As a parent, it is in-human and criminal to flog your own child to this extent not to talk of a teacher doing this. No child deserves this no matter how 'stubborn' such a child is.

Title is not a part of your name. It is wrong to say 'My name is Mr./Dr./Prof. Chinedu'. If you must add title while introducing yourself, then you can say 'I am Mr./Dr./Prof. Chinedu'. Introducing oneself as 'My name is Senator or Honorable Sam Akpabio is way so wrong. Rather I am Senator or Honorable Sam Akpabio is the proper way of introduction. We learn everyday

christejames:
You use 'my name is...' when saying your names without any title, like My name is Seun, Okenwa Abdul.

While you use 'my names are' when you want to attach other titles or appendages to your name like;

My names are, Chief Barrister Seun, Okenwa Abdul Esq. FCA, PPA, the Ogbuefi One of Nairaland Republic! This is because someone can still see you call you by those appendages or titles which are also your names



Thanks!

In another news, CBN has over $7B obligation unmet. What impact will[b] $1.5B[/b]?

Those saying your wife is cheating are very wrong. I know this story very well. I decided to modify my early post because some children on this platform who do not know what marriage are only here to abuse and insult their elders and fathers. It's an unfortunate situation. She expects so much more from you rather than just being 'comfortable'. I pray may God help you. Walking out of the marriage may not be a good idea

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

I am married with kids and doing very well. I don't get the desired attention from my wife despite taking care of all the responsibilities and not complaining.

I'm surprised this man is not in jail with the level of stealing and other allegations against him. His car lot was closed and many cars taken away from him as part of his loots

Please send him an sms and apologize to him even if you think you were right. When you have your own children, I'm sure you won't like any of them walk away on you. Make peace with him and listen to his counsel. no matter what you are or who you are at the moment, he sure knows more than you and wants the best for you.

He's not taking your calls probably he was disappointed you left the house. Please take it easy and sort things out.

IkeIgboNile:
This is the first topic i have created since i joined this forum.
For a while now, my mind has been restless, i haven't spoken to my father since i left his house on January 5 2023. We had an argument and i left some days later. I wasn't angry when i left, i just wanted to give him space and find my own way as a man. Though I'm his first born son and his exact replica but we are so different and share very different views.
Some days ago, i called him and was very angry at me and ended the call before i could say anything and he has refused to pick up my calls since then.
I really don't understand why he's angry at me or why he's not taking my calls but i have decided to stop calling him and let him be.

Please any positive advise,will be greatly appreciated.

Oshiomole's loss

Copied from @iameneji TL--well done oh

CilicMarin:
End SARS - Ended
SARS Must Go - Gone
SARS Must End - Ended
Buhari Must Speak To Us - Spoken
Release All Protesters Arrested - Done

What are the new demands?
End SARS
SARS Must Go
SARS Must End

This is how a just cause looses CREDIBILITY.....

They say don't touch the face mask from the front but we all know it is difficult not to.

Baba was holding his customized face mask

We are getting there gradually. Shutting down completely is the most appropriate step

theNOISEmaker:
Has anyone here had cataract surgery or knows anybody who had it?
And how much does cataracts surgery and ioL lens implant cost in Nigeria?

With less than 80k in a public hospital and from 300k from a private one. I did mine in 2009

I just saw the video footage of the snake swallowing cash and I could but only shake my head.

https://twitter.com/ogundamisi/status/964247224304758784

The car is in Ojodu Berger. You can send me a private chat for more pictures.

The machine is still available. I have received offers but it's who brings money that is ready to buy.

The car is sound and I still use it for school runs

More picture

Fairly and Neatly Used Toyota Rav4 sale.

Nothing to fix. Pick up and drive.

This is less than what I pay as my daughter's school fees who is in year 1

Tell us what the mechanic is fixing on the car.

Chicks

smoking

Speculation....

Femi Adesina is SICK

[Pure childish of him

Tolexander:
hmmm

Seems the blow dealt on Hon. Jibrin by Dogara and his cohorts in the house has systematically affected Jibrin mentally and psychologically.

Cos I'm still wondering what calls for the bolded tag on his picture by him.
If he continues like this, people won't take any "revelation" by him concerning the house members serious again, cos this is an exhibition of "kolomental".

Wasting of tax payers money on jamboree in this recession.....

RIP

Are their children tired of bombing the pipelines?

Of what benefit is the meeting to the people?

Black monsters

Am coming soon....