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Vince77: Anytin dat has to do wit attitude of pple(boy or girl),behavior,character, presentation..... Etc. Blame it on d parents! PERIOD!!!!!

I quite agree with you
Most mothers give their daughters wrong orientation nowadays
For example, my own cousin (girl) got a present frm a guy (very expensive gold wristwatch) and guess what? Her mother never questioned her d source of the watch(knowing quite well dat her daughter can't afford d watch by herself)
I PUT (90 percent blame) ON OUR MOTHER

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]Everything comes wit its price u have to choose wisely[/quote]I don't get you
Expansiate further

[quote author=gree-die]following[/quote]I don't need you to follow me
I need your coomment

Please don't say why all these girls bashing thread again but this is jus a real life observation especially In Nigeria
Sure you will agree with me that most girls within the age bracket of 18 and 23 (esp university Undergraduates) are the most beautiful, pretty, georgeous, cute, sexy and should be the type of girl you wanna go into relationship leading to marriage. I discovered that these set of girls are the Unfaithful ones, gat serious attitude problem, poor or no spiritual life, very demanding in terms of finance (never satisfied with wat parents give) and never interested in keeping to one guy only as they will rather have BIS boyfriend, christian brother boyfriend, studymate boyfriend, party boyfriend, Money boyfriend, sex boyfriend etc (at least 1 boyfriend for all their responsibilities) and only get serious with (1 guy) relationship when they discover they are getting old with very low market value. Feel free to criticize my observation
What is really wrong with our way of life in Nigeria

Globestar 7 is the big fish there
Was there in january and I swear that is one big french company I wanna work for oh
Pls make una help me with contacts

RED CARD!!!!!
Man united reduced to 10men after robbie van pierse red card
I hope man city can capitalize

2 - 2
A quickly fire reply frm aguero
2gooals in 2minutes
I expect united to lose here

To all non catholics here
Ask urself dis questn
1.. Why and when did my pastor form dis church
2,. Why do my pastor keep sayin God reveal to me I'm d next president and yet u keep losin election
3.. If my pastor dies now, does dat spells d end of our. Church?

I attend catholic church
I was born, baptised, confirmed, communicant and used to most of the societies in the church
I can't attend any other church apart frm catholic church because dats wher I'm gonna make heaven
My future wife MUST be a Catholic either by birth or by Induction

Xano: alright, i advice you to have a conservation. During your get-to-know each other, you will know her character. But, you are in town for a short time, you can exchange contacts if you intend to follow her up. If not, let her go.

Dude
I jus said she was with her parents/family member.. You knw how difficult it will be to excuse her in presence of her parents without d parents thinkin u wanna *womanize* dier daughter

mumumugu: U can woo anyone, anywhere ,anytime .

For real?

sizzlers: Waste of bandwidth

U absolutely hav nuffin to offer
Grow up dude or are u still a kid/teen??

fankasibe: I can't woo a girl in the church coz' i will have dis feeling like God is saying 'you dis stupid boy why must u enter into my holy house and distract one of my committed servant'

Are you thinking for God
What of if its actually for a good cause ie Sacrament of Matrimony!!!!!!
BTW matrimony (marriage) is an outward sign of inward grace ordained by God by which grace is given to our soul

intbizoil: This shows that part of why you came to church is to look for a wife or gf. This is Because deep down you have this feeling that girls you meet in church are faithful. I myself am guilty of this sometimes. Your eyes are hovering around checking out all the beauties in attendance. Girls dress their best during church service. God knows all our intentions whether good or bad and no one can deceive Him. If you truly respect and honor God, there is some things you won't even think of doing. That's why I love my muslim brothers, they don't play with elements of their worship. The only exception I have is if you want to make friends but wooing a girl in church imo shows your lack of respect for God. Why not wait when you are out of the church

Thanks 4ur reply but seems u didn't read all d previous response above
1... I don't go to church wit d intension of wooing any body but as we all know, u can meet ur soulmate anywher eg market, aeroplane, cinema, library, church, wedding..dese are all places wher peopl gather and can't see any reason why u can't meet your wife in the church
2... I didn't say my eyes are hovering around
In the catholic church der s always a time when u shake people around you (peace of the lord be with you)..it can happen that the girl is sitting right in front of you with her parents
Don't jus look at it as if I am on a wooing spree but it jus happened dis particular person caught my full attention right inside the church..
BTW we are all matured people and not kids
That is the scenario

diva90: Single and not looking. Need a break off anything relationship related for now. Ready to have the fun of my life if u knw what I mean

Kindly Inbox me ur contacts then
No long tinz

The Op isn't telling d whole story
This is jus part of it
I'm pretty sure you did somtin annoying and dats making d guy to lose interest and btw anoda girl is on his mind
U better check ur attitude, call him and apologize for your behaviour if not all d future guys will keep going d same way
Remember; Almost all guys have d same view

THE TRUTH
The Catholic church is the only church founded by Jesus Christ himself
all other churches are as a result of one man selfish interest..this has continued till 2day
U will never hear dat Pope Benedict haff bought a private jet

I mean assuming guy A and guy B are on d same economic status level

As for me, I would rather not try toastin a girl in front of her friends because it will never work out... Her friend(s) will always wage war against you at that instance and make d target to hate you..I'm talking frm experience
NOTE; most girls don't have their own say and really on their friends say
The only way to overcome this problem as far as Nigerian girls is concerned is to overwhelm all of dem with riches/money/slick car
In that way, her friends will be scared of even talking to you

I always hear swag swag swag
In truth what do guys/girls really mean by saying dis guy gat swag
Let's consider d following scenario
GUY A characteristics
1... A guy borrow his father/friends car to toast a chick
2... A guy lies that his father is d MD of Shell
3... A guy borrows money/clothes to impress a chick
4... A guy takes a girl out to genesis too see a movie, meanwhile he will soak garri flakes when he get home
5... A guy uses his tuition fees to buy iPad or rent a flat off campus (for university swagging)
6... A guy buys aba made dolce and gabana and over hyp d price by 100 inoorder to show d gal he s rich

My point is assuming a good guy comes out straight and be honest about himself
GUY B characteristics
1... I don't have a car, can we take a bus to the cinema
2... My father is just a pensioner but I will make it by God grace
3... I don't live on debt, so this my cut and sew clothes is Ook for me ( my normal 1500 shirt)
4... Sorry babe, can we watch film at my place because I wanna save money inorder to buy landed property
5... Babe, I gotta pay my fees and buy books inorder to graduate with a good grade (1st class or 2.1) to assure our future
6... This shirt, I bought it 1500 naira and not 8000k as you think

From my analysis, why will d society (girls and guys) rate guy A as having swag than guy B, meanwhile he is living a fake life and telling lies here and there
Meanwhile d good and honest guy B got no swag

tpacalipse: Never woo a church girl.

How would you knw a church girl? Is it written on d face
Btw every girl attend church and wouldn't like to marry a pagan

[quote author=Mynd_44]I am not in the mood for advice right now so I will sau this.

Tell her you saw her in your dream marrying you[/quote]My guy be serious for once
This happened to me weeks ago and I still regret not taking any action because I tot it was a sin

Yield: Would you be visiting the Church only once, then? And your only intent in going there is strictly to find a woman who's physically appealing to you (to woo)?

Na wah oh, som peopl can reason upside down
Picture d scenario, u visit a friend for a job interview/wedding or sometin very important, u decide to pass the sunday at his church and then u see a girl that really blew ur mind and meet all ur wife requirement inside d church in d presence of her family
Knowing quiet well you are travelling back d next day,
How do I handle this issue

Single and looking for Job in oil producing company (shell, Total, agip, chevron)
After I get the job, I will start searching for girl
Simple

Poweredcom is d rightful winner
No doubt
D master of bleeping

Seems you didn't read my post properly
Re-read buddy

Like the topic suggest, jus wanna sample opinions if this is anything wrong with this morally. I mean for a matured guy searching for a wife and assuming you see a girl that matches all your expectation on the physical beauty side (mind you, her character can only be known when you talk to her)
The problem is that you are jus a visitor in that city and might not go there again..
Is it a sin to toast a girl in the house of God in that circumstance

Hahahahahahahahaahahahah
Seems d OP attended night adult school
D topic is so strange, ambigous and weird
LoooooOoooooolzzz

Hahahahahahahahaahahahah
Seems d OP attending night school
D topic is so strange, ambigous and weird
LoooooOoooooolzzz

ATMC: to add to what you just said, opposite attracts many atimes but d same opposites account for d reason for most marital issues...so you see...doom all d wayyy

In terms of opposite attraction, I wld say it only work for teens relationship (boyfriend and girlfriend) but when it comes to real arriage dating or courtin, it will never work because no responsible man wil EVER marry an irresponsible woman or no man of God (pastor) will EVER marry a pagan or no SHELL stylish worker will EVER marry an illiterate girl or no good guy will EVER marry a wayward/stripper girl.
Hope u catch my drift

Didn't get d ExxonMobil job for dis year
But all d same, I hope I get d award here
I hereby nominate myself, xyoung
Remember I posted d favourite topic
Skills used in job hunting (what you did while job hunting)

I nominate Akpos
Simple