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Romance / Re: I Kept Myself For 34years But My Marriage Lasted Only Wedding Night by z11111: 9:39am On Jun 03, 2018
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Family / Re: Are Women Really “fish Brain” …why Am I So Obsessed About Her? by z11111: 9:38am On Jun 03, 2018
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Family / Re: My Fiance Allowed His Ex Wife To Spend The Night In His Home by z11111: 9:38am On Jun 03, 2018
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Romance / Re: Imagine My Wife Saying ,i'm Not Romantic,it's This A Sign Of Trouble by z11111: 9:29am On Jun 03, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Girl Friend Just told me that She Has No Fallopian Tube. by z11111: 9:29am On Jun 03, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Wife Is Accusing Me Of Distrust But I Am I Over Reacting? by z11111: 9:29am On Jun 03, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Future Mother Inlaw Is Punishing Me For My Mother's Sin by z11111: 9:28am On Jun 03, 2018
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Family / Re: Why Is She Putting Me Under Pressure To Marry Her by z11111: 8:11am On Jun 01, 2018
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Family / Re: Help!!! I Married The Monster In My Dreams. .woman Cried Out!! by z11111: 8:10am On Jun 01, 2018
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Romance / Re: Help!!! Who Is Under A Spell (juju):her Fiance Or The Woman's Husband? by z11111: 8:10am On Jun 01, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Husband Wont Talk But I Find It Hard To Believe Nothing Happened! by z11111: 8:08am On Jun 01, 2018
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Romance / Re: One Night From Twelve Years Ago Is Now Tearing My Marriage Apart by z11111: 8:08am On Jun 01, 2018
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Romance / Re: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by z11111: 8:08am On Jun 01, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Sister’s Marriage Is A Hell Hole But She Found Love In A Wheel Chair by z11111: 6:37pm On May 31, 2018
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Beke2020:
Two wrongs can never make a right.
There is no justification for what Phelo is doing. They should have the decency to take their illicit affair out of the man's house.
It's better she quietly moves back to Nigeria and subsequently divorce her husband.
This affair will end badly no matter how you look at it.
She should stop seeing that man. The cousin on his own is an ungrateful person. How can you screw your sister in-law, a married woman?
Romance / Re: My Aunty’s Husband Needs Deliverance From Small Small Girls by z11111: 5:49pm On May 31, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Husband Wants A Male Child And I Want A Divorce by z11111: 4:29pm On May 31, 2018
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Romance / Re: I Kept Myself For 34years But My Marriage Lasted Only Wedding Night by z11111: 9:08pm On May 30, 2018
such is life
Romance / I Kept Myself For 34years But My Marriage Lasted Only Wedding Night by z11111: 8:32pm On May 30, 2018
I met Kunle on a whats-app group last year. It was one of those relationship groups on Instagram. We chatted for a few months. He told me he was based in Dubai as a business man. He also said he was looking for a woman to marry. He was not ready for games. He sounded like my kind of man. I didn’t believe him initially cos it sounded too good to be true. He spent quite a lot on me. He sent me gifts and money regularly. The first time we met in person after doing Skype and whats-app video calls for months was in May 2017. He proposed to me in a a popular five star hotel on Maryland (some of you may know the hotel). I was in total bliss…too much joy.

I met his parents who were living in Abeokuta after that. He met mine in Lagos here and we agreed that we should start planning the wedding so the next time he comes,it will be in August 2017. He of course sent the money for everything. He was always calling and all. My friend Joy was concerned that  I was rushing things but I didn’t listen cos I just didn’t want to think any thing negative. Besides.....Read and leave comments on full story on the blog.

https://livelystones.com.ng/i-kept-myself-for-34-years-but-my-marriage-lasted-only-wedding-night/
Family / Re: Are Women Really “fish Brain” …why Am I So Obsessed About Her? by z11111: 7:47am On May 30, 2018
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Romance / Re: Imagine My Wife Saying ,i'm Not Romantic,it's This A Sign Of Trouble by z11111: 9:04pm On May 29, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Girl Friend Just told me that She Has No Fallopian Tube. by z11111: 8:39pm On May 29, 2018
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Family / Re: Are Women Really “fish Brain” …why Am I So Obsessed About Her? by z11111: 8:37pm On May 29, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Wife Is Accusing Me Of Distrust But I Am I Over Reacting? by z11111: 10:57am On May 29, 2018
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Family / Re: My Fiance Allowed His Ex Wife To Spend The Night In His Home by z11111: 10:57am On May 29, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Future Mother Inlaw Is Punishing Me For My Mother's Sin by z11111: 10:55am On May 29, 2018
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Family / Re: Are Women Really “fish Brain” …why Am I So Obsessed About Her? by z11111: 10:54am On May 29, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Husband Wants A Male Child And I Want A Divorce by z11111: 10:52am On May 29, 2018
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Romance / Re: My Wife Is Accusing Me Of Distrust But I Am I Over Reacting? by z11111: 10:25pm On May 28, 2018
For your mind ,you be sharp man. Carry on

Dzeimzb:
grin grin

However,a few days ago,while I was gisting with my wife about her business,she mentioned that she had a meeting with this partner of hers and was saying how nice his home looked. I was surprised. I asked her how come she went to this guy’s house. She said,the guy has an office in his home where he does business sometimes. I asked her how come she never told me she goes to his home office for business. She said she didn’t think it matted cos she actually has mentioned that she has meetings with this guy but it never occurred to me that these meetings were taking place in his ”home” office. I told her I didn’t like the idea of a home office cos I don’t know how trust worthy this guy is. My wife tends to trust people a lot. She defended herself saying the man’s office is a duplex ,the office is down stairs while his family lives upstairs. She mentioned that anytime she meets with him in the home office,they are hardly alone. Either this guy’s staff is there or his wife is.

I trust my wife and I know she is telling the truth and I know she has no intentions to cheat with this guy but somehow,I don’t feel comfortable with her having meetings with this guy in his home office. I asked her to stop meeting with him in his home office. She asked why. I told her I was uncomfortable with it. she said I am over reacting. She is afraid that I might jeopardize this partnership that is bringing her business biggest deals. I really don’t care. I asked her what if he decides to take advantage of her one day in that home office. What if he plots the day his family and staff would not be around to force himself on her. She is quite confident that the guy cannot do that but as a man,I know men…anything is possible when two grown adults of the opposite sex constantly meet in a place like that.

I told my wife to cut off the partnership with this guy and she is upset with me. She is too naive and does not see my point or any risk involved in this partnership. She has not been talking to me for two days now cos of this. She accuses me of not supporting her business ad not trusting her but I am only trying to protect her.

Please I want to ask everyone here,am I over reacting? (My wife is very pretty and attractive, I see how men gaze at her even after four children) I would appreciate your honest and objective views on this matter.

Thank you,

Gary,

Lekki,Lagos
Family / Re: My Fiance Allowed His Ex Wife To Spend The Night In His Home by z11111: 10:24pm On May 28, 2018
One day, you will bend. Seriously ,you just be careful d way you use words.

veeshock:
La click la bend..carry your cut and sow story go one corner jare.
Romance / Re: My Future Mother Inlaw Is Punishing Me For My Mother's Sin by z11111: 10:22pm On May 28, 2018
This is what you get wen ur past hunt you.

z11111:
Hello Admin,

My mother left my father when I was about six years old. She got married to a man who already had a son from a previous relationship. His son was nine years old at the time. I moved in to live with them for a while. But trust my mom,she couldn't stay with one man for a long time. She left her second husband just before the marriage clocked one year. Since then,my mom has been with several men that I cannot remember.

Anyway,years later, I meet a young man on a flight. We talk and later developed friendship afterwards. I found out that he grew up in Benin like me. By the time her told me his name,I discovered he is the son of one of the men my mom was married to.It was such a weird discovery but that didn't stop us from liking each other.We dated and before you know it,it was getting serious.Truth is,this relationship is the happiest I have been in my life. Eventually,we got engaged and I was the happiest girl on planet earth.

The problem started when we went to see my fiance's father and his mother who are....

...read and comment on full story on the blog :

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-future-mother-in-law-is-punishing-me-for-my-mothers-sins/
Family / Re: Are Women Really “fish Brain” …why Am I So Obsessed About Her? by z11111: 10:21pm On May 28, 2018
Ladies ,stop bringing bad names on your fellow ladies


z11111:
Some women can be very funny. I don’t actually blame guys who use women and dump them. Back in school,my friend used to say that women are fish brain. I used to think that was uncool but now I think I actually believe him. I was raised by my parents to treat women nice. I have five sisters and I treat them like queens.

So two years ago,I met Doreen. We used to be class mates during our ND days. I met her on my way back from Kano from a business trip. She worked at the airport as a Cleaner. I couldn’t believe that this smart girl who I used to admire in school then was just an airport cleaner. I was elated when she called my name as I got out of the airport toilet where she was working that day. It took a while for me to recognize her. I took her no and called her later on. She told me how she dropped out of school cos she didn’t have the money then. She also got pregnant for some guy who ended up using her and dumping her once her baby was born.I was so sorry for her.

I didn’t plan to but I discovered that I still admired her and I kind of was happy when she said she wasn’t dating anyone. She and I reconnected over the next few months. I helped her financially. I helped her put her daughter who was three years old in a good school. I got her a better job as an admin assistant with a friend’s connection. We were talking about her returning back to school to complete her education. She got in school the following year and I helped her financially all the way. Though we were dating,we agreed no sx until marriage. She had suffered a lot from her baby daddy and wanted to wait until marriage


before doing it again with any man. I was fine with that. It was hard I must admit cos Doreen is very pretty and sxy. We used to kiss and cuddle and most times it took a lot to stop me from going further.

In February this year,I started to notice some strange attitude from Doreen. I thought it was the pressure from school and having to work at the same time. I asked her to quit working and I promised to take care of her schooling and her daughter all through. I just wanted to make her happy. What I didn’t know was that.....Read and leave your comments on full story on the blog



https://livelystones.com.ng/are-women-really-fish-brain-or-am-i-obsessed-about-her/
Romance / Re: My Husband Wants A Male Child And I Want A Divorce by z11111: 10:20pm On May 28, 2018
I advice she leaves the house for now.



Samuelgr8:
Hmnnn four girls! husband bringing another woman to your matrimonial bed! you need a miracle ma'am

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