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WELL AS A NAIJA GUY,I WOULD TRY HARD NOT TO GENERALIZE ON THIS ONE
MAJORITY OF US(NAIJA MEN) REPRESENTS THE BLACK RACE REALLY GOOD
AND SPEAKING OF THE KINDA OF BACKGROUND WE HAVE,MAKES MUST OF US
ACG(ALL CONDITION GUARANTEE) A NAIJA BLACK MAN IS ONE OF THE FEWEST
BLACK MAN,DAT HAS ENOUGH SWAGGA TO ADAPT TO ANY CIRCUMSTANCE LIFE
THROWS AT US,PUT US FOR NAIJA WE GO FIND LOOP HOLE,PUT US FOR YANKEE
SMALL TIME,NA WE GO DEY RUN MUST PROFESSIONAL JOBS,GIVE US ONE DATE
WE GO FINISH YOU WITH OUR GRAMMAR WITH SHAKESPEARE LINES,GIVE US MUNGUN
GREEDY WITH MAN WE GO CONFUSE HIM SO CALLED SMART BRAIN,STILL CHOP HIN MONEY
UNTOP,CHALLENGE US WITH AKATA BLACK MAN,SMALL TIME WE DON TEACH AM A THOUSAND
WAYS TO MAKE MONEY FOR HIN HOUSE WEY HIM NO DISCOVER,TALK ABOUT CREATIVITY NA ONLY
NAIJA ARTISTE GO SING,RAP,RAGGA LIKE SAY HIN MOTHER TONGUE NA EBONICS OR PATUA,


INSHORT WE NAIJA MEN NEED TO BE CALLED THE 8TH WONDER OF THE WORLD

@DASA I FEEL UR IDEAS BRO,I ALSO FELT THE OTHER GUYS WHO TALK ABT REALLY
CHECKING YOURSELF IF YOU TRUELY GOT TALENT,BUT I THINK LIKE YOU SAID DOES
IDEAS WILL WORK FASTER WITH AN ARTISTE WHO HAS MORE OF STREET APPEAL THAN
RADIO APPEAL,CONSIDERING THOSE STREET PROMO SPOTS U MENTION LIKE BARS,BARBER
SHOP,INTERNET CAFE ETC ITS LIKELY FOR UR LISTENERS TO GET HOOKED ON THE SONGS
QUICKER THAN THEY WOULD LISTENING OVER THE RADIO,BUT ON THE LONG RUN MY BRO
DON'T SAY AM TRYNA DEVIATE FROM TOPIC,BUT IT STILL ALL BOILS DOWN TO THE FACT
THAT "PERSON HEAD WEY GO MAKE AM GO MAKE AM,AND PERSON WEY NO GO MAKE AM
NO GO MAKE AM" WHILE SOME ARTISTE GO COUGH FOR SONG SELL MULTI PLATINIUM
SOME GO WRITE SONG WITH SLEEPNESS NIGHT FOR STUDIO AND GET ENOUGH CLAPPS
"THE GUY GOOD SHA,BUT MAKE I GO BUY COUGH MAN ALBUM", MAKE GOD HELP MAN.

WERE AM I GONNA START FROM? I MUST CONFESS THAT DIS IS THE MOST INTRESTING TALKED ABOUT TOPIC
I HV EVER READ ON NAIRALAND @DAYOKANU,ROMEO AND LAGOSBOY YOU GUYS WOULD MAKE A VERY GOOD
TEAM WOW!!! I HV FELT EVERY THING YOU GUYS AS SAID TO THE BONE MARROW,WITHOUT KNOWING IF I
COULD HV SAID IT BETTER.


YOU SEE THE DIFF BTW OUR PART OF THE WORLD AND THE WESTERN WORLD,AND THE REASON WHY
THEY WILL CONTINUE TO DEVELOP WHY WE FOLLOW IS THE ABILITY OF EVERY MAN TO SPEAK THERE
MIND WHETER POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE WITHOUT THE FEAR OF INTERCEPTION OR MAKE BELIEVES.


AND @MR POSTER AM SURE U NEVER EXPECTED ALL OF THIS WHEN U CREATED THIS TREND
KEEP EM COMING BRO IS RIGHT ABOUT TIME ITS 2010,AND EVEN THE BIBLE SAY,IN THE LAST
DAYS,MAKE WE BEWARE,CUZ SO MANY SHALL PERFORM MIRACLES IN HIS NAME,BUT HE DOESN'T
DEM, CHEERS AND LOVE TO ALL MY NIGERIAN SIS AND BROTHERS

WEY MR POSTER GUY,O BOY LEAVE DAT THING U BEEN DEY WISH NAIJA,WE NO FIT GO WAR
AND EVEN IF WE DO WE DEY ADVANCED PASS UNA LIBERIA PEOPLE WE NO NEED TO DEY CHOP
HUMAN BODY DEY DO JAZZ,WE GET AM FOR BLOOD,AND REMEMBER SAY NA OUR SAME NIGERIAN
ECOMOG SOLDIERS DEAL SERIOUSLY WITH ALL OF THOSE AZZ HOLE WEY DEY GIVE 10,11 YR OLDS
GUN POWDER WITH COKE TO SMOKE.IN SHORT WE STILL BE UNA GRANDFATHER EVEN IF WE GO FIGHT
NO BE LIKE UNA LOCAL AZZ HOLES WE DEY CHOP HUMAN BODY,AND AS FOR DAT BASTARD "BUTT NAKED
GUY" THEM SUPPOSE INSERT RED HOT METAL INSIDE HIN $HIT HOLE MAKE HIN COMMOT FOR HIN MOUTH.

@SHY-ONE

goggle hiv/aids in america and percentages and statistics of americans infected
with the virus according to thier race classification.percentages and statistic are
base on various medical surveys,and holla back with ur findings.

It sounds like you've been hurt. "Most American Women" - that is a blanket statement and very, very far from correct. I haven't been on "Government Benefits" for an American Man to live off of me and the majority of American Women that I know "haven't either." I also haven't dated nor married an American Man that would deal with a woman who "lives on Government Benefits." So please correct your statement.

As far as knowing about Africa - I do agree with you. The majority of Americans are "ignorant" about locations outside of America as there is little need for them to research or wonder or have the inclination to learn or "find out" anything about areas outside of the U.S. [unless it's to vacation] as everything they would or could want is located "inside the U.S."

The majority of Americans when in High School and/or College focus on learning about areas outside of the U.S. Once they are out of school and in the workplace - the grueling work schedules of 40-80 hours per week for the average American, the harsh weather, family demands, etc consumes the waking hours. It takes hundreds of thousands to pay for this "so-called" LAND OF THE FREE LIFESTYLE.

The Home I occupied for the past 3 years was $24,000.00 per year which doesn't include food, clothing, car expense, insurance, electric, heat, etc,

I can safely say that learning about Africa or any other location wasn't too high on my priority list as it is with most Americans.

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SHY-ONE
1. I hope you know the differnce between the words "MOST" and "ALL" and when surveys talk about african americans,having the highest population
of hiv invested people,don't mean you(if you african american) or someone u know necessarily hv the disease,so i hope u understand better where
am coming from.

2. The conspiracy behind people not knowing that africa i a continent and not a country
is part of the white american strategy to further hypnotize the african american men
into believing that were their ancestors came from is nothing to right home about
and that why most people get their education about africa from national geographic
channel,which is still part of the white men's media anyway,all they show is the remote
villages and people starving to death,and they never show nothing about the city live,
while when they talk about jamaica,bahamas and other part of the carribean they would
mention it as a sole country as well as show you all the beautifull beaches they have over there
when did they ever show you the slums of those places.so now the african american ignorant person
watching all of this thigns doesn't wanna hv nothing to do with researching the truth about the continent
anyways,neither does he wants any body to remind him of his ancestors coming from there,you will replies
like well my ancestors were africans,but am black american just becuz of the mental pictures and images that
as been inculcated into his system by the with mans media,SO IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE TRUTH NOW YOU KNOW BABE

Excuse me, I don't know what kind of chicks you been HANGING AROUND WITH but most AMERICAN WOMEN especially black american women look for a mate through emotional and to us it about how we feel about you. If we ain't feeling you then you don't have a chance with us. Now for those who are gold diggers they will take the white man first, THAT THE TRUTH, then whatever left they tolerates,

So again you need to assess the type of chicks you magnetizes because all American chicks aren't the same and MEN period no matter where they come from CHOOSE VISUALLY so if she is not ATTRACTIVE or have something ATTRACTIVE ABOUT HER, SHE IS NOT GETTING YOUR ATTENTION.and you know that!

Keep it real,

well ms eve,very well said, but when i mention "immatured in their prefrences towards chosen men"
its spans the criteria used towards choosen too,and if you tell me its boils down to how they feel emotionally
then i partially agree with you ,cuz with my lil experience abt women,i know that the criteria changes with
age and level of maturity,for instance a 21yr old propbaly would still be building castles in the sky when it comes to the kinda of guys she wants to date
and a 29-33yr old just wanna settle down with a guy who is ready to be serious,and some of this age group mentioned suprisingly still don't care about
what a guy is on the inside,they rather settle for the attractive qualities on the outside, which when accompanied with a couple of strong lies would be digested
easy , and indulged in the name of emotions(that are fake)and affections.As long as his good enough to be used to brag amongst friends,the emotions will follow
automatically without a deep scrutiny of content and character.and points of correction i never said "ALL AMERICAN WOMEN ARE THE SAME"and thats why i used
the word "MOST" and i also urge u not to generalize when u talk about us men cause we all might have the same body part that qualifies us to be called men but
we don't all have the same level of maturity,and fore sights,when it comes to how we get fascinated to the opposite sex, thank you!

@livedit

Wished most of the American women sees from your perspective
when it comes to choosen their men,but most of them are so immatured in
their prefrences,that mr right come and go without them decerning.Most are
so used to this so call "GROWN AZZ MEN" that depends on all the government
benefits the woman gets,and those ar the guys they respect more anyways.
All in the name of cuteness,nice looking,and all this blah,blah they put on top
their priority when choosen men,to most,an african man is to local and primitive
for some of them to date,and to correct your notion we are all africans but we
are different in language,character,believes and geographic location,since a lot
of Americans still don't know in this 21st century that Africa is a continent and
not a sole country.

@excoba dude your perspective will always be your,and mines will always be mines
we don't really have to see thigns the same way really,but i just think you would need
a lil more exposure,not just what u read from websites that have facts that has been
distorted,you need to see and experience whats happening on the other side of the
globe,probably you would have a better understandind and depths into this matter.

@ excoba101 very well said my brother,but let me remind you of somethigns that might be missing in your reasoning.
1.like the saying goes"na condition make crayfish bend" brings me back to my point that just
because you was born into a culture doesn't necesarily mean that you agree a %100 with
the believes and practises of that culture and i put it to you that isn't some aspects of your
culture or tradition you wish to compromise if you in the position to? and let me shed light
on another instance of our religion today,before the coming of the white men to africa didn't
we have our own religion practised amongs various ethnic groups e.g sango,ogun,obatala etc
but this days you dear not tell it to anybody that,that is what u still practise without them staying
a distance from you assuming you a either a pagan or ritualist.Now i put it to you that are this
same people not africans and HAS THE CULTURE THAT ONCE USED TO BE VERY STRONG,NOT BEEN
CHALENGED OR NOT.
2.points of correction woman empowerment is not a political agenda like you put it
its is just a review of womens right and to ensure that they are not just taken advantage
of by we men,just because they are the weaker vessels,and that is why i mentioned intially
that no matter how this westerners empower women,it will still be over their dead bodies to
watch them grow so big to rule over the world and most especially men.
3. nothign last forever my brother,the united states might be world power today doesn't mean
it will always be like that,that we both know.

@Blazay omo ale, u crack me up no be small "living in bondage"
best comment i don hear so far
"living in bondage" i die laughing

@poster,one thing u might not understand is the fact that not all africans
born and raise in africa agrees a %100 with what our culture and so call
moral values has to offer,some just follow it because they care so much abt
what the society will say if they don't.So when they come abroad it an oppurtunity
to exibit this hidded side of them,especially when its a free world like the US OF A.
We african men really wanna eat our cakes and have it,while we criticize our women
if they do the same,we cheat this women alot all in the name of culture and values
while we expect them to stay silent and digest everything we do to them.There should
always be checks and balances in everthign what you can't take don't give,and not to
say that our women sometimes don't take advantage of the fact that they could now dail
911 at the slightess scratch they receive from you,but in most cases we men are always the
the ones who provokes such behavior.And if u think the western man who made laws to
empower women is stupid,its has been proven that they are not, in the 2008 US elections
where they would rather vote for a black man to be come president of the united states
than to see a white woman rule the world strongest country.So after all been said and done
they still have limitations to what they will allow or accept from a woman.The problem with we african
men is we are so tied to the past,and we have such empty egos,like for real what is wrong if you occasionally
help your wife to take care of shores that we both agree is for a woman,or are this women supposed to maids
or slaves all in the name of marriage.When we talk about the western world opening our women's eye,why don't
we still kill twin babies when they are born believing that they ar evil,we no what our culture is and we still embrace it,but don't be to tied to it,cuz it will do us more harm than good on the long run.

@Tink_sh real men like me abi ,u better confess,life you said life is to short
to dey form o

@xqwysyte i love the sincerity of ur profile pics(i hvn't eaten when i took this)

will marry a woman who loves my total,with the swagg to make me love dem on the long run
speaking for myself ,i don't love no woman initially,na just to tear yansh,then latter i start to
see thigns in her dat i wanna go show to my mum and at the end of the day put am for house.

kai i wish say na stacym dey dat pic wey dey her profile,shai na now now i for marry
omo dat girl na wet dream

and na wetin dat 190 or 360 guy dey feel like super star abi wey two women dey fight for am
yeye

@emeka i been dey feel u die na the kin yansh wey 14,15 yr old girls dey get
be dat for nyc truely,place were 18 yr girl dey carry yansh wey 45 yr old naija
woman wey don born her pikin finish

WELL MR POSTER I PERSONALY THINK IT HAS MORE TO DO WITH IMMATURITY
A NIGERIAN MAN WHO HAS BEING DATING ONLY NAIJA GIRLS ALL HIS LIFE
SUDDENLY BECOMES EXPOSED TO THE FREE WORLD(YANKEE) WERE U FREE
TO DO WHATEVER PLEASES U,WILL DEFINATELY OVER DO(O.D) FOR SURE
AND REMEMBER THE SAYING"IF A CHILD IS BEING GIVING SUGAR,THE DAY DAT
CHILD TASTE HONEY,IT BECOMES VERY HARD TO GO BACK TO SUGAR" WELL
ON THE LONG RUN WE NAIJA MEN KNOW FOR A FACT DAT WE DON'T WANT TO
BRING THIS FOREIGN WOMEN BACK HOME ANYWAYS,DAT NA IF DEM FOLLOW
US SEF ITS JUST A STATE OF THE MIND FOR NOW WEY DEFINATELY WOULD CHANGE
ON THE LONG RUN.

lol see mumu poster hin don sleep with 14 girls wey take alum wash yansh
think say him don nack virgin, yeye sh*t hole

well from my own perspective,it all depends on different individuals,what circumstances broke ur previous relationship up,and what kind of bonds was btw u and her while together,for instance i no fit forget for my
old freinds wey we been dey shark garri with groundnut wey we collect on credit,today if i get money if i don
remember as we be back in the days,i would wish to do something for them,to help out to the best of my ability
simple becuz we were once in the struggle be i lucky make am.same goes for all dis women,no matter hw bad a
person is there is always somethign good about dem,wey we fit no no but the person we close to dat person
no say he get somethigns wey dis my ex don do me wey i no fit forget lailai.

my bro dat tin wey u won enter so no be small tin o,small time ur sister in law(10yrs ago) go come una house
dey jelous as u dey treat hin sister,dey love am wella,pas the way u was with her ten yrs ago,come mara say
u must to do am too join her sis,b4 u know wetin dey u don preg both of dem,come enter serious dilema.women
no be like u think say dem go just understand like dat o,hin go shock u as she go change character when she see
say u dey do wetin dey sweet her sister belle,my bro na dice u been dey play o,all the best sha

my naija people,we could all blame the players all we want, but have we all forgotten that
the naija team was already doomed by slaying a baby bird that never gath a chance to grow.
After all the that man(coach shuibu)has done to ensure qualification of the boys,his reward
was to deem him not fit to take them on to the grand stage and instead hired dat white chimp
of a guy 1 month to the world cup.The great Bob Marley says and i quote"emancipate yourself
from mental slavery not but we can free our minds"when are we gonna ever drop that mentality
of worshipping whatever comes from a white man and start believing in ourselfs,united we stand
and divided we fall.

wtin sorry me pass for this guy be say
the yankee jail wey dem go put am
na gay men go continue to dey service
service dat him terrorist yansh hole die.
dis guy just spoil show for aspiring hardworking
naija people wey dey try get visa enter yankee

@poster ok now as u no understand.make i break am down so simple
their is no way wey dis guy no go sabi say dem dey poros ur behind,
so all u will be doing if u think say u fit hide am,na postponing ur
evil day,but the brain wey i dey try borrow u,na make u 4 know
loose on but ends atlease if u postpone the dooms day by shutting up
now u could still get a lil far with dis guy wey go pay u even if him come find
out eventually decide to waka so wake up mami,

hw him no go sabi say dem no service u since hm waka
well hm fit be mumu sha,dat na wetin dem dey yarn dis
guys wey go wan go home go marry wife come here
even if d guy wan marry naija woman,i no no wetin
do the ones wey dey here,dem go go house go complex
girls say dem jst land,dem no no say girl sef wan jst
come yankee,if hm reach yankee finish wey hm eye
open she go come show color,anyhow sha poster
hm go better make u shut up atleast make dis guy carry
enter yankee get ur papers den anything wey hpp after
dat,u go know say u don set(lesson to all maga naija men
wey dey think say na house real wife dey

poster nothin do u bone all dis women wey dey open mouth
like say dem to sabi after all you keep your baby
regardless hw many of the so call dont open ur leg
before marriage go keep the pikin not be sciccors
with knife dem go go use commot am
nothin do u jo like u don finish yarnings,
what goes round go definately come around
and its absolutely true dat any man wey dey
gath to squeez b4 if care for hm pikin na
boy.my advise 2 u na 2 move on life is 2 short
to waste on top 1 idiot.

my guy bone level,make she waka,make i introduce u 4 business make u sef step up
u go see the kin yansh wey times ten ur gf wey u go dey spank,na kia kia u heart go glue
back ,on a more serious level u need 2 step up in anything u dey do,school is not always the ultimate for
all man,ur chick don see (bigger boys)yahoo boys for osu wey fit spoil 20k ontop am at once come bone
ur sorry ass say na only romeo love u get to offer,but not 2 worry everythin 4 life na time,see my guy
this same girl go come back 2 u begging crawling on her knees but by den hm go don too late,guy just keep ur focus
everythin go be at its ideal time aight.