Good day Jzhane,

So quick one,am not one to write much. My wife left paid employment last year,precisely in July. She wanted to pursue her passion so she set up her own travel agency. She is quite good at what she does and I try to support her in every way that I can. Our  13 years of marriage has been a blessed one. One of the things we always do is tell each other the truth. We made a decision several years ago to always be honest with each other. So to be candid,we have always told each other everything. No secrets.

Recently,she told me she met an old friend of hers who she wants to partner with cos he could bring in alot of deals for her. This friend,works with top people who would always fly so they would need my wife's services. I was excited for her. I asked her how this guy is her friend,she mentioned that they were classmates in the university. They started doing business since November last year and truly,this partnership has really brought in huge deals for my wife. We can say business is really booming.

However,a few days ago,while I was gisting with my wife about her business,she mentioned that she had a meeting with this partner of hers and was saying how nice his....

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True !!

missiret:
The first thing you must know is that you cant stop his family from visiting, family is everything to even to you, he is like the father of the house , it is your husband that should set boundaries for them, why would his sister Be disrespecting you in your home, though I am not married yet but I will never allow any of my siblings or even my parent disrespect my guy not to talk of my future husband, this is where patience and wisdom application comes in, wisdom is profitable in all things, so get wisdom, dont let them see you as a bad wife, it is just a matter of time, they too will marry one day and again how do u even expect his family members not to come to your house?


Secondly, All women has a common problem including me, it is hard to see two guys living together having issues but women o, they will fight sa ni.. When it comes to marriage, it is easy for a lady to leave with her family members more than her in laws because what her sister will do to her and she will talk to her and even slap her and just forget, she may not b able to talk if it were the in laws simply because she wont want to offend them in the process of saying her mind and some in laws sef are just too insensitive, they just behave anyhow not knowing the consequence of their behaviors in the home, so family interference should be limited from both sides in the family

Not always easy as we seem.

frozen70:

Sorry, try to do things that wil make you and your partner happy

What makes you think so ? What if the man has no work and cannot raise cash ?

pointblank247:
no, its not right at all

The man maybe right in his way to protect his family .

HappyScent:
Tell ur family to talk to him,many men hate to see their wife do well more than them,as u receive small salary,he is happy,that above all his salary is still biger than urs.they feel u will not respect them again,when u earn more than them.my friend don miss that opportuity,its does come by alway,

Very correct.

Noaril:
Hmm!
In this case, 2 things are involved, it's either she's planning on cheating on you with an excuse of u not being romantic OR she's already cheating now.
If she's planning to, u are save, buh if she has started, 2 things are involved, its either she kills herself or she kills u.
If she kills herself u are save buh if she kills u, 2 things are involved.... The list goes on till judgment day buh amma stop here

Solution: Try and find out things that she finds romantic and do it for her

Same with you too. If it does not appear to you ,no need to quote as well right ? Must you type in the first place ? Must you even reply me ?

RadicallyBlunt:


U don't have to quote. If something does not appeal to you, just ignore. You hear?

I don't think it's true .

sereques:
I don’t understand some guys, you should be proud other guys are complimenting your girlfriend.

If it’s true she can’t have children, if you truly love her, you will stay with her and adopt children if both of you want kids. What if she has everything and you all marry and still can’t have kids?

Yes nah. These guys feels ,all stories sent in here are fake. If they think they are fake,they should challenge it on d blog

Samuelgr8:

No one is forcing you to click d link

RadicallyBlunt:
Finish d story here

I see it that they are crying bcoz of the expenses incurred.

z11111:
According to a report, the custom of crying during weddings, especially during traditional weddings existed a long time ago.

According to elderly people in some traditions, every bride has to cry at the wedding. Otherwise, the bride’s neighbors would look down upon her as a poorly cultivated girl and she would become the laughingstock of the village.

In fact, there are traditions in which the bride is beaten by her mother for not crying at the wedding ceremony.

In some other traditions, usually, the bride begins to cry a month before the wedding day. As the night falls, the bride walks inside the hall and weeps for about an hour.

Ten days later, her mother joins her, crying together with her.; Another ten days later, the grandmother joins the daughter and mother, to cry together with them. The sisters and aunts of the bride, if she has any, also have to join the crying.

A groom was once asked why he cried at his wedding, read his reply below:

Imagine being surrounded by your closest friends, your family, and a beautiful setting. Imagine standing in front of all these folks knowing you are as happy as you ever wanted to be and you know in a moment or two, there will be someone walking down the aisle who feels the same way for you.

There may some nerves, but deep down you know you have found the woman you want to spend your forever with. At this point, you are feeling this rush of contentment surround you and warming your heart to its capacity. When this happens, you feel as though there is no way you could be happier or anything could be better.

Suddenly, you hear the oohs, the ” she is so beautiful s,” and the pleasant reaction of your guests as your bride begins her graceful stride towards you.

Now, at the culmination of all your joy and contentment, you lay your eyes upon the most beautiful woman in the world and you know, she is going to be your best friend and love of your life.

To you dear nairander , if you are not married yet , are you going to cry on your wedding day ? If you are already , did you cry on your wedding day ?

For related stories visit :
https://livelystones.com.ng/emotional-bride-breaks-tears-wedding-benue/

Define fake story ??

Beke2020:
And they are imparting lives

Never pray to destroy another marriage.

z11111:
Hello Jzhane,

First of all,I want to say well done for having such a wonderful platform. I want to encourage to keep doing more because you are really blessing many lives and I am one of such people. God bless your hustle dear.

Ok,my best friend needs your help/advice. She is in serious relationship mess at the moment. She dated this guy in her office for almost one and a half years before things went south. A year and a half ago,this man was with his wife but things were not working fine. He had been married for four years and no children. According to rumors,he was the problem,the reason why they couldn't have children. Something like low sperm count. That caused a lot of strain on their marriage until the fourth year.

The man began to confide in my friend about the issues he was having with his wife. She used to be like his confidant till they became quite close. But she refused to date him when he made advances at her cos he was still married. After a while,the woman moved out of the man's house. That was when my friend agreed to start dating him. He had said that he had filed for a divorce from his wife and was awaiting the finalization. This kept on going for almost 18 months. Every time my friend brought up the issue of divorce,the man would say he is on it.

My friend has introduced this man to her parents,her friends. Every body knows them as they are engaged. They have .....

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Go and type this on the blog and see if they owner wont attack you.

youngest85:
We know it's a cooked up story but continue

Now,this situation can be sorted out quite well. You just need to be very creative. Between you and your husband,you guys can find alternative places to make love apart from your home.

RadicallyBlunt:
Finish d story here

ear Jzhane,

Please advise me. Kindly hide my identity abeg. For over seven months now,my brother in law and his wife and children have been living with me and my husband my my kids in our two bedroom apartment. My husband's elder brother lost his job four years ago and things have not been the same ever since. He is the type of man that didn't allow his wife to work so when he lost his job,it was really tough for them. It got worse and worse until  they couldn't pay their house rent,children's school fees and even to feed became a big problem. They were finally ejected from their house last year.

My husband had to beg me to allow them move in with us. We already have two children. They have three children. So,all of us,five children and four adults living in a two bedroom apartment. its very tough I must confess. We are seriously enduring alot of things. My children and I have no privacy anymore. They get to share everything even my bedroom cos they put some of their stuff in my room as there is not enough space in the house. Because of this issue, my children sometimes sleep with me and my husband in our room cos they have taken over their room. I cant even begin to talk about the ....

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Dear Admin,

I am not a bitter woman,neither am I a jealous one but I need to speak to someone before I loose it. You see,my husband's best friend was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer three years ago. It was a long and hard battle which put the entire family and friends into so much emotional strain. Eventually,he passed away after four months. That was a very big blow to everyone. He left a very young wife of 28 years old. They have a little girl.

Uju,the wife was truly heartbroken as can imagine. We all felt for her and rallied around her to make her comfortable. My husband in particular was very close to her family so he really felt he should assist Uju as much as he can. He invited Uju and her daughter to spend Christmas with us a year later. I was quite uncomfortable with that but I didnt want to sound insensitive so I kept quiet. But throughout their stay with us,I was very uncomfortable with Uju. She would cook such sumptuous meals that I could never cook. I dont cook cos I dont know how to and my job actually keeps me away long hours so it made sense to hire a cook. But all three weeks that Uju was with us,she was cooking all sorts of delicacies and my husband couldn't help but sing her praises at any opportunity given.

I was even furious when I see them gisting ,all feely, touchy. Sometimes,Uju will stay up watching movies in bum shorts and my husband will join her cos I am not a movie person. Honestly,I quarreled with my husband twice while she was with us. I told him he was doing too much with her. He accused me of being jealous of an innocent widow who needs our help. I was so glad when she eventually left 3 weeks later. I thought everything has returned to normal for me and my husband until...

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Finally, im searching for a virgin ...

z11111:
Dear Admin,

I am a young man of thirty two. I deliberately searched for a wife to marry from my village because I fear women from the city here. So when I was ready a year ago,I sent my parents to help me find a wife.

Uru my wife just finished her NCE and everybody know here in the village as a very good and quiet, I was very happy when my parents chose her for me. Even when I was courting her (we courted for like 2 months before our wedding),she used to be very shy and reserved and I was impressed by how homely and godly she was.

Our wedding came and I was very much satisfied when I found out on our wedding night that Uru was a virgin. Because of this,I didnt fear or have any cause to fear or suspect my wife. She moved to join me here in the city but what I am seeing after the marriage is......


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Does that mean , as a younger sister , one should not marry when she gets the opportunity ??

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Cos she may regret if she does.

Angy55:
Woman don't listen to your husband on this, you have your kids already, thank God you ain't breast feeding any one.
Is time to pursue your career dreams that was on hold because of marriage. Accept the Job offer and do your thing.
What if the man start misbehaving tomorrow what would you fall back to?
And what if he is relieved of his job how are you going to cope with meagre salary coming in?

I think thats what the brother is trying to avoid but if she is cool with it ,they can report to the police .

Kobicove:
Rape is a crime that should be punished

However, before proceeding with making a formal complaint I hope the victim is ready for the public scrutiny that will come with it

I think you have to leave the house before he kills you.

z11111:
Dear Jzhane,

Good day, please i need your take on this issue.

 

I am a christian by Gods grace and kept my self till my marriage, i DID NOT get married out of pressure or desperation, neither did i pressurize my husband into marriage. I Courted my husband for less than a year. We had just one misunderstanding during courtship in which he accused me of manipulating him... I noticed something wasnt right with his attitude then. But I waved of the feeling, went for counseling after which I just put it all aside and we continued ( this is one regret I appear to have now!)

 

Within the first week of marriage, I realized a couple of things about my said husband:

 

1. He dint really love me( he actually told me that)

2. He got depressed after the wedding.

3. He got married to me cause he taught I / family are financially buoyant.

4. He really

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Which of the author ?

BiadeFolar:
The author
www.biadefola.com.ng

Are you expecting them to divorce ?

Briggs007:
What's the odd they will divorce within the 5yrs

What does China have ? You dont Israel. Go and make research. 99% of both ancient and modern science is originated by the Jew. The Jews are every where. Its a gift God gave them and no one can take it away from them .not even the so called China .

FriendNG:


Technology gadget? China is there who is talking of Israel? Israel can be defeated hands down.

A smiling Meghan Markle has started her final journey to marry Prince Harry giving the world the first glimpse of the bride's dress.


The 36-year-old looked a vision in white and is wearing a diamond-encrusted tiara and veil over her face as she left Cliveden House Hotel in Berkshire for Windsor Castle.

Her mother Doria smiled and looked adoringly at her daughter in the back of her wedding car, again supporting her in the absence of her father Thomas Markle.

Mother and daughter drove away in a Rolls-Royce Phantom IV, which was built and delivered to the Queen in 1950 and used by Kate Middleton for her trip to Westminster Abbey when she married William seven years ago.

Celebrity royalty including the Clooneys, the Beckhams, Idris Elba, Elton John and Oprah Winfrey are among some of the world's biggest stars to arrive for the royal wedding today sending fans outside into a frenzy.

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are about to marry and the groom is already

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Hello Jzhane,

First of all,I want to say well done for having such a wonderful platform. I want to encourage to keep doing more because you are really blessing many lives and I am one of such people. God bless your hustle dear.

Ok,my best friend needs your help/advice. She is in serious relationship mess at the moment. She dated this guy in her office for almost one and a half years before things went south. A year and a half ago,this man was with his wife but things were not working fine. He had been married for four years and no children. According to rumors,he was the problem,the reason why they couldn't have children. Something like low sperm count. That caused a lot of strain on their marriage until the fourth year.

The man began to confide in my friend about the issues he was having with his wife. She used to be like his confidant till they became quite close. But she refused to date him when he made advances at her cos he was still married. After a while,the woman moved out of the man's house. That was when my friend agreed to start dating him. He had said that he had filed for a divorce from his wife and was awaiting the finalization. This kept on going for almost 18 months. Every time my friend brought up the issue of divorce,the man would say he is on it.

My friend has introduced this man to her parents,her friends. Every body knows them as they are engaged. They have .....

....read and comment on full story on the blog :

https://livelystones.com.ng/who-is-under-a-spell-juju-her-fiance-or-the-other-womans-husband/

Dear Jzhane,

Good day, please i need your take on this issue.

 

I am a christian by Gods grace and kept my self till my marriage, i DID NOT get married out of pressure or desperation, neither did i pressurize my husband into marriage. I Courted my husband for less than a year. We had just one misunderstanding during courtship in which he accused me of manipulating him... I noticed something wasnt right with his attitude then. But I waved of the feeling, went for counseling after which I just put it all aside and we continued ( this is one regret I appear to have now!)

 

Within the first week of marriage, I realized a couple of things about my said husband:

 

1. He dint really love me( he actually told me that)

2. He got depressed after the wedding.

3. He got married to me cause he taught I / family are financially buoyant.

4. He really

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Kumar4india:
Some people can be very deceitful. All that glitters is truly not

gold and people are actually selfish. No matter how much they have,they always seem to want more.

Tracy and I have been friends since University. She got married last year and I thought she was really happy until two weeks ago. I used to think Tracy's life was perfect. I mean,she and her husband Lanre are just the example of a perfect couple. They seem so close and in love. I was truly happy for her. I was eve asking God to send me my own man,one that looks like Lanre. It was Tracy's birthday two weeks ago and she had a birthday party at a very nice five star hotel in VI. I arrived at the party and it was really a great one.It was also great cos I met a guy at the party. He was quite a handsome man. When I introduced myself ....

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Clap for your self.
For your mind now, you are hero ?
Continue.

Olifiz:
Pals continue reading from here......we r loyal to Oga Seun.

It was then I saw the picture!
It was a nude picture of my neighbor’s wife and it was saved in my picture drive. The picture had a description:”come and get it baby”. Immediately I screamed in shock. I was like what is this? How did this get into my phone? Then my husband looked at me and said,I thought I deleted this,oh crap. I mean,what da….?!!********. I asked my husband how the hell the picture got to me and he said our neighbor accidentally forwarded it to him. As he was trying to delete it,he also mistakenly sent it to me in error. He thought he had deleted it when he took my phone earlier on. What he didn’t know is that all pictures and videos that come to my phone save in more than one place. This one saved in my phone drive. The next question I had was: what kind of accidental action is this,how and when did my husband start having her no. And they now talk on whats app?

My husband said he has her no cos she called him once to come and move his car one day. Since then,her no has been on his phone cos he saved it for any emergency situation like if he needs to move the car. I was not satisfied with his explanation. I was angry and we actually argued about this until we both slept off. The next day,I couldn’t hold my anger,I went to meet this lady and warned her never to try the rubbish she did by sending her nude picture to my husband. I threatened to report her to her husband if she tried it again. Strangely,she laughed and said,really,so he told you it was an accident?…ok o…hahaha.

My sister,I abused her again and again. I called her husband snatcher and all kinds of imprint able names. Well,apparently,she told my husband cos when he got back he was in a serious rage. We had the biggest fight of our entire marriage. He accused me of not trusting him. He said the lady was just messing with me by laughing. I told him if he is saying the truth,then both of us should confront her together. I even suggested we involve her husband. This really angered my husband and since that day,he has not spoken to me directly. I greet him,he refuses to answer.He does not even eat the food I make for him.

Please tell me,what have I done? Where did I go wrong? Is it not obvious that between my husband and this woman,somebody is lying? Instead of my husband to open up and tell me the truth,which I am prepared to forgive if he made a mistake,he is busy keeping malice with me. I feel strongly to approach this woman’s husband but I fear this might aggravate the issue. So please help me ask your readers,what should I do? Am I the one to beg my husband for forgiveness when he is the one that caused all this problems? If he was not hiding anything,why did he delete the picture the first time without telling me? Cos to me,that would have been a sign of his sincerity. I would have actually believed him then that the picture was sent in error.

Please advice me. I dont like this continued silent treatment from my husband but I am also very angry about the whole situation. There is a possibility that something is going on between my husband and this woman. How do I address that? And how do I make things go back to the way they were before all this trouble began?

Use another name when posting this please. God bless you my sister.



Odion

But you know how to attack other stories ? You see your life. Cooked story you cannot write. Uncooked up story you cannot write. Raw story you cannot write. My friend go and sit down some where.

labanj1:

I no get talent for cooked up stories. I fit do other things.