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ghettokid1:
HBD to him(the only gentleman in bbnaija 2019)

indeed!!!

why does ceecee lie so much? this was a babe that was campaigning for mercy when the show was on.

She needs endorsements ooo naija big brands...time to show up and make sure no audio or video endorsements!!!

He personally brought endorsement for Jackye BBN, so we will not say it is an "Audio Endorsement"!!!!!!

I dislike her for causing Mercy and Tacha fight...she is a local manipulative lady and always acts naive....she can never show face where Mercy and Tacha are... Enkay, where are you? We apologize to you for being deceived by this very local, village champion. Pardon me, I still dey vex for that fight because Mercy and Tacha had mutual respect for each other before the instigating act of borrow borrow Cyndi.

Buhari is the most attacked in my opinion.

Hot water wey make yam soft dey make egg strong.

Bloooody:
Gedoni that used he's mother for ritual?

How come Khafi the LovePeddler hasn't talked about her sacking

haaaaaaaaaaa!!!

Amanee:
Types Of Spirits That Cause 'Near Success Syndrome' - The BBN Example

BBNaija 2019 has finally come and gone and in the ensuing few weeks, Nigerian youths will be caught up in the euphoria of following up with the lives of ex-housemates and the winner. I didn't personally follow the show but the little I was able to discern with the help of Nairaland and Twitter has formed this thread.

Sometimes, shows as mundane as Big Brother Naija "Pepper Dem" version may not be educational on face value but I see everything in life as a lesson and if you look, even shows like BBN have a lot of lessons to impart to everyone.

Without further ado, let's look at the Types of Spirits that causes near success syndrome - BBN example.

Instigation Cindy

This spirit is sometimes personified in people that we know, family members even people we refer to as friends. People like Cindy in BBN. Those people that are eager to tell you what was said about you behind your back, to tell you who called you stupid , who disrespected you, who gossiped about you and what have you; but when you react, when the fight starts, they will be the first to hide in the corner, act neutral , watch and laugh, while you make a fool of yourself. An instigator is the worst enemy. Beware of the Cindys’ in your life. After all said and done, nobody will remember the instigators like Cindy, but your reaction will forever be imprinted in everyone’s hearts. It may even cost you your success.


Anger

Yes, Mercy's hair flip right into Tacha's face coupled with the stream of insults can provoke anyone to anger. But giving into that anger is what seperates winners from losers and more importantly, 30M richer from 1m and bogus promises richer. You mustn’t react every time you are pushed to anger. You might be right, but will end up apologizing because of your reaction. Tacha was right to have defended herself, but her defense unfortunately involved getting physical, hence, her disqualification. Thus, she ended up being the one giving the apology. You mustn’t react every time you are offended because you are right.

Engaging in unnecessary battles

This is a spirit that has seen many men and women reach the brink of success but never actualize it because they spent a lot of time and energy focusing on unnecessary battles. In Tacha's case, barely few days to the final, she chose a battle that took her own head. Sometimes it is good to swallow one's pride and take one for the team. Team You! Before you pick that battle: Is it close to your wedding day? Your exam? Your traveling out? Your promotion? An upcoming important event in your life? What is at stake for you? You don’t have to be a walk over but sometimes, you take one for the team. Team You!! It doesn’t make you stupid! It makes you wise! Engaging in unnecessary battles on the other hand, keeps you from not reaching the finish line.

Do you know who I am?

The pride that comes with this spirit has hindered a lot of us from achieving great things. This was clearly Tacha’s year! Tacha’s game! But in order to show ima kwa onye m'bu? Mercy took what could have been hers. Sometimes it might be in your home, in your car, in your business, or in what belongs to you; but you still need to forget who you are, maybe join the queue, maybe don’t respond, or maybe follow the entire process. Sometimes you need to forget that your important role/ image/position. We marvel when we see billionaires like Bill Gates on a queue but imagine him in the process of trying to form do you know who I am, shoves another customer?
Imagine the law suits that will follow when the shoved person will form hip, leg and liver fracture from the gentle shove? Imagine the public outcry and the inconveniences that might follow? Won't it be better if Bill Gates jejely respects himself when he’s in public and joins the queue?

This here might be a game, another tv entertainment, but there is an element of BBN 2019 game in all of us. We sometimes lose it big, miss out on important things in life because we were unnecessarily trying to prove something in the right place, at the wrong time.

A word is enough for the wise.

Source: https://mbasic.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2356981527884771&id=100007188392842&refid=28&_ft_=qid.6745004307564123287%3Amf_story_key.8029180493907235067%3Atop_level_post_id.2356981527884771%3Acontent_owner_id_new.100007188392842%3Asrc.22%3Astory_location.5%3Aview_time.1570443065%3Afilter.h_nor&__tn__=%2As-R

WELL SAID AND PROPERLY OUTLINED.

Omashola was cheated

Big Brother was the pepper this season...he peppered the housemates, viewers and even peppered Ebuka and Delloitte!!!

Seyi and Omashola are angry....someone spilled the likely outcome of tomorrow to them...also Mercy and Mike are codedly celebrating....frodd is happy cos the show is ending tmrw and he will be with Esther.

Neimar:
dirty smelling lambo

uncalled for and not nice.

Biggie, you're the best...i love you...see our ex housemates looking fly.

Seyi is mental

Omashola said in the first week that whoever moved his coins will not see final...Kimoprah(helped to break down the 100 coin), Tacha(kept watch while ike was at it) and Ike(the actual thief).

Brownsun:
this is how far people will go to say trash about you . Mercy celebrated her birthday on d 29th of september last year. Did she know she will be in bbn then?

not said in a negative way and it is on the internet...i no fit quarrel with anyone...just calm down abeg, no be fight. Maybe internet is wrong but that's what I saw June 4th.

Brownsun:
I dont know where u people are seeing june 4 .

Mercy Eke biography bbnaija page...just saw it...was posted on Sept 17 2019.

AryaSand:
Wowwww! For real?

I did the analysis after seeing her birth date someone here got and quoted from the internet o!

She thought today will be the finale and she changed her birth date while in seclusion only for the organisers to add an extra week on the opening night...this babe sabi kaku...she will be a great business woman...i salute and doff my hat!!!!!!

Dezenazil:
the let's crown a woman slogan is bullshit. No woman there deserves it.

you are somehow correct.

Dezenazil:
she sure is. The people she wants to send to school are above 40. Wetin them wan use education do. Married men with kids. First she said her sister wasn't married with 3 kids, now she dropped her career to marry in order to help them.Their wahala now is to send their own kids to school. This is give them a reason to crown me bullshit.

alcohol and being desperate caused the pity card unfortunately, she no rehearse before talking hence the wrong ages.

I saw a video on YouTube where Mercy and her sister(a beauty queen) we're cruising. Mercy remembers her sister's first movie during Abacha era yet her sister is 33 and Mercy is 25. Oya, everyone do the math and continue watching big brother nollywood special that is being shown now. I rest my case.

SoiSoi13:
Mercy might leave on Sunday too

why will she leave? She has immunity or do you know something we don't?

Tacha, why did you do this to yourself? The anger in you at your age is too much. You need serious psychological help. People who really love you should come to your aid and not encourage this horrible and nasty behavior of yours. You need help because you have made yourself unlovable in all ramifications. Yes, Big Brother is a game but you are to project yourself in the most positive way possible...nobody's perfect and nobody asked that you should fake your character. In fact, you need to work on yourself before you turn 30. The world does not hate you, rather you make it almost impossible for the world to like you.

Ujay01:
This is an unbiased update.

big brother's cash cows just lost the 60M like CEECEE did last year....mike don win be dat or maybe frodd or maybe seyi

Valto:
dont mention that name in this thread again

preach on!!!

Omashola put up Seyi with his veto power but did anyone hear even a hiss or better still a word. How come Ike and Elo are having issues with Frodd...mind you, Frodd only repeated the names that were already up for eviction and excluded Mercy and himself from the list since they had immunity. What will be will be!!!!!

Beorn1:
Shit the fvvk up, Elo. Did you not put up Frodd for eviction? When he put you up, you're now complaining and saying "it says more about his character than me. The world celebrates his kind of character". Ike is concurring, an saying he doesn't want to talk to him. He should keep him out of his mouth. That he just a child. He wants to be petty. That Frodd doesn't even know when he wants to come up with his idea.


This Elo is irritating. Nigga, sharrap. Did you not use your veto? Do you expect Frodd to put up Diane and Omashola and save you two? If he does that, won't Omashola and Diane do the same thing you're doing now? Damn!! I hope you fvvk off my screen on Sunday, you piece of irritating Shit.

aaaaah.

Giel:
Mercy tried to cheat by moving after the freeze but was caught. So was asked to take 4 steps back.

Tacha oh come through.

always cheating in games

fitzmayowa:
Ike seems uninterested in everything today...

gbam!