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Olivertwist1985:
4. Even another issue that she complained when she reported the case to my pastor before she finally left,was that we sleeping on the same bed for about two weeks but I am seeing her like a log of wood but for me iam afraid of anything pregnancy because the loads are too much on me.

Thanks you all for your advices,
May God bless.

Man of what you wrote down you don't have any faulty but you are still at fault.
When a woman complains about sex it means it really affecting her, but you might not see it as anything.
you no as well the way they love money and you deny her this 2 precious thing.
She has been keeping it for long and she might even be seeing you as someone that having sex outside and spending your money on girls.
And you are not lazy don't mind this new Big boys, small online cake they are getting they will be claiming clever.
Na God dey run am for everyone no be by smartness.

Everybody forming hard men, No time for sympathy.
Remember you are not the only one in your field or line of work, it is just by God grace you have been getting the connection you have. Some people know the job better than you but are not getting the contract.
If someone loose is Job the next thing you will hear is Lazy you that is not lazy I hope your company is a multinational one?
I don't no who tell Nigerians that is only lazy people that don't have job.
People have better job ideas, good strategy and finance but still fail.
Make una dey calm down.
Success belike menstruation it will come when it time and you will feel the flow.

Have you been to the north? Is a norm here.

Offpoint1:
I do some motion graphics job for one client like that... Base on nature of dey job and its urgency, we "kiss heart"(agreed} on 150k.
Baba ring my aza with 50k as initial ho-body money.

Long story short, I finish job in just 3days {cuz na urgency, him get presentation for ABJ} Baba sey him go send am to him team members for approval. Hawa later baba ring me sey him team members don approve job.

Okey, balance up ma send your final work. Baba begin yarn stories sey if him return from ABJ on Wednesday him go ring my aza.


Baba you dey ho me 100k for 2 months and believe sey I go send this money back!!!? I just end him call, turn off my sim and switch to mifi.

My people how una see this matter? Ma reason am dey 40k back?

My heart too soft, I don dey reason to send am back... But I wan frustrate am small till tomorrow evening.... My 2nd mind dey tell me ma kuku send dey 80k back, ma no ask dey money again till kingdom comes.

Man this Nigeria everyone is like a fraud put your sim back and call him to balance you the remaining if not you are coming to his office, it will surprise you that he already collect even more from the office.

I think everyone in this country is a devil incarnate.
We are complaining to government that everything is getting expensive and someone is increasing tuition fee same school he or she went for lesser fee.
We should all just going to religion houses because whoever become a leader or is given power In this country will make other people life miserable.

Using this opportunity to say no be poverty dey cus Oloshoism people just like easy money.

Tell him to make you super rich, how will I have a wizard as a friend and not be rich as Dangote.
Not unless he is fake?

You dodge a bullet you don't want to see the wrath of women.

Na lie them no fit survive unless chua chua dey come steady.
You no go transport? Buy data buy baby clothes pampers, wipes etc.
This country nawaoo.

Why blame a profession, mind you they go through a lot which they can't share due to confidentiality. Blame the person involve.

Tortoise don't run

Go and do DNA test brother.

Our mumu no too much

This same problem kill Yardua carrying load (Nigerians) that is bigger than him.
Continue when you die (not wishing you just saying) graphic designer go chop, your burial poster will be colourful.

How didyou come to conclusion everyone present there is a criminal?
What about those who come to charge their phone?
What about those who went strolling to relax at that place.
This raiding of a thing ehnn and a full commissioned officer is bragging about it SMH
Innocent poor people don too suffer.

When they are breaking Alcohol bottles did they remember that we are one?
Now time to share profit you want some mmba.
They make their rules without thinking about others now the other people makes their rule they become evil.
And I no all this thing is just a way of Bello being an APC ass licker.
Wicked people using religion to cause chaos.

alfredilly:
Maybe witchcraft �.Talk about iresponsible leadership, that's the case here.

Thanks for your clarification.
Seems no one want to pay the debt.

Pastor please calm down you are just saying the truth. People In my country don't like truth, you can be prusecutated for it.

My brother they is no ruling its trade, legit business.

Tell her to be patient, times are hard for everyone.
What if she was a man what will she sell then.

Sitting down here patiently.

Liliantalks:
degree no go feed us, but I feel it can mess things up , funny enough it’s not even about his ego but the lady , how’s she going to tell her friends her man has no degree. Just a sec school result , tho the guy is very intelligent but those things do matter

If he is willing to learn, he can still go to school.

Na degree go feed una? Marry a responsible person that all.
If a person character is bad degree won't change that.
Degree can't make you to be ambitious its an individual thing.
As long as the man you man marry have goals dream degree or no degree he will not stop till he achieve.
All this scammers and lecturer sorters Na go call themselve graduate.
Madam Aunty many go to school but school no go through them.
A gambler, an Alcoholic will be same degree or no degree.

Good one at least we are now behaving like the educated people they call us.
Imaging going to plumber to help you fix pipe for an amount he will tell you that he cannot go below certain price because of Unions thus loosing the job to someone else who don't care about union.
At least with this now, they will be a competitive market and job will be given to an expert.

Just schedule your self properly, stick to a closing and opening time.
When your brother finally leave shop for you find someone one who can manage the business on weekends.
We all need rest my brother, no be who open shop first go sell pass and no be who close late go reap all the benefit of the day.
And you have been working for 4 years now, you should already know the days that you are always very busy /rush hour time. Take rest on days you know is less busy, make sure you turn off your phone if not you will still be working while at home.

God have been faithful to me, I have never been a victim of circumstances.
Is either the kidnapping or shooting just end or I left and it start.
Kogi, Abuja, Kaduna, Niger road I fear this area.
As for Lagos road Na make conductor no join me with Oloshi person for change wahala.

Foolish set of people and leaders. You mean the community cannot hold a meeting to agreed on what they can do to bring light to that area? This shows lack of cooperation in that area.
Witchcraft of the highest order.

I love this new guy and I don’t know how to tell him I am not ready for a relationship. And the thing is I don’t want him to date another person because I love him.
Witch just full everywhere, you won't date me but won't let me go. Weyre.

No cause for alarm it is not a caution they are just telling you how they feel.

You legit thanks.

This is not news, not every man is a sex freak