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Dear Jzhane,

It is good to always listen to your parents when you want to get married. I wish I did. Eight years ago,my mother warned me about getting married To Mikey. According to her,she sensed he was a very proud and arrogant man. When she met him,she asked him a few questions and my mother was not satisfied about his answer. But to me,all those were just inconsequential. I was in love. Plus,I was already 31,I was not ready to be choosy with husband at this age. With my mother's reluctant blessing,I got married to Mikey.

Getting married was ok. I mean,Mikey is not perfect neither am I. We have had our differences along the way. Mostly because,Mikey actually is the type of man my mother dreaded. He was the typical average Nigerian man. What I mean is that,he is not the type that believes in females as anything. In fact,he made sure I was submissive to the core. He would not tolerate my trying to argue with him or disobey him even if he is wrong on any matter. His decision was always final.What pained me most was that he was not even making enough money so I was a co-bread winner and he still would make life difficult for me. He never provided for the kids. Most times,I had to borrow to pay school fees. Our rent was always late. The care taker would have embarrassed us for moths before we managed to pay half and half before the end of the rent tenure and the cycle continues year in ....

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Some women can be very funny. I don’t actually blame guys who use women and dump them. Back in school,my friend used to say that women are fish brain. I used to think that was uncool but now I think I actually believe him. I was raised by my parents to treat women nice. I have five sisters and I treat them like queens.

So two years ago,I met Doreen. We used to be class mates during our ND days. I met her on my way back from Kano from a business trip. She worked at the airport as a Cleaner. I couldn’t believe that this smart girl who I used to admire in school then was just an airport cleaner. I was elated when she called my name as I got out of the airport toilet where she was working that day. It took a while for me to recognize her. I took her no and called her later on. She told me how she dropped out of school cos she didn’t have the money then. She also got pregnant for some guy who ended up using her and dumping her once her baby was born.I was so sorry for her.

I didn’t plan to but I discovered that I still admired her and I kind of was happy when she said she wasn’t dating anyone. She and I reconnected over the next few months. I helped her financially. I helped her put her daughter who was three years old in a good school. I got her a better job as an admin assistant with a friend’s connection. We were talking about her returning back to school to complete her education. She got in school the following year and I helped her financially all the way. Though we were dating,we agreed no sx until marriage. She had suffered a lot from her baby daddy and wanted to wait until marriage before doing it again with any man. I was fine with that. It was hard I must admit cos Doreen is very pretty and sxy. We used to kiss and cuddle and most times it took a lot to stop me from going further.

In February this year,I started to notice some strange attitude from Doreen. I thought it was the pressure from school and having to work at the same time. I asked her to quit working and I promised to take care of her schooling and her daughter all through. I just wanted to make her happy. What I didn’t know was that.....Read and leave your comments on full story on the blog



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Indeed ,a serious bitch.

okomile:
Let us be careful the way we live our life.

Karma is a b I t c h

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Hello Admin,

My mother left my father when I was about six years old. She got married to a man who already had a son from a previous relationship. His son was nine years old at the time. I moved in to live with them for a while. But trust my mom,she couldn't stay with one man for a long time. She left her second husband just before the marriage clocked one year. Since then,my mom has been with several men that I cannot remember.

Anyway,years later, I meet a young man on a flight. We talk and later developed friendship afterwards. I found out that he grew up in Benin like me. By the time her told me his name,I discovered he is the son of one of the men my mom was married to.It was such a weird discovery but that didn't stop us from liking each other.We dated and before you know it,it was getting serious.Truth is,this relationship is the happiest I have been in my life. Eventually,we got engaged and I was the happiest girl on planet earth.

The problem started when we went to see my fiance's father and his mother who are....

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Dear Jzhane,

This might come across as unusual but my friend has encouraged me to write you for advice. I am a 38 year old young lady. I am from the eastern part of the country. I have a good job and I try my best to be happy most times despite the fact that I don't have a steady boyfriend. I have been ...

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You are speechless ?

turpsylegend:
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To read and get to know what's happening.

blackpanthar:
all these LINK stories... what do you want Nairalanders to say. It has already been answered in your blog.

Amen

Cuteamigo1:
what about dad

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Dear Jzhane,

Please help me pray and advise me as well on this matter. I dont want my name to be revealed too. My fiance is a divorcee. He and his ex wife have two children. They have been divorced since 2013. Our marriage has been fixed for end of July. Last week,my fiance's ex wife came to his place and spent the night in his place. According to him,she came to Lagos from Aba where she stays. She came to do some shopping in Lagos as she is a Trader. She ended up spending the night in his place cos she has no other person in Lagos.

I was not happy about this and I told my fiance. He was defending ....

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