My brother ,you are shame to manhood for thinking of collecting the money.

z11111:
Good day Admin,

Janet is my girlfriend and fiancee. After her youth service,I encouraged her to come down to Lagos so she can look for a job. When she arrived,she didnt have anywhere to stay so she started to squat with me. I work in an insurance company,I been there for almost a year but the pay is not much. I am hoping to find a better paid job soon.

My girl got a job with a bank not too long. The bank was on the island which was quite far for her as my place is in Ogba. We agreed that she would be joining my neighbor who owns a car, a married man who also leaves for work on the island. Because Janet follows Mr Mike to work,we some how became close to him. So sometimes,on weekends, we just hang out and gist briefly as neighbors.

After like a month or so that my girl started working,I started to notice some behavior with her. She started to dress somehow too attractive too. I thought she just wanted to look nice as a banker. when she comes back home,she will just be with her phone,not really interested in gisting with me like before. I was a bit worried so I told her that I dont like her new behaviors but she just told me that I am just imagining things that she has not changed.Well,I let her be.

On Sunday morning,I decided to go to church cos I havent gone in a while. But my girl said she is too tired and needed to rest. Anyway,I kind of understood cos bank work is very stressful,she even works on Saturdays sometimes. I went on my way to church. In church that day,the service ended on time cos they announced that they were going to attend a member's celebration or something. so I went home earlier than usual. On getting home,I discovered that the apartment was quiet. I thought Janet was sleeping,I decided not wake her up so I entered very quietly.

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U av a point there.

He should call her to talk.

loverboi97:
i pity ur condition,u myt hv wronged her somehow without knowing.hv u tried talking to her

U can't really blame her nah.

Beke2020:

Does it mean it's not possible for the lady to have truly changed?

Beke2020:
You maybe right, but not absolutely on this matter. I know what am talking about

Yes. Expecting manner from inlaw.

ImaIma1:


He seems laid back and mediocre.

Seriously ,if the guy was serious ,he ought to have something doing .

ImaIma1:
Five years and still on the same spot singing the same song.

When you decided to let your inlaws pay for everything while you just watched, what were you expecting.

They cannot respect you.

As someone said, some women are going through worse in marriage for the same reason.

How do you mean ?

It's vice versa nah.

The summary remains that for a man to be poor us a disease.

delishpot:
Women have been passing through worse in the name of marriage endure yours.

Good Morning House,

Please ,I kindly need your suggestion regards this matter. This is from one of us here. For a while I have  been on this issue ,praying with her. This is the story of Lupenda, who lives and work in Kenya. She is married to a goat in form a husband, with 2 kids. But this guy has another mistress some where in the place where he lives and work in Kenya. This has been on for several years. I have  counselled the lady to visit police station, court , NGO in same country. According to her she has gone to some of these places I mentioned but no much action rather they are pleading for peace. The worst part is the husband abandoned the kids with her. The little money she earns is not enough to take care of the kids. The heights of it all, I woke up this morning and saw her message ,narrating how the husband mistress sent her

...read full story and other stories on the blog :

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Good Day LS,

I ran into Cynthia two years ago in a banking hall. Cynthia and I went to the same University. She was a one time Miss Uniben. A very pretty girl. Every guy's dream. Guys ejaculate just thinking about her. She was so fine. But it was also rumored that she was a runs girl. She not only moved with guys in the school,she was well known among politicians in the state. There were all kinds of gist about Cynthia.

When I saw her in the banking hall two years ago,I introduced myself cos she didnt know me in school. She was nice. She had come to do some banking and coincidentally I was leaving the bank the same time as her so I offered to give her ride instead of taking a taxi. We exchanged numbers and later on,I called her and found out she was single. We talked for like a month before I had the courage to tell her I liked her. We started dating. I must confess,she was fun. Very fun to be with. I liked her humor,she was a very smart girl and very good in bed too.

When I asked her about her lifestyle in school,she claimed that she indeed lived a wild life in school but she has changed since she left school. I introduced her to my parents after dating for one year. We got engaged shortly after that. My elder brother who is in the US came for our wedding and was surprised at my choice for marriage. He called me aside one day and told me that Cynthia was a very loose girl. My brother was two years ahead of me in school. He said many guys had slept with Cynthia at wild club parties including himself. I was shocked but I told him Cynthia had changed. He said many people will be laughing at me behind my back. Well,I said to him,everybody has a past. I didnt tell Cynthia what my brother had told me.

After my wedding,my elder brother was around for like a month. Just before he left,he told me I was wrong for marrying Cynthia cos she has not changed.According to him,he has information that one night after our wedding,Cynthia cheated on me. My brother and one of his friends set a trap for Cynthia. They framed her and sent nude (s.x) pictures she had taken with guys whilst she was in school. They threatened to ruin her and her marriage if she didnt meet them in a hotel. My wife actually showed up at the hotel and was begging not to be exposed.

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Good day Admin,

Janet is my girlfriend and fiancee. After her youth service,I encouraged her to come down to Lagos so she can look for a job. When she arrived,she didnt have anywhere to stay so she started to squat with me. I work in an insurance company,I been there for almost a year but the pay is not much. I am hoping to find a better paid job soon.

My girl got a job with a bank not too long. The bank was on the island which was quite far for her as my place is in Ogba. We agreed that she would be joining my neighbor who owns a car, a married man who also leaves for work on the island. Because Janet follows Mr Mike to work,we some how became close to him. So sometimes,on weekends, we just hang out and gist briefly as neighbors.

After like a month or so that my girl started working,I started to notice some behavior with her. She started to dress somehow too attractive too. I thought she just wanted to look nice as a banker. when she comes back home,she will just be with her phone,not really interested in gisting with me like before. I was a bit worried so I told her that I dont like her new behaviors but she just told me that I am just imagining things that she has not changed.Well,I let her be.

On Sunday morning,I decided to go to church cos I havent gone in a while. But my girl said she is too tired and needed to rest. Anyway,I kind of understood cos bank work is very stressful,she even works on Saturdays sometimes. I went on my way to church. In church that day,the service ended on time cos they announced that they were going to attend a member's celebration or something. so I went home earlier than usual. On getting home,I discovered that the apartment was quiet. I thought Janet was sleeping,I decided not wake her up so I entered very quietly.

...read full story and other stories on the blog :


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Good Morning ma,

May God continue to bless you. Please,I am sorry for disturbing you this early morning but I have something bothering me and I dont know who else to discuss this with cos its a sensitive matter.

I have been married for six years and we have two children. We are happy in our marriage,my husband is a good man. The only problem we have is our s.x life. Being married this six years,our s.x life has not been that good. I say this because,before marriage,I was s.xually active and I have enjoyed better s.x than what I experience in my marriage. The annoying thing is that y husband says the same too. That he enjoyed s.x better before marriage. Does this mean that we are not s.xually compatible?

So our s.x life is just there. Its not exciting and its more like we do it just for formality.

Recently,I told my husband that we have to go and get help cos I cannot continue like this. I told him that in six years,I have never experienced orgasm. I told him that I have been frustrated and I am unhappy. To my surprise, he said

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well, in as much you pushed the guy into the marriage ,the guy suppose understand say he is married now.

seunpas:
Incomplete story

Hmmmmmmm
its like this guy has calling for married women.
May God help you my brother

liquidlove2018:
Dear Admin,

Please help me talk to my girlfriend o. I mean,she is not really my girlfriend but what can I say...

I am a youth corper serving in (sorry I cant name the state for security reasons). I met Blessing during camp and we started to see each other. Blessing was from my placement state. Throughout camp,we were doing all kinds of things lovers do(dont ask me please).

This babe helped me secure a placement in factory after camp. The pay was ok. She told me her father owns the factory. I later found out it was a lie. The factory belonged to a man that she was sleeping with. How she convinced him to give me a job,I dont know and I dont care.

The problem now is,I just found out that this Blessing girl is a big time slut. Like,She is a married woman. Married to a police man in this same city. But she is not only sleeping with me,she is sleeping with the owner

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Good day Ma,

Happy Easter to you and all the members of LS. I dont know how to begin cos I feel like I am partly to blame for my predicament but I feel so sad and I want you to post this cos I need help to remain sane.

Peter and myself were working in lab in a manufacturing company four years ago. He had just been transferred from our lokoja branch to Lagos branch. The first day he resumed,I was responsible for showing him around to other staff member. As a thank you for helping him settle down.he bought me lunch. I think I began to notice what a nice guy he was when he helped me carry my food to my table. Over the months,working with Peter exposed me to this young,handsome,caring and good guy.

I began to fall for him.But Peter had eyes for another lady working in sales. kate was a pretty girl,every guy wanted to be her boyfriend. When she met Peter,she flirted with him and the boy boy fell hard for her. He used to gist with me how he liked Kate and wanted to date her. I couldnt tell him I liked him for fear of being embarrassed. So instead,I became his listening ear and actually helped him plan to toast Kate. It was painful but I didnt have a choice. After like a month of chasing Kate,they both started dating.

They became the talk of the company. The perfect dating couple. I had to try and bury my feelings for Peter which was not easy. It was really painful to watch and be around them. Anyways,after like five months of dating. Peter told me he was ready to propose to Kate. He asked me to help him plan a surprise engagement. I declined but he said you know you are my best buddy. I eventually yielded. I planned a romantic proposal for them ,the way I would have loved to be proposed to. It was at a five star hotel by the poolside. All our friends and colleagues came for the surprise proposal.

When kate came in,she was totally surprised. But soon as Peter went on his knees

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Dear Jzhane,

I am a married woman in my late thirties. I love my husband and my family but I have a serious problem. The problem I have is that my husband is always travelling for business. When he comes around,he hardly stays long when we make love. I dont know if its the stress or maybe he has lost interest. I try to talk to him and he says I should focus on other things,that s*x is not everything.

Anyway,I was at the mall two months ago and I had a flat tyre. A young man who came around shopping was there to help me. We exchanged numbers and since then,we have been chatting on whatsapp. Truth be told,I got carried away chatting with this guy cos the chats became flirty. For me,it was fun cos I was sort of getting the attention I was not getting from my hubby. I know I shouldn’t have gone to that extent but it didnt start out like this..it was innocent until it was no longer innocent. I confided in him about my frustrations in marriage and he was like I should myself busy which was a good idea since as a stay home mom,I actually could do more.

This young man encouraged me to do some modelling cos I have the figure. Initially I was shy but I took.....

https://livelystones.com.ng/have-i-betrayed-my-husbandi-only-wanted-to-have-some-fun/

Good day LS,

Please keep my identity private. I shared my story on some other group but someone else advised me to also share on this group cos of your godly advise.

I dated Harrison for three years and he kept promising marriage but no sign of it. I took matters into my hands and I got pregnant for him. As soon as I told him I was pregnant,he asked me to abort it. I asked him why? I am not a small girl at 33. If you are not ready for kids ,it means you are not ready to marry me. We argued and broke up because of this. It was a very messy break up and I was really shattered. Later on,I found out that Harrison was dating someone else alongside me. So apparently,he was cheating on me and I didnt know it.


I decided to keep the baby cos at my age,I was not going to make a mistake I would probably regret. It was really painful for me. My parents were also disappointed but they stood by me all the same. When I started my anti natal at the fourth month,I met a young handsome Doctor. We clicked and when he found out I was single,he became very supportive. Not too long,we started to date. I mean,I was pregnant by another man and he didnt mind. He was so loving and caring. Always taking care of me. Infact,you would think the pregnancy was his.

Even with intercourse,he was the best. He made me feel s*xy even though I was pregnant. Dr Austin is a rare gem. I knew I was lucky to have him. When I put to bed,he was by my side. I welcomed a healthy baby girl and I was so happy to share those happy moments with Austin. Austin introduced me as his fiance to his parents and they love me and my baby like we are the moon. I love Austin so much.

Last month,after my baby clocked two months old...

https://livelystones.com.ng/he-broke-my-heart-but-he-wants-me-to-dump-my-fiance/

Please ,my wonderful people. My appology on behalf of each other. It won't favor any of us if we keep pouring abusive words on each other. One love everyone. Make we no quarrel abeg. Atleast ,this is Easter ,let's use it to make peace.

agbonkamen:
mumu

Hello Freda,

This is such a sad one. But what I have to say is,you need to seek God’s face in this one. Take time to pray about this. Whatever decision you make,dont do it in a hurry.

Remember,this happened 10 years ago. Can you possibly forgive your husband of what happened 10 years ago? What you should find out though,is to be certain that their incest stopped years ago. If indeed it didnt stop,then you have reasons to want to consider separation so that you guys can sort out issues before deciding whether you will proceed with divorce or not.

Its a tough one,but this is a warning to parents too. Check what your kids are doing,what they watch on TV…parents should also give their children sex education as early as possible so these kids can know what sex is and know the consequences.

Beke2020:
Dear Jzhane,

My world has just come crumbling down....my marriage to Seun is a big fat lie!

My husband Seun is a twin. When I met him three years ago in London,I was quite fascinated to be dating a twin. I was dreaming one day if we got married that I would have twins also. When I met his twin sister kehinde,I was also surprised at their closeness. I thought it was cute. Prior to meeting Kehinde,Seun talked alot about her. How that they grew up quite close,more like soul mates. He even joked that his past girlfriends used to be jealous of his relationship with his twin sister.

When we were courting,I suspected that Kehinde was pretending to like me but soon as we were not been around other people,she seemed not to be interested in what I have to say. I honestly thought she was just being a needy sister to her brother. I gave her the benefit of doubt because of how close she and Seun were.

Last month,Kehinde went to Nigeria and came back with

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Dear Jzhane,

My world has just come crumbling down....my marriage to Seun is a big fat lie!

My husband Seun is a twin. When I met him three years ago in London,I was quite fascinated to be dating a twin. I was dreaming one day if we got married that I would have twins also. When I met his twin sister kehinde,I was also surprised at their closeness. I thought it was cute. Prior to meeting Kehinde,Seun talked alot about her. How that they grew up quite close,more like soul mates. He even joked that his past girlfriends used to be jealous of his relationship with his twin sister.

When we were courting,I suspected that Kehinde was pretending to like me but soon as we were not been around other people,she seemed not to be interested in what I have to say. I honestly thought she was just being a needy sister to her brother. I gave her the benefit of doubt because of how close she and Seun were.

Last month,Kehinde went to Nigeria and came back with

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According to reports from Lailas blog,Guys, Linda Ikeji is engaged! This time around, it’s not a guess, not a rumour. It is real.

Who is Linda Ikeji’s husband? Who is Linda Ikeji’s fiance?

Linda Ikeji’s fiance is not one to bare too much of himself to limelight. According to a very reliable source – Big Sam of BroadwayTV, Linda Ikeji’s husband-to-be used to be her ex-boyfriend. He had relocated abroad and was based abroad before he finally relocated back to Nigeria. The two reconnected again and picked up from where they stopped..

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Haaaa!!

How does ones face qualify ,' misery' ?

marvin906:




well I just learnt..
and your face qualifies misery
so I just have to use it

What did she come for ?

bjayx:
Cos that's what she came for...
Real eyes realize real lies...2pac shakur

Good Evening Jzhane,

 Reading your stories and advise on your blog has not only motivated me, but compeled me to write my heart breaking story. Yes! Ify dumping our marriage of just three year with our son is quite heart breaking for me. It still feels like am dreaming...just that am still finding it hard to wake up for the dream is my only conviction its reality.


Most disastrous relationships we find ourselves usually have it warning sign, but we kinda ignore them...this is my experience and it leaves me with so many unanswered question each time I stare are our one year old son Ray. How will I explain this to him when he grows up? How will I look him eyes ball and say your mum abandoned us because of money.

 
I fell in love with Ify on sight, her family just moved into my neighbourhood few months before i  gained admission into the university. She beautiful to behold. I wooed her morning and night. Osagie my best friend actually tried to discourage me when he noticed that Ify was materialistic, but I was blinded. One occasion Ify walked out on us when a guy who came from abroad showed up with a fine car.

 After I graduated and started serving I was still keeping in touch with her, but at that time we were talking like we where dating. As soon as I got my first bank job in Lagos, I didn't waste time to Invite her. Waoh! She gave herself all to me. The spark of our relationship started. I gave her N50k when she was going back to Benin, from that day Ify will call me. Two years late I bought a car and traveled with it. Before, I could propose to Ify, she has already agreed. Infact, a week after I left Benin for Lagos, she was in my place because at this time I have rented my own apartment and we just continued to have fun.She will ask for this and that.I practically could not save something tangible even though I was well paid.As long as she was mine, I didn't worry. Not too long , we got married and she took in immediately.

 

However, all the love, laughter and happiness was short lived. A fraud happened in my unit, though, I was not involved, but my job was found wanting in that area and I was terminated. I tried to secure another but it was not forth coming. Ray,our little son  just clocked one year and we couldn't celebrate it because of financial constraint. Daily Ify, will nag me,call me all kinds of names for not being able to secure a job and provide for my family the way I used to.

 One day,after I gone around Lagos trekking from

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She has to go meet her husband to save her marriage.

Beke2020:
PH girls, hmnnn! She should move in with her hobby else she will ex...

Seriously ,it's very annoying. Upon the abuse. Upon the poverty ,they are still conceiving. It's hilarious and a threat to the soceity .

MissRaine69:
What’s wrong with some women? Finances are not stable , unhappy in the marriage but somehow the children keep coming. How can you expect your life to improve when you personally keep adding to those woes?

Good Day Admin,

Please keep my identity private but kindly let me know when you post this as I want to read the comments and advice from what I am about to share with you.

I have been married for six years to a wonderful man. We have two children. Last year,he got a job offer that was in Port Harcourt. I was very happy for him as the offer came with plenty benefits. But I was also sad cos that meant my husband would relocate to OH without us. My job and our family support system is here in Ibadan. We talked about this and agreed that he would be coming to see us in Ibadan once in a month. Its not been easy but so far,we have been trying.

Last month was a wedding anniversary. Though he planned that we would celebrate the anniversary when he came to see us at the end of the month,I made up my mind to secretly give him a surprise by traveling to PH to visit him. So,I arranged for the kids to go their grandma’s place and I set out to PH for my surprise visit. I got to PH quite late being that its my first time. I also didnt call him to come pick up at the park,I took a taxi to his house. On getting there,I was shown to his apartment in the compound. He was not back from work. So I called him and told him I sent him a surprise package which he needs to sign off that the courier man was at his door. He said,he will call his neighbor to receive it but I told him its a surprise only for him to see. He agreed and came back after like 15 mins.

When he saw me,he was truly surprised and we hugged each other passionately. When we got inside,I told him I brought ingredients to cook his favorite dish for him and I went straight to his kitchen to start cooking even though I was so tired. When I got to his kitchen,I was surprised to find that he had so many food stuff and his pots were filled with all kinds of food. Stew,soup,etc. I was surprised cos I know my husband cannot cook. I asked him how he got these foods. I noticed he was uncomfortable. My husband is a terrible liar too. He tried to say..em,my colleague’s wife helps me cook. I told which colleague,let me call and thank her. He said,ok..thats a lie,I am sorry but if I tell you,you would probably be angry. So I promised not to be angry. He then ................

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Dear Jzhane,

My name is Pricilia(not real name). I am a mother of three children and I am currently pregnant with my fourth child. I am very unhappy in my marriage at this time and I need your help and advice.

Ever since I got married to my husband,I have been noticing several behaviors that I dont like. We have been married for five years now. I met my husband as a virgin. We are not doing very well financially because my husband is a Driver and the pay is very poor. He was also doing his part time degree course. So all the money I made from my petty trading went into providing for the family and assisting my husband with his schooling. I did not plan to have a fourth child but I guess mistakes happen. I almost aborted this pregnancy when I found out. This is because,we can hardly even feed ourselves at the moment not to talk of having another extra mouth to feed.

With all these challenges,my pain is that my husband is always flirting with women. Women from his part time schooling and some of his passengers as a Taxi Driver. Many times I see text messages that his female friends send to him. When I confront him,he just starts shouting at me. One time,I reported him to my pastor in church and when we got home,he....Read full story from.


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Point of correction , not all men cheat. You may most men cheat. Infact cheating is vice versa . Meaning , women too cheat.

bjayx:
Yes...all men cheats. But what is the business of the husbands' sister in this mara?

Its better than pretending

chenzen:
honestly u av to tell her plainly u aint ready

No much grammar ohh

Its just psychological terms.

Beke2020:
The grammar here too much and my dictionary is far.

gloria34:
thank God its a matter of choice, oya face ur front

Some ladies dont know where to draw the line when they are married. Which is very bad.

Lalas247:

Yes ... hidden camera would give the evidence needed