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Romance / Re: My Husband’s Family And Their Twisted Culture Of Adultery by z11111: 12:01pm On Apr 10, 2018
Condition sometimes make people do it.

BabbanBura:


Never rush into any marriage - understand your intending spouse very well first: Person, Orientations, Family snr Orientation, Culture and family stand within the Culture. If you do a good job at this UNDERSTANDING PHASE, not so much will come to you as a surprise. I know a lady that broke her engagement because the sex wasn't great, there is another that called it quit because the Guy (a bank manager at that) wont just grow up - his mum's influence on him is just too much that even lunch he will call her to ask what she advise he should eat, same with cloth etc

The key word is UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING INTO
Romance / Re: God Punish Poverty!…my Wife Treats Me Like A Slave by z11111: 11:59am On Apr 10, 2018
Then ,go hustle and come back.

But make em no do rituals ohhhhh.

smiley smiley smiley smiley


mgdimagaladima:


yes ofcos

what of if she kill him and go away with the kids!!!!

it is better to run for his life before its to late ..... his children will find him someday
Romance / Re: Is My Husband And I Not Compatible ? Too Tight Vs Too Soon by z11111: 11:57am On Apr 10, 2018
wink


Samuelgr8:
Experience is talking here
Romance / Re: I Lied It Was A Stranger But I Was With My Ex..how Do I Fix This? by z11111: 11:56am On Apr 10, 2018
shocked shocked

Chuks9000:
I don't feel you o shocked
You, a female, went to a party without your husband's knowledge? And you got drunk? And got laid? How many marriage violations have you mentioned? And then, you now got pregnant grin grin
Such a lie can't even fly in Nigeria.
Romance / Re: God Punish Poverty!…my Wife Treats Me Like A Slave by z11111: 11:53am On Apr 10, 2018
Romance / Re: One Million Naira To Take Back My Cheating Girlfriend! by z11111: 11:51am On Apr 10, 2018
smiley smiley

Samuelgr8:
The money is tempting though...but....
Romance / Re: God Punish Poverty!…my Wife Treats Me Like A Slave by z11111: 11:50am On Apr 10, 2018
nd leave his kids??


mgdimagaladima:
na she marry u , no be u marry her...

u re a slave


just run for ur life

Romance / Re: Could My Fiance Be Messing Around With His Married Neighbor? by z11111: 11:48am On Apr 10, 2018
smiley smiley

metalgear:
He didn't hear the bell, yet claimed they were in the sitting room? Lady, he's tapping that ass like no tomorrow.
Romance / Re: God Punish Poverty!…my Wife Treats Me Like A Slave by z11111: 11:36am On Apr 10, 2018
smiley smiley


liquidlove2018:
Hello All,

I am very encouraged by what I read on your platform. This has motivated me to send my problem. God punish poverty. I never wish anyone even my enemy to be poor cos if you are poor or as a man you cannot take care of your own family,you are completely finished.

I met Ajiri five years ago. She was working as Contractor to my company. I work with a manufacturing company as a Store Officer. She was about 31 years at the time. I used to admire how hard working she was as a single woman. She seemed to be doing well for herself. So,I was like her insider friend for her business since she was supplying things to my company. One day,we were gisting casually and I asked her why she is not married,she said no man ask her. They all want to sleep with her and want her money but not to settle down. I told her I liked her but I dont have money like her,she was like,love is not about money.

Long story short,we got married like almost seven months later. My wife is also from a very rich family. So like our wedding,they sponsored everything. Since our marriage,cos I am in school too,its my wife that has been taking care of all our finances in the house. We talked about this before we got married. She said,she didnt mind to support us until I finish school and get a better job.

But since we got married,......

https://livelystones.com.ng/god-punish-poverty-my-wife-treats-me-like-a-slave/
Romance / Re: A Mistake At The Darkest Hour ,will Our Marriage Survive This??? by z11111: 11:28am On Apr 10, 2018
smiley smiley

habsydiamond:
the home and away team go get belle together...
Family / My Fiancee & Her Ex :is This Naive Or Playing Me For A Fool? by z11111: 9:33am On Apr 10, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

I love my fiancee. Our wedding is supposed to be in June but right now,she did something that is making me consider seriously if I should call it off. Please dont reveal my name when you post this. She also reads your blog so I dont want to embarrass her.

My fiancee thinks I am over reacting with what she did. Here is it:

I gave her one of my ATM cards so that she can always have access to money in case she cannot reach me. I am a Pilot and I am always flying.Honestly,she is not a spend drift but my issue is that she dashes people money too much.Well,she has a nice heart and people know that and always want to take advantage of her. I try to caution her and instead of her to take correction,she will say please take your card before you insult me cos of money. It has brought about fight between us several times.

I really love her and I know her business does not bring in so much sometimes. She is a fashion designer. Thats why I gave her my ATM card. Sometimes,she uses it to shop for me,to stock up my groceries,etc.



....read full story and other stories on the blog :
https://livelystones.com.ng/my-fiancee-her-ex-is-this-naive-or-playing-me-for-a-fool/
Romance / A Mistake At The Darkest Hour ,will Our Marriage Survive This??? by z11111: 8:28am On Apr 09, 2018
Good Morning LS,

Please before you do anything,kindly keep my name out of this cos I know you might post this,I also have read other peoples stories hence the reason I am writing to you to please advice and share.My life has just turned upside down. My family is about to be torn apart cos I dont know how we can recover from this. I have received counsel from a couple of friends. My sister actually referred me to your stories. I am in dire need of a divine intervention right now.

Dupe and I have been married for six years. These six years have come with its joys and challenges.After two years of childlessness,we became desperate. Our desperation made us begin to get frustrated with each other. We were tired of the futility of our efforts. We had had three failed IVFs in four years. That means money had gone down the drain. The last IVF we did was the beginning of our major problems. This is because,the fetus had actually gotten to about three months before my wife miscarried. I blamed her for the miscarriage. This is because she refused to cool down on her job.  I felt she should have actually quit the job but she refused to listen. She kept saying she would relax on the fifth month but the pregnancy never got to the fifth month. We lost it at the third month.

This sad occurrence made us quarrel so much and we were not speaking to each other for almost a month. I was very depressed,angry and bitter. At that point,the devil started to torment me. I connected with my ex on Instagram. Well,I had been seeing her pictures before on Instagram. Chatting with her,old flames started to burn. She was in town for a business meeting and she met me cos I needed someone to talk to,she offered a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on at the time.  When I was her at the hotel that day,I knew we had crossed a line of no return. But I was too stubborn...too angry at my wife. I felt she didn't love me enough to have listened to me so we didn't have to loose our child.

I spent the night with my ex. I ended up actually spending the entire two days of her business meeting with her at her hotel. I was just so lost at the time. When I eventually went home,I was just so broken. I thought I had lost my marriage. But when I got back,my wife,instead of getting upset,she flung herself at me and we both started to cry. I mean,I missed her and she missed me. she feared I had left the marriage cos the two days I was with my ex,I switched off my phone. Seeing me back,she was so sorry and she and I just wanted to be with each other. Gradually,we began to build our lives back. Thank God for his faithfulness. In about four months time,we discovered that we were pregnant. I mean,my wife got pregnant this time very naturally. I was over the moon. She quit her job but strangely

...read full story and other stories on the blog :
https://livelystones.com.ng/a-mistake-at-the-darkest-hourswill-our-marriage-survive-this/
Romance / Re: Could My Fiance Be Messing Around With His Married Neighbor? by z11111: 9:48pm On Apr 08, 2018
The guy's house is now a movie theater ?
Okay nah

Samuelgr8:
Maybe they were so engrossed in the action film and tv volume is high plssss!
Romance / Re: God Punish Poverty!…my Wife Treats Me Like A Slave by z11111: 9:47pm On Apr 08, 2018
Yes ohhhh.
Marrying a rich lady is not the thing.


idibe24:
my dear dis is warn to all men dat is use to run to follow ladies dat av money,pls follow ur heart wat ur heart tel u,am not dy wen u hear ur shoe
Romance / Re: Is My Husband And I Not Compatible ? Too Tight Vs Too Soon by z11111: 9:44pm On Apr 08, 2018
True word or it may cost their marriage.


Amarabae:
Nawa o.
You both need to see a marriage councillor or a psychologist.
Something is wrong somewhere.
The affection is not there.
Affection makes sex more sweeter.
Romance / Re: My Husband’s Family And Their Twisted Culture Of Adultery by z11111: 9:37pm On Apr 08, 2018
What you are typing ? Loooool.
U said ,there will be a cutting of someone d**k

Samuelgr8:
shocked shocked shocked cut of your husband dick? dear broda's, beware....
Romance / Re: One Million Naira To Take Back My Cheating Girlfriend! by z11111: 9:34pm On Apr 08, 2018
Well,May God help us in the side of women. If the man no catch them now,nah so d will be shinning Congo . Loool

onatisi:

She stopped been my girlfriend the day she secretly accepted to be banging the other guy. This is just the fact. She could have been doing it outside for months and the man at home won't know a thing. That is women for u
Romance / Re: One Million Naira To Take Back My Cheating Girlfriend! by z11111: 9:28pm On Apr 08, 2018
Smiles. Coming weekly ? The babe will still be your girl friend ?

onatisi:
and that is why he must take maximum advantage of the situation.what the man don chop he can't replace it so it is better he collects some money at least he won't lose in 2 ways . If they were banging elsewhere and he never got to know ,there is no way he would have gotten the million naira. Left to me I will even encourage the man to be coming weekly
Romance / Re: My Husband Mistress Sent Me Their Nudes,i Feel Like Ending His Life by z11111: 9:27pm On Apr 08, 2018
True word

Samuelgr8:
Besides, she will land herself in jail and her children will become.....
Romance / Re: I Lied It Was A Stranger But I Was With My Ex..how Do I Fix This? by z11111: 9:26pm On Apr 08, 2018
Very bitter and it takes courage to be told

Samuelgr8:
Truth is bitter, but always liberate those who tell it
Romance / Re: One Million Naira To Take Back My Cheating Girlfriend! by z11111: 9:22pm On Apr 08, 2018
But at least he caught her

onatisi:
better take the money . what if she was doing it and you never got to know ?
Romance / Re: My Husband’s Family And Their Twisted Culture Of Adultery by z11111: 6:50pm On Apr 06, 2018
Some still do it.

izaray:
Such cultures were commonly practiced in Tiv land, and they are d majority in Benue state.

But I doubt if they still do such!

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Romance / Re: My Husband’s Family And Their Twisted Culture Of Adultery by z11111: 6:49pm On Apr 06, 2018
Some may have stopped due to Christianity but some still do it.

I have an uncle who visited benue state to check on his daughter who was in school in gboko . guess what ? They person that housed him gave him his wife to sleep with.

DWJOBScom:


It's a myth I think
Romance / Re: I Lied It Was A Stranger But I Was With My Ex..how Do I Fix This? by z11111: 6:47pm On Apr 06, 2018
such thing happen.

some ladies can stay for months without sex ,especially if they are sexually active.

Chuks9000:
I don't feel you o shocked
You, a female, went to a party without your husband's knowledge? And you got drunk? And got laid? How many marriage violations have you mentioned? And then, you now got pregnant grin grin
Such a lie can't even fly in Nigeria.
Family / Re: Could My Fiance Be Messing Around With His Married Neighbor? by z11111: 6:18pm On Apr 06, 2018
you dont know some ladies can be funny ,especially when they are desperate.

MrBrownJay1:
arrant rubbish.... rumours will always make some dumb people dumber. she asked the guy and he said there was nothing. that should have been the END OF THE STORY!

btw...
Romance / Re: My Husband’s Family And Their Twisted Culture Of Adultery by z11111: 6:13pm On Apr 06, 2018
its not ,if its true. It is pure true. to the extent they offer their wives to guest as a way of welcoming him.

DWJOBScom:
This is sad if actually true
Romance / I Lied It Was A Stranger But I Was With My Ex..how Do I Fix This? by z11111: 6:05pm On Apr 06, 2018
Hello Every One,

My name is Awal. I am from Dakar In Senegal. I need your advice please. I just got married three weeks ago but I discovered I was pregnant,two weeks after my wedding. The pregnancy is not for my husband because before our wedding,he was in Rufisque doing a six month contract. He arrived the day before our wedding.

I was quite shocked I was pregnant cos it was a one night of wild partying that I thought I was being very careful. I knew I couldnt lie to my husband when I discovered I was pregnant so I lied that I was at a party and I was drunk and I was with a stranger. I thought this lie would make him support me to get an abortion but surprisingly,..................

https://livelystones.com.ng/he-believes-it-was-a-stranger-but-i-was-with-my-ex-how-do-i-fix-this/
Romance / My Husband’s Family And Their Twisted Culture Of Adultery by z11111: 5:46pm On Apr 06, 2018
Hello LS,

Please help me post my story. You can use any name but not my name please.

I am married to a man from Middle belt in Nigeria. We met at work,we work in the same company. Its almost three years of marriage now and I am pregnant with my second baby. My husband’s elder brother came to stay with us when he was briefly deployed to Lagos. He is in the police force,I dont want to mention his rank but he is a senior officer.

This my husband’s brother began to display certain behavior that I am not comfortable with. He will just come inside my bedroom without knocking. He does anything he likes without asking. He said,in their culture ,that men are free to see any woman in the family as their wife. So if he chose to sleep with me,he has a right to do so. I thought he was joking but my husband confirmed it. I told him that can never happen with me. My husband said something unbelievable,that he has ..........

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-family-and-their-twisted-culture-of-adultery/
Family / Could My Fiance Be Messing Around With His Married Neighbor? by z11111: 2:04pm On Apr 06, 2018
Dear Admin,

Top of the day to you. Please what do you advice that I do in my situation. I have been been with my fiance for almost two years. He is a divorcee with a four year old son. When we started dating,he told me his wife left him for another man. But after dating for like a year,I heard rumors that my fiance was cheating on his wife with a neighbor’s wife.

This neighbor is abroad but the wife is in the compound with her three children. When I heard the rumors,I was careful cos I noticed the woman always being nice to my fiance. This woman sometimes baby sits my fiance’s son. I asked my fiance what the relationship with this woman was cos I didnt like the closeness with a married woman,he just said I should stop listening to rumors that the woman is just a nice person.

Two things now bother me now concerning this woman. One,I found out a school fees receipt for the payment of school fees for three children. Their names were not names I knew,I later found out there were the names of the woman’s children. I asked my fiance and he said he helped her pay school fees cos her husband had not sent money. He said it was a loan. He said the woman brought the receipt cos he insisted that she would bring a receipt to prove that she didnt use the money for something else other than school fees. Ma,I was not comfortable with this but I couldnt fault him cos giving someone a loan is not a bad thing.

But the second thing that bothered me alot was that two weekends ago,I was ........

https://livelystones.com.ng/could-my-fiance-be-messing-around-with-his-married-neighbor/
Romance / Could My Fiance Be Messing Around With His Married Neighbor? by z11111: 1:55pm On Apr 06, 2018
Dear Admin,

Top of the day to you. Please what do you advice that I do in my situation. I have been been with my fiance for almost two years. He is a divorcee with a four year old son. When we started dating,he told me his wife left him for another man. But after dating for like a year,I heard rumors that my fiance was cheating on his wife with a neighbor’s wife.

This neighbor is abroad but the wife is in the compound with her three children. When I heard the rumors,I was careful cos I noticed the woman always being nice to my fiance. This woman sometimes baby sits my fiance’s son. I asked my fiance what the relationship with this woman was cos I didnt like the closeness with a married woman,he just said I should stop listening to rumors that the woman is just a nice person.

Two things now bother me now concerning this woman. One,I found out a school fees receipt for the payment of school fees for three children. Their names were not names I knew,I later found out there were the names of the woman’s children. I asked my fiance and he said he helped her pay school fees cos her husband had not sent money. He said it was a loan. He said the woman brought the receipt cos he insisted that she would bring a receipt to prove that she didnt use the money for something else other than school fees. Ma,I was not comfortable with this but I couldnt fault him cos giving someone a loan is not a bad thing.

But the second thing that bothered me alot was that two weekends ago,I was ........

https://livelystones.com.ng/could-my-fiance-be-messing-around-with-his-married-neighbor/
Romance / Re: My Husband Mistress Sent Me Their Nudes,i Feel Like Ending His Life by z11111: 9:10am On Apr 06, 2018
I think we should also feel pity for her too.

Not just to be judgmental. Its very painful and frustrating when one you love , have kids for ,treats you bad to the extent of allowing the mistress send you nude pictures.

Buharimustgo:
By the time she spends time in the prison,her brain will reset,let her go ahead and kill him

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