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OPEN LETTER TO THE PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE OF NEW NIGERIA PEOPLE'S PARTY.

HIS EXCELLENCY RABIU MUSA KWANKWASO
DEAR SIR.

I am so pleased and thankful to God for giving me the opportunity to write this letter to you,

I believed there is a consensus in Nigeria that our democracy and political system of government need consolidation and the best way to do that is to embarked on our political party reform, revamp the party structure, reorient our party members and drastically eliminate tribalism, regionalism, religionism, personalism and centralization of power.

Democracy is a universal practice of political government that give citizens the right to vote and be voted but today people are left with a facade of democracy! in actual fact, dictatorship is established under the pretence of false democracy, that is the reality of the political system of government that is prevailing in the world today.

Today New Nigeria people's party is labeled as Hausawa party, Muslim party, Kwankwasiya party, Northern party and that definition is really not a good omen for the party and our democracy in this country. The party was hijacked by some political elites that think the party belong to them in some states, the chairmen's of the party think the same, they even stop many good people from purchasing of nomination form's and in some region's the party candidate's are not in good terms with party executives and officials.

When you finally left PDP and registered as a member in NNPP you said" I am leaving PDP because of the failure of it's leadership and lack of internal democracy in the party" the national movement group (TNM) pledge to save the democracy and rescue the nation with the spirit and ideology of Nationalism. all my thought the structure and reformation of NNPP will be restructured with the same spirit, body and ideology but in reality this is not what is happening.

My Excellency as a legitimate political player you cannot promote a strong and realistic democratic system of government unless you're fully committed to ensuring that a free and fair election has been conducted in your political party from ward level, not a congress or consensus. As a presidential candidate you have to take a proactive measures that can prevent this party from political erosion and breakdown, this will involves scrupulous respect of party constitution, the rule of law and the norms of democratic practice.

Consolidation of our democracy and strengthening the political system of our government is a task that we must all adhere collectively to ensure that our political parties has been institutionalized, that will be the central thrust of our party reform process, individuals come and go but institutions endured. Our political class leaders, the community and religious leaders, civil society organizations we all have a duty to contribute in building a united nation toward promoting the principles and practices of true democratic system of government.

Patriotic Nigerians are in need of a HERO not a leader or ruler, we want a revolutionist who can truly stand for the people's mandate and ensure that the sovereignty and authority of the government is in the hands of the people.
because true democracy means the authority of the people. I hope you cannot afford to ignore this call and I believe your response will ignite the ray hope of our yearning youths especially the democrats like me that our attempt and sacrifice for pure and true democracy may not be in vain.

Lastly nothing is impossible in this world, I believe you're the most prominent and dedicated candidate in this country with the spirit and zeal of human capacity development, your victory can be assure as long as your intentions for integrated Nigeria is transparent..

Thank you
Signed by Bin Mahmud..
NNPP Local Government Secretary.

THE LEKKI ‘MASSACRE’

It is quite unfortunate that Nigerians will first judge you in their court of emotions even before your case is opened in a court of law. We are all such unfair and biased people in almost all the judgements we are called upon to deliver as we are mostly blinded by our religion, tribe or the geographical location we hail from.

At the risk of being repetitive on the subject of human rights, freedom and liberty let me say for the up tenth time that protest is a legitimate exercise and the fundamental right of the people in their pursuit of the promise of democracy. In fact our constitution has recognised this fact under Section 40 where it provides that every person is entitled to assemble freely and associate with other persons and to protest any government action or inaction that affect the peaceable enjoyment of his life or curtail his freedom and liberty. This is what I was taught in school. So I will continue to encourage Nigerians to protest because it is a fundamental right to so do.

However what most Nigerians do not know is that every right is attached with a responsibility that goes with it. That is why Section 45 of the same constitution permits the right to protest to be restricted in the interests of defence, public safety, public order, public morality or public health, or to protect the rights or freedoms of others.

Therefore if you are protesting, which is your right to do, you have no right to close down Abuja Airport road or the Lekki gate in Lagos. You have no right to loot or burn down other peoples houses, car stands or shops. Nor do you have a right to break open government warehouses at Kwanan Waya to loot palliatives.

I did not support the EndSARS protest and I have given my reasons severally in this arena. Two among the reasons I gave still stand valid. First, the protest was without leaders and secondly, my believe, based on experience, is that if you call out a black man to the street to protest, you must have intended the consequences of your act, which is very well known to all of us. One of such consequences has always been looting innocent persons property; whether the black man is in Minneapolis, Minnesota protesting over the death of George Floyd, whether he is in South Africa or in the most populous black nation on earth - Nigeria.

People have protested. Having protested without leaders and having blocked the Lekki gate in Lagos, it is in the open now that onions are beyond the reach of the common man in the south east and south south of Nigerian and the irony of it is that it is wasting away in Dasin. The protesters have therefore made onion farmers in Dasin poorer.

Ok. Now people have protested. The protest has produced death and material loss as a consequence. But if you ask the protesters, they would tell you that it was miscreants that carried out the dastardly acts. But my question is, would one not be right to say that the protesters called out the miscreants? Is it therefore wrong to attach the liability for the acts done by the miscreants to those who called them out to the street in the first place? You may decide for yourself.

Now the aftermath. You may recall that it was a girl called Obianuju Catherine Udeh, or ‘DJ Switch, ‘a music DJ who lived-streamed the break up of the protesters by soldiers at Lekki and called it ‘massacre’. When I looked up the meaning of the word in the dictionary, it says massacre is -

“the unnecessary, indiscriminate killing of a large number of human beings or animals, as in barbarous warfare or persecution or for revenge or plunder. a general slaughter, as of persons or animals: the massacre of millions during the war”.

Then Nigerians sang “Lekki massacre”, “Lekki Massacre” in a chorus. But was there actually a massacre on 20th October, 2020 as a result of the standoff at the Lekki Toll Plaza? A commission of Inquiry will decide that for us as hearing has commenced on the matter.

The outcome of the commission’s findings, shall, if made public, enable us determine whether there was a massacre at Lekki or it was a lady music DJ that misled us or it is the case of Nigerians first judging you in their court of emotions even before your case is opened in a court of law.

You judge for yourself.

OBANLIKU, Nigeria—Monica, 16, is one of two sisters sold as wives to men who found their photographs on their father's Facebook page and contacted him. She and her 14-year-old younger sister never wanted to get married until they completed theirsecondary education in Ogbakoko, a small village in Obanliku Local Government Area in Nigeria’s south-central Cross River state. But the teenage sisters fell victims to a culture which subjects little girls, some as young as 10, to de facto slavery through a tradition called “money marriage.”The sisters belong to the Becheve community, a large tribe of 17 villages in Obanliku where there is a long tradition in which young girls—often referred to as “money women” or “money wives”—are sold in exchange for food or livestock or cash, or to settle debts.Like hundreds, or perhaps thousands, of girls from the Becheve clan who are victims of money marriages, Monica and her sister were sold without their consent. Their father wanted to clear the debt he owed to adistant relative. The two sisters got married a month apart to men whom they did not know at all and who wereold enough to be their grandfathers.Their respective husbands got in touch with their father after seeing the Facebook page where he posted photos of his six daughters to draw the attention of his tribesmen. The men of the clan have found the new technology helps to extend and expand their old, exploitative traditions.“My father knew nothing about Facebook until my elder brother bought him a smartphone and convinced him to join Facebook and post our photographs whenever he likes,” Monica told The Daily Beast. “He'll buy new clothes and force me and my sisters to put them on before taking photographs of us.”Usually in the Becheve community, parents of the money brides take the girls to men who can afford to pay fortheir daughters whenever they think they are fit for marriage, or wait for interested men to request their daughter's hand in marriage. But in recent months, families who are so desperate to give their children away for money turn to Facebook so their kinsmen can check them out.“It is young people who convince old men to look for wives on Facebook,” said Monica, who ran away from her husband to live with a friend less thana year after she got married. “The man I married said his oldest son showed him my photo on Facebook and directed him to my father.”In effect, they use Facebook, quite literally, as a face book, although the actual exchange of money or goods does not take place online.Spokespeople for Facebook, when contacted by The Daily Beast, were not familiar with the phenomenon as practiced in the Becheve community.In other cultures where brides have been auctioned online, measures have been taken to stop the transactions.Reports of Facebook being used as a tool to facilitate child marriage aren’t unique to Nigeria. Last November, thesocial media platformcame under fireafter posts discussing the sale of a 16-year-old girl in South Sudan. Thevictim was married in the process after her father, in exchange for his daughter, received 530 cows, three Land Cruiser V8 cars and $10,000. The teenager reportedly was bid on by five men, including senior officialsin the South Sudanese government.Facebook said it took down the post as soon it learned of of it on Nov. 9, but that wasn't until after the victim, Nyalong Ngong Deng Jalang, had been married off as the10th wifeof Kok Alat, a wealthy businessman from the country’s capital city of Juba, on Nov. 3. The post seeking bids for the teenagerreportedly was publishedon Oct. 25.After publication of the winning bid, Jalang achieved a certain notoriety inlocal media as “the most expensive woman in South Sudan.”But the money wives of Becheve rarely receive any publicity, and often endure very difficult times as, in effect, chattel servants. They are usually not allowed to go to school and could be given out to another man if their husbands so desire. If thehusband of a money wife dies, his next-of-kin becomes her new husband. The Becheve custom demands that if a money wife dies without bearing any child, her parentscan bring another girl in the family to replace her. Regardless of the treatment she gets in her husband's house, a money wife is not to run back to her parents.“The practice is meant to boost the status of the men in Becheve community,” Magnus Ejikang, a local chief in Ogbakoko, told The Daily Beast. “The more brides you have, themore respect you gain in the community.”But for many money wives in the Becheve community, the experience in their husband's home is often disastrous, with reports ofmarital abuseandexploitation.“Once he married me, he turned me into his slave and punching bag,” saidMonica, who—just like her sister—wasgiven away to her husband for 20,000Nigerian naira (about $50), along withtwo goats, a pig and some yams. “He said he paid so much to marry me and so I had to labor hard by working for hours everyday in the farm to prove that I'm a grateful wife.”Monica and her sister, who is still married to her 65-year-old husband, aren't the only girls to have ended up in forced marriage after their photos appeared on Facebook. Regina, another teenager from the Becheve tribe, was sold in January by her parents to a man already married with two wives and 11 children. Her husband found her photo on the Facebook page of her uncle, who is notorious for putting photographs of his female relatives on the social media site to draw the attention of men from Becheve seeking child brides. She was then forced into marriage after her uncle pressured her parents, to the dismay of her older brother.“Our greedy uncle, in his usual way of manipulating his brothers into selling their daughters, convinced my parents [to give out their daughter in marriage] because he wanted a shareof the bride price money,” John Ashua, brother of 15-year-old Regina, told The Daily Beast. “He earns a living by looking for husbands for the girls in the family even when they are not ready to get married.”Married life has been difficult for Regina herself. Besides having to drop out of school and carrying out most of the chores at home, she has to look after her husband's livestock, which includes dozens of goats and pigs, and she is punished if she doesn't work as demanded.“He beat me last night because I saidI was tired and couldn't have sex withhim,” Regina, who is now pregnant, complained to her brother on the telephone. “Whenever he returns home at night, he demands sex.”Facebook is hugely popular in Nigeriawith abouta fifth of the country's 98 million internetusers connected to the site. But in rural areas like the Becheve community, where literacy levels are not so high among the elderly, the social media platform is mostly common among young people, who are the greatest owners of smart phones. Activists say youthsin the clan are actually the brain behind men searching for money wives on Facebook.“The majority of Becheve men knew nothing about Facebook until their sons and other young relatives beganto show them photos of young Becheve girls on the platform,” QueenEteng, a researcher with the Nigerian women's rights NGO, Our Women Network, told The Daily Beast. “Most fathers don't run the Facebook pages opened in their names. Rather it is younger family members who create the pages and post the photos.”In the Becheve community, the practice of child marriage is deeply rooted in its customs and tradition. While rights campaigners admit it willbe challenging changing the age-old tradition, they do nevertheless believethat the scale of the practice could easily be reduced.“Young people have a huge role to play in putting a stop to this brutal tradition,” said Odey, whose organization works to end child marriage in Cross River state. “We arereaching out to young men in Becheve community to put a stop to the use of Facebook to display photos of girls for the purpose of having them married.”

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[b][/b]The major cause of Nigeria economic woes is lack of a concrete foundation under which the structure of the nation's economic system is built. In order not to make the building fall, standard pillars that can hold the wall should be formed. This will aid the weak foundation that was formed. There should be transparent economic policy which will diversify the economic system through exploitation of our great human and natural resources to create business opportunities which will boost revenue generation. And also promote local and foreign Investment in the country. From my opinion, three pillars that can tackle the current economic problem and revive the economic system of this country are: 1. Innovation 2. Diversified Production 3. Infrastructure These pillars are suggested due to their potentials base on human and natural resources to harness the economic development of this country. In this century, there is need for any developing economy to focus on innovation. The youths form the largest of the age compositions in the nation. Investing human capital which involved the use of human ideas,talents and skills to initiate a strong economic strategy that can tackle the present situation and move the nation forward. At this junction it is pressing and important for the present administration to support and encourage investment in human ideas that will create job opportunities and self-improvement. Loans should be provided to encourage innovation. These loans could be provided through government social intervention programme to local traders,business women and small business enterprises. These loans will boost local production, I suggest loans should be directed to small scale businesses that are easy to establish. Supporting and providing these small scale businesses with necessary aid thereby boosting the local market which is the root of our economic foundation. There should be check measures in place to ensure that these loans get to those who really need them. Secondly, my proposition is that the production base of the nation should be diversified. The nation should grow or develop from being a mono-cultured economy (depending on one sector) to a diversified economy. The easiest and productive sector that can also drive the economy is Agriculture. Since there are vast fertile but uncultivated lands, government should therefore create awareness for greater participation in agricultural production. Government should ensure acquisition of not less than 1000 acres of land and make it available at affordable prices for farming activities. Grants and incentives should also be provided for farmers or youths interested in farming. I believe by doing this government will reduce the rush for white collar jobs, thereby creating employment opportunities. Feed its teeming population and not only that but also boost its export capacity thereby create another source of revenue generation. The third pillar which is Infrastructure which deals with projects that will make livelihood easy for members of the nation. Weak infrastructure has been one of the major problems facing the nation. This has resulted many firms moving away from the nation, lay off workers and add to the woes of the nation. The state of road, electricity and basic amenities have continue to increase cost of production over time. When cost of production is too high, it will difficult for such firm to realise profit. Small scale businesses are not left out from victims of this problem, setting up a small-scale business with consideration of weak infrastructure is a big problem. It is therefore important for the government to build only structures that can aid production or encourage local and foreign Investment. Infrastructures such as ; Roads, Market, Electricity, Water supply, Schools, Housing estates, Establishment of functioning hospitals and maintenance of existing ones. Focusing on these three suggestions ( Innovation, Diversified and Infrastructure ) will not only solve the current recession problem but provide lasting solution.

1 . Every Muslim should make preparations for jumu’ah from Thursday. After the asr salaat of Thursday, he should make a lot of istighfaar . He should clean his clothes and keep them ready. If he does not have any perfume in his house, then if it is possible he should try and obtain some and keep it ready so that he will not get distracted with these things on jumu’ah. The pious people of the past have stated that the person to receive the most benefit on Friday will be that person who waits for it and who makes preparations for it from Thursday. The most unfortunate person will be he who does not even know as to when Friday will fall, so much so that he will ask the people in the morning as to which day this is. Some pious people used to go and stay in the jaame musjid from the night of jumu’ah in order to make full preparations for the following day. (Ihya aul-Uloom, vol. 1, page 161) 2 . On the day of jumu’ah, ghusl should be made and the hair of the head and the rest of the body should be thoroughly washed. It is also very virtuous to use the miswaak on this day. 3 . After making ghusl, a person should wear the best clothing that he possesses, and if possible he should also apply some perfume. He should also clip his nails. 4 . He should try and go very early to the jaame musjid. The earlier a person goes, the more reward he will receive. Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “On the day of jumu’ah, the angels stand at the entrance of that musjid in which jumu’ah salaat is to be offered. They write down the name of the person who enters the musjid first, and thereafter the name of the person who follows, and they continue doing this . The person who entered first will receive the reward of sacrificing a camel in the path of Allah, the one who followed him will get the reward of sacrificing a cow, thereafter a chicken, thereafter the reward of giving an egg as charity in the path of Allah. Once the khutbahcommences, the angels close the register and begin listening to the khutbah. ” (Bukhari and Muslim) In olden times, the roads and alleys used to be extremely busy in the mornings and at fajr time . All the people used to go so early to the jaame musjid and there used to be such a large crowd that it used to look like the days of eid . Later, when this habit was given up, people began saying that this is the first innovation in Islam . After writing this, Imam Ghazali rahmatullahialayh says: “Aren’t the Muslims ashamed of themselves that the Jews and Christians go so early in the morning to their synagogues and churches on Saturdays and Sundays. Those who are businessmen go so early to the bazaars in order to do their buying and selling . Why don’t the Muslims do the same?” The reality of the situation is that the Muslims have totally reduced the value of this blessed day. They do not even know what day this is, and what a high status it has. How sad it is that the day which was more valuable than eid in the eyes of Muslims of the past, which Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) was proud of and the day which was not granted to the previous nations has become so dishonoured at the hands of Muslims today and it is such a great ingratitude to the favour of Allah Ta’ala that the consequence of all this can be seen with our very eyes. ” 5 . By going walking for the jumu’ah salaat, one gets the reward of fasting for one year for every step that he takes. (Tirmidhi) 6 . On Fridays, Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) used to recite Surah Alif Laam Meem Sajdah and Surah Hal Ataa , in the fajr salaat . These Surahs should therefore be occasionally recited in the fajr salaat on Fridays . Occasionally they should be left out so that people do not regard their recitation as wajib . 7 . For the jumu’ah salaat, Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) used to recite the following Surahs: al-Jumu’ah and al- Munaafiqun, or al-A’la and al-Ghaashiyah . 8 . There is a lot of reward in reciting Surah Kahf either before the jumu’ah salaat or after it. Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “The person who recitesSurah Kahf on Fridays, a nur will appear for him from below the arsh as high as the skies. This light will help him in the darkness of the day of resurrection . And all the sins which he may have committed from the last Friday till this Friday will be forgiven . ” (Sharh Sifrus-Sa’aadah) The ulama have written that this Hadith refers to minor sins because major sins are not forgiven without making taubah . 9 . There is more reward in reciting durood on Fridays than on other days . It has been mentioned in the Hadith that durood should be recited abundantly on Fridays . The Virtues and Importance of Jumu’ah Salaat Jumu’ah salaat is fard-e-ayn . It has been established from the Quran, Hadith and the consensus of the ummah. It is one of the most salient features of Islam. The person who rejects jumu’ah salaat is a kaafir . The one who misses it without any valid excuse is afaasiq. 1 . Allah Ta’ala says in the Quran: Translation : “O you who believe! When the call for jumu’ah salaat is made, hasten towards the remembrance of Allah Ta’ala and leave all transactions. This is best for you if only you know . ” In this verse, “remembrance” refers to the jumu’ah salaat and khutbah. “Hasten” means that one should go with great concern and care. 2 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “The person who has a bath on Friday, purifies himself as far as possible, applies oil to his hair, applies perfume, leaves for the musjid, when he arrives at the musjid he does not sit down by removing anyone from his place, offers as many nafl salaats as possible, when the imam delivers thekhutbah he remains silent – then his sins from the previous jumu’ah till now will be forgiven. ” (Bukhari) 3 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “The person who has a bath on Friday and goes early to the musjid on foot, and not by a vehicle, listens to the khutbahand does not do any foolish act while it is being delivered, will get the reward of one year’s ibaadah , one year’s fasting, and one year’s salaat; for every step that he takes. ” (Tirmidhi) 4 . Hadrat Ibn Umar and Abu Hurayrah radiallahu anhuma narrate that they heard Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) saying: “People should abstain from leaving out jumu’ah salaat If not, Allah Ta’ala will put a seal over their hearts whereby they will fall into severe negligence. ” (Muslim) 5 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “The person who misses out three jumu’ah’s without any valid reason, Allah Ta’ala puts a seal over his heart. ” (Tirmidhi) In another narration it is mentioned that Allah Ta’ala becomes displeased with him. 6 . Taariq bin Shihaab radiallahu anhu narrates that Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “The jumu’ah salaat with jama’at is a duty which is wajib on every Muslim with the exception of the following four persons: (i) a slave, that is the one who is owned by someone according to the rules laid down by the Shariah , (ii) a woman, (iii) an immature boy, (iv) a sick person. ” (Abu Daud) 7 . Ibn Umar radiallahuanhu narrates that Rasulullah (Allah blesshim & give him peace) said the following in regard to those who leave out jumu’ah: “It is my earnest desire that I appoint someone as imam in my place while I go and burn the homes of those who do not attend the jumu’ah salaat. ” (Muslim) A similar Hadith has also been related with regard to leaving out jama’at. We have mentioned this Hadith previously. 8 . Ibn Abbas radiallahuanhu narrates that Rasulullah (Allah blesshim & give him peace) said: “The person who leaves out jumu’ah salaat without a valid reason is written down as a hypocrite in a book that is absolutely protected from any changes and modifications. ” (Mishkaat) In other words, he will be labelled as a hypocrite forever. However, if he repents or Allah forgives him solely out of His mercy, then this is another matter. 9 . Hadrat Jaabir radiallahuanhu narrates that Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Jumu’ah salaat becomes obligatory on the person who believes in Allah Ta’ala and the last day, except for the sick, musafir , woman, child, and a slave. If a person occupies himself in something unnecessary, or in some transaction, Allah Ta’ala also turns away from him and does not worry about him and Allah is worthy of all praise. ” (Mishkaat) In other words, He is not affected by anyone’s ibaadah nor does He benefit in any way. His essence and being will remain the same irrespective of whether anyone praises Him and worships Him or not. 10 . Hadrat Ibn Abbas radiallahuanhu says that the person who leaves out several jumu’ah salaats consecutively has in fact turned away from Islam. (Ash’atulLama’aat) 11 . A person asked Ibn Abbas radiallahuanhu regarding a person who passed away and who should not join the jumu’ah and jama’at salaats: “What do you have to say regarding such a person?” He replied: “That person is in jahannam . ” This person continued asking him this question for a full month and he gave him the same reply. (Ihyaa ul-Uloom) Even by merely glancing at these Ahadith, one can come to the conclusion that the Shariah has laid great stress on jumu’ah salaat and that severe warnings have been given to the one who leaves out jumu’ah . Can a person who claims to be a Muslim still have the audacity of leaving out this fard duty?

The Virtues of Jumu’ah 1 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Friday is the best of days. It was on this day that Hadrat Aadam alayhis salaam was created, it was on this day that he was granted entry into jannah , it was on this day that he was removed from jannah (which became the cause for man’s existence in this universe, and which is a great blessing), and the day of resurrection will also take place on this day. ” (Sahih Muslim) 2 . It is related from Imam Ahmad rahmatullahialayh that he said that in certain aspects the rank of the night of jumu’ah is even higher than Laylatul Qadr One of the reasons for this is that it was on this night that Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) appeared in the womb of his mother Rasulullah’s (Allah bless him & give him peace) appearance in this world was a cause of so much good and blessings both in this world and in the hereafter that they cannot be enumerated. (Ash’atulLama’aat) 3 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “There is such an hour on Friday that if any Muslim makes dua in it, his dua will definitely be accepted. ” (Bukhari, Muslim) The ulama have differed in specifying that hour which has been mentioned in the Hadith . Shaykh Abdul Haq Muhaddith Dehlawi rahmatullahialayh has mentioned 40 different opinions in his book Sharh Sifrus Sa’aadah . However, from among all these opinions he has given preference to two opinions: (1) That time is from the commencement of the khutbah till the end of the salaat, (2) That time is towards the end of the day . A big group of ulama have given preference to this second opinion and there are many Ahadith which support this opinion . Shaykh Dehlawi rahmatullahialayh says that this narration is correct that Hadrat Fatimah radiallahuanha used to order her maid on Fridays to inform her when the day is about to end so that she could occupy herself in making zikr and duas. (Ash’atulLama’aat) 4 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Of all the days, Friday is the most virtuous. It is on this day that the trumpet will be blown. Send abundant durood upon me on Fridays because they are presented to me on that day. ” The Sahabah radiallahu anhum asked: “O Rasulullah! How will they be presented to you when even your bones will not be present after your death?” Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) replied: “Allah Ta’ala has made the earth haraam upon the prophets forever . ” (Abu Daud) 5 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “The word “shaahid” refers to Friday . There is no day more virtuous than Friday. There is such an hour in this day that no Muslim will make dua in it except that his dua will be accepted. And he does not seek protection from anything except that Allah Ta’ala will grant him protection . ” (Tirmidhi) The word “shaahid” appears in Surah Burooj . Allah Ta’ala has taken an oath of that day. He says in the Quran: “By the sky in which there are constellations .By the promised day (of judgement). By the day that witnesses (Friday), and the day that is witnessed (day of Arafah). ” 6 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Friday is the “mother” of all days and the most virtuous in the sight of Allah Ta’ala. In the sight of Allah Ta’ala it has more greatness than Eid ul-Fitr and Eid ul-Ad’haa . ” (Ibn Majah) 7 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “The Muslim who passes away on the night or during the day of Friday, Allah Ta’ala saves him from the punishment of the grave . ” (Tirmidhi) 8 . Once Hadrat Ibne Abbas radiallahu anhu recited the following verse: “This day, I have completed your Deen for you. ” A Jew was sitting near him. On hearing this verse being recited he remarked: “If this verse was revealed to us, we would have celebrated that day as a day of eid . ” Ibne Abbas radiallahu anhu replied: “This verse was revealed on two eids , i. e . on the day of jumu’ah and the day of arafah . ” In other words, what is the need for us to make that day into a day of eid when it was already a day of two eids ? 9 . Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) used to say that the night of jumu’ah is a lustrous night, and the day of jumu’ah is a lustrous day. (Mishkaat) 10 . After qiyaamah , Allah Ta’ala will send those who deserve paradise into paradise, and those who deserve hell into hell . The days that we have in this world will also be there. Although there will be no day and night, Allah Ta’ala will show us the extent of days and nights and also the number of hours. So when Friday will come and that hour when the people used to go for jumu’ah will approach, a person will call out saying: “O dwellers of jannah ! Go into the jungles of abundance, the length and breadth of which are not known to anyone besides Allah Ta’ala. There will be mounds of musk which will be as high as the skies. The prophets alayhimus salaam will be made to sit on towers of light, and the believers on chairs of sapphires. Once everyone is seated in their respective places, Allah Ta’ala will send a breeze which will carry that musk. That breeze will carry the musk and apply it to their clothing, faces and hair . That breeze will know how to apply that musk even better than that woman who is given all the different perfumes of the world. Allah Ta’ala will then order the carriers of His throne to go and place His throne among all these people. He will then address them saying: “O my servants who have brought faith in the unseen despite not seeing Me, who have attested My Rasul (Allah bless him & give him peace), and who have obeyed My laws! Ask Me whatever you wish for . This day is the day of giving abundantly . ” They will all exclaim in one voice: “O Allah! We are pleased with You, You also be pleased with us. ” Allah Ta’ala will reply: “O dwellers of jannah ! If I were not pleased with you all, I would not have kept you in My jannah . Ask for something because this is the day of giving in abundance. ” They will all say in one voice: “O Allah! Show us Your beauty, that we may be able to look at Your noble being with our very eyes . ” Allah Ta’ala will lift the veil and will become apparent to these people and His beauty will engulf them from all sides . If this order was not given from before hand that the jannatis will never get burnt, without doubt they would not have endured the heat of this light and they would all have got burnt. He will then ask them to go back to their respective places . Their beauty and attractiveness will double through the effects of that Real beauty. These people will then go to their wives. They will not be able to see their wives nor will their wives be able to see them. After a little while, the nur which was concealing them will be removed and they will now be able to see each other. Their wives will tell them that how is it that you do not have the same appearance which you had left with? That is, your appearance is a thousand times better now. They will reply that the reason for this is that the noble being of Allah Ta’ala was made apparent to us and we saw His beauty with our very eyes . (Sharh Sifrus-Sa’aadah) See what a great bounty they received on the day of jumu’ah. 11 . Every afternoon, the heat of jahannam is increased. However, through the blessings of jumu’ah, this will not be done on Fridays . (Ihyaa ul-Uloom) 12 . On one Friday, Rasulullah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “O Muslims! Allah Ta’ala has made this day a day of eid . So have a bath on this day, whoever has perfume should apply it, and use the miswaak . ” (Ibn Majah)

The course of Nigerian Economic recession is lack of a concrete foundation under the structure that built the Economic system of this country, My plan or Idea is not to stop the building from falling but to raise a standard pillars that can hold the wall before forming a strong and concrete foundation with solid financial strategy and transparent political policy which will diversify the Economic system through exploitation of our great Human and Natural resources to create business opportunities which will provide revenue allocation and promote local and foreign Investment in the country... The three pillars that can tackle and revive the Economic system of this country are:- (1) Innovation ( 2) Production ( 3) Infrastructures This pillars are classify according to their potentials base on Human and Natural resources to harness the Economic development of this country, by stepping into Human capital Investment which involved the use of human Idea,talent and skills to initiate a strong Economic strategy that can withstand any political policy... At this juncture it is pressing and important for this Administration to support and encourage the Investment in human ideas that will create job opportunities and self-improvement by giving loans through the government social intervention programme to local traders,business women and small business enterprises.. I suggests government should give loans to promote businesses like:- 1. Provision store business 2. Food stuff business 3. Cooking business 4. Frying business 5. Barbeque business 6. Fish and meat business 7. Livestock business 8. Vegetables and spices business 9. Fresh Fruits business 10. Cooking oil business I believe by supporting and providing this small scale business with necessary help they want will boost the local market which is the root of our Economic Foundation... The second pillar is Production which involved Agricultural Activities though this Administration is doing it best to see that the sector have provide so much for the people... My proposition here is the government should encourage, help and support every local government Agricultural Department to acquire not less than 1000 acres of land to farm and cultivate I believe by doing that the government will not only feed the population of this country but the Nation at large... Third pillar is Infrastructure which deals with construction and building that are necessary and basic social needs that can ease the cost of people live, Under this section it is important for the government to built only structures that can provide revenue and Attract the means of local and foreign Investment which are:- *. Roads and Tollgates *. Market and Motor Parks *. Power and Water *. Schools and Estate *. Hospitals and Hotels *. shopping complex and Warehouses *. Filling Stations *. Transportation *. Communications *. Agro- Industries If all this Infrastructure where to be build in every local government Area in this country many good things will happen in a very short time....

How to tackle Nigerian economic recession The course of Nigerian Economic recession is lack of a concrete foundation under the structure that built the Economic system of this country, My plan or Idea is not to stop the building from falling but to raise a standard pillars that can hold the wall before forming a strong and concrete foundation with solid financial strategy and transparent political policy which will diversify the Economic system through exploitation of our great Human and Natural resources to create business opportunities which will provide revenue allocation and promote local and foreign Investment in the country... The three pillars that can tackle and revive the Economic system of this country are:- (1) Innovation ( 2) Production ( 3) Infrastructures This pillars are classify according to their potentials base on Human and Natural resources to harness the Economic development of this country, by stepping into Human capital Investment which involved the use of human Idea,talent and skills to initiate a strong Economic strategy that can withstand any political policy... At this juncture it is pressing and important for this Administration to support and encourage the Investment in human ideas that will create job opportunities and self-improvement by giving loans through the government social intervention programme to local traders,business women and small business enterprises.. I suggests government should give loans to promote businesses like:- 1. Provision store business 2. Food stuff business 3. Cooking business 4. Frying business 5. Barbeque business 6. Fish and meat business 7. Livestock business 8. Vegetables and spices business 9. Fresh Fruits business 10. Cooking oil business I believe by supporting and providing this small scale business with necessary help they want will boost the local market which is the root of our Economic Foundation... The second pillar is Production which involved Agricultural Activities though this Administration is doing it best to see that the sector have provide so much for the people... My proposition here is the government should encourage, help and support every local government Agricultural Department to acquire not less than 1000 acres of land to farm and cultivate I believe by doing that the government will not only feed the population of this country but the Nation at large... Third pillar is Infrastructure which deals with construction and building that are necessary and basic social needs that can ease the cost of people live, Under this section it is important for the government to built only structures that can provide revenue and Attract the means of local and foreign Investment which are:- *. Roads and Tollgates *. Market and Motor Parks *. Power and Water *. Schools and Estate *. Hospitals and Hotels *. shopping complex and Warehouses *. Filling Stations *. Transportation *. Communications *. Agro- Industries If all this Infrastructure where to be build in every local government Area in this country many good things will happen in a very short time....

This business strategy come to me when I wanted to built a house and get married, unfortunately I am living in a local government with local people that is why my business plan failed but if you know you're living in a civilize Area filled with good people I believe this business will be the beginning of your success...
First I will advice you to know the risk of any business before you start doing it or investing in it study your market possibility and don't put all your capital in the business which start with the little you have...
The business have three sections
The coffee shop, Restaurant and Barbeque
This three businesses have three different stages
First stage find someone who do the business but he or she have small capital show them your interest in the business and tell them you want to invest in it, if the person agree write a business agreement with them that at the end of everyday the sales of the day will be divided into 3 he/she get 1 you get 1 and the business get 1 if possible you will save three thousand everyday in thirty days will have ninety thousand naira.....
But if you're serious you can built or Rent a place employ people to come and work for you in this three blissful businesses you will be surprise.

The course of Nigerian Economic recession is lack of a concrete foundation under the structure that built the Economic system of this country, My plan or Idea is not to stop the building from falling but to raise a standard pillars that can hold the wall before forming a strong and concrete foundation with solid financial strategy and transparent political policy which will diversify the Economic system through exploitation of our great Human and Natural resources to create business opportunities which will provide revenue allocation and promote local and foreign Investment in the country... The three pillars that can tackle and revive the Economic system of this country are:- (1) Innovation ( 2) Production ( 3) Infrastructures This pillars are classify according to their potentials base on Human and Natural resources to harness the Economic development of this country, by stepping into Human capital Investment which involved the use of human Idea,talent and skills to initiate a strong Economic strategy that can withstand any political policy... At this juncture it is pressing and important for this Administration to support and encourage the Investment in human ideas that will create job opportunities and self-improvement by giving loans through the government social intervention programme to local traders,business women and small business enterprises.. I suggests government should give loans to promote businesses like:- 1. Provision store business 2. Food stuff business 3. Cooking business 4. Frying business 5. Barbeque business 6. Fish and meat business 7. Livestock business 8. Vegetables and spices business 9. Fresh Fruits business 10. Cooking oil business I believe by supporting and providing this small scale business with necessary help they want will boost the local market which is the root of our Economic Foundation... The second pillar is Production which involved Agricultural Activities though this Administration is doing it best to see that the sector have provide so much for the people... My proposition here is the government should encourage, help and support every local government Agricultural Department to acquire not less than 1000 acres of land to farm and cultivate I believe by doing that the government will not only feed the population of this country but the Nation at large... Third pillar is Infrastructure which deals with construction and building that are necessary and basic social needs that can ease the cost of people live, Under this section it is important for the government to built only structures that can provide revenue and Attract the means of local and foreign Investment which are:- *. Roads and Tollgates *. Market and Motor Parks *. Power and Water *. Schools and Estate *. Hospitals and Hotels *. shopping complex and Warehouses *. Filling Stations *. Transportation *. Communications *. Agro- Industries If all this Infrastructure where to be build in every local government Area in this country many good things will happen in a very short time....

The course of Nigerian Economic recession is lack of a concrete foundation under the structure that built the Economic system of this country, My plan or Idea is not to stop the building from falling but to raise a standard pillars that can hold the wall before forming a strong and concrete foundation with solid financial strategy and transparent political policy which will diversify the Economic system through exploitation of our great Human and Natural resources to create business opportunities which will provide revenue allocation and promote local and foreign Investment in the country... The three pillars that can tackle and revive the Economic system of this country are:- (1) Innovation ( 2) Production ( 3) Infrastructures This pillars are classify according to their potentials base on Human and Natural resources to harness the Economic development of this country, by stepping into Human capital Investment which involved the use of human Idea,talent and skills to initiate a strong Economic strategy that can withstand any political policy... At this juncture it is pressing and important for this Administration to support and encourage the Investment in human ideas that will create job opportunities and self-improvement by giving loans through the government social intervention programme to local traders,business women and small business enterprises.. I suggests government should give loans to promote businesses like:- 1. Provision store business 2. Food stuff business 3. Cooking business 4. Frying business 5. Barbeque business 6. Fish and meat business 7. Livestock business 8. Vegetables and spices business 9. Fresh Fruits business 10. Cooking oil business I believe by supporting and providing this small scale business with necessary help they want will boost the local market which is the root of our Economic Foundation... The second pillar is Production which involved Agricultural Activities though this Administration is doing it best to see that the sector have provide so much for the people... My proposition here is the government should encourage, help and support every local government Agricultural Department to acquire not less than 1000 acres of land to farm and cultivate I believe by doing that the government will not only feed the population of this country but the Nation at large... Third pillar is Infrastructure which deals with construction and building that are necessary and basic social needs that can ease the cost of people live, Under this section it is important for the government to built only structures that can provide revenue and Attract the means of local and foreign Investment which are:- *. Roads and Tollgates *. Market and Motor Parks *. Power and Water *. Schools and Estate *. Hospitals and Hotels *. shopping complex and Warehouses *. Filling Stations *. Transportation *. Communications *. Agro-Industries If all this Infrastructure where to be build in every local government Area in this country many good things will happen in a very short time....

The course of Nigerian Economic recession is lack of a concrete foundation under the structure that built the Economic system of this country, My plan or Idea is not to stop the building from falling but to raise a standard pillars that can hold the wall before forming a strong and concrete foundation with solid financial strategy and transparent political policy which will diversify the Economic system through exploitation of our great Human and Natural resources to create business opportunities which will provide revenue allocation and promote local and foreign Investment in the country...
The three pillars that can tackle and revive the Economic system of this country are:-
(1) Innovation
( 2) Production
( 3) Infrastructures
This pillars are classify according to their potentials base on Human and Natural resources to harness the Economic development of this country, by stepping into Human capital Investment which involved the use of human Idea,talent and skills to initiate a strong Economic strategy that can withstand any political policy...
At this juncture it is pressing and important for this Administration to support and encourage the Investment in human ideas that will create job opportunities and self-improvement by giving loans through the government social intervention programme to local traders,business women and small business enterprises.. I suggests government should give loans to promote businesses like:-
1. Provision store business
2. Food stuff business
3. Cooking business
4. Frying business
5. Barbeque business
6. Fish and meat business
7. Livestock business
8. Vegetables and spices business
9. Fresh Fruits business
10. Cooking oil business
I believe by supporting and providing this small scale business with necessary help they want will boost the local market which is the root of our Economic Foundation...

I have someone who specialized in Moringa business and farming I will connect you if you like...

Sometimes individuals and couples can feel dissatisfied , unhappy and unfulfilled in their marriages/ relationships and be unsure as to what exactly is wrong There are many factors that contribute to a satisfying marriage /relationship such as ; Love , Commitment, Trust , Time , Attention, Good Communication including Listening , Partnership , Tolerance , Patience , Openness, Honesty , Respect , Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/ Ability to Compromise, Constructive management of Disagreements /Arguments, Willingness to see another ’ s viewpoint , Ability and Willingness to Forgive /Apologise, Fun. The list is simple and obvious yet it can be very difficult for individuals /couples to restore their marriage /relationship to a satisfying one when difficulties arise or when they drift apart . There are many areas of closeness that can enhance a marriage /relationship, help it to remain strong and help it to get back on track when it has become distant /difficult . Sometimes couples feel that things are not right between them , they wonder what is wrong and what they can do? The following four areas of closeness can help guide a couple in assessing how their relationship is and can also guide a couple in how to become closer and improve their relationship when difficulties arise, or when they have become distant from one another . Areas of Closeness Doing things Together Physical Closeness Emotional Closeness Sexual Closeness None of the four areas above are more important than each other but each can help another area to thrive and all together they can help a relationship become more satisfying, closer , more intimate Doing Things Together It is important that couples spend time together . With busy lives, many commitments and children to care for couples can find themselves with very little time for each other . Spending time together regularly , shopping , dining out , going to the cinema, walking , swimming, involvement in sports, exercising, sharing hobbies and holidays can help couples become closer and have more time to talk and therefore get to know one another better. Physical Closeness It is important for a couple to be close physically. This can include eye contact, holding hands, hugging , sitting close together , massaging one another . More opportunities for physical closeness will enhance a couple ’ s sense of closeness and intimacy . It is important for couples to be conscious that some individuals are more comfortable being physically demonstrative than others and it is important to try to understand how comfortable or otherwise your spouse /partner is and take it from there . Emotional Closeness Emotional closeness will help couples get to know and understand each other more deeply and also have empathy for each other. It involves being open with each other about feelings, thoughts , beliefs, values, hopes , worries , fears, dreams and ambitions. Attentive listening enhances emotional closeness when both individuals listen in order to get to know and understand their spouse /partner more fully , rather than to disagree , judge, blame oror criticise their spouse /partner. Sexual Closeness It is important that both individuals are happy with their couple sexual relationship and feel able to raise and discuss their sexual relationship with the other as needed . Sometimes couples can be very concerned about the frequency of their sexual activity. As long as both individuals are happy with the frequency and the nature of their sexual activity there is no need for them to be concerned or to compare their sexual relationship to those portrayed in the media or those reported by others of their acquaintance , both of which can be at variance with reality .

Sometimes individuals and couples can feel dissatisfied , unhappy and unfulfilled in their marriages/ relationships and be unsure as to what exactly is wrong There are many factors that contribute to a satisfying marriage /relationship such as ; Love , Commitment, Trust , Time , Attention, Good Communication including Listening , Partnership , Tolerance , Patience , Openness, Honesty , Respect , Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/ Ability to Compromise, Constructive management of Disagreements /Arguments, Willingness to see another ’ s viewpoint , Ability and Willingness to Forgive /Apologise, Fun. The list is simple and obvious yet it can be very difficult for individuals /couples to restore their marriage /relationship to a satisfying one when difficulties arise or when they drift apart . There are many areas of closeness that can enhance a marriage /relationship, help it to remain strong and help it to get back on track when it has become distant /difficult . Sometimes couples feel that things are not right between them , they wonder what is wrong and what they can do? The following four areas of closeness can help guide a couple in assessing how their relationship is and can also guide a couple in how to become closer and improve their relationship when difficulties arise, or when they have become distant from one another . Areas of Closeness Doing things Together Physical Closeness Emotional Closeness Sexual Closeness None of the four areas above are more important than each other but each can help another area to thrive and all together they can help a relationship become more satisfying, closer , more intimate Doing Things Together It is important that couples spend time together . With busy lives, many commitments and children to care for couples can find themselves with very little time for each other . Spending time together regularly , shopping , dining out , going to the cinema, walking , swimming, involvement in sports, exercising, sharing hobbies and holidays can help couples become closer and have more time to talk and therefore get to know one another better. Physical Closeness It is important for a couple to be close physically. This can include eye contact, holding hands, hugging , sitting close together , massaging one another . More opportunities for physical closeness will enhance a couple ’ s sense of closeness and intimacy . It is important for couples to be conscious that some individuals are more comfortable being physically demonstrative than others and it is important to try to understand how comfortable or otherwise your spouse /partner is and take it from there . Emotional Closeness Emotional closeness will help couples get to know and understand each other more deeply and also have empathy for each other. It involves being open with each other about feelings, thoughts , beliefs, values, hopes , worries , fears, dreams and ambitions. Attentive listening enhances emotional closeness when both individuals listen in order to get to know and understand their spouse /partner more fully , rather than to disagree , judge, blame oror criticise their spouse /partner. Sexual Closeness It is important that both individuals are happy with their couple sexual relationship and feel able to raise and discuss their sexual relationship with the other as needed . Sometimes couples can be very concerned about the frequency of their sexual activity. As long as both individuals are happy with the frequency and the nature of their sexual activity there is no need for them to be concerned or to compare their sexual relationship to those portrayed in the media or those reported by others of their acquaintance , both of which can be at variance with reality .

BUHARI HAS FAILED US ON ECONOMY REFORM.. Today president Muhammad Buhari have 414days in office and his administration achieved 65% percent of war against the insurgency, 32% percent in fighting corruption and 11% percent on economy growth due to Single Treasury Account.. This government has inherited many problems from the past administration but among the problems there is no inflation and food scarcity.. This week the governor of the central bank of Nigeria Mr Godwin Emifiele told the senates that the nation's economy had entered into deep crisis the governor also admitted that the economy is in trouble and from the look of the things it is not going to get better and the economy team is not able to come up with a strategies on how to use Agricultural system to diversify the economic recession of the country... BUHARI HAS FAILED US ON NAIRA DEVALUATION AND SUBSIDY REMOVAL.. According to Nigerian inflation rate it hit double digit and the consumer price index is high while the market price increase way above people expectations due to naira devaluation and subsidy removal that keep pushing and raising the domestic and imported goods price to be more higher.. The administration policy on monetary fund of this government is very poor the policy stand inline and block the economic growth by increasing the inflation and interest rate... BUHARI HAS FAILED US ON POLITICAL APPOINTMENT. President Muhammad Buhari appointment where believed to be unequal, outrageous and provincial. the president once said " I belong to everybody and I belong to nobody" while the supremacy of the government is shared with the party and the political Allies... About 75% percent of the administration appointment were used to payback the political debt to those who successfully sponsored and manipulate the process of the election... BUHARI HAS FAILED US ON HUMAN RIGHT. The constitution of Nigeria give every citizen by birth the right for dual citizenship, the right to freedom of movement and the right to personal liberty but today a Nigerian have no right to go to Cameroon or Niger Republic to buy a bag of rice for his starving families... The Nigerian Arm forces has been typically viewed as inefficient and corrupted they failed in their responsible to prevent the massacre of Shi'a group in Zaria, the mass killing of youths agitators for the state of Biafra and day to day killing of a large number of farmers and villagers by the Fulani herdsmen which all happened due to negligence of the security forces under president Muhammad Buhari administration.. People are suffering and dying out of hardships and pollution but the government does not care to listen to their grievances until they take Arms to claimed their right in the Niger Delta while within the regular Arm forces there are high-level of corruption and human right violation which include extortion and embezzlement that give the security forces the advantage of putting roadblocks that require a fee to pass by taking money without legal reason and there is no equal right or protection in this country, the rich and political leaders are able to buy the security forces as well as expecting them to closed their eyes and mouth shot whenever they're doing their illegal act... WITH DUE CONSIDERATION ON THE POOR PERFORMANCE AND INCOMPETENT OF THE GOVERNMENT IN TRANSFORMING THE ECONOMY SYSTEM OF THIS COUNTRY... I WANT NIGERIAN TO KNOW THAT IT IS NOT HEALTHY FOR US TO DEPEND ON GOVERNMENT POLICY AND IT IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR US TO START CREATING A BUSINESS LOGISTICS THAT CAN HELP US SURVIVED ON GOODS THAT WE CAN PRODUCE...I URGED NIGERIAN PEOPLE TO BELIEVED AND TRUST GOD NOT BUHARI, TO PRAY FOR NIGERIA NOT BUHARI TO SHOW KINDNESS AND HELP EACH OTHER TO ACHIEVED THEIR BEST IN LIVE... MAY GOD BLESS US AMIN.

Open letter to the president of Federal republic of Nigeria... sir with due respect and regard to your administration achievements in security situations,war against the agent of corruption and mission in foreign policies are indeed the beginning of this government development and with much hope to witness a dramatic changes in Economy situation,Educational planning and Employment strategy..To me what this government is doing to ease the suffering of the people shouldn't be criticized but it is very important and pressing for the presidency to create an open policy and collaborate with private organization and patriotic citizens to contribute in decisions making and suggestion on setting public matters. Before I delve into what I think is the solution of Nigerian problems as a country since 1914 I like to underline some words for his Excellency the president of the Federal republic of Nigeria Mohammad Buhari to know that I didn't expect the presidency to be nonchalant on everything that is happening in this country be it in every Ministry, State,Local government,Department or Community your action is needed everywhere more especially your voice of confidence to boost the morale of the people towards achieving a compromise government policy. According to the history the main reason and motive behind the amalgamation of 1914 that lead to the Nigerian Independence of 1960 and the merger of political parties of 2014 which resulted into political revolution of 2015 are the positive impact that reveals the magnitude forces of Unity which is also the fundamental principle that this government need to transformed the ideology of the toward achieving a successive administration policy where the significant stages has demonstrated the power of Unity and identified the true nature of human sacrifice with the aims and objective of building a Nation with the spirit brotherhood other to achieved a common goal and I believe the strong pattern that built this country is to much greater anybody to divide it or destroy it and it is to big for someone to rule it.. In the process of supporting the administration system of the government my research are based on the genesis of what really course and effect the development of this country which I found out that it is nothing more than the act of decision making is exclusively to those in power and most of the rulers have selfish interest and self-centered ideas which corrupt the foundation of this country in regard to redress the problems of development of this country I discover the seven elements that is physically form by the act of nature and guided as a complete way of live and those elements are the key to unlocked the national treasure that will unit our people and create a fountain of peace with everlasting progress in this country and the key elements have three major areas concentration and if to say I am going to write a book every element the book will contain more than 1000pages but to make short I have listed the seven elements as follow = The rule of law The security system The economic system The education system The traditional system The Democratic system The social development system If you can Automatically scan the situation of this country you will found out that main frame of Nigerian problems is the rule of law which instigated our security levels that jeopardized our economic strategy due to lack of technical education which contradicted with our traditional norms and change our cultural ways into Democratic system of government that give birth to corruption, bribery, fraud, embezzlement, religious persecution, tribalism, ethnocentrism, secessionist, sentiment and cynical disregard that divided our social development into regional sections.. At this crucial juncture I would like the President to know and understand that creating your legacy movement with the aims and objective of uniting people to understand the importance of coming together with the same Idea and intention of helping one another to built a serene environment where peace and harmony shall reign is the pathway forward that should spark a ripple affect and course a positive impact between you and the people that should lead into the deep sense of significant were the true meaning of your kindness, honesty and helping people will be found in measuring the value and concern about people wellbeing is much importance than emphasized on accomplishments of any political goals,prestige or foreign recognition.. Lastly what people deeply want is nothing more than good leadership and successful administration policy and for the government to achieved it mission and vision in reforming the growth and development of this country the government should have to need the support and participant of some patriotic citizens to contribute in public matters if not the policy making of this administration wouldn't achieved 50% of it mandate and the administration system is doom to fail as the rest but if this government is for everybody and it didn't belong to anybody I hope the government should lead base on the principles of power belong to the people and everybody have and equal right to be involved in running the affairs and making decision in public matters.. Remember many government has come with their agenda and plans but none of them achieved their best may God the Almighty help this government achieved their best Amin..God bless the federal republic of Nigeria sign by Abdul DB

He is just trying to help another political friend not promoting unity if it is not politics what advice did he need from Igbo in Adamawa state