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Condition sometimes make people do it. BabbanBura: |
Then ,go hustle and come back. But make em no do rituals ohhhhh. ![]() mgdimagaladima: |
Chuks9000: |
nd leave his kids?? mgdimagaladima: |
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Dear Jzhane, I love my fiancee. Our wedding is supposed to be in June but right now,she did something that is making me consider seriously if I should call it off. Please dont reveal my name when you post this. She also reads your blog so I dont want to embarrass her. My fiancee thinks I am over reacting with what she did. Here is it: I gave her one of my ATM cards so that she can always have access to money in case she cannot reach me. I am a Pilot and I am always flying.Honestly,she is not a spend drift but my issue is that she dashes people money too much.Well,she has a nice heart and people know that and always want to take advantage of her. I try to caution her and instead of her to take correction,she will say please take your card before you insult me cos of money. It has brought about fight between us several times. I really love her and I know her business does not bring in so much sometimes. She is a fashion designer. Thats why I gave her my ATM card. Sometimes,she uses it to shop for me,to stock up my groceries,etc. ....read full story and other stories on the blog : https://livelystones.com.ng/my-fiancee-her-ex-is-this-naive-or-playing-me-for-a-fool/ |
Good Morning LS, Please before you do anything,kindly keep my name out of this cos I know you might post this,I also have read other peoples stories hence the reason I am writing to you to please advice and share.My life has just turned upside down. My family is about to be torn apart cos I dont know how we can recover from this. I have received counsel from a couple of friends. My sister actually referred me to your stories. I am in dire need of a divine intervention right now. Dupe and I have been married for six years. These six years have come with its joys and challenges.After two years of childlessness,we became desperate. Our desperation made us begin to get frustrated with each other. We were tired of the futility of our efforts. We had had three failed IVFs in four years. That means money had gone down the drain. The last IVF we did was the beginning of our major problems. This is because,the fetus had actually gotten to about three months before my wife miscarried. I blamed her for the miscarriage. This is because she refused to cool down on her job. I felt she should have actually quit the job but she refused to listen. She kept saying she would relax on the fifth month but the pregnancy never got to the fifth month. We lost it at the third month. This sad occurrence made us quarrel so much and we were not speaking to each other for almost a month. I was very depressed,angry and bitter. At that point,the devil started to torment me. I connected with my ex on Instagram. Well,I had been seeing her pictures before on Instagram. Chatting with her,old flames started to burn. She was in town for a business meeting and she met me cos I needed someone to talk to,she offered a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on at the time. When I was her at the hotel that day,I knew we had crossed a line of no return. But I was too stubborn...too angry at my wife. I felt she didn't love me enough to have listened to me so we didn't have to loose our child. I spent the night with my ex. I ended up actually spending the entire two days of her business meeting with her at her hotel. I was just so lost at the time. When I eventually went home,I was just so broken. I thought I had lost my marriage. But when I got back,my wife,instead of getting upset,she flung herself at me and we both started to cry. I mean,I missed her and she missed me. she feared I had left the marriage cos the two days I was with my ex,I switched off my phone. Seeing me back,she was so sorry and she and I just wanted to be with each other. Gradually,we began to build our lives back. Thank God for his faithfulness. In about four months time,we discovered that we were pregnant. I mean,my wife got pregnant this time very naturally. I was over the moon. She quit her job but strangely ...read full story and other stories on the blog : https://livelystones.com.ng/a-mistake-at-the-darkest-hourswill-our-marriage-survive-this/ |
The guy's house is now a movie theater ? Okay nah Samuelgr8: |
Yes ohhhh. Marrying a rich lady is not the thing. idibe24: |
True word or it may cost their marriage. Amarabae: |
What you are typing ? Loooool. U said ,there will be a cutting of someone d**k Samuelgr8: |
Well,May God help us in the side of women. If the man no catch them now,nah so d will be shinning Congo . Loool onatisi: |
Smiles. Coming weekly ? The babe will still be your girl friend ? onatisi: |
Very bitter and it takes courage to be told Samuelgr8: |
But at least he caught her onatisi: |
Some still do it. izaray: |
Some may have stopped due to Christianity but some still do it. I have an uncle who visited benue state to check on his daughter who was in school in gboko . guess what ? They person that housed him gave him his wife to sleep with. DWJOBScom: |
such thing happen. some ladies can stay for months without sex ,especially if they are sexually active. Chuks9000: |
you dont know some ladies can be funny ,especially when they are desperate. MrBrownJay1: |
its not ,if its true. It is pure true. to the extent they offer their wives to guest as a way of welcoming him. DWJOBScom: |
Hello Every One, My name is Awal. I am from Dakar In Senegal. I need your advice please. I just got married three weeks ago but I discovered I was pregnant,two weeks after my wedding. The pregnancy is not for my husband because before our wedding,he was in Rufisque doing a six month contract. He arrived the day before our wedding. I was quite shocked I was pregnant cos it was a one night of wild partying that I thought I was being very careful. I knew I couldnt lie to my husband when I discovered I was pregnant so I lied that I was at a party and I was drunk and I was with a stranger. I thought this lie would make him support me to get an abortion but surprisingly,.................. https://livelystones.com.ng/he-believes-it-was-a-stranger-but-i-was-with-my-ex-how-do-i-fix-this/ |
Hello LS, Please help me post my story. You can use any name but not my name please. I am married to a man from Middle belt in Nigeria. We met at work,we work in the same company. Its almost three years of marriage now and I am pregnant with my second baby. My husband’s elder brother came to stay with us when he was briefly deployed to Lagos. He is in the police force,I dont want to mention his rank but he is a senior officer. This my husband’s brother began to display certain behavior that I am not comfortable with. He will just come inside my bedroom without knocking. He does anything he likes without asking. He said,in their culture ,that men are free to see any woman in the family as their wife. So if he chose to sleep with me,he has a right to do so. I thought he was joking but my husband confirmed it. I told him that can never happen with me. My husband said something unbelievable,that he has .......... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-family-and-their-twisted-culture-of-adultery/ |
Dear Admin, Top of the day to you. Please what do you advice that I do in my situation. I have been been with my fiance for almost two years. He is a divorcee with a four year old son. When we started dating,he told me his wife left him for another man. But after dating for like a year,I heard rumors that my fiance was cheating on his wife with a neighbor’s wife. This neighbor is abroad but the wife is in the compound with her three children. When I heard the rumors,I was careful cos I noticed the woman always being nice to my fiance. This woman sometimes baby sits my fiance’s son. I asked my fiance what the relationship with this woman was cos I didnt like the closeness with a married woman,he just said I should stop listening to rumors that the woman is just a nice person. Two things now bother me now concerning this woman. One,I found out a school fees receipt for the payment of school fees for three children. Their names were not names I knew,I later found out there were the names of the woman’s children. I asked my fiance and he said he helped her pay school fees cos her husband had not sent money. He said it was a loan. He said the woman brought the receipt cos he insisted that she would bring a receipt to prove that she didnt use the money for something else other than school fees. Ma,I was not comfortable with this but I couldnt fault him cos giving someone a loan is not a bad thing. But the second thing that bothered me alot was that two weekends ago,I was ........ https://livelystones.com.ng/could-my-fiance-be-messing-around-with-his-married-neighbor/ |
Dear Admin, Top of the day to you. Please what do you advice that I do in my situation. I have been been with my fiance for almost two years. He is a divorcee with a four year old son. When we started dating,he told me his wife left him for another man. But after dating for like a year,I heard rumors that my fiance was cheating on his wife with a neighbor’s wife. This neighbor is abroad but the wife is in the compound with her three children. When I heard the rumors,I was careful cos I noticed the woman always being nice to my fiance. This woman sometimes baby sits my fiance’s son. I asked my fiance what the relationship with this woman was cos I didnt like the closeness with a married woman,he just said I should stop listening to rumors that the woman is just a nice person. Two things now bother me now concerning this woman. One,I found out a school fees receipt for the payment of school fees for three children. Their names were not names I knew,I later found out there were the names of the woman’s children. I asked my fiance and he said he helped her pay school fees cos her husband had not sent money. He said it was a loan. He said the woman brought the receipt cos he insisted that she would bring a receipt to prove that she didnt use the money for something else other than school fees. Ma,I was not comfortable with this but I couldnt fault him cos giving someone a loan is not a bad thing. But the second thing that bothered me alot was that two weekends ago,I was ........ https://livelystones.com.ng/could-my-fiance-be-messing-around-with-his-married-neighbor/ |
I think we should also feel pity for her too. Not just to be judgmental. Its very painful and frustrating when one you love , have kids for ,treats you bad to the extent of allowing the mistress send you nude pictures. Buharimustgo: |

