Angel196:

First of all, these are all allegations as stated in the op, the husband's side is yet to surface but I believe the truth will always win.

The issue of the payment being received by the husband for two years I believe was before the estrangement. According to her she later changed the account details which was probably another reason for the estrangement.

Remember he allegedly took her mobile phone which contained her actual mobile number and access to her Youtube chanel, as well as her car, laptop as well as two kids (who might know the password to their mother's phone even if it was password).

Before she came out, I went on youtube to check out some videos only to see no videos on the channel. A channel that used to have about 200 plus videos. It was later last week I heard her story.

I believe we haven't heard the whole story since the man is yet to tell his side but irrespective of what his own side might be, allegedly taking their kids, her car, phone and laptop is too damning to overlook.
I know the woman is always criticized when things like this happen just like when a lady said she went home only to realize her husband had absconded with their kids and how she could get help, instead of helping majority of the people were quick to accuse her of being a bad wife for her husband to do that.

I have seen a lot of terrible husbands around to know the Youtubers accusations might be very very true.

Bad wives and bad husbands sometimes do bad stuff to their spouses not because the other party did anything wrong but because they are bad people.

I pray the truth reveals itself soon irrespective of the right or wrong party, if for none other than the fact that innocent kids are involved.

I pray so too.
When two elephants fight, the grass suffers. Those kids deserve better.

Angel196:
Nobody is really an angel cause nobody is perfect but irrespective of the ex's side, snatching her properties and deleting all her Youtube videos is a wicked act that makes him look guilty if he was the one really responsible.

Her story isn't quite adding up. She claims her estranged husband has been collecting the proceeds from her YouTube channel for two years but she kept on running the channel for that long anyway. She couldn't even at least, change the password to the channel? Or the payment details for the platform? For two whole years!! This makes no sense.

Let's be careful when judging husband and wife matters. We do not know what sort of arrangement/agreement they had with each other. However, what we do know, is that when a deal goes bad, there are no limits to how callous a scorned lady can be with lies. For example we've seen all sorts of false allegations, even someone accusing her husband of raping his own newborn son, all in a bid to destroy his life.

This woman has put out the man's picture, his personal number and the numbers of her in laws to what end? So that people can troll them all over social media and issue out death threats?

Since she has now made this matter public, I think it's fair if she gives a full timeline to how they got to this point.
This man allegedly;
Flew all the way from Kuwait to Nigeria (in the middle of a global pandemic).
Arrived at the school with quite a crowd, which included both of his (elderly) parents, his siblings, cousins and four alleged thugs.

All this just to take his kids?

This is way too much effort put in by this man for us to just overlook. There is more to this story.

DrFunmisticGlow:
I love this woman's youtube videos, her videos are very comprehensive, modern and they really teach how to sew. When my mom wanted a refresher for her sewing skills. I showed her bilikis videos straight away and she could follow along.

May the the man be found and put to justice. Anyone who learns how to sew can testify of her videos. Especially if they are not understanding where they are learning to sew.

She can also report him to the embassy so that they ban his visa and withold him.

Angel196:

Like seriously, it was all thanks to her videos that I got to understand a lot about sewing. Her videos are even more enlightening than most fashion schools.
All her videos are filled with smiles that would tell you she loves giving tutorials.
I guess sometimes bad things just happen to good people.

So because she's good at sewing tutorials, that automatically makes her an angel

Why must she be so callous, putting out the personal telephone numbers of her husband and his parents??

I think we've all learnt in recent times to be careful before taking sides. The fact that a person (especially a woman) comes with her side of the story first, doesn't necessarily mean she is truly the victim in the situation.

berepiki:


As a Christian I use my body to dance to songs that praise God...I can also dance to a good song even if itx secular like 'Godwin'... Or ' happy ' by Pharrell Williams and e.t.c... Am a spiritually detailed person... I carefully do things that are free of viruses... I believe the name of JESUS or the Kingdom of God should be praised in a song and not a woman or her body...

.. your own faith is on some next level my brother! and in some strange way, I kinda admire it...
Remember 2 Timothy 3:12 , its only natural that we will suffer persecution because of our faith..

.. But like someone else previously said, be careful how you pass across your message sha.. This world is a hostile place.
You will surely be rewarded for this!

Sweetmarriage:

I've come to discover that the things being said about God is too divine to be a mere 'fiction' See, GOD IS REAL!!! When we die, we will go and meet our Creator (GOD) in Heaven where we will be rewarded according to the way we live here on earth.

Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior today. If you are a thief, stop stealing. If you are a fornicator, stop fornicating. If you are a drunkard, stop it. Let Jesus our Good Lord cleanse you from your sins with His Precious Blood that He shed on the Cross Of Calvary for you and me.

Today is the day of salvation, kiss the Son lest He be angry with you.

Live your life for God, so when you leave this bitter world, you will reign with Christ in His Kingdom Heaven (where there is no pain but Joy everlasting)

#No real enjoyment here on earth
#Real enjoyment waits for us in Heaven.

Will you be there?

God bless you

... food for thought.
Life is indeed vanity. No true joy here. God bless you for this.

Annunaki:
Islam is such a sick and perverted religion

.. absolutely! This is sickening to say the least.. whenever they talk of heaven, all I hear them talk about is joysticks and virgins. Smh

TheSonOfMark:
The she-males are angry that they are being exposed.

What do you gain by conning people with a non-existent persona? How come you are scared of interacting with anyone off-Nairaland?

You can't keep up the fake persona when people trace you via your mobile number?

Wait in line, I'd sure get to you someday.

Your shaming is my amusement.

LOL!!! ...they know who "they" are...
#deflection .. is always the tactic of the disgraced

FrancisTony:
My last post here and any further mention would be reported.

Au reviore!

Goodbye. I know you will return tho. Nairaland is your life

FrancisTony:

Oh really? Because you have been exposed by her?

Wasn't I on that thread when she accused you of being her and it's obvious to everyone?

I am done here.

How many times will you be "done" with me yet you mention me every second.
hahahaha!
I am not the first, neither will I be the last person to face ridiculous accusations from a teenage troll like you.

FrancisTony, you are VictoriaBee

...at this point, there should be no shadow of doubt in anyone's mind that you FrancisTony are indeed VictoriaBee. Nobody else in this entire forum has ever accused me of being lolaredvelvet except you.

In my popular thread about sidechicks, VictoriaBee sprung out of nowhere and accused me of being her.

It's no brainer that OP(Yorubadelta) is Lolaredvelvet and "delta" in her username further proves my allegation that she's an alternate moniker of newlyweded female in this section.

Chai, I can't continue with this girl.

The accusation was ignored and she was so pained about it that she went on another thread that same day and repeated the accusation.

Then of course, this was followed by a major attack on my person for no reason on that internet/technology thread. . LOL

Its a coincidence that as soon as VictoriaBee deactivated after being exposed, FrancisTony resumed duty of accusing me of being that same moniker "lolaredvelvet"

Hahaha ... you are not smart.

cc thesonofmark

Mariecakes:
am glad you did

5minsmadness:

Started out as one, strayed for a while (spiritual desert /experimentation /self discovery and returned back to the fold

Cool. Dont stray again oo

Mariecakes:
Lolzzz these are the true meaning of cake cutting from the Westerns point of view:
1) The idea that it is the first joint action on the part of the newly weds.
2) Sharing richness with friends and family. The wedding cake is traditionally shared amongst guests so that blessing and happiness can be shared too
3) Cutting the cake, is the couple 'taking the plunge' into their new life. It suggest that the cutting severed the couples links with the past and prepared them for their future together
4) A psychologist who researched the social behaviour and significance of cake cutting suggested that the cutting of the cake meant the bride losing her virginity; the way the groom puts his hand on the bride's, so it's not just her, it's him too.

It is the cutting however which is given the most striking new significance if the cake is identified with the bride. Plunging the knife into the centre of the cake breaks through the 'virginal white' outer shell. It is something the couple do together.

..... I've learnt something new today

Interesting stuff. 5mins, are you Catholic?

Majority of these places are in Europe. I'm sure there are more beautiful places in other continents.

5minsmadness:




Here's a postof him/her accusing you to be me/sonofmark on july 24th 5:04pm
https://www.nairaland.com/2473670/naval-officers-allegedly-brutalize-15/4#36230858
Strange fellow/fellowess

I saw a thread where he admitted that the "likes" he gets on FP speaks for him. Can someone possibly be this miserable that his validation comes from gaining 'likes' on a web forum and bullying people.

This is scary. Fo' real.

5minsmadness:


I saw thaat too.
He accussed you of being lolaredvelvet, another moniker he bullied into deactivating her account.
Attacked you for no good reason and fed off the likes like the obsessive troll that he is.
I tried to advice you to ignore the fellow but i think someone beat me to it.
Just ignore the fellow.
The truth will always come it. Its Truth's nature.

Wow. only hurting people go out of their way to hurt others. He must have nothing else to live for... I feel so sorry for him
But at least now I know the truth.

ORALL:


But the moniker you quoted was accusing victoria of quoting him,and you quoted him saying you did not..

Which means you are both victoria and francis

Ashiri tuu

LMAOOOO!
Guilty conscience! He knows what is biting him. smh

5minsmadness:


You folks are joking about this matter.
You dont know the guy is seriously mentally disturbed.
Obsessive was the word someone used and I concur wholeheartedly.
He calls my moniker for anyone and everyone that accosts him cos he so desperately wants to talk to me again. I repeat, until he apologises, that will not happen.
Spoilt jobless individual.

As in, as soon as I started following you, the guy has been using his VictoriaBee account to troll me. But I kept ignoring until that final one that was done on FP. Cant believe someone can act in such a deranged manner and the Moderators did nothing about it. smh.

Well, I did say every dog has it's day and now look, dude has been exposed. I feel sorry for him though. Karma ehnn

nawa oo! now I see why VictoriaBee attacked me on FP the other day for no apparent reason, it's all making sense to me now. Basically, ever since me and 5minsmadness started following each other, I've been getting silly mentions up and down by that moniker. Always accusing me of being 5mins etc

Now I know why I got attacked, so it was you all along FrancisTony? abeg, like I said before, I don't know you from adam, and I am not 5minsmadness.
Whatever beef you have with him, leave me out of it. Pls!

This whole situation is sad. People take this site waay too seriously. smh

LOL.. I love the obvious friendship between the mother and son... awww

...too many of this same thread in this section

There's something 'likeable' about her.

Hmm.
Number 4 is quite an interesting point

cold:

We will continue to point out the innacuracies in your story book and the folly and futility of paying obeisance to a Jewish deity that is better left as a relic of the past. Or better still,if you're so invested in this god and his magical powers why don't you just pray to make us stop? Now how hard is that

LOL. Continue to give yourself headache o. I've said my piece. Goodbye.

frosbel:
Deuteronomy 22:28-29

" If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay her father fifty shekels[a] of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives."

Did God really command this ?

Imagine a girl recovering from the trauma and shame of rape , then forced to live with the criminal and bear his children.

Floor open.....................

Those were the days the laws of Moses were applicable. Jesus Christ came to replace those laws in the New Testament.

I dont understand why athiests on this forum are so heavily invested in bashing a God they claim to not believe in.

mickyeddi:


Let me take you to Mexico

... im ready oo... let's go!

ThisMeansWAR:

.. I'm out.

Goodbye! ..and take your demonic agenda elsewhere.

ThisMeansWAR:
go to bed kiddo.

Hahahahaha. Spoken like a true defeatist Take your opinion to the streets if you are man enough.
You can stand the pain of bending over to receive your fellow man. Therefore stand the pain of getting lynched when you stand up for your rights in real life Nigeria. I'd love to watch

ThisMeansWAR:
Those heroes lay down their life because there are no alternatives.. now we have the Internet.. we can talk sent into you foolz that think only about yourself and not others.

Please don't talk SENT into me oo. I prefer to converse with matured minds who can speak correct grammar

ThisMeansWAR:
nahhhh.. my life is important.. I don't want a sick psychopath like you that loves the smell of human blood to kill me because he thinks he thinks my way of life is wrong.

the emancipation must start from the Internet.

Hahahahaha. As expected.
You don't believe in your cause enough to lay your life down for it
Dont be a coward, follow the example of Malcolm X and Martin Luther King who gladly died for their cause..