The amount of rubbish in your post turns my stomach
Romance / Re: If Relationship Tastes Like A Drink, What Does Urs Taste Like? by xtervaganza(m): 2:22pm On Jul 02, 2021
I don't know jare. Tired of women generally
Politics / Re: Sowore Compares How Bandits Were Treated Vs How Nnamdi Kanu Was Treated by xtervaganza(m): 12:25pm On Jul 02, 2021
joe54:
grin grin
The bandits surrendered themselves for reorientation but MNK was arrested sorry kidnapped either way both are enemies of the state.
your type will defend every evil thing until the evil gets to you and you die a slow painful death.


How about the ones taking pictures with gumi and police
Politics / Re: Alex Nwankwo 'Alexreports' Emerges Anambra Accord Party Governorship Candidate by xtervaganza(m): 10:37pm On Jul 01, 2021
Rubbish
Romance / Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by xtervaganza(m): 4:29am On Jul 01, 2021
Sometimes you people get just what you deserve. You mean you can’t find a wife in a land that has blessed and favored you? And then you had to come back for a Nigerian woman ? Hahahaha serves you right.


I know your brain has expired but the best you can do is to cancel the marriage. If for any reason or manipulation you go ahead to marry her then your life don burn and finish .


Find a woman in the USA be it an American, Nigerian or just anybody you like. Don’t ever make the mistake of marrying a Anika based woman.



Lastly, whatever choice you make over there, do not forget to sign prenup
Politics / Re: Muhammad Ahmad Shot Dead In Katsina. Son & Driver Kidnapped by xtervaganza(m): 4:02pm On Jun 30, 2021
Sorry but not sorry. Ask him a week before his death he would swear on his life that Bihari is doing well and Nnamdi Kanu is the problem of the whole Africa



Idiots

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