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Is federal character still effective?

Trippleblessing:
Unique, boundaries are been broken in profession now adays, just like having a female engineer, I love it when people do this.

Congratulations.

Lol, it's always being just that people would always refer to us as doctors. Male nurses/midwives are everywhere. We have male PhD holders in midwifery even in Nigeria, not to talk of plenty youngesters like me.
Thanks for the heads up

Pumpumking:
student male midwife?? ,,,ok so bro are u plannnin to be gay? Congrats...so u be joning those LGBTM people fightin for gay right in Nigeria...correct?. u mess be proud gay mans...Blesss u & yor husband sir!!!

Was about to be pissed before I discovered its you sore looser trolling nairaland since 2008. What you need is pity and prayers and deliverance.
Seun lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique, this is Mr corks alternate account. Rules broken. Don't create another account while blocked.

edesgbenezaka:
Please someone should help me .....
is FMC keffi now giving out apl letters? Please someone should help me .....
is FMC keffi now giving out apl letters?

What's the meaning of APL

tensazangetsu20:
Just 188 . I can apply to 50 jobs at a go. In a month that's 1500. I am in IT Sha. Another 50 on indeed. Around 100 jobs a day.

IT is kinda easy cos you get the jobs

BigDawsNet:
LinkedIn do not focus on "University of popular"

All they wanna see is skills

I mean real skills

With lots of recognized certification


Haven't you been a receiving a DM from LinkedIn official advising you to take a course....

When you have bunch of them on your profile.... international/loc job can easily locate you and will message you

Those ceo messages are more like spam messages. Not like they see your profile and then decided to message you

InkedNerd:
I'm actually still around. I just don't post and rarely ever log in. Hope everyone's good though.

Where are you na. You were among those I cherished and you supported when I newly came on board a decade back. A bloody jambite that year I was

Sagamite:
Covid never slaughter you, you wan make I intellectually kee you?

So you are still alive? Fuktard cretin

Think9ja:
I can say Keffi is one of the safest towns in central Nigeria.

The only downside of the town is lack of booming business activities, other than that..... Keffi is my dream place to settle and raise a family.

Last last, if I get a job in Abuja, na Keffi me go base

By the way

Any update on the admission list for PGD?

Beautiful.
I'm not an aspiring student anyways. Just wish to do something there, maybe serve there.

Vyzz:
OP One day try ask why she been dey behave like that because me I still never understand that attitude

Read through the first page of the previous thread and you will understand why she acted that way

OLESCO:
Amen to all ur prayers and thank u all for the good wishes ....... God will visit us all amen.

WIDD/ my story goes like this: have being TTC for close to two years ..... But in this case 2 years seems like forever most especially when about 4 of my cousins I even got married before them all put to bed and I was left behind....... Most times in my ignorance I will question God why all this is happenning to me cos I lived a cautious life before marriage ( was a virgin before I got married at the age of 31.... But who virgin help lol, and I have treated toilet infection only once) though it matters but honestly the are yard stick to fertility !!!!!

So it started 4months after our wedding nothing happened even with constant 'work'. I started being worried but hubby was like relax its too early.

Me keee relax Hmmm Cos I know everyone will think the problem is from me. I went and register with a geany in my church clinic cos I was kinda new to the place and don't really know anywhere. And he comes once in a week.

I was asked to do sonoHsg which i did and both tubes are pertent, was ask to do pelvic scan I did and it came out well no fibrio, pocs nor endomertin. He said hubby should do SAF he did and i took the result to my doc. He was ask to do prolatin something somehing again ..... My doc dont explain results to me. If I ask whats the outcome of the results I dont really know but he wouldn't want to tell me. If I persist he will said ehhmmm its fair, its fair and he will quickly write down drugs which I will end up paying 2k for it apart from 1k I do pay each time I visit.

It was sabi mamas here helped to explain the results for me. I later find out through this very trend that the drugs he usually give and charge 2k and it only last for 8days is folic acid, ferrous, vitamine c and calcium. I went and bought the containers which didnt even cost upto 1500 ....Chiaa i was really a novice lol

And by this time I have already spent like getting to 11months with the doc without even holding any tangible reason at hand......

I didnt really did anything different I think the said time came for me. only thing I did was
1) I changed my perttern of praying from
fasting to midnight prayer and I made sure
hubby was fully involved this time around. And I did arms giving mostly to children

2) I stayed glued to this trend cos its very
informative and an eye opener

3) I changed my geany to an online doctor (the
people's doctor on instagram) which I got
to know through a distant sister of mine
that have being TTC for 4 years and got
her bbf 5months after consulting with her.
But before I started with her I made
inquiries about her here and I got a good review But then I don't have money for consultation fee 10k till pregnancy is achived. I just start following her cos her page is very infornative, encouraging and educative. Then one day, I was lucky to be choosen when a couple that God answered their prayer paid consultation fee for 10 persons ........ Na so consultation take start ohhh lol

She was suprise if she request for test I will provide the result instantly Hsg, plevic scan, hormone profile etc..... She explained everything in detail it was there I found out I have no issue at all am very much okay even one of the result shows multiple matured folice I think that was when I took okra water to boost ovulation. Chiaa what did I not drink?

Later learnt its hubby's motility that has only 20% active motility while other parameters are okay..... I was told to buy their sperm boost.... We didn't really have much that period ..... I just keep following keenily .As God may have it the did some % discount on it and we bought it. But hubby wasn't around then. He took the drugs early September and God answered us this october ...


I pray the in no distant time the "said time" will come for all TTC mamas in this forum no matter what u have being doing wrongly God will right it and give u all testimoy Amen.

Cc : Tinajoe
ABG2222
Ladygracy
Tripletwins222
Ladyrachy
Yungdady
I'm settled
Shadow88
Mumzara
Omakraid

Amen to all ur wishes and prayers.... May heaven never withhold answers to ur prayers amen

Imagine, more awareness needs to be done about male infertility to the general public. Asumming your husband wasn't supportive Nko? Congratulations

Omojudy:
Smiles. Its hard to pepper people you have no contact with. They are also blessed with kids so the pepper no fit much. Laslas the memory is still painful.

Aww. Wishing you well. Just be happy, I guess that's the best way to revenge.

Omojudy:
How about adding sperm analysis and eggs quality ie Amh to premarital screening tests?

Read your story last year or so. Hope you pepper your previous husbands and in-laws?

myglodata:
I just want to read about other people's experience. I might not be able to describe the phenomenon, but I'll try (bear with me)

We have been married for over a decade now with kids. Like all human interactions (marriage not excluded) we've had our problems but we always manage to resolve it (patience is key - an advice to married couples).

About 3 week ago after one of our usual argument (over some flimsy issue). She walked to me told me we need to talk. She said, and I paraphrase; "If we keep on arguing like this my love for you will keep reducing, and I'll only be staying with you for the kids". She then left for the room. After some few minutes she called me on phone and said "come and take me out" (this was around mid night). She then started crying and complaining of severe headache. She said she wants to go out for a walk at midnight, and crying and acting wired. She loves playing the Qur'an from her phone but at this point she asked me to take it far away from her and lots of other drama.

After about 30 to 40 mins she snapped out of it, her tone changed and she asked me "what are you doing here, are you not coming to bed". As if nothing happened, and when I told her about the incident and our discussions (about the kids and our love) she had absolutely no recollection of it whatsoever (even though it happened just moments ago). She just said she is having severe headaches. I could sense she was visibly disturbed when I told her because she hates any form of mental illness attributed to her.

Recently we travelled and she slept in my sisters place. In the morning she told me she had those severe headaches again and almost called me to come get her in the middle of the night because she was terrified and didn't want to snap into that state again and end up embarrassing her self at my sisters house.

Looking back at some fights we've had over the years couldn't help but think could it be that "she wasn't the one" I've been having these arguments with, but I only start noticing recently?

She normally gets into this state when she's angry (so I try to avoid getting her angry - but its quite hard)

She told me that recently she's been having some wired and fetish urges (even though I have known her to be a good woman)

I don't know if this make sense. I have always thought this kind of things (splits, possession etc.) happened to pretty women (and my wife falls in this category).

I am not the superstitious type and have resolved to stand by her, no one knows about this and I intend to keep it like this as long as it is not beyond our control. But I just want to here from people out there with similar experience

N.B I hope she's not on NL

Sounds like bipolar. Take her to psychiatric hospital

siofra:
We wey no like children now? This one everyone is saying have children if you're in your late thirties or early forties and you haven't seen a responsible man to marry.

You have gender dysphoria

Slayingjo:
Dont be scared. August last year i had my baby in this same situation. mine was 4.5kg. i was shceduled for 24th but hadmy baby on 23rd Through V.B. Now,u must understand that this is ur life n not urmother inlaws. u must do wat is best for you n ur baby my darlyn. victory is urs in Jesus name

4.5 and VB? Wow

OLESCO:
Chiaaaa fam pls jion me to thank this awesome God........... Finally the lord has done it. It's a fat +I've

No more iyawo what are u waiting for??someone actually came inside my sitting room in the presence of hubby to ask this question after asking me same question outside in the presence of people hmmm though she said it jokingly but it really broke my heart. After all their side talks..... But man no be God.

This TTC journey can be depressing and draining but in all God over everything ......

Father Lord I pray for same grace and mercy which u use to wipe away my tears..... Visit all TTC mamas with same grace that the will testify to the glory of ur name ... Amen

And you didn't insult her?
Congratulations

I can Imagine those without money or education going through infertility.. How do they cope? All those rural dwellers and the rest. It is well o.

Please, what tests should one do before marriage to detect any fertility issues so that it can be solved on time?

Wahalaperson:
i rented an apartment for my elder sister Aug last year, the apartment is in the GRA, a two bedroom flat, brand new and she is the first occupant, fenced, water, security and everything, I paid 150k for the house, their houses are relatively cheap, security is too notch, keffi is one of the most peaceful place in nasarawa state, and considering it's closeness to Abuja is also nice, with 250 and within 20 minutes you are already in abj, It is a nice place no doubt

That means a standard top notch self con would be lesser. Sounds beautiful

KanwuliaExtra:
Since 2007 to be EXACT!

By the way. . . When Oga Seun go marry?

I want to do “omugwo” o, before I quench on NL. I don dey google and joogle since. No luck.

Abi. . . . ? ? ?

U two should marry. Just that you go dey do DV ontop d innocent man. Na beat you go just dey beat am